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All right, we're in 2 Samuel
chapter two, verses eight to 17. I've got a title on that,
The Conflict of Loyalties. We're going to learn something
about Abner. Abner. Very, very important. And so let's go to the Lord one
more time in prayer. Ask God's blessings on this.
And then we'll get started. Heavenly Father, as we come to
you right now, Lord, we pray, Father, that you would open our
understanding, that we might understand the scriptures. Speak
to us, Lord. Teach us. We ask it in Jesus'
name and for his sake. Amen. For the next couple Sundays,
we're gonna be looking at Abner. and learning some things about
him. Are you looking for one of those
papers? Right up front here, there's
some right here on the front row. And those verses that we're gonna
be looking at and dealing with Abner, our focus is going to
be Abner. Why? I'm gonna make a statement, I
want you to get it. It's very, very important. Here it is. And over the next
few weeks, you're gonna see the outcome of this. Ambition is
often hidden behind a curtain of loyalty. All right? Ambition is often hidden behind
the curtain of loyalty. Ever, ever so important. Abner is a man that had power. He was under Saul and he had
the power, he had the ability to do things. Now what you're
gonna see tonight you're going to see ambition working. Now Abner, in the name of being
loyal to Saul's family, of course Saul is dead now, and so in the
name of being loyal to the family, he's going to do things. But
when you look at it, you realize He's really driven by ambition
more than loyalty. And that's an interesting thing. We'll learn some things about
that. And so let's begin right here,
right now. And it says 2 Samuel 2, 8 to
17, let's start in verse 8. But Abner, the son of Ner, captain
of Saul's host, took Isbosheth, the son of Saul, and brought
him over to Mahanaim, and made him king over Gilead, and over
the Asherites, over Jezreel, and over Ephraim, and over Benjamin,
and over all Israel. I want you to notice verse nine
there. It says, you can circle this
if you want to. Mark it, you need to. In verse
nine it said, and made him. See that? And made him. Since when does the captain of
the host of the army make somebody a king? Well, Abner did. He had some ambitious motives. Abner made him king. Now there's something about this.
You see, in the name of loyalty, ambition is hidden. And so one of the things that
we see here that you and I need to learn in life is this. When somebody like Abner, who
was the captain of Saul's host, all of a sudden, ultimate power
is given to him. Well, now he can't become king,
but he can put somebody in the place. Now, there's a question,
I'm not gonna get into this right now, but I'm going to pose the
question. And then we'll get into it a
little bit later. But let me ask you this question. It said,
Saul's host, he took Ish-bosheth, the son of Saul. Now, the person
that was supposed to be king, would have been Saul's first
born. Isn't that right? And we might ask this question,
was Mephibosheth older or younger than Ish-bosheth? Ah, very important. Now remember, Mephibosheth was
lame on his feet, right? And so you see, Abner wasn't concerned about
that. The name Ishbosheth means a man
of shame. And we'll learn more about his
name later on as we get into the Chronicles. And it was spelled even somewhat
different. So you see, folks, what we have
here starting off. We have something that we need
to slow down, pay attention to, and ask God, God, what do you
want me to see in this? What is it that I need to see?
What is it that'll teach me something about life? What is it, God,
that's here that I really need to see? Well, like I said, one
thing we can look at is this, is that Abner, is going to take
all kinds of liberties that's not his. And that's one of the
marks of ambition, is that people will try to manipulate things
to their benefit. And that's what you're gonna
see here. Abner, he's got the power, he's got the authority,
he's got the army behind him. And he finds the weakest of Saul's
sons. He finds this person that's almost
nothing as far as character and integrity goes. And he puts him
in power. And look at this, Abner made
him king. Why did Abner choose him? because he knew he could manipulate
him. That's why he chose him. You're going to learn also when
we get up into chapter three, it says that when, well, we'll
look at some of it next week also, that when Abner got in
Ish-bashir's face, It said Isboshus didn't say anything because he
was afraid of him. Now, should have been the other
way around, shouldn't it? The king should have said, kill
this guy, I'm done with him. That's not the way it was, you
see. So Abner is going to move into
this picture here and he's going to take advantage of this situation,
and he has his ambitions, and he's going to do some things.
