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Well, good morning and welcome
to this session of the Reformed Family Conference. So glad that
you have joined us. I'm Philip Hunt, a pastor at
Kituwe Church and also the Vice Chancellor of Central Africa
Baptist University here in Kituwe. I am the father of seven children,
two teenagers still at home, and I am the husband to Lori. We have celebrated 32 years of
marriage, and all but two of those we have lived here in Zambia. In this session, we are discussing
the subject of parenting in a postmodern world. Now, I've got to be honest
with you, when Pastor Ronald Kalafungwa asked me to handle
this topic, I wondered if I was the right choice for the task.
Though I've lived the first 25 years of my life in the United
States, the past 30 have been here in Zambia. And while Zambia
is embracing modernism to some degree, Zambia is certainly not
post-modern. Postmodernism is a Western value
system that views each individual person as the final authority
for truth, based on how they feel and what they experience
in their small community. I'd like to invite you, if you
have your Bible, to turn with me to our text for this morning,
2 Timothy 3. And we will refer back here in
just a little bit. 2 Timothy chapter 3 verse number
1, the Apostle Paul writing to Timothy says, But understand
this, that in the last days there will
come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of
self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient
to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable,
slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, Verse
4, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure
rather than lovers of God. Having the appearance of godliness,
but denying its power, avoid such people. Notice verse six,
for among them are those who creep into households and capture
weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions,
always learning and never able to arrive at the knowledge of
the truth. Let's pray. Father in heaven,
as we embark for these next few moments on this subject. I pray that you would give us
clarity of thought, of mind, help us to be able to understand
the issue that is facing us. Though we may not initially think
that this is something that we need to be so concerned with
here in Zambia. In actual fact, we need to be
very prepared if we are to shepherd and disciple our children through
these perilous times. So guide us as we walk through
these ideas, as we try to understand in broad terms the philosophies
that we are facing in our world. and how they contradict the truth
of Your Word, the Scriptures. We ask in Jesus' name. Amen. So postmodernism we give a brief
definition once again, is this Western value system that views
each individual person as a final authority for truth. This truth
is based on how they view things, how they feel about their shared
life experiences. Now, you may wonder why the conference
organizers felt this subject was important to be included in a conference on biblical parenting. And I think that there are some
really valid reasons for this subject to be dealt with. Primarily,
the fact that what we believe determines what we do. The things
that you value, the things that you really believe in the depths
of your heart, the things that you believe your values shape
the decisions that you make and the actions that you take. your
philosophy of life, the way that you just naturally live your
life, and the reaction in the moment, the responses that you
take to the situations and the circumstances that come into
your life, are flow from your philosophy or your value system.
They're the sum of your core values. And these values are
being shaped in ways that we may not be fully aware of. And there are values that are
being promoted to our children right here in Zambia every single
day. These values, or many of these
values, reject the truth and the authority claims of the scriptures,
the word of God. The primary vehicle that is being
used to promote these values is technology, social media,
video clips, and of course all of this driven by an increased
access to the internet. Because in this generation, popular
culture, we often hear it referred to as pop culture, has become
the main tool through which our urbanized youth learn about themselves,
about society, and about the world at large. Pop culture can
be seen or is reflected in the music that they listen to, the
clothes that they wear, and the entertainment that they enjoy. Choices reveal what a person
values. You want to know what pop culture
looks like in Zambia? I'm speaking to you who are parents. Go online and look up your kids'
favorite Zambian music artists. Pompey, Chile Shewaya, Abel Chongo
and Ephraim, Maki Tu, Chef 187, Cleo Ice Queen and Slap D, just
to name a few. Or, go on Facebook and Google
the latest popular Zambian prophet. Whether the more well-known,
like Seer 1 and Major 1, or the local variety, and you will see
how African religious pop culture portrays success with flash,
expensive clothing, and slick vehicles. Or walk through your
local mall and just sit back and observe the older teens and
the young adults. Watch how they interact with
