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Let's go to the Lord in prayer.
We're going to do our last session on listening prayer today. Let's
go to prayer. O Lord God, this is your holy
word. We are your servants. Give us
understanding that we might know your testimonies. You have prayed,
O Lord, sanctify them in truth. Thy word is truth. Use your holy,
eternal, inerrant written word to set us apart to your service
and to your glory. Show us now great and mighty
things which we do not know. The sower sows the word. Let not your word go out and
return empty, but accomplish that purpose for which you are
sending it out and for which you have gathered us together.
Protect us from Satan who will snatch your word. Protect us
from a wrong reaction to difficulties and discouragements and persecutions,
which make our hearts hard and unresponsive to your word. Protect
us from the world's cares and the delight of wealth and the
passion of other interests, which enter in and choke your word.
Rather give us good soil, O Lord. Plow now the hard ground of our
hearts, that your sown word would send roots downward and bear
fruit upwards. Unsheath now the sword of your
spirit, O Lord. Cut to the dividing point of
bone and marrow, soul and spirit. Judge now the thoughts and intention
of each heart gathered here. Spread your word before us as
a banquet table, O Lord. Grant grace that we might eat
of the rich meat, and drink of the sweet milk of the great doctrines
of your word. Give us the heart of the prophet
who cried to you. Thy words were found and I did
eat them. And thy words became to me a
joy and the delight of my heart from call by thy name, O Lord
God of hosts. Oh Lord, we live in a dark and
a wicked age. Broad is the way and many are
on it, which leads to destruction. Make your word a lamp to our
feet. Make your word a light to our
path. Show us that narrow way that
you would have us run. And Lord, as we run in the paths
of your commandments, enlarge our hearts that in loving you,
we might be more obedient to your written word. Drop your
word against our lives as a plumb line, O Lord. Grant grace that
we might see how we deviate from its high and holy purposes. Make Your Word to us a mirror,
O Lord. Grant grace that we might not
be as those who look and go away and forget, but make us active
doers, not forgetful listeners of Your Holy Word. O Lord, because
of our fealty to You, Because of our undying love and devotion
to your Son, our resurrected Savior, we pledge to you this
day our total submission to your holy, eternal, inerrant written
word, and we pledge to you our unquestioning obedience to all
of its commands. In the name of our Lord and Resurrected
Savior, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen. Amen. Okay. Ah! How are you, Brother Balogun?
Good to see you. Okay. We are looking here today
at our last lecture on listening prayer. Let's continue on. We're looking
here at our last lecture on error of listening prayer. Now, one
of the problems with this practice of listening prayer is that it
allows the members of the family to function as individuals. Individuals in their relationship
with God and circumvent God's word and God's order and God's
roles in the family. It opens up a wide range of errors
and deceptions. There's the danger for the husband's
Proverbs. Uh, oops. the danger to the husband found
in Malachi 2.14. Yet you say, for what reason?
Because the Lord has been a witness between you and the wife of your
youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she
is your companion and wife by covenant. So when you get married,
you can no longer think of yourself as a single person. And remember,
we were looking at the wheel illustration. We looked at it
as how it would be as if we were single. But the rim of the wheel,
once you are married, is the obedient couple, married couple
in action, not the obedient disciple, because the two have become one.
And yet if the husband begins delving in to listening prayer,
then he can begin to seeking to discern God's will apart from
God's word. And that will always lead to
error. The danger to the wife. Proverbs 2.17, that leaves the
covenant, the companion of her youth and forgets the covenant
of her God. Anytime a wife is meditating
upon scripture, is praying concerning God's will, it is always in the
context of her husband. Genesis 2.18, she is called to
be her husband's outbait. And yet the danger to the wife
of listening prayer is she begins thinking about her relationship
with God, her call, her ministry, independently from her husband. And that is the same danger to
the husband, that he begins thinking about his ministry, apart from
his wife. And of course there's always
the danger to the children because children are to obey their parents. They are not free just to engage
in listening prayer and make decisions apart from their parents.
Husbands are not free to make decisions apart from their wives
wives are not free to make decisions apart from their husbands Children
are not free to make decisions apart from their parents The Word of God protects us from
this error But if we abandon the Word of
God and simply open thought that comes into our minds, then we
circumvent these, what I would call, protections. They are the banks of the river
that help direct the stream. Brother Bishan, would you read
Romans 10, verse 2, please? Romans 10 verse 2. Romans 10 verse 2. For I bear
them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not according to
knowledge. Yeah and this is what happens
when we engage in this practice of listening prayer. We begin
to have a zeal for God, we're excited, we're hearing, we're
getting these impressions, and we begin thinking our will is
God's will. And we begin exceeding what is
written. Belongen, could you read 1 Corinthians
chapter 4, verse 6? Please. I'm not seeing your shared
screen. It's blank on my end. I don't
know if it's just me. I'm afraid if you leave, I'll
lose you. No, don't leave us. I'm not leaving. You can just take copious notes.
Okay. All right. Let's hear 1 Corinthians
4.6. Now brothers, I have applied
these things to myself and Apollo for your benefit so that you
may learn from us the meaning of the saying, Do not go beyond
what is written. Yes, so we have to remember that.
God, people say, well, John, when you don't, when you speak
against listening prayer, you are putting God in a box. And I remind them, no, I'm not
putting God in the box. God is putting us in the book. We are not to exceed what is
written. If it is needful, if it is helpful,
if it is useful. It is in the Word of God. Brother Basham, would you read
2 Timothy 3, 16 and 17, please? 2 Timothy 3, 16 and 17. out by God and profitable for
teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,
that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work. God has supplied us with what
we need to know. He has given it to us. Belondon,
would you please read Deuteronomy 29.29? We don't need more. But that's
always the quest, isn't it? More. Changing lines, changing lines.
Yeah, that's your Bible pages turning, aren't they? Yeah. I love to hear that sound. The
secret is known to the Lord our God, but the things revealed
belong The secret things are God's. Don't seek them out. The revealed
things are ours in the holy, eternal, inerrant, written Word
of God. But, Belogna, if you go back
to your passage in 1 Corinthians 4, verse 6, Why? What does it say? What does
the Word of God say is the danger of going beyond what is written? In 1 Corinthians 4.6. Could you read that again, Belonging? Oh! Did I... I may have lost our brother.
Okay. Oh yeah, 2nd Corinthians, 1st
Corinthians 4 verse 6. Now brothers I have applied these
things to myself and Apollos for your benefit, so that you
may learn from us the meaning of Let's see, do not go beyond
what is written. Yeah, so... Do not take pride
in one man over against another. So what is the danger, it says,
if we go beyond what is written? What does it say? Take pride. Pardon me? Take pride. Pride,
huh, excellent. Go to the head of the class.
You are exactly right. It's pride. And people will begin
setting themselves against each other. We know that the word
of God teaches us that when we are born, we are born, and according
to Ephesians 2, 1 and 2, dead in our trespasses and sins. When
we received Christ, as you can see from this illustration, we
move up to a new spiritual plane, don't we? 2nd Corinthians 517. If anyone is in Christ, he's
a new creature. Old things have passed away. All things have become new. By
that we have been born again. Then the question is, is there
something more? And the answer is always no. Ephesians 1.3 teaches us that
every spiritual blessing in the heavenly spheres is ours in Christ. 2 Peter 1.3 teaches us that everything
that pertains to life and godliness is ours in Christ. When we receive
Christ, the search is over. But what Satan would like us
to do, what the devil would like us to do, is spend our time,
after we become a Christian, running in circles, seeking those
secret things, those higher things, the good stuff. But what does
God want us to do? He wants us, in Luke 9, 23, Bishan,
could you read Luke 9.23 for us, please? All right, John. Luke 9.23. And he said to all,
if anyone come up and let him deny himself and take up his
cross daily and follow him. Yeah. Once we have become a Christian,
the search is over. We're not going to look for the
storehouses. The storehouses are empty. Every
spiritual blessing is ours in Christ. Now we can lay up things
in the storehouse, but because of God's grace, we cannot take
withdrawals from them. Otherwise we would be like the
prodigal son and squander it. The storehouse is empty. All
the fullness of the Godhead dwells bodily in Christ. Colossians
2.9. So we don't seek the storehouse. We don't seek that which is not
written, which is not given to us in God's Word. Everything
we need is given to us through the Word of God. The search is
over. Unfortunately, though, Many are
not satisfied with that. And they drift into much error
by seeking to empty their minds and let whatever spirit happens
to be coming along speak to them and equating their thoughts with
God's. Because that is the key to listening
prayer, isn't it? The Longin, would you read Isaiah
55.8, please? 55.8 and 9, please. Isaiah 55.8. For my thoughts are not your
thoughts, neither are your ways. My ways declares the Lord. As
the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways. I hear
that your ways are my thoughts, are your thoughts. I got you
up early this morning, didn't I? Yeah. Isaiah, listening prayer,
the problem is, if we're thinking it of our own, it's not from
God. Our thoughts are not his thoughts. Our ways are not His ways. So
where do we go to know the ways and the thoughts of God? We go
to His Word. We go to His Word. We know there's
a way that seems right to a man, but what's the result of that
way? What does the Bible say is the
result of the way that seems right to a man? Bishan, would
you read Proverbs 14.12 please? Proverbs 14.12 Proverbs 14.12
says there is a way that seems right to a man But its end is the way it ends. How can we trust our thoughts? How can we trust a way which
seems right to us? Well, we have to test it from
the Word of God, don't we? So why, knowing that our thoughts
are not God's thoughts, knowing that our ways are not God's ways,
knowing that there can be ways that seem right to us that end
in death, why would we want to just empty our mind and equate
our thoughts and our ways with God's when God has given us an
alternative? What is this alternative? Brother
Bashan, read Psalm 119.11, if you would. And Balogun, you will
look at Joshua 1.8 for us, please. So let's hear Psalm 119.11 first,
please. Okay. Psalm 119.11. The word of God says, I have
stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against
you. Now, that's the key to not sinning. It's not emptying, it's filling. Do you see the difference? The protection we have from sinning
is not emptying, it is filling. And what are we filling our heart
with? God's Word, not our Word. God's Word. And remember, when
we studied the doctrine of the Word of God, we studied the fact
that it belongs to God. It is His. We are not free to
bandy out about. It belongs to God. It is God's
Word. Brother Beloged, would you read
Joshua 1.8, please? Do not let this book of the Lord everything written in it, then
you will be prosperous and successful. Yeah, and are we to empty our
minds? No, what are we supposed to do?
Fill it up. Yeah, fill it. It should not depart. We can
trust We can see how that traps Psalm 119, 11. We don't empty, we fill. I have treasured in my heart your
word that I might not sin. It does not depart from our minds. The Word fills our heart. We lay it up. We don't empty
it. We lay it up. We don't depart
from it. We meditate upon the Word day
and night, not upon our own thoughts that we might do according to
all that is what? Written not imagined it does
not say this book of the law shall be emptied from your mind
and you shall open your mind apart from the written word of
God and do what you're thinking about. That whole concept is
completely opposite and alien to Joshua 1.8 and Psalm 1.19.11. So when we are helping our young
disciples or helping our children or helping our wives, or we indeed
ourselves are seeking to meditate upon God's word, I like to use
the KISS principle. Keep it spiritually simple. Don't make it complicated. I
was sharing that with the afternoon group today. If you have a pen
or pencil, paper, Bible, that will be enough. It doesn't have
to be complicated. So, let me give you, if I might, Two ways of meditating upon the
word. You can use this with your disciples
or with your children. The first is know, be, do. From the passage, what is something
God wants me to know? From the passage, what is something
God wants me to be? From the passage, what is something
God wants me to do? Now let's go back to Joshua 1.8.
Let's everyone turn to Joshua 1.8. Balogun, you're already
there. Bishan, if you will. Now I'll ask you a question. Bishan, read Joshua 1.8 for us,
please, again. OK. This Book of the Law shall not
depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and
night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is
written in it. For then you will make your way
prosperous, and then you will have good success. Okay. Now, from this passage, Ishan,
what is something God wants you to know? God wants need to know that when
I keep his word, then I can have good success. Okay, that's excellent. Okay, Belonga, from this passage,
what is God, what is something God wants you to be? Prosperous and successful. Okay,
that's good. All right. And then, Belonging,
from this passage, what is something God wants you to do? Meditate
on the Word. Okay? Yeah, meditate upon the
Word and obey it. See? Now, that's useful. That's 2 Timothy 3, 16 and 17. Okay? Now, Belonging, would you
read Joshua 1, 8 for us? Do not let this book of the law
depart from your mouth. Meditate on it day and night,
so that you may be careful to do everything written in it.
Then you will be prosperous and successful. Okay, now Belonga,
from this passage, what is something you can worship God about? Either thanksgiving or praise.
What is something you could thank God for or praise God for? Because
He wants me to be... He wants to prosper me and give
me success. Okay, good. That's good. I was
thinking, God, I want to praise God because He gives us His word.
He doesn't leave us to our own devices. So both of those are
good. Okay? Now, Bijan, when it says
be, a b c what is something well we'll ask ourselves is a adoration
from the passage what is something that will cause me to worship
b What is something God wants me to be? C. Confess. From the passage, what is something
God wants me to confess? D. Do. From the passage, what
is something God wants me to do? And E. Express. From the passage, what is something
God wants me to share with another? See, and that little acronym,
A-B-C-D-E, Adoration, Be, Confess, Do, Express, is very easy to
remember. We can teach it to our children,
to our wives, to our disciples. So Bishan, let's look at C, confess. From the passage, what is something
God wants me to confess? You could say confess or convict. Yeah, so I think for me, God
would want me to confess times when I haven't lived up to, you
know, uh, meditating on the word of God day and night, especially
in the era of hard times, not being able to do it consistently. Oh, I can, I can relate to that. My brother is a minister and
he, he's my older brother. And when I was a college student,
he warned me, he said, John, be careful of the barrenness
of the busy life. because I can get so busy in
the ministry that I forget to spend time with God. So I wrote
that in my Bible, my quotable brother. Beware of the barrenness
of the busy life. Now there's nothing wrong with
being busy. Working hard is a Christian virtue. There's nothing wrong with that. But when it squeezes out our
time with God then I have to confess it excellent thought
Bishan okay then we have do we've already looked at that so let's
look at E express Belanga what is something here that God would
want you to share with other people in Joshua 1.8 I don't know how to meditate on the world
day and night. Ah, excellent. That's exactly right. Well done,
Balagan. So you see, what we've done here
is just a little workshop. And if you teach these two meditation
skills, This is the basic one, no be-do, and then they can go
on to the ABC method. They are equipped to have a daily
quiet time for the rest of their lives. This is also a good tool
if you're ever asked to share a devotional or lead a short
Bible study, is to take a passage and break it down like this and
share it with others. So these are not mine. These
were given to me as a young Christian. I think I probably attended a
workshop with the navigators on meditation when they were
teaching people how to meditate upon God's word. And they have
stood me in good stead over the years. You see, we meditate from
the Word of God, not simply thoughts popping into our mind. Now let's think about this, because
this is our marriage covenant emphasis of this series that
we've been doing, about meditation, the Word of God, and the family.
Now there are passages in Scripture which I feel should shape our
meditations and application of God's Word. As husbands, wives,
fathers, mothers, we cannot think in terms of meditation independent
from these passages. The reason is we have become
one with our spouse according to the Word of God, and we are
stewards and have responsibility for our children. So let's take
a look at these. Bishan, would you read 1 Corinthians
7, verse 4, please? I'm sorry, 1 Corinthians 7, verse
4. For the wife does not have authority
over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise, the husband does
not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. So we
just can't, when we are meditating upon scripture, we cannot think
simply about ourselves, can we? As a husband, I have to think
about Eleanor. As a wife, she has to think about
me. Now, that's very important. Because I have known situations
where the husband has felt like God is calling him to do something,
and the wife has said, well, God hasn't called me to do that,
as if she's free to go in a different direction. And I have also known
situations where the husband has said, I think God's calling
me to go to the mission field, but his wife is too infirm to
go to the mission field. So he just goes without her.
And in both those cases, I rebuked and corrected the wife, but I
also rebuked and corrected the husband. Husband just can't have
a quiet time and engage in listening prayer and decide God has called
him to leave his wife in the United States and go to the mission
field. No, absolutely not. And a wife cannot, through listening
prayer, have decided that even though her husband is being transferred
to somewhere else with his job, that she's going to stay in her
church and minister. She can't do that. Another instance I saw was of
a university student who, through listening prayer, decided he
was going to leave school and become an evangelist. Well, did he check with his pastor? Did he check with his campus
representative? Did he talk to his father? Did he check with his peer group? Does he have the gift of evangelism? Is God blessing? Where's his
money going to come from? Where's his support going to
come from? But he simply bypassed all of
the checks and balances of authority over him on the basis of a thought
he had in his mind. Bishan, I'll ask you to read
again 1 Corinthians 7, 32-35, please. Since you're already in chapter
7 there. 32-35, I want you to be free
from anxiety. The unmarried man is anxious
about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the
unmarried man is anxious about worldly things, how to please
his wife. and his interests are divided. And a married or betrothed woman
is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body
and spirit. But a married woman is anxious
about the worldly things, how to please her husband. Now, if you are married, can
you be single-minded? No, you can't. No, you can't. You have a wife. Now, if you want to be single-minded, don't get married, no problem.
But once you are married, you have the responsibility of your
wife. And when you have children, you
have the responsibility of your children. And I tell these men,
you know, if you want to go to Birmingham, England, and get
your doctorate, and then go do your post-grad work in Washington,
D.C., and then you want to do an internship in Cape Town, that's
no problem, but don't get married. Because if you get married, you
can't go anywhere without your wife. Not for any length of time. How can you be her spiritual
protector How can you be her spiritual leader and not be there? And it's the same for the woman. If she's single, she can be concerned
about the Lord. She can be holy in body and spirit. But if she's married, she has
to be worldly. Doesn't she? Concerned about
the things of the world and how she may please her husband. So
she is not free just to meditate and think of herself as if she
was a single woman. And I think that is one of the
Achilles heels of the, of the discipleship program that most
people have. And I'm not picking on the navigators.
I would say it's true also in the church and in most Christian
ministries that they disciple single women as if they are going
to be single all their lives. and then they kind of go into
shock when they get married. Balagund, I see the picture of
your wife there. Is she there with you? Yes, she is, sir. Oh, may I ask
her to read? Okay. Do you mind? No, please go ahead,
sir. Okay. I asked this sister if
you would read Titus 2. Chapter 2, verse 4 and 5. I can hear that wonderful sound
of the pages turning. anytime i'm speaking in a conference
and i hear those bible pages turning i know i'm with some
serious people but of course now many people have uh... handheld
devices so i hear that less and less but i use a handheld device
so i certainly can't complain okay titus 2, 4 and 5 okay titus
2, 4 and 5 then they can train the younger women to love their
husbands and children to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home,
to be kind and to be supportive to their husbands, so that no
one will malign the word of God. Now, does it say, so that they
may encourage the young wives? Is the word wife there? Yes,
sir. Now, let's take a look at that.
Read verse four again, please. Does it say wife? Women, yes. That Greek word is
Dios. It means just young woman. And
so in our discipleship program with these high school and college
women and these single women, We have to ask ourselves, are
we preparing them to be good wives, or are we preparing them
to be independent from their husbands? And I ask the same
thing when I'm talking about training men for the ministry.
Do we introduce them to the concept that when they get married, they
are not going to be functioning single-minded, but their interests
are going to be divided. Are we preparing them for the
future, or do we disciple and train them with the presupposition
that they are going to be single all their lives? That's a good
question, isn't it? Okay, Belungum, would you read
Ephesians 5.22, please? Oh, by the way, your wife is
an excellent reader. Well done. Now, if the young women in Titus
2, 4 and 5 have been instructed in this area, then they'll be
able to do this when they get married. It will be an expectation,
won't it? They will have been prepared
for this. Now, just so your wife will know that I'm not picking
on her, I'm gonna pick on you now, Belongin. Read verse 25
and 26. Husbands, love your wives just
as Christ loves the church, and gave himself up for her, to make
her holy, blessing her by washing with water through the word.
Okay, now you are to love your wife as Christ loved the church. Your interests are going to be
divided. And it would be good for us when
we're, like when I was raising my son, and I was seeking to
disciple him, when he was in high school and college, I would
remind him, That if he desired someday to be a husband, that
his interests were going to be divided and he need to prepare
himself for that responsible role. It just won't come naturally. So just as it's important to
make sure we are preparing the single women for their role as
wives, it's important for us to prepare the single men. for
their role as husbands. Bishan, we'll go back to you
again. Would you read 1 Peter 3, 1 and 2, please? 1 Peter 3,
1 and 2. Likewise, wives, be subject
to your own husband, so that even if some do not obey the
word, they may be won without word by the conduct of their
wives. when they see your respectful
and pure conduct. OK. That's when they see your
respectful and pure conduct. Yeah. Oh, you also have an excellent
reading voice, Bishan. Well done. Oh, yeah. Very clear. So a wife, we should be preparing
our wives for this. That she ministers to her husband
by her conduct. See, do you see how we connect
that? Notice what we have here. That she may please her husband.
How does she please him? By respectful behavior. Now let's
look at the husband. Malangan, you read 1 Peter 3.7,
please. Okay, 3.7. Husbands, in the same
way, be considerate with as you live with your wives, and treat
them with respect as weaker partners, and as heirs with you of the
gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
And a husband who is not gentle and loving and does not make
his wife a priority can forget about his prayer life. Because
she belongs to God, doesn't she? She is what does it say here?
A fellow heir of the grace of God. Your wife belonged to God
before you even knew her by her creation. He knitted her and
formed her in her mother's womb. And then he purchased her with
his blood. And now he has entrusted her
to you for a few short years. And when you die, she will go
back to God. And when she dies, she will go
back to God. And God says, we as men are to
view ourselves as stewards of this wonderful gift that God
has given us a wife. And if we are not good stewards,
if we are not faithful, if we don't live with understanding
with her, if we do not watch over her and care for her, then
God says we can forget our prayer life. We want to talk to God
about our health, about our job, about our ministry, about our
future, but God only wants to talk to us about one thing. Why
are you mistreating my daughter? Bishan, we'll go back to you
in Ephesians 6, 1-4 please. Thank you, John. Ephesians 6, 1-4. Children, obey your parents in
the law, for this is right. Honor your father and mother.
This is the first commandment with a promise, that it may go
well with you, and that you may live long in the land. And when we are, gentlemen, when
we are meditating upon the word of God, if we are fathers, we
cannot just think of ourselves independently. There are some responsibilities
in life that cannot be delegated to other people. And the discipline
and instruction of our children is one of those. Children who do not obey are living in a wrong relationship
with God. And that becomes our responsibility
then in discipline and instruction to ensure that they do grow up
as obedient children in a right relationship with God. So do you see how important it
is for us to think if we are married, if we have children,
to think like married men with children. That's important for
us to do that. It seems simplistic, but we live
in an age when most pastors preach from the pulpit, when most books
on discipleship are written, when most exhortation to Lordship
are made, as if everybody who was listening was a single person
making these decisions as single people. But if you are married,
you cannot make the decision as a single person. And if you
have children, you cannot make the decision as if you were a
single person. When meditating on the Word of
God, one question the husband should ask himself is, how does
this passage affect the role of the husband and his marriage? You should not meditate upon
God's Word as if you were a single man. You do not have to choose between
your wife, your children, and the ministry. Your wife and children
are not your only ministry, but they are a crucial aspect of
your ministry. People would say to me, how do
you balance family and ministry? I don't know what you're talking
about. That's like saying, how do you
balance leading a Bible study with leading a Bible study? How
do you balance discipleship and evangelism? How do you balance adoration
with thanksgiving? No, you don't balance them. They
are all parts of the pie, aren't they? Your scripture, memory, and meditation
passages should include marriage and family. And I hope that they
do. So let's go back to Joshua 1.8.
Okay. But Logan, I'll ask you to read
Joshua 1.8, please. Do not let this book of the law
depart from your mouth. Meditate on it day and night,
so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. When we think of Joshua 1.8, how would this passage affect
your role as a husband, Bishan and Balandin? This book of the
law shall not depart out of your mouth, but you shall meditate
upon it day and night. But now you're thinking of that
not as a single man, but as a husband and a father. What would be the
application of Joshua 1.8 to a husband? Well, one of the things
I would say is that I would want to be meditating and memorizing
verses on my role as a husband so I can be a successful husband. What about How does it affect
my role as a father? Well, I will want to be meditating
upon it and not allowing it to depart out of my mouth and obeying
it so that I could be a good example to my children, that
they could see what a Christian gentleman looks like. Well, our
knee-jerk reaction, and it is the same for me, is when I read
Joshua 1.8 to think of that passage as if I was a single man. But
I'm not, am I? We could do the same thing for
our wives. How would this passage affect
the role of the wife in her marriage? And then it would be important
for us to include this in our meditation time. You should help
your wife not meditate upon the word of God as if she was a single
woman. If you have children in the home,
this is your wife's primary ministry. And you know, poor Israel was
made to make bricks without straw, weren't they? And men who marry
a woman and then expect her to minister as if she's a single
woman and minister as if she's a married woman in the home.
They're asking her to make bricks without straw. Don't do that,
guys. Do not let a pastor, a bishop,
a staff leader exercise authority of your wife. Your wife is not
your roommate in the ministry. How can your wife put you and
your family first if you ask her to put the ministry first
under the authority of someone else? So don't do that. If someone came to my wife and
said, you know, I was spending some time in listening prayer
and I have a word from God for you. You're spending too much
time ministering to your husband. I'd say, hey, I have a word of
God for you. That is Genesis 2.18, God created
Eleanor to be my helpmate, and you stay out of it. In my lifetime, the approach
to God's word has been adrift. I can remember when I became
a Christian in 1968 and through the early 70s when you would
meditate upon the Word of God and you would ask a question,
what is God saying in this passage? What is God the Holy Spirit saying?
It's God's Word. What's He saying? Then as time
moved on into the 80s, people began to ask, what is God saying
to me in the passage? You know, this is unique to me.
And then into the 90s, what do I feel God is saying in the passage? And finally, here's what God
is saying to me from my thoughts and impressions, apart from the
word of God. That has happened over a 50 year
period. So I really call upon men and
women to return to the meditation upon God's word. And not to make
spiritual pronouncements or decisions apart from the holy, eternal,
inerrant word of God. May God add his blessing to his
holy word. In Christ's name we pray, Amen.
The Dangers of Listening Prayer - 03
Series Listening Prayer
Listening Prayer has become a common practice. Using the discipleship wheel as a tool, this series looks at what prayer looks like in a marriage & family setting.
| Sermon ID | 89232285978 |
| Duration | 57:37 |
| Date | |
| Category | Teaching |
| Bible Text | Joshua 1:8 |
| Language | English |
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