Amen. Thank you for tuning us
in. I'm Darrell Bailey, Service for Christ, for we preach not
ourselves, but Christ Jesus, the Lord, and ourselves, your
servants, for Jesus' sake. Here, this morning, as the message
that the Lord laid on our heart that deals with us this past
week, this past Monday, and these past several weeks have been
a very difficult time for all of our families, for the Thomas
family, the Davis family, and the Hand family. Here, my cousin
that I grew up with since I was very little and came to Georgia
in 69, amen, that we go back all of our childhood together
with Denise Davis as she married Mike Davis later on and had Courtney
and Casey and they had kids. And of course, her brother, Daryl
Thomas and D.D. Thomas, later D.D. Hunt. And man, we grew up together.
But here with her passing, it's been very difficult. Brother
James Thomas was the one that brought the message that we've
been knowing him and James and Jerry all of our lives since
we were little kids. They've always been a great testimony
and witness in front of us as he's been a pastor and had groups
for all of his life, for all the years. And he's in his 80s
now. And so I know that how hard that
this was, even with Casey Davis having to get up and doing a
part in the service for his mother. But as I was listening to them
in the funeral home at Parnick Jennings, this is a message that
began to come to my heart. Six hands on the coffin. Now,
I thought about each and every one where some of the family
of Bailey Hunt, Logan Hunt, Lamar Hunt, myself, Michael Weathers,
and Jimmy Sumney, all of us began to lay hands on that coffin as
the services were over at Parnick Jennings and we went out to the
gravesite to finish up things, all the way over to Rolling Hills. where all of our family plot
is. And this particular scripture that began to come to my mind
as Brother James was doing this, I thought of Genesis chapter
two, verse seven, the Bible says, and the Lord God formed man of
the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath
of life and man became a living soul. You know, I'm glad that
even though this doesn't directly talk about hands, it sets the
stage and the understanding for God's hands on the role of creation. I know Sister Denise, God's always
had his hand on. I remember when we all got saved
in September of 1972. In the book of Exodus, chapter
14, verse 21, Moses stretched out his hand over the sea and
the Lord caused the sea to go back by a strong east wind all
that night and he made the sea dry land and the waters were
dotted. Moses' act of stretching out his hand is associated with
God's intervention in parting that Red Sea. And I'm glad that
all of us play a part with our hands, whether they somebody
that is living or someone is dying. that our hands will reach
out and try to give and do. And I want to thank on behalf
of all the families that have reached out their hands to help
the Thomas and the Davis and the Hand family during this very
difficult time for all of them. The psalmist said, lift up your
hands in the sanctuary and bless the Lord. Isaiah 49, 16 says,
Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands. Thy walls
are continually before me. God uses the imagery of engraving
on his hands to symbolize his enduring care and remembrance
of his people. And I know that Sister Denise,
what a blessing that she's been to us all of our lives. and how
that at this age God has already called her home with the rest
of our family members where we come from a big family of sharecroppers
of 15 kids with a set of twins that now we're down to two aunts
and one uncle. And so Matthew chapter 5 verse
30 says, If thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, cast it from
thee, for it is proper for thee that one of thy members should
perish, and not that the whole body should be cast into hell.
Jesus uses the hand as a metaphor for sin and the need for measures
to avoid it. And so when I got to thinking
about this, even I think of a lot of things, but one of the most
powerful things that I've ever thought of, even when I've been
in the emergency rooms and even though that we didn't go up in
a time with Denise, we were praying for her recovery. One of the
scriptures that I always thought of was in John chapter 10, where
he says, And I give unto them eternal life, and they shall
never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
And my Father which gave them me is greater than all, and no
man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand. And I thought
about this when Brother James was preaching, even though he
didn't use this scripture. I thought of the security that
it has because Denise was one of his, and no matter what, Nothing
would ever change that. No one could ever pluck her out
of the Father's hands. And I'm glad that each and every
one of us, we've got a place of security and protection. And
so, as Paul said, I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting
up holy hands, wherefore wrath and doubting. Paul encourages
us to lift up hands without wrath and without doubting. And I have
all of the confidence to know that our Lord and Savior, Jesus
Christ, as we're absent from the body, we're present with
the Lord. And so let's open up with a word of prayer. Father,
we come together in sorrow and remembrance because Lord, as
a few days ago, all of our family were seeking comfort from your
presence. And Lord, we honor our cousin, Kathy Denise Davis,
and we ask that you And Lord, envelope us your peace. Give
Daryl and Dee Dee and Casey and Lord Courtney and all the kids,
all the grandkids, Lord, please, we ask that you would help them
with their peace and grace. And may your word bring solace
to their hearts and remind us of the loving hands in every
season of life. And Lord, we ask all of this
in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen. You
know, I remember a story about a small town that experienced
a tragic loss of a beloved figure. At the funeral, six close friends,
each from different walks of life, took turns placing their
hands on the casket, and each hand represented a unique bond.