each other, what they wear. You see, our culture in Zambia
is increasingly connected and interconnected to the global
village. Youth are the major consumers
of pop culture. The impact on their life has
been more immediate and more extensive than what has ever
been obtainable in the past. There is this opportunity to
access information almost in real time. I mean, consider the
context, consider these facts. Consider the demographics that
we have in our country. Did you know that the average
age in Zambia is 16.8 years old? That's the average. And the average
across Africa is only slightly higher at 19.7. Zambia has one of the youngest
populations in the world. Of our population of 18.3 million
people, now listen to this, 45% are under the age of 15. And
65.5% of our population is under the age of 25. Couple that with
the fact that Zambia is one of the most urbanized countries
on the continent of Africa, and you have an environment that
is ready-made for quickly adopting and adapting to a post-modern
worldview. Not only are demographics being
the youngest or one of the youngest countries in the world from a
population age standpoint, but also consider the access that
we have, the increasing access to the Internet. I hope you'll
take time and if you did not make it to Isaac Makashini's
session yesterday afternoon, he dealt with parenting and the
Internet. And so I think it'd be really
helpful for you if you go and if you missed that session to
find it and go back and and listen to what Pastor Isaac had to say.
But access to the Internet is one of the main factors driving
this secular mindset or this secular philosophy in our country.
Think of this, consider this. 53.7% of Zambians are using the
Internet regularly. 74% of those using the Internet are
doing it from mobile phones. Across the continent of Africa,
over half of the 1.3 billion people own a cell phone. That's like 650 million people
who own and use a cell phone on our continent. In some countries,
people have more access to mobile phones than to clean water, electricity,
or the ability to have a bank account. Now think about it. In the last 10 years, Internet
usage in Zambia has increased 49,252%. In fact, this conference, this
virtual conference, could not have been done in Zambia just
five years ago. Though 60% of Africa's unemployed
are young people, The International Labor Organization
reports that in Sub-Saharan Africa, of which we were kind of right
in the center of that area, that the subscribers to cell phones
in Sub-Saharan Africa pay an average of between 90 to 150
kwacha per month on their cell phones. Being willing to go without meals
and other necessities in order to provide and to give them greater
access. Text messages, WhatsApp, voice
text, and video clips that can be shared through these mediums
can change the course of the history of a nation. It certainly
can influence, something as simple as a video clip can influence
government action. I mean, I'm thinking of the video
clip that came out earlier this week of rats running through
our local hospital. According to the United Nations,
youth ages 15 to 24 are seizing the momentum and rewriting society's
rules in Africa at the same time. And so this is the context in
which we live and the context that we have to recognize is
fueling and providing a pathway for philosophies and belief systems
to be shared across what used to be very wide divides. So notice
please, if you would, I want us to go to our text in 2 Timothy
chapter 3. Notice that we are called on as Christians, and
certainly as Christian parents, to refute false philosophies. We are to refute false philosophies. So if you look at your Bible,
2 Timothy chapter 3, notice verse 1 again, but understand this,
that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. Again, Paul writing to Timothy
in 1 Timothy chapter number 4, comments in this way, verse 1,
now the Spirit expressly says in the latter times, so he's
talking about this same time period, that some will depart
from the faith by diverting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings
of demons. through the insincerity of liars
whose consciences are seared. So notice the situation that
is being described here in 2 Timothy 3, that there is this time, that
there is this period of time in which demonically inspired
ideas and philosophies will be propagated by people who claim
to have superior understanding and knowledge. Now notice the
character that controls these philosophies and these people,
these cultures, beginning in verse 2. People will be lovers
of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient
to parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderers,
without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous,
reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than
lovers of God. So the character that controls
the cultures from which these philosophies flow are controlled
by godless ideologies, passions, and godless philosophies. These
philosophies Verse number five, he warns Timothy that these godless
philosophies, these godless belief systems will actually find their
way into the church. Look what he says in verse five.
They have an appearance of godliness, and yet they deny the life-changing
power of the gospel itself. Notice what Paul gives as a response
or a command. He says the latter part of verse
number five, Timothy, avoid, shun such people. Now notice the strategy. Because
those who propagate these philosophies or who have bought into these
philosophies, there's a strategy. Notice it says in verse number
six, from among them are those who creep into households and
capture weak women burdened with sins, led astray by various passions,
always learning but never able to arrive at the truth. So these
philosophies, these belief systems, these values, creep into households. This is not something that's
coming necessarily from the top down. These are philosophies,
these are value systems that creep into houses and influence
the undiscerning masses. They, these people who propagate
them and the philosophies themselves, are thieves of truth. These are people that are forever
in the process of discovery and yet never able to come to the
truth. So we are called, as Christian
parents, to refute false philosophies, false value systems, wherever
they are encountered. So we see the deception of the
times in which we minister, but notice we are called to stand
and refute these false ideas with the truth. Again, look at
chapter 3. Drop down with me, if you would,
to verse 13. Notice what he says. While evil
people... Go back up to verse 12. Indeed, all who desire to live
godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, while evil people
and imposters will go from bad to worse, notice this, deceiving
and being deceived. So we are called to stand and
refute false ideas, false philosophies with the truth. Look at verse...
Look at verse 14. But as for you, Timothy, continue
in what you have learned and firmly believed, knowing from
whom you learned it, and how from childhood you have been
acquainted with the sacred writings which are able to make you wise
for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is
breathed out by God, and profitable for teaching, for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,
to the end that the man of God may be mature, complete, and
equipped for every good work. Paul, in his letter to the Corinthians,
if you have your Bible and go back with me to 2 Corinthians,
2 Corinthians, look at chapter
10, verse 4. He's speaking of this spiritual
warfare that we are called, that we are engaged in as God's people. Notice what he says. For the
weapons of our warfare are not fleshly, they're not of the flesh,
but have divine power to destroy strongholds. Notice verse 5. We destroy arguments and every
lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take
every thought captive to obey Christ. So we see that we are
to cast down these philosophies, these arguments, and stand against
the spiritual pride that raises itself up and demonstrates against
the truth. I want to ask you a question. Is truth, for you personally,
is truth truth primarily because your cultural proclivities agree
with it? In other words, do you give assent
to certain truth claims merely because your culture affirms
or denies those things. Let me give you an example of
what I'm talking about. In most African nations, homosexuality is rejected. And some nations have laws actually
criminalizing homosexuality. And when challenged in a postmodern
culture, As the cultures of the world and partners around the
world at a government level begin to push back on this kind of
thing, we've seen this within the last 12 months, even right
here in our own country. When challenged about this stance,
we defend ourselves by saying, it's not our culture. That's
what I'm talking about. Or maybe a positive one. We want our children, we demand
that our children show respect to their elders. Because it is
our culture. Now, while there is evidence
of common grace, that the culture in which we
live may reject homosexuality or encourage or demand young
people to be respectful of their elders. While this is an evidence
of common grace, this argument will not convince the next generation
to believe and accept those values. What do we see in our text in
2 Timothy? That in the last days, false
ideas, and those who promote these false ideas, and those
who have been deceived by these false ideas, will grow worse
and worse. And what is the answer? We see
it in verse number 13, verse number 14, and verse number 15. You see, Paul says to Timothy
in verse number 15, 2 Timothy chapter 3, and how from childhood
you have been acquainted with the sacred writings which are
able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ. You
were taught, Timothy, as a child, the truth of the Holy Scriptures. So the answer to this challenge
that we face in these last days of false ideas and those who
promote them and who have been deceived by them, and as this
gets worse and worse, as Paul is instructing Timothy, the answer
is the scripture. Timothy was taught or he learned
the scriptures from childhood. And notice, those scriptures,
those truths are then embraced and lived in adulthood. Look
at verse 14. It says to him, but as for you,
continue in what you have learned. When did you learn it? You learned
it as a child. You learned it when you were
young. You were taught, you were discipled in the things of God.
You knew the truth of God. And now that you're an adult,
Timothy, you must continue in what you have learned and what
you have personally believed for yourself. The things that
you have learned and you have believed. So the answer to this is the
Holy Scriptures. So we see we are called to refute
these false philosophies. thing I want you to understand
a little bit is what is this enemy, this philosophy of postmodernism. So here is a warning. Godless philosophy is coming
to a cell phone near you. Let me just share with you just
a very brief overview of the history of the philosophies of
Western civilization. And I'll make this brief, but
I think stay with me because you'll see how this thing is
progressing. And by the way, all these worldly
philosophies and all worldly philosophies are in direct opposition
to the truth of the scriptures. All worldly philosophies are
in direct opposition to the Christian faith. So you have three, over
the past 2,500 or so years, three major Western philosophies. The first one is referred to
as the pre-modern era. It lasted for maybe around 2,500
years. And the pre-modern people accepted
objective, ultimate truth. They believed that it existed.
And these peoples assumed an ultimate supernatural reality. In other words, they would accept
the supernatural, they believed that God, or a god, or gods,
plural, existed, and that those gods held ultimate authority
over their lives. that these gods or God was the
source of truth and the ultimate authority. Then at the commencement,
or about the time of the French Revolution, until the fall of
the Berlin Wall in 1991. So that's a period of about 250
years. You had the modern era. So we
move from the pre-modern era into the modern era. And this
period of time lasted around 250 years. Now, modernism, maybe
you've heard it by that term, modernism, the modern era elevated
science and reason as objective ultimate truth. So modernists
believe that there is ultimate truth, but they reject that ultimate
truth is vested in a supernatural being. They rejected the supernatural.
God had any authority. What flows from this? Atheism. agnostic thought, and all the
isms, humanism, Darwinism, socialism, communism, all flowed from this
philosophy. And so you could perhaps sum
it by saying that the modernist believed that the ultimate authority
comes from, or ultimate truth is found in science and in human
logic. apart from God. Then, the postmodern
era, which began sometime around the
fall of the Berlin Wall in late 1991. So from 1992 until now,
and what will be the end of this period, I think there's a question
mark there, we're not sure, but the era in which we are in right
now, would say that objective truth is unknowable. So the pre-moderns
believed that there was objective truth and you could know it and
it resided with the gods. The modernist says yes, there
is objective truth, you can know it, but the ultimate authority
is science and reason. But the post-modernist says there
is no objective truth. Though the postmodernist would
accept the supernatural, the supernatural has no authority. Rather, personal experience and
feeling is the basis of reality. There is no external or institutional
or supernatural authority. Every man is his own authority. And the postmodern era, by the
way, is and has already proven to be the most hostile to true
Christianity. So that's the brief history.
Now, to explain it a little bit more, postmodernism. Postmodernism
is a philosophy, of course, that rejects the era that we have
just come through, the modernism that rejects it completely, and
is characterized by broad skepticism, subjectivism, and a general suspicion
of human reason. The postmodern says there is
no objective reality and there is no objective truth. Rather, reality and truth are
constructed by different cultures and subcultures that share a
language, and those truths can vary from one group of people
to another, even within the same country. So truth can be, in
other words, your truth can be your truth, and my truth can
be my truth, and those two truths might actually be opposite of
each other, but both are okay, and both are fine. That's a postmodern
view. Where modernism elevated science
and reason as objective ultimate truth, postmodernism denies that
objective truth is even knowable. Where modernism rejected the
supernatural and believed that science and reason were the ultimate
authority, postmodernism denies any authority. Rather, every
man is his own authority. Therefore, personal experience
and feeling is the basis for your reality and for your truth. Now, what are the implications
of all of this? Well, there are many, but let
me share a couple of them with you. This is an age of disillusionment
with optimistic assumptions of human progress. It is a mindset that rejects
the universal laws of science and lacks faith in any established
order or established authority. For the postmodern mind, the
question is not whether something is true or false, but how it
feels to you. If something feels right to you
or has some personal positive or immediate effect in your life,
then it is good and it must be true for you. Let me give you
some illustrations. Gender identity. Now before you
switch me off, like we don't have this problem in Zambia.
It is coming. I mean it actually already is
here because we have access to it. in movies and internet, but gender
identity. So, a post-modernist view of
gender would be that if I'm a man, but if I feel like a woman, then
I am. It does not matter what my biological
sex at birth was. Alright, so let me give you an
illustration of marriage. Marriage then, in postmodern
thought, marriage can be whatever I feel it should be. So, marriage
can be a man with a woman, or a man with multiple women, or
a man with another man. Or a woman with another woman. Or, and this is the latest, in
fact, a year ago I listened to a TED Talk in which the presenter
was defending marriage and sexual relationships
between adults and children. So marriage can be whatever I
feel it is. My sexual identity, my gender
is, whatever I perceive and feel that it is. This is postmodern
thought. The postmodern rationale would
be, if I am fulfilled, if I genuinely love that person, then that is
my truth. That is not wrong for me. Now,
let me just make a comment here, because I know that these kind
of issues, culturally, we, as a culture, have a strong negative
reaction. But the point that I'm trying
to make is that if your strong negative reaction as a Christian
parent is simply based on your culture and not based and rooted
and grounded in the objective truth of Scripture, this is a
battle that we are going to start losing right here amongst our
own youth. Those who think this way, those
who think that marriage can be between a man and a man, Listen,
people who think this way are equal in value because they are
created in the image of God. In other words, look, we should
not have negative responses to them in a sense of, we should
not be discriminating against someone who thinks like this,
we should not persecute someone who thinks like this. However,
we must clearly, truthfully, and lovingly stand against the
false belief system and the sin. We speak the truth courageously,
regardless of the cost, and we do so in love. Now, how does this all relate
to parenting? Well, in the West, The postmodern
influence includes the rejection of the modern view of intuitive
parenting that understands the general norms of child development. Now that's out the window. In the modernist view, there
was an effort to understand the physical development, the mental
development, the social development of a child, and to educate the
whole child. but not in the post-modern view. In post-modernism, the parenting
goal is to develop a child's self-esteem. Thus, parents view
themselves as facilitators of their child's hopes and dreams.
Children, on the other hand, in a post-modern philosophy,
view themselves as equal with their authorities, in that the
child's ideas, the child's opinions, the child's desires are just
as valid and important as those of their parents, their teacher,
or their pastor, or whatever the other authorities are in
their life. What are the results? It's relativism
and skepticism the relativism and skepticism of a postmodern
philosophy is eroding confidence in and submission to the Scriptures,
the Word of God. You see, the truth claims of
Scriptures are viewed as ideas to be considered amongst the
portfolio of ideas. Theological truths, are questioned and priority in the interpretation
and application of theological truths, priority is given to
my experience and the way I feel about the passage. The post-modern child is no longer
dependent upon parents or pastors or teachers to help them navigate
in this fallen world because they have all the information
they could possibly desire by Googling it. I don't even have to learn it,
I can just Google it. decide for myself amongst all
of the many ideas about the subject that I'm researching, which ones
appeal to me, which one make me feel comfortable and happy,
and that then becomes my source of information and truth. These are challenging times. And sadly, many Christian parents, ungrounded
in the scriptures, are ill-equipped to disciple their children and
provide real, authoritative, biblical answers. Listen, this
generation is not going to be swayed by saying to them, it's
so because this is the way we've always done it. Remember? This generation is already skeptical
of all authority and all truth claims. because they can listen to whatever
it is that you say from the pulpit or in your home and they can
get on their hand device and they can Google that subject
and discover whatever truth that they want to choose about
that very subject. So, What do we do as Christian parents
in a postmodern world? Well, I'd like to just have us
think a little bit and clarify a Christian's primary parenting
responsibility. And here it is. Listen, as a
born-again Christian and as a Christian parent, Christian parenting is
Christian discipleship. Jesus commanded the disciples
to go into all the world and preach the gospel and teach everyone
who responded to obey all things that Christ taught and commanded. 2 Timothy 2 and verse number
2, Paul to Timothy, instructed him to deposit into faithful
men the things, the truth, the doctrine, the objective truth
of the scriptures was to be intentionally offloaded and deposited into
the next generation of believers. Christian parent, our mandate
as Christ's followers is to preach that gospel and to teach those
who confess Jesus to obey Him. And this begins in our homes. Christian parents, we produce
what we are. We as Christian parents are tasked
with discipling the next generation, one child at a time. We are called
as Christian parents, according to Ephesians chapter six and
verse four, to bring up our children in the nurture and the admonition
of the Lord. And I know we're hearing a lot
about those scriptures this week. Paul says, Fathers, do not provoke
your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and
the instruction of the Lord. Listen, Christian fathers are
to nurture their own children. They are to teach their own children
the Scriptures. They are to live the truth of
Scripture in the presence and before the watching eyes of their
children. So Christian parenting is Christian
discipleship. And Christian discipleship is
based on and grounded in the truth. Postmodernism says, my
truth is my truth and your truth is your truth. Both are okay
as long as you are tolerant and inclusive. But as soon as you say that truth
is objective, that truth is certain, That truth is binding. You have
committed the post-modern, unpardonable sin of intolerance. But what does Scripture teach
us? First of all, truth is theological, right? I mean, John MacArthur
wrote, truth is what is consistent with the mind, will, character,
glory, and being of God. Truth is at its very core truth
because it's true about God. Secondly, this truth, this Christian
discipleship that is grounded in truth, this truth is objective. Truth is truth because it is
ultimately founded upon the person and the nature of God. Truth
does not get its authority from science, or reason, or a prophet,
or a man of God, or your culture group, or because you think or
feel a certain way. That is not the basis of truth.
God's word is truth. Friends, we have to understand,
as Christian parents, that truth is not a social construct. And
truth is not subjective. It's objective. And of course,
we know, John 14 and 6, Jesus made this claim, that truth is
a person. Jesus said, I am the way, the
truth, the life, and no one will come to the Father except through
me. So to disciple the next generation,
parents, means that we know the person who identifies himself
as the truth. We know him. We are intimate
with him. We walk with him. We live with
him. We submit to him. So truth is
theological, it's objective, it's a person, but truth is also
the scripture. To disciple the next generation
means that we as Christian parents must know what is in the pages
of this book. The pages of scripture. This
is the body of truth. And this body of truth is what
must shape our values, our philosophies. Not our culture, not Western
post-modern thought, but the objective, infallible, inerrant
truth of God. Discipleship means, as a Christian
parent, that we teach and train our children to obey this person of truth, revealed
it in the pages of truth, who will set them free from their
bondage to sin and satanic-induced philosophies. John 8.32, Jesus
said, you can know the truth and the truth will set you free. It is knowable. I could apply this for just a
moment. Parents, when you undermine, when you and I as Christian parents,
undermine the authority of scripture by our actions, our decisions,
and our words. We should not expect our kids
to withstand the hordes of evil that are about to pour over the
hill in this generation, because they're coming. You say, oh, these types of social
belief systems that would allow... That could never happen in Zambia.
Have you ever traveled to South Africa? Just two countries away, it's
there. You see, parents, if we reject
God's truth because of our cultural traditions, our children will
reject truth because of new cultural norms. The same rejection of God's authority,
but for different reasons. So as Christian parents, we must
not make the mistake of thinking that our kids will come away
with the same conclusions for the same reasons if our children
do not recognize the authority of God and His revealed truth
in the Scriptures. If what our children are being
taught and believed is not founded and they do not see that it is
founded in these unchangeable truths, they might follow your
belief system in certain ways. But they have
no foundation to disciple your grandchildren. Discipleship of your children,
of our children, is our solemn responsibility before God. And
I want to wrap this up, but I want to read to you Deuteronomy chapter
6. Deuteronomy chapter 6. Listen to what the scriptures
say. Deuteronomy chapter 6, verse
number 4. Here, O Israel, the Lord our
God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your
God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your
might. And these words that I command
you today, listen, they shall not be in your head. Listen,
theology is not a hat that you wear on your head. It's shoes
that you strap on your feet. You shall teach them diligently
to your children. They shall be in your own heart. They shape your own philosophical
outlook. They shape your own actions as
a parent. And then, verse 7, you shall
teach them diligently to your children, and talk of them when
you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when
you lie down, and when you rise up. When are we supposed to disciple
our children, Christian parents? All the time. When we wake up, as we walk through
the day, as we come home in the evening, as we sit at the table,
and as we say goodnight and go to bed, we are communicating
and living the objective truth of God's Word. That's how we
disciple our children. Christian parents, especially
Christian fathers, are called to train and disciple their sons
and daughters as passionate followers of Jesus Christ. You see, friends, false doctrines,
false philosophies always result in sinful living. Read Jude 4. Postmodernism is simply the next
cultural attempt to change the unchangeable Word of God. That's all it is. So, what can we do? What should we do as Christian
parents? Well, here's the start to a list of
suggestions. You can add to it yourself, but
talk to your children about biblical authority and the authority of
God's word. Do your children understand that this book is
authoritative? Do they see in your life that
you live and view this book as authoritative? Number two, talk to your children
about the biblical roles in society and the home. Talk to them about
biblical gender that God created in the beginning, male and female.
Talk to them about the biblical role of women and the biblical
value of man because we are created in the image of God. Number three,
talk to your children about sin. Immorality is sin. Not culturally
cute or expected as a Christian. Transgenderism is sin. Their
rebellion and disobedience against authority is sin. Talk to your
children about sin. And talk to your children about
grace. That God came into the world and lavishes grace on sinners. so that we can know Him and follow
Him. And tell them, teach our children
that we should give grace to other sinners by speaking the
truth and loving them, by praying and working for their salvation. So talk to them about biblical
authority, talk to them about biblical roles, talk to them
about sin and about grace. And number five, demonstrate
your own submission to the authority of scripture in every area of
your life. Why? Because every disciple, when
he is fully trained, will be just like his teacher. In fact, Jesus said that, those
very words, in Luke chapter 6. A disciple is not above his teacher,
but everyone, when he is fully trained, will be like his teacher. Urban youth are spending many,
many hours a week on social media, WhatsApp, sharing memes and videos,
watching music videos with their favorite artists, Facebook, Twitter, hours upon hours of access to popular culture. And popular culture has an agenda. It has a theme. It has values. How are we as Christian parents
to combat that? It is by recognizing that we
are the primary disciple, disciplers and disciple makers with our
kids. And that we spend time investing in their lives, investing
the scripture into their lives. Because they can know the truth
and the truth will set them free. Let's pray. Father, we thank
you for the objective truth of the word of God. We thank you
for the person of truth, the Lord Jesus Christ. We thank you
that the spirit of truth indwells us, that we can know the truth,
that we can live the truth, we can speak the truth, and that
through the power of your Holy Spirit and the application of
truth in the hearts of our children, they too can become passionate
followers of Jesus. May we as parents Step up to
the task. May we march forward in this
perverse generation on our knees, that we might not only give lip
service to the truth of Scripture, but that we would live the truth
that we say we believe. We ask in Jesus' name. Amen.
Parenting in a post-Modern World
Series Biblical Parenting
Parenting in a post-Modern World
| Sermon ID | 91120139534054 |
| Duration | 56:52 |
| Date | |
| Category | Conference |
| Language | English |
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