So he realizes that the first thing he needs to do is to pick
the right man for the job that would benefit him. So Ish-bosheth
was it, a man of shame, that's what his name means. Next thing
is this, he had to find somebody that was afraid of him. That
way he could manipulate him, control him. And that's what
he did. The third thing is this, is with
his ambition, regardless of what God was going to do, he was going
to do something now. And we're gonna realize later
on, you're gonna see this whole picture change. But right before
I move on in this, I want you to know something. In chapter
three, verse one, it said there was long war between Saul's people
and David's people. Long war. So guess who kept the
war going? Mr. Abner did. You see, Who kept
this civil war going? As you and I study this over
the next few weeks, you're gonna find out Abner done a lot of
talking. Abner spoke up first. Abner took
the action. Why is that? Because he was protecting
his ambitions. Now, listen. It's one thing for
people to have honest ambitions. It's another thing for people
to have selfish ambitions. Notice, somebody with honest
ambitions, they do not have to hide it. But somebody with selfish
ambitions, they always have to hide it. They'll hide it. Like here, he's going to hide
it behind the curtain of loyalty. Oh, I've just been loyal to Saul's
family. All right? So what's his first
step is this. He finds this son of Saul. Makes no difference whether he's
the first in line or the third in line. He's the prime prospect
for the job. Why? Because Abner can control
him. And so they get here and it says
in verse 9, and made him king. And made him king. Wow. That sounded like somebody had
that office in name only, huh? Sound familiar to you? All right, now, let's go to verse
10. Ish-bosheth, Saul's son was 40
years old when he began to reign over Israel and reigned two years,
but the house of Judah followed David. Now, we're going to find
something else here. And the time that David was king
in Hebron over the house of Judah was seven years, six months. Now, I want to show you something.
Verse 12, it starts off, well, let's just do it like this. Verse
8, but Abner. Verse 12, and Abner. Verse 14, and Abner. You see that? So who's going
to be the focus of this conversation? Abner is. Now watch what happens
here. So as we move down, we get to
verse 12. And Abner the son of Ner and
the servants of Ishbasheth, the son of Saul, went out from Mahanaim
to Gibeon. Verse 13, and Joab the son of
Zariah and the servants of David went out and met together by
the pool of Gibeon. And they sat down, the one on
the one side of the pool and the other on the other side of
the pool. So, now this is interesting. Because now what you have, you've
got this meeting taking place, and this meeting between these
two guys, the only thing it's going to do is perpetuate trouble. And that's exactly what Abner
wants. Remember something, ambitious people have to keep things going
so that you'll not know the truth of them. Ambitious people always
want some distraction going on, right? So you're looking at the
distraction rather than them. And the thing of it is, is most
people want somebody that's going to be all right, up front about
it, let's go get them, let's kill them, let's do whatever,
right? That's extremely important. And so Abner knows that. Abner
knows I've got to keep something going here. Because if it turns
into zero, then I'm in trouble. But as long, listen, he knew
this, as long as there was war, Ish-bosheth needed him. Right? Man, he was the captain
of Saul's host. So as long as he could keep some
type of war going, the king that he put in place needed him. You see that? Know this. People with selfish ambition,
they will always hide that ambition. behind the curtain of a loyalty. And so look at what he's doing. Well, now they're going to meet
here. And let's look at this. Well, we got Joab and David's
men on one side of this pool. We got Abner and his men on the
other side of this pool and they meet. Now, there was something
going to happen here. And look who speaks up. Of course,
it's Abner. And Abner said to Joab, let the
young men now arise and play before us. And Joab said, let
them arise. Well, What was supposed to have
happened here was that these and these would have come together,
the young men, and they would have acted like they were having
a war, all right? That's what they were done. That was the purpose of that,
okay? That's why I said let them play before us, okay? Act out
this thing. But that's not what happened
at all. You see, Joab knew that Abner
was not going to be nice about it. That Joab had other motives. Wow. Let's see what happens. This is absolutely amazing to
me. Here we go. And Abner said to
Joab, Let the young men now arise and play before us. And Joab
said, let them arise. Now watch this before I move
on. The boldness of ambition. The boldness of ambition. Abner with this ambition. Watch this now. Now, why do you
have that number? Why do you have that name, the
12 of Benjamin? Why the name? Because the men
of Benjamin They were people of war. They
were courageous people. They were people that were manned. They would go to war and they
had a name for being good soldiers. They had a name for being valiant
fighters. They had a name. And so it's
interesting here that Abner would show up with 12 men from the
tribe of Benjamin. In other words, he went and got
his special forces. He went and got his whoever. He went and got his Marines.
He went down there and showed up with some of his best from
the tribe of Benjamin. Don't you think Joab recognized
that? Of course he did. But now watch
what happens. Verse 15, and there arose and
went over by number 12 of Benjamin, which pertained to Ishbathus,
the son of Saul, and 12 of the servants of David. Now, when
it comes to the people of David, it just says the servants of
David. But Ishbashus, no, no, it tells
you who. he had, it tells you who his
12 were. Why? Because he had hand-picked
those men. Abner showed up with the idea
that he was going to kill whoever Joab showed up with and kill
Joab too. He had a plan, but God had a plan. That's why you have Benjamin
stuck in there. Well, now, let's look at verse
16. And they caught every one of
his fellow by the head, and thrust his sword in his fellow's side,
so they fell down together." Well, isn't that something? So they went out there, and the
men of Benjamin grabbed David's servants by the
head, and David's servants grabbed them by the head, And they took the sword and killed
each other, shoved it in their sides. So all 24 of them died. The 12 from Benjamin, the 12
of David's servants, they died. So they fell down together. In
other words, they went out there and killed one another at the
same time. I don't think Abner was planning
on that. It's always been an amazing thing
to me that why would the people of Benjamin be so blind not to
see what was going on, as well as the men of David, but that's
in God's hands. But you see what we're looking
at here now, is the beginning of something.
All right? We're going to find that out
in just a second. The rest of verse 16 says, "...wherefore
that place was called..." Somebody pronounce that for me. All right. Ha-ha-ha-ha. Helcathazurim. All right? That's as close as I'm going
to get to that. That means a field of flint. Now, remember something. Back
in these days, flint was used as a very sharp
instrument. You could take flint and get
it really, really, really sharp. That's what the Jewish priest
used on the eighth day to circumcise the males. was flint, that's
what Moses used, because they could get it sharp, super sharp. And so a field of flint, then
as you look at it, which is in Gibeon, sharp things, pointed
things, cutting things. And so they named this field
because these guys had killed one another at the same time,
A field of flints, a field of sharpness. And it's interesting
when you study how flint was used, flint rock was used. The Israelites would take pieces
of flint, big pieces and sharpen it and use it as real sharp knives
at times if they wanted to kill. The only problem with flint is
that it's brittle, real brittle. but they could sharpen flint,
razor sharp. And so a lot of times it could
be used for some things, but a lot of times it could only
be used once. And so we find then, they call this the field
of flint. Now look at what this started,
verse 17. Let's take some time here. And there was a very sore battle
that day, and Abner was beaten and the men of Israel before
the servants of David. Now I'm gonna stop there tonight,
but I've got somewhat to say about it. The reason is because
we're gonna start, we'll take next week, we'll look at the
details of this. We'll see what happened. We'll see the outcome
of it. We'll see a lot of things. But I want you to see this. The first part of verse 17 says,
and there was a very sore battle that day. Now I want you to mark
these few words, a very sore battle. All right, a very sore
battle. Now, what you're going to find
then is this. Abner's people, Abner lost a
lot of folks. David lost a few. But the battle, You see what
Abner's idea was, was this. We'll sit down here and we'll
kill Joab's few men and Joab. And if we can do that, then David's
army will have no captain over the host of his army. And then we'll go to battle. You see, ambition has a boldness about
it. The problem with ambition is
because ambition so often assumes so much that is wrong. They assume
ability, they assume power, they assume so much that's wrong. And guess what? It always blows up in their face. We're gonna learn that about
Abner. I want you to know something. Ambition right up front, It might
be hidden behind the curtain of loyalty to others, but you'll
soon find out that ambition is only loyal to self. Abner-type ambition is just loyal
to self. The second thing I want you to
know about selfish ambition. Selfish ambition does one thing, and he does it good. Selfish
ambition always uses other people. Selfish ambition, a person that
has selfish ambitions is a people user. He will always, or she
will always, or they will always just use others. And like him,
you see, they don't care about right and wrong. They don't care
about the heritage of the family. They don't care about nothing.
He's going to find somebody that he can use. And therefore, he
chooses Ish-basheth, and he makes him king. You see, Ish-basheth,
he had the position, but he didn't have the power. You see that? That's exactly what Abner wanted. You see, Abner's ambition, he's
loyal to his self. But he's hiding that in the cloak
of, I'm being loyal to Saul's family. When in all reality, he's only
being loyal to himself. That's why he wants Ish-bosheth
to become king. That way he can continue to manipulate
the entire situation. That's what you got to watch
out for. All right? He's moving, doing
everything in the background, isn't he? Not the king's not
making the decisions, Abner is. Abner's keeping the war going.
Abner's making all the decisions. You see, selfish ambition just
uses others and cares nothing about the consequence of that
use, of how it affects somebody else or not. The next thing I
want you to see is that selfish ambition is constantly planning. Selfish ambition is never, never
idle. Think about that now. If you're
old enough, think about it. Selfish ambition is never idle.
That person that has selfish ambitions is constantly thinking
about how he can use the circumstance, the situation, and other people
for them to get what they want. Always, constantly. Well, that's what you're gonna
find here. You see, selfish ambition will
plot and plan. That's why you find, verse 13,
and Joab the son of Zeruiah and the servants of David went out
and met together by the pool of Gibeon. I wonder, who called for that
meeting? Who called for that meeting?
Think Joab did? Think Joab said, hey, Abner,
let's meet together. No, no. The reason you have the name
Benjamin listed is to let you know that Abner had planned the
meeting. Abner knew what he was doing. Abner had picked out his 12 Benjamite
warriors, if you please. Abner, why does it say he had
men from Benjamin? There was a reason for that.
You see, ambition is constantly plotting and planning. Okay? Then we find There's a boldness in this selfish ambition. There's a boldness in it. That's why Abner, verse 14, and
Abner said to Joab, you see, listen, what you've
got here, ambitious people like this, Why is it that Abner's
doing all this talking? It's because he's manipulating
the situation. He's handling, he's controlling
the circumstance, isn't he? Let's do this, let's do that.
Come here and do this. I'm gonna make you king, come
here. You see, the thing that you see here about Abner is,
boy, in his selfish ambition, he's going to control the circumstances
best he can. He's plotting and planning to
do this. And listen, when people get around
you and they try to hide their ambition, their selfish ambition,
you'll find that, man, it's a pattern that they all follow. They try
to use people, manipulate people. They're always trying to manipulate
the situation and the circumstance, regardless of how they can do
it. And you'll find that they use the circumstance. Well, are
they really concerned about feeding the poor? No, they're more interested
in stuffing their own pockets. They have ambitions. And one
of the things, if you want to see that in somebody, just take
a moment, look at them, and think, all right, now wait a minute.
If this turns out like this, how's it gonna benefit him or
her or them? If this turns out like that,
how's it gonna work out for them? You see, learn to ask the right
question. Because if you ask the right
question, then you'll get a true picture of what's really going
on. You see, like him, if we had said, now wait a minute,
wait a minute. Abner, how is this gonna benefit you? Oh my
goodness. The minute Abner's challenged,
he goes ballistic. We'll learn about that. You see,
I'm in the king's, anyway, you don't mess around with my dad's
concubine. Abner blew a fuse and says, all right, I'm gonna
take this whole thing and I'm gonna give it to David. I'm gonna
give all of Israel to David. Boy, you talk about a guy that
had some power. He just told the king that he
installed what he was gonna do. You make me mad, buddy, I'll
give this whole, you won't be king or nothing. I'll take this
whole thing over there and give it to David. Wow. You see, when people are motivated by
self-ambition, like Abner was, and Abner said to Joab, wow. In other words, listen folks,
When somebody's trying to manipulate the situation, they're gonna
try to do most of the talking. They're gonna try to speak up
to keep things moving in their direction. Right? Well, Abner spoke up. And Abner said to Joab, let the
young men now arise. And Joab said, Let them arise. For some reason, I get the idea
that Joab just had, just had some confidence
in his men. I mean, I can see Joab saying
this thing, let them arise. Man, there's fixing to be some
killing going on. You see, watch this now. And so, all these guys died. Remember something now. Does the selfish ambition of
Abner care about what happened? No. Listen to this. Before I move on, Selfish ambition never concerns
itself with the consequences that comes to other people. Know this, the person that has
eat up with selfish ambition is never concerned about the
consequence that happens to other people. Why? Because they are people
users. Now watch this. As I draw this
to a close tonight, we see that these 12 and 12, they all died. They killed one another. All
right? But then in verse 17, there was
a very sore battle that day. Well, who started that battle that
day? Didn't it say Abner spoke up
and said, hey, let the young men start out here. Well, once
the killing started, everything exploded, didn't it? There was
a sore battle that day. That means somebody, there was
a lot of dying going on somewhere. A lot of fighting going on that
day. Well, the Bible gives us the detail in the rest of this
chapter, but I want you to know something. Did that stop Abner? No, no. Abner was beaten and the men
of Israel before the service of David. I'm gonna close here,
but I'm gonna close with this. Abner takes off. All right, man,
he's getting away from them. There's some people chasing him,
but that's all right, he's on his way down the road. But the thing that amazes me
about people that eat up with selfish ambition, like Abner
was, is this. Does that stop them? No, it don't. Man, they just back up, kick
again. I mean, they just, they keep
on trying to work the circumstance out. And so we'll find Abner
going back to the king. He's doing some other things.
You see, he's not going to stop. Remember this and remember it
well in your own life. People with selfish ambitions
will not stop. Man, they might get defeated
on Tuesday, but they'll be back on Thursday. They might get caught on Wednesday,
but they'll be back on Friday. Their plans might go up in smoke
like Abner's, man, he had it all planned out. I got men of
Benjamin here, buddy. I've got the best of the best
on my side. So I tell you what, hey, Joe
Abner, Why don't we let these guys come
out here and do their thing? Do you know why Abner was so
confident? Because he thought that those
Benjamites was gonna kill those other guys. Instead of those
other guys killing them too. Now listen to me, listen to me. Selfish, ambitious people like
Abner They always, always have plan B. They do. Ladies and gentlemen,
never forget this. He was confident that his men
would kill those of Joab and so on. You see, ambition can be hidden
behind not only the curtain of loyalty, but ambition can be
hidden behind a curtain of kindness, a curtain of, well, listen, let
me put you in power. Man, it can be hidden behind
so many things. That's why you and I, as we journey
through life, boy, we need to stop and ask this one question
that's so revealing. How will this situation benefit
them? And if you'll look at that, you'll
be able to say, hmm, now I see where your ambition is. Selfish ambition has one thing,
and that's this. The conclusion of this is going
to benefit me. Right? I don't care who else
gets in the way. I don't care who else dies. I
don't care who else, whatever happens to others, doesn't bother
me a lick. I just know one thing, one thing
only, and that's this. When this is said and done, my ambitions will be satisfied. Boom, that's it. That's what
Abner had in mind. But it didn't turn out quite
like that. You see, ladies and gentlemen,
as I close this lesson here tonight, I want you to know, chapter three, verse one, it
said there was long war between the house of Saul and the house
of David. All right? Long war. You know something? Abner did not care. You know that? He didn't care
whatever happened to somebody else. He cared less about that. Know this. As you journey through
life, know this and never forget it. People that have selfish
ambitions, the only person they're concerned
about is themselves. They can care less about what
happens to you. All right? They've got this one ambition,
and that's it. And it's a selfish ambition.
Never, never, never forget it. I'll tell you one story, true
story. When I was going through ranger
school, we had limited food. And so we took our food and divided
it up. And we had some Vietnamese that
were going through ranger school with us. And we gave one of them
this little bag of rice that was supposed to be for all of
us, right? So we shared our stuff, you know,
on this night and the other guy, another guy, another guy. We
got down to this last bag of rice and we'd got some other
stuff. And this one fellow I was with, he looked over at this
Vietnamese fellow and he said, all right, where's the rice?
You had the rice, cough up the rice. And I never will forget
what he said. He looked at that guy and he
said, me eat rice, me eat lice, me eat lice. He said, you eat,
what do you mean you eat lice? He said, you can eat all the
lice you want, you better come over to that rice. And he said, no,
me eat lice, me eat lice. And anyway, The outcome of that wasn't too
good. But the reality of it is this. That guy could have cared
less about anybody else. He could have cared less. He
had that rice and he was eating it. That's all there was to it.
He was snitching that stuff. But when nobody was looking,
he'd take him a little pinch of lice, you know. But at any rate, I've always,
I'll never forget that because that was a prime example of somebody,
everybody shared with him. But when it come down to him
sharing with others, he'd already done the job. He wasn't willing
to do that. And listen, you don't need people
like that in your life. You got it? You don't need people
like that in your life. Let's all stand, if you would,
please, as we go to the Lord. Father, we thank you now for
tonight. We thank you, Lord, for this lesson about loyalty
and ambition. We thank you, dear Lord, that
we can look at Abner and learn something. We thank you, Lord,
that you teach us these great, great lessons from the word of
God, Lord, that we can walk out of this place tonight having
learned something from your word. And, Father, may we learn to
ask the right question if we get to thinking and looking and
seeing things. May we just ask the question,
how's that gonna benefit him, them, her, whatever? So, Father,
thank You so much for Your Word. Thank You for tonight. Bless
these folks, dear Lord, that have made it here tonight, and
bless those, dear Lord, that'll hear this. May it make a difference
in their lives. We thank You now. We ask it in
Jesus' name and for his sake. Amen. Join me.
Abner's Ambition
Ambition is often hidden behind a curtain of loyalty
| Sermon ID | 91123133321818 |
| Duration | 50:45 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | 2 Samuel 2:8-17 |
| Language | English |
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