Friendship, love, support, and memories were shared. This is
what I thought of when I was thinking of all of us and our
hands that were getting a hold of that coffin. And the gesture
reminded me that everyone on the journey of life and death
is not traveling alone, but in the company of those who care.
And as we all remember Kathy Denise Davis, I want us to reflect
on that significance of the hands that have shaped and supported
us through our lives and especially her. Every hand that has had
a part in her life and how she has blessed us with her presence.
And so I'm glad when we look and we realize that like today,
those six hands on the coffin and what they represent, we see
the hands that created us. Because as I read, the Lord God
formed man of the dust of the ground, breathed into his nostrils
the breath of life and man became a living soul. Denise was only
two years older than me. And when death comes close, we
all think about death. But we look at the hands that
created us and we see a divine craftsmanship, the hands of creation. God's hands formed all of us
from the dust, breathed life into Sister Denise. And we're
reminded of that divine care that shaped all of us, our very
existence in the Testament to God's intricate handiwork, the
hands of creation, the breath of life. God breathed in the
man that symbolizes the preciousness of life and the personal touch
of our creator. And Sister Denise, our cousin,
was precious to all of us. The breath of life has given
us our moments and our relationships and our cherished memories that
we all have. Not only do we see the hand that
created that divine craftsmanship, the hands of creation, the breath
of life, but the gift of a soul. Because Denise, she had a gift
just like everyone else. And I'm glad that the creation
of man as a living soul reflects the uniqueness of the value of
each individual. Denise had uniqueness. She had
value. And in the reflection of her
love with her and Mike Davis, they had children, amen, that
are taken on and continuing to contribute to life in the world
today. You know what? None of us are merely physical
beings, but souls with eternal significance crafted by God's
loving hands. And you know what? I remember
talking to Nick Hand and Nick Hand was telling me how Denise
was his Sunday school teacher. And of course, he had always
fallen in love with Denise's daughter, Courtney. And so we
see the hands that created us, but the hands that comfort us
as well, because we have the support of loved ones. And Denise
had a loving mother and father, Lee and Bradford Thomas, and
they had great grandparents. I remember all of them. And we
look at the support of those loved ones. Paul said, Blessed
be God, even the father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the father
of mercies and the God of all comfort. who comforted us in
all of our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them
which are in any trouble by the comfort wherewith we ourselves
are comforted of God. And so the hands that comforted
us, the support of the loved ones, everybody showed up. Man,
you talking about a crowd that everybody knows, all of the family,
all the way from Alabama that people traveled over to pay their
respects, the support of the loved ones, the hands of compassion
that was there. Because in the times of grief,
the comforting hands of the family and the friends that reflect
God's own comfort. and their support that reminds
us that we're not alone in our sorrow. And so we see that it's
not only that support of loved ones, the hands of compassion
and the ministry of that presence, because sometimes the simple
act of just being present. Some people there, they didn't
even have to say anything. They just showed up and they
hugged their neck and maybe they couldn't say anything. But the
offering of a hug or a kind word can be a powerful source of comfort. And I thank all of those ones
that were there for our family. These hands are instrument of
God's love and grace. And so we see the hands of compassion,
the ministry of presence, and the promise of peace. Because
God promises peace that surpasses understanding. Because Paul said
in Philippians 4-7 that his hands guide us through our pain, offering
a comfort that transcends human limitations. And so I'm glad
that as we see the hands that created us and the hand that
comforts us. But lastly, I see the hands that
continue to guide because I'm glad that there is a legacy of
life that has been lived. Sister Denise is leaving behind
family, her and Mike. And that family continues to
go on, and they have been guided no matter what. They've been
put in the right track with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
I thank God. You know what? Nick, Courtney's
husband, he's a preacher. Casey he's a pastor and a preacher
praise God and all of the family they've been they've grown up
around ministry And so the legacy of life is lived the psalmist
said the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord and he
delighteth in his way and so of the legacy of a life that's
lived there's the pathway of faith and And the life of Kathy
Denise Davis, my cousin, reflects the journey that God has laid
out for all of us when our time comes. As we honor her memory,
we're reminded that God's hand guides us even through the shadows
of life. Because you know what? At the
gravesite, when Brother James Thomas was talking about and
reading Psalms, the Shepherd Psalms, Psalms 23, even in the
shadow of the valley of death, there's light. because there
has to be light for there to be a shadow. And even though
the shadow of death come upon our family, light was there in
its presence. I thank God, all the men and
women of God that gathered around, that had the brilliance and the
radiance of and all of the legacy of the life that's lived, the
pathway of faith, that we see all of these families, that all
of them are living a life that that are in the light of Jesus
Christ. And so the influence of a life that is well-lived,
amen, their legacy is a testament to the ways God's hands work
through them to touch others. All the way back to Bradford
Thomas that was preaching that message of salvation for all
of us to come into the family of God. And so we see that legacy
of a life that has been lived, the pathway of faith, the influence
of a life that is well-lived, and then lastly, the hope of
a reunion. Because all of us, our hope is
anchored in the promise of an eternal life. We trust that God's
hands will one day reunite us with our loved ones in his heavenly
presence, amen. And so, our beloved sister and
cousin, Kathy Denise Davis, was laid to rest and we acknowledge
that the six hands that were on the coffin, each one representing
the different ways in which our lives are touched and shaped
by the presence and the love of others. We remember that our
lives are formed by God's hands, comforted by his grace, guided
by his purpose, praise God. And I thank God when we look
at this and realize that those hands that continue to guide
us I tell you, may this be a time of remembrance, amen, that strengthens
our faith and reminds us of an enduring love that surrounds
each and every one of us today, praise God. And so I hope and
pray that you can offer comfort to someone who is grieving in
your community. Reach out with a listening ear,
offer practical help, present in their time of need yourself. and share comforting words and
provide support in ways that reflect God's love and compassion. And you know, there's ways that
you can honor the legacy of someone who has passed away, such as
my cousin, Kathy Denise Davis. by continuing to do the works,
living out the values, and keeping their memory alive through the
actions that reflect their character and their faith. When I hugged
Courtney, man, I just felt the presence of God. And when I hugged
Casey, I told him that Sister Denise, his mother, would always
be around because when I see them, they don't even know it,
but their mannerisms are her mannerisms, hers and Mike's.
And I've been around them enough to know their mannerisms. And
I know it because it goes all the way back to the legacy of
Lee and Bradford Thomas and the Thomas's way on before. And all
of them, and I thank God, that we can always trust God's guidance
during the times of grief and loss. Why? How? by leaning on
the promises in scripture, seeking comfort in prayer, and allowing
ourselves to be supported by our faith in the community. Praise
God. Trusting in God's sovereignty and plan that provides hope.
Amen. And I'm glad that all of our
hope that we go through today, each and every one of us, amen,
we've got a great hope that we can always look forward to. Trusting
God. And I'm glad that through his
reassurance, that I'm glad that here, these hands that are represented
on the coffin, there was a lot of them besides six that came
together for that family. And this is what I was thought
of. And I thought that I'd share it with everyone else, what God
had shared with me, because there were a lot of hands that were
on that coffin besides six hands. Let us pray. Amen. Father, thank
you for the gift of Kathy Denise Davis's life. for the hands that
have supported and guided her and all the family. Comfort the
hearts. Help us to hold on to the hope
and the assurance that you provide. May your peace rest upon us as
we continue to walk in your grace. Because Lord, you were right
on time when you came for Kathy Denise. You were right on time
in her birth. March the 30th, 1962. You were
right on time, Father, when she came, Lord, for her, Father,
a few days ago, Father, and you were right on time, Lord, when
she needed salvation in September of 1972, when you came and saved
her by the marvelous grace of Jesus Christ. You were always
on time, and now, Lord, we give her into your comforting care,
and we ask your blessings to continue to go over this family
Lord of the hurt because Lord time does not heal anything.
You're the only one that Lord that gives us stronger and greater
faith and strength to get strong to go through these because none
of us will ever be the same when a loved one is gone, but we do
have your strength. And Lord, we have many hands
that are there that will always reach out and not only have a
hand on the coffin, but have a hand on the families of all
these loved ones in Jesus's marvelous mighty name. Amen. God bless
you.