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That we considered this morning,
as I mentioned, what was more surprising than the tragic news
of Robin Williams' death was the way in which he died. Suicide? Robin Williams? the man who seemed to have as
much joy in every interview as he had when he was playing even
the funniest of roles on the screen. As this author wrote,
I was a bit surprised and yet this is the cold hard reality. The man who seemed on the outside
to most of the masses to embody a life of laughter and affluence
was dealing with a depression that would not let loose of him
on the inside. How could a funny man be so unhappy? How could someone so wealthy
and so funny end up so depressed that he takes his own life? And then from the Ann Voskamp,
cancer can be deadly and so can depression. Depression is like
a room engulfed in flames that you can't breathe for the sooty
smoke smothering you limp. We considered this morning the
prevalence of suicide in our society, in the Bible, in church
history, the wrongness of suicide. It is self-murder against God. Self-murder is against human
nature and against society. The causes, those closer, those
more proximate causes, and then the ultimate cause of suicide
is man's sin. And then our closing biblical
response, suicide is not the end, it does not guarantee damnation,
nor does it guarantee bliss, and those considering suicide
need a savior. As we come into our study this
evening, let me just mention a number of passages that we
looked at this morning regarding King Saul. We saw that one of
the key things standing out in that 1 Chronicles 10 passage
was that in suicide, King Saul was a bad example and was quickly
followed into it by his armor bearer. We saw that Ahithophel
was not one who was clinically depressed, but he made a self-conscious
choice that it would be rather better to die at home than exposed
in King David's court of law. We saw something of Job's wife
to Job, curse God and die. We see in that, with those overwhelming
circumstances, that it is not that circumstances coerce and
pick an individual up and throw them out of this life. There
is choice that is involved in it. But then we saw that bright
spot of the Philippian jailer, who is one who was at the door
of suicide and of a Christless eternity, and was able to rise
above that at Paul's urging, and then move quickly to, sirs,
what must I do to be saved? So they said, believe on the
Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved, you and your household. And we considered how vastly
different the outcome was for the Philippian jailer. If he
had committed suicide, if he had succeeded at falling on his
sword, he had never gone back home again. And he would have
never gone back home again with the gospel that would have led
to his family hearing the truth, and believing the truth, and
then being baptized into the truth, and then having this feast
of joy together. Well, as we take up our study
once again this evening, we want to consider first of all, as
you see it on your handout sheet, unworthy motives. Unworthy motives
for self-murder. And this morning, we were looking
at a number of the proximate causes. There are aspects that
may fit under the causes under this heading this evening. I'm
taking up more of some of these causes as given by Samuel Miller
in his guilt, folly, and sources of suicide written back in 1805. Why? Why suicide? Let us go yonder to the victim
of impatience and despair, who wanders silent, sad, and alone,
considering the termination of his sorrows by the pistol or
the poisonous draught. Let us approach and inquire why
he is disgusted with life this evening. We want to look at these
closer causes, these causes that lie on the surface, recognizing
that the ultimate cause, the root cause, is that of the human
heart in its sin. Consider with me then with Samuel
Miller. Severe embarrassment from circumstances. Severe embarrassment from circumstances. You have been robbed of your
property by fraud or by disastrous occurrences. You have been brought
from the height of affluence to the most abject poverty. You
cannot dig to beg. You are ashamed and therefore
you resolve to leave this life. But when we would find ourselves
in circumstances like this, We need to think of the example
of our Savior of the world, who, when he walked upon the earth,
did not have a place to lay his head, and see that our Savior,
even by example, made poverty and sufferings honorable. Secondly
B, despairing disgrace from criminal acts. He has perhaps been betrayed
into infamous crimes or led less criminally into circumstances
which he fears have destroyed his reