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Welcome to SuccessfulSavior.org,
the ministry of Harmony Primitive Baptist Church in Donaldson,
Arkansas. This is Elder Neal Phelan, Jr.
preaching in our regular Sunday morning service. Good morning. Good to see you all here today.
enjoyed our song service, our prayer, and the scriptures Brother
Dan read this morning, so important, pointing out to us the importance
of God's Word in our personal lives. This morning, I've been
praying about this message, and I always try to pray that the
Lord would bless me to speak on something that somebody in
the audience stands in need of. And the Lord knows your needs.
And he knows the needs of this church, and sometimes we wonder,
am I preaching on this because I want to preach on this or because
the Lord wants me to preach on this? And so we do try to be
careful in our prayers on what we should preach. But I want
you to go to the book of 1 Corinthians this morning. And I want to do
an overview of this book. This has been on my mind because
I see so many churches in our present day straying from the
biblical pattern that we find in God's Word. And it's important
for us as a church to continue to go back to the book and to
make sure that we as a church are running our church, you might
say, worshiping in a way that's pleasing to God and in the way
that we find within the sacred scriptures. And these books are
preserved for that very reason that we can go back to the Bible
and we can read what the way that the apostles and Christ
taught us to worship that's pleasing to God. And I believe it's important
for churches to always be comparing their church to the testimony
of God's Word. As a matter of fact, Brother
Dan just read Psalms 119, 105, 106, and 107. which is an encouragement to
all of us to read the Word of God, because not only do churches
need to be looking at the Word of God to make sure that we're
continuing to follow the biblical pattern, but in our personal
lives we need to read the Bible. I don't know how many times I've
been reading the Bible, and I've come across something that's
kind of hurt, you know, it's stung a little bit. I said, wait
a minute, I'm a little off base here and I need to get back on
track to what the Bible says I should be as a person. And
it's amazing how many things can get us off track in this
world. So don't think that as a church,
at Harmony Church, we've been here for over 100 years. Don't
think that we are not a church that cannot get off pattern or
off base concerning the biblical pattern. or we as people, as
individuals, that we as well can get off base. And we need
the Word of God to constantly be accomplished to us, to bring
us back to what we should be. And so this church at Corinth,
and I want to mention this to you, this church had only been
constituted for about 50 years. 50 years. That's not very long
for a church to be constituted to receive a letter like this
from the Apostle Paul. pointing out many of the problems
that they were already involved in in their particular church.
And I think it's important for us to recognize if a church can
be this far off base in 50 years, that we as a church and as a
people had better be careful because we can do the very same.
I look around the world today and I see so many churches that
are far away from what this Bible teaches a biblical pattern should
be. Let's look at this church for
just a moment. I want to remind you where it is, where it came
from. This church is located at a place called Corinth. This is 1 Corinthians. And Corinth
was kind of like the Las Vegas of their day. All kinds of sinful
vices were found there. Whatever you wanted to go do,
you could do it in this place. And it's amazing to me that the
Lord chose that particular place to put a church. I mean, if I
was going to put a church somewhere, I'd find, you know, a nice little
community somewhere. People were generally living
pretty moral lives, and I would say, this is where I'm going
to put my church. But you know, the Lord chose to put this church
in a place where there were all kinds of vices and sinners. And I know we're all sinners,
I want you to understand. But it was God's sovereign choice
to put a church in this place. And we find that the Lord led
Paul to this place called Corinth. In Acts 18, I'm going to read
this, you don't have to go over there, but it says, Then spake
the Lord to Paul in the night by a vision, Be not afraid, but
speak and hold not thy peace, for I am with thee, and no man
shall set on thee to hurt thee, for I have much people in this
city. Now, if you'd have asked me if
there was a lot of people in that place, I would have said,
I don't think there's any of God's people over there. You
know, sometimes we're quick to judge, you know, in some of these
bad places in the world, and we say, I don't think there's
any of God's people over there. Well, you might be surprised
at how many are over there that would really benefit from a minister
coming there or a church being in their locality and them having
the opportunity. We should always be thankful
that there's a church in our vicinity because I can tell you
there's a lot of places today where there are no churches.
But it was through the ministry of the Apostle Paul that this
church was founded. And when Paul went there, he
found some people that we know pretty well in the Bible, Aquila
and Priscilla. This is where he found them.
They were tent makers. And Paul was a tent maker himself.
That was how his trade, secular trade, you might say. And he
actually did that a lot, even during his ministry to support
himself. And so he finds Aquila and Priscilla there and they
are converted to Christianity and they become his friends.
And so this church is constituted in this place. And so Paul, after
it had been constituted for a while, Paul starts getting some communications
from this church about some of the problems that were within
the church. So Paul didn't constitute the
church and then forget about it and say, well, that church
is constituted. I'm not going to have anything else to do with
them. He remained in correspondence with them, and you'll find in
1 Corinthians 1 and 11, verse 11 if you're there, he says,
For it hath been declared unto me of you, my brethren, by them
which are of the house of Chloe, that there are contentions among
you. Now, they wrote to Paul about
some of the contentions and problems of this church. And they wanted
him, they needed his help, and they recognized they needed his
help. And that's good for a church to reach out when they're having
problems to other ministers to, if they need so, to get some
help. And so, Paul couldn't get to
this church immediately. So what he does is he writes
this letter to them addressing these problems that the house
of Chloe had told them about. Now, some of these were problems
they were dealing with and some of them were just questions that
they said, well, what should we do about this? And what should
we do about that? And Paul writes this letter,
which becomes, by the way, One of the epistles in the Bible
because he's inspired to write this so he's writing the information
to them But we can glean from that today as God's people and
churches and so we can glean from the information here and
say okay Well, these are the problems that they were having
in that church. And here's how we as a church should deal with
them And so I think it's important for us to read this book, this
First Corinthians from time to time and see the problems that
they were encountering in this church and recognize how that
we as a church should handle them. And you need to know that
as a member of the church because it may come up in conference
one day. we may be dealing with a problem in this church and
if it comes up in conference you need to have some information
about what goes on here and how you should respond as a member
of the church because many times we're divided on certain subjects
and that's one of the reasons we need to preach on first Corinthians
and other places like that and Paul writes this letter to them
And this letter that he writes to them is not like this sweet
little letter that he writes to the church at Philippi. Now,
the church at Philippi wasn't having any problems. And Paul
referred to them as his joy and his crown. I mean, he was very
close to these people. They had ministered to his needs
when he was in jail. And the church was not dealing
with a lot of problems, but this church had a lot of problems.
And when Paul writes this letter to them, it's not a sweet little
letter. I'm not going to say he's letting
them have it, but I'm saying that he was very He was very
clear and forthright in what he said to them. He didn't draw
any punches because he recognized that their need was great and
they'd better deal with their problems or their church was
going to be torn to pieces. And that's something that he
did not want to see. So I'll just read to you what
he wrote to them in his second epistle. And I'm going to get
to the problems here in just a minute, but I want you to understand
the importance of this letter. When he wrote his second epistle
to them in 2 Corinthians, the first epistle was so stinging.
Here's what he wrote in 2 Corinthians 7 and 8. For though I made you
sorry with a letter, I do not repent, though I did repent,
for I perceived that the same epistle had made you sorry, though
it were but for a season. So he recognized that that first
letter, he hated to have to write it. He was sorry about it, but
he knew that he needed to. And so he writes this letter
to them. Now there's about 13 problems.
I count, there's 13 to 15 problems in this church. If you'll read
this epistle, You're going to read the, and I'm just going
to kind of give them to you right now. Don't worry, we're not going
to deal with all 15 of them this morning, okay? I'm going to deal
with maybe the first three or four, if we can even get to that
many. I'm not even going to try to get through anything. But
I want to kind of get your attention here that when you read this
epistle, you'll understand what it's all about and why Paul wrote
it. So one of the problems was there
were divisions in the church. There was sexual immorality in
the church. There were lawsuits against one
another before unbelievers, you know, Christians were going to
the courts of the Gentiles, which didn't believe the same thing
about law anyway. There was a problem about the
understanding of marriage and divorce. There was a problem
about eating meat offered to idols. There was a problem of
taking care of their ministers financially. And I don't think
that was a problem, it was just something they probably wrote
about and wanted to know how they should do it. There was
a question about the head coverings in that day, which we don't even
know about hardly today. Their conduct during the Lord's
Supper, they were having a problem there. the use of their spiritual
gifts, worshipping and speaking in turn in their church, about
women keeping silence in the church. Also remember the 15th
chapter of 1 Corinthians is a great chapter concerning the resurrection
of the dead. The Apostle Paul spent a lot
of time trying to get this church to understand about the resurrection.
Also about how to take up collections for the poor saints. Now, all
those problems were going on in that church. So don't think...
These are common problems, by the way. Common problems in every
church, a lot of these are. Churches go through these. If
you've been around this church very long, you've been in the
church for very long, you've seen these problems come up,
and you've seen churches have to deal with them. You know,
if everybody lived perfect lives, we would not have to have a letter
like this, would we? And if all of our children were
perfect little children, we'd never have to discipline them,
would we? When you're talking about discipline
in churches and going through these problems in churches, it's
just like a family. A lot of times, mom and dads,
when they're dealing with discipline in their homes, you can have
a difference of agreement between mom and dad. Everybody does it.
And so the same in a church. It's important for churches,
when you're dealing with the problems in churches and trying
to keep your church on track, that we understand that We need
to be of one mind, we need to talk about it, we need to go
to the scriptures and see what the Bible has to say about it.
So the first problem that we find here is in the first chapter. I'm just gonna
go to verse 10. And Paul writes, now I beseech
you brethren, I'm begging you brethren, that's what that means,
I'm begging with you, cause Paul doesn't wanna see this church
torn to pieces, you understand? He loves this church. Now I beseech
you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you
all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among
you, but that ye may be perfectly joined together in the same mind
and in the same judgment." Now, we need to understand that one
thing that Satan was always trying to do was to tear up a church.
I mean, you can look around the country today, and there's places
where there used to be churches, and they're not anymore, because
there's been problems that's come up in churches, and they
didn't deal with it in a biblical way. And so, we understand then
that Satan always wants to divide a church, he wants to divide
a family, he wants to divide husbands and wives, you know,
he loves to divide. And so Paul is writing this church
and he's telling them, I want you to be of one mind. Now the
problem with some of them there, now there's some other problems
he didn't mention, but one of the problems there was they were
arguing over who they were baptized by. One of them said, well, Paul
baptized me. I'm a little bit better Christian
than you are. I'm on a higher spiritual level because Paul
baptized me. It's as if he infused some kind
of spiritual thing into their brain when he baptized them.
And one said, well, Cephas, you know, Cephas, he baptized me.
And so in verse 12 through 16, he writes, now this I say that
every one of you saith, I am of Paul, I am of Apollos, I am
of Cephas, and I of Christ. And he brings it back to the
equation there. Who is really the head of the church? He said,
is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Or
were you baptized in the name of Paul? He said, you know, we're
not supposed to be looking at men, okay? We're here for one
purpose, and that is to worship the Lord Jesus Christ. And I
hope if anybody's here this morning, you came because you love the
Lord Jesus Christ. We're here to worship Him. We're
not here just to hear a message or hear some preacher get up
here and entertain everybody. We're here to get a message from
the Word of God, which is the truth, which hopefully will resound
in your heart and give God glory. That's what we're here to do.
It's all about Him. It's all about Him. And so Paul
says, now this is kind of a stinging statement, he says, he says,
I thank God I baptized none of you. But Crispus and Gaius, and
he should say, I had baptized in mine own name, and I baptized
also the house of Stephanus, besides I know not whether I
baptized any other. So some of these are saying,
well, Paul baptized me. And here comes Paul, and he says,
I really don't even remember it. So you can see that the Apostle
Paul is not trying to make a big thing over how many people he's
baptized, who he baptized. And he doesn't want the people
doing that either. So I know a church now that's really dealing
with a huge problem. It's way away from here, so you
wouldn't know where it is or the pastor or anything about
it. But they've been dealing with the problem now for about
six to eight months. They've had three pastors in
there to try to help them with this problem. And it's still
there. Finally, the pastor resigned.
And now they're still dealing with it. There's three people
in that church that are bound and determined that this problem
is not going to be solved. And I don't really know what
the future of that church holds. It's sad to see what divisions
within a church can cause. But anyway, Paul points them
to the head of the church, who is Jesus Christ. One other point
I'm going to make in this before I move to the next problem is
that we should always be praying for the peace of the church,
right? We should be praying that we would love our brothers and
sisters in Christ, which is sometimes a hard thing to do because, you
know, we all have our problems and, you know, we have personal
differences and sometimes we can, you know, we can find fault
in people. It's easy to find fault. But
we should be praying that we would always love one another
in the church as we should, but we should also be praying for
the peace of the church. The Apostle Paul writes something
in almost every one of his epistles. And it's called the Apostolic
Benediction. I've mentioned it to you before. But in Romans
1 and 7, and it's found in 1 Corinthians, 2 Corinthians, Galatians, Ephesians,
Philippians. It's in almost every one of his
epistles. And it goes like this. When he
begins his epistle, he writes, To all that be in Rome, beloved
of God, called to be saints. And here it is. Grace to you
and peace. from God our Father and the Lord
Jesus Christ. That's a prayer that Paul wrote
at the beginning of every one of his epistles, and that's a
prayer that we should all be praying every day, to pray that
our church would be blessed with grace and peace. We need God's
grace, that we can come here and that the preacher needs grace
to preach, we need grace to hear, we need grace to be what we need
to be. And we need to have peace. Peace is a place where we find
that good things happen, where there is a peaceful place. It
is a place where we can find that God's Word can prosper in
a place of peace. You can have the best preacher
in the world, but if you don't have peace in a church, nothing's
going to come from it. Nothing will come from it. Peace
is a great environment to see a church grow and prosper. The second problem in this church
is sexual immorality. That's something that in our
modern day that you don't hear spoken about very much. I guess one of the reasons that
that came to my mind is Marilyn and I were at a banquet this
week, a business thing, and we were seated at a table. And we
met some people, and they were very nice people, and they found
out I was a pastor of a church, and they told us where they were
going to church. And the husband said, well, we
have a gay preacher at our church. And he said, I really have a
problem with that. But his wife said, well, it doesn't bother
me at all. And I got to thinking about that, and I'm thinking,
you know, where have we gone today in Christianity concerning
what a church member should be? how we should live in our churches
and represent the person of Jesus Christ. And it is amazing to
me how these people have been married for probably 50 years
or more. I mean, they apparently have lived good lives. And you
would know that she would not want her husband to go out and
find a harlot and hang around with her and then come back home.
I mean, she would have an understanding, somewhat of an understanding,
of what, you know, what a sin is, what morality is. But I'm
amazed at people today that they love God. They love the Lord
Jesus Christ. I believe they're God's children.
But I'm amazed at people today that can see what's going on
in churches like this and they would have a gay minister and
have no problem with it. No problem with it. And of course,
it made me think about this book, First Corinthians. And I'm thinking,
well, maybe some of these churches have just taken this book and
thrown it out the back door or cut it out or something. Because
here in this church, we find that a church deals with a person
that's involved in a sexual sin, and they deal with it as a church.
And so let's just look at this just for a minute and see what
it says. Let's go to chapter 5. We're
going to skip over. So here's something that had
been reported to the Apostle Paul. He said it's commonly reported.
Now this is not something that the Apostle Paul was snooping
around to find out on somebody, you know. But he says, it's reported
commonly that there is fornication among you and such fornication
is not so much as named among the Gentiles that one should
have his father's wife. Now there's no explanation needed
here. You can see what's going on between
a member of the church and so do we think that this person
that's involved in this should be called to be the pastor of
the church? No. You understand they're about
to deal with this problem. And so the apostle tells them
what they are supposed to do. In verse 4, he says, in the name
of our Lord Jesus Christ, when you are gathered together and
my spirit with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ to deliver
such a one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh that
the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus Christ.
They're wanting to put this person out, and he tells them to put
this person out of the church. Because the spirit of the church
is going to be destroyed of what a church should be. You know,
if there is no discipline whatsoever in the church, then we can come
to church and live any way we want to. We can commit any sin
we want to. Now, we're not talking about
here, and I'm going to get to that in just a minute, about the forgiveness
of sin. We're going to get to the forgiveness of this man in
just a moment, because that's something that a lot of our churches
have forgotten totally about. They forget you're supposed to
forgive anybody. Or if somebody's done something, you can never
forgive them. That's how far our churches have strayed in
the other direction. But Paul says, your glorying is not good.
Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? And
that's what we see in Christianity today. The whole lump is being
leavened by the allowance of continual sexual sins continuing
in the church and doing nothing about it in the church. So Paul
says in verse 8, Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old
leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness, but
with the unleavened bread of sincerity and in truth. And you can go ahead and read
the rest of this. But in verse 13 he says, Therefore
put away from among yourselves that wicked person. Now that
person was living wickedly at that time. But I want you to
understand that this person is going to come back and ask the
church to forgive him. He's going to repent of his sin.
If you read 2 Corinthians, you'll find the Apostle Paul uses a
lot of ink in 2 Corinthians to tell that church. This man is full of much sorrow. It was definitely
some repentance that was observed by the church concerning this
man. Now, this man didn't just jump
up and say, I'm just going to go back and... They observed
that this man was sorry for his sin. And the apostle encourages
them in 2 Corinthians to forgive him and restore him to full fellowship
with the church, and that's exactly what they did. They restored
that man to full fellowship in the church. But the point I'm
making is that we're all sinners, right? And we all come to the
church and we come to the Lord Jesus Christ and sometimes with
a lot of baggage in the past. And we're not talking about somebody
coming to the church and repenting and becoming a member of the
church that we shouldn't forgive them. We're talking about somebody
that is a member of the church and how that we as a church should
respond to that. and that we are required of God
to deal with that problem in a biblical manner, and if there
is repentance observed, we are also required in a biblical manner
to forgive that person and receive them back into the church. Now,
modern churches today don't do this. They don't even know their
membership. They don't know what their membership's
doing. The churches are so large, they don't know anything going
on within the church, and that's probably part of the problem.
But we understand that even in the Old Testament that a person,
a man and a woman that had committed adultery in the Old Testament,
they were to be stoned to death. That's what was required of the
law. And to me, when I look at that, what was required of the
law being stoned to death in the Old Testament, then that's
a picture of withdrawing from a person or putting them out
of a church in the New Testament. You know, it's not supposed to
stone anybody to death, but yet it is a sin. from a believing
church member that has been baptized in the name of Jesus Christ and
made a profession of their faith that they are supposed to honor
the Lord in their lives. And so we find that the apostle
gives us what we are supposed to do. Now I want to go to the
forgiveness part of this. Let's go to this sixth chapter.
Let's look over here now. Here's something that our churches
have greatly aired in this matter. And it's concerning the forgiveness
of sinners. I've known people, and I'm getting
right down to the nitty gritty this morning, folks, because
I think we need to. But I've known churches that
have had people come to the church who had been through a divorce,
and they said, you can never be a member of our church because
you have a living wife. They made a mistake in their
life, or whatever happened, maybe somebody was unfaithful to them
and they couldn't remain married, or who knows what. There have
been churches that have said, you cannot be a member of this
church. And I'm thinking, where is the
forgiveness of sin? We don't know when a person was
converted. So let's look here. I want you
to see this in chapter 6. I want to begin reading in verse
9. I want you to understand what
Paul is writing here. Know ye not that the unrighteous
shall not inherit the kingdom of God? A person that's living
an ungodly and an immoral life is not going to enjoy or be a
part of the Kingdom of God. They can tell you how great they
love the Lord, they can tell you what great fellowship they
have with Him, but I can tell you they're not having fellowship
with the Lord. You cannot have fellowship with
the Lord and the devil at the same time. Now I'm not saying
that we're all perfect people. I'm saying we all are sinners,
but there are some sins that the Lord is not gonna have fellowship
with people over, and he's gonna mention some of them here. They
shall not, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, which is a gay person, nor abuser of, excuse
me, effeminate person is a person that dresses, a male that dresses
like a female, by the way, and abusers of themselves with mankind,
that is a gay person, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards,
nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of
God. Okay? That basically means if
a person is living in one of these sins, you are not to receive
them into your membership. Do you understand? Do you understand? We have a right as a church to
receive people into our membership. That's why we vote when somebody
comes forward to receive a person into membership. We want to see
a repentant person in love with the Lord Jesus Christ. But we're
not supposed to go back and ask them all the mistakes they made
in their life because I can tell you everybody here has made them,
right? Let's not act pious this morning like we're not sinners
ourselves. Every one of us, almost every one of us, have been involved
in some very serious sins in our lives. But you see, when
the Lord gets a hold of you and brings you to a place of repentance
in your life, you're supposed to give your life to the Lord.
And the church is supposed to recognize that and receive you.
Now notice what he says here. We've just mentioned some pretty
bad sins. We've mentioned homosexuality. We've mentioned drunkenness.
We've mentioned thieves. We've mentioned all this. And
then Paul says, and such were some of you. You know, remember
where they are? They're at Corinth. They used
to go to the temple of Acrocorinthius. Acrocorinthia, I think was the
name of it, where they had the consecrated prostitutes. Some
of them have been up there. Some of them have been involved
in it. Paul didn't say when the Lord had touched their heart
and brought them to a place and convicted them of their sin,
and by the way, that's one of the ways that you know a person
is a child of God and you know a person is ready to be baptized,
is when they are touched in their heart because of their sin. It's
not a time for the church to say, well, we're going to go
back and examine your life. No, it's a time to say, hallelujah
Lord, you've converted another sinner, you've brought somebody
to the throne of grace, you've shown them their sin, their need
of repentance, and their need of the Lord Jesus Christ, and
their need of the church. And so we've got these people
here, I'm sure when Paul wrote this, some of them had probably
forgotten what they were, or what they had done. You know,
sometimes as Christians, we forget what we have done, and then somebody
else comes to the church and we're pointing our finger at
that person at what they have done. We all get a little self-righteous
and almighty sometimes in our own personal experiences. But
we should always be glad when the Lord changes a person. I
mean, can you imagine? We hear it all the time in our
society today. I'm a gay person and I can't
change. That's just the way I was. I was born that way. According
to this book, you can change. According to this book, God can
change you. The sin you're involved in, God
can take it from you and you can repent of it and you can
live a moral life honoring the Lord Jesus Christ because there's
people right here that did it. We have the evidence of it. And
such were some of you past tense. So, the point I'm making here
is that When we become members of the church, we're expected
to honor the Lord in our life. If not, we're going to expect
the church to deal with us. And we're supposed to do it as
church members. I know it's difficult for the church to do that. It's
hard to spank your children. It's hard in the church to deal
with discipline. Because we all look back in our
lives and we say, well, my gosh, look what I've done. Why would
we discipline this person? They've done anything I hadn't
done because the Bible says you're supposed to do it. You know,
the Apostle Paul wrote this epistle. Let me remind you that he murdered
Christians. He had them put to death. Imagine how he felt when
he wrote in this book that you're supposed to put some people out
because of the sin they were involved in. He knew it was right.
He knew it was right. He could have said, I've done
worse, but he didn't. He said, this is for the good of the church.
This is for the health of the body of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Just like we have to discipline children to have a healthy family. So, sexual immorality in the
church. I'm gonna go on to one more here,
because that's all I got time for. They had a problem with
lawsuits before in believers. I'm not gonna get to that, because
it's really sketchy as to what they were really suing one another
over. I'm really not sure. I've never read any commentator
that knew what it was all about either. It's something that's
going on in that day that, in their society, that would be
difficult for us to understand today. But let's go to chapter
seven. We got a, he writes about, marriage and divorce a little
bit here. And you can read all of chapter 7, but I've already
mentioned to you how some of our churches have said, well,
if you've got a living husband or a living wife and you've come
to a place and you want to honor the Lord and His church, well,
you can't possibly be a member. And Paul makes it clear, yes,
you can. You know, we need to remember that whatever mistakes
we've made in our lives, we can ask the Lord to forgive us and
then we can get it right, can't we? Isn't that what God would
want? To ask God to forgive us and
then get it right? And then do it right? Get a wife
and a husband and live right like you're supposed to? Isn't
that what God would want? I believe that's what He would
want. You read in chapter 7, that's exactly what He wants.
He said, now concerning the things whereof you wrote unto me, so
they're writing him about this problem that they're having in
their charts. It is good for a man not to touch
a woman. Well, it's good, you know. You
know, if he never touched a woman, well, I'm not going to say what
I'm thinking, but you can see that a lot of problems would
never have occurred. But Paul recognizes that, you know, the
way we're made, you know, we're attracted physically to the opposite
sex, right? And so Paul says that nevertheless,
to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife and let
every woman have their own husband. So here we are, we want to live
a moral life and the way you're going to live a moral life and
you're going to be involved in that way is to be married to
that person, okay? To be married to that person.
So, I'm going to skip part of this, but I'm going to come on
down here. And in verse 8 he says, If they cannot
contain, let them marry. It's better to marry than to
burn. And to the married I command you, yet not I, but the Lord.
Let not the wife depart from her husband. And if she depart,
let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And
let not the husband put away his wife." He's talking about
two people in a home and they've got different beliefs. One was
a Christian and the other one's not. And Paul was saying, okay, if
your wife's not a Christian and you are, don't get rid of her,
okay? Hang on to her. Try to work this marriage out.
Maybe she'll be converted one day and she'll come to your church
and be a great member of the church. You know? Maybe she'd
just have another Christian faith in our day. In that day, they
didn't have all the Christian faiths. But, you know, she may
believe a different way, and so that's the way it is. You
know, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree in a home.
And I think that's what the Lord would want you to do. But he's
saying, don't run off. I know some people have acted
so pious, and they've felt so pious in their belief that, well,
if my husband doesn't come around the way I believe, I'm going
to get me another husband. Paul says, that's not right.
The Lord doesn't want you to do that. He wants you to try
to remain married. But he goes on and he says, you know, the
unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife and the wife by the
husband. But he said, but if the unbelieving depart, let him
depart. A brother or sister is not under
bondage in such cases. God hath called us to peace.
If you're a member of the church and your wife or husband just
totally leaves you, You're not under a bondage to remain single
the rest of your life. God is giving you the opportunity
here to understand that you can get remarried. And he's trying
to give them every opportunity they can to work the thing out
here. But if somebody just ups and leaves you, you don't have
to relive the rest of your life single and lonely, the Apostle's
saying. So there are reasons for divorce
and marriage that are found within the Scriptures. Unfaithfulness
is one of them. And we could go into many others, which I'm
not going to go into this morning. But this is a church that was
having all kinds of problems. All kinds of problems. These
problems in this church at Corinth are common to every church. We find it in many families.
We find it among the best of God's people. The best of God's
people. So I encourage you to read this
book. To go through it, understand
some of the problems that they were having. that we can understand that there
is a scriptural way to deal with all of it, and to recognize that
this is an interesting thought for you as I close. These people
that were members of the church in the very beginning were not
perfect people, okay? They were just like every one
of us. Thank you for listening to SuccessfulSavior.org, the
ministry of Harmony Primitive Baptist Church. This has been
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Overview of First Corinthians
Elder Phelan pulls some lessons out of the first Corinthian letter.
| Sermon ID | 94242051594491 |
| Duration | 36:54 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 Corinthians |
| Language | English |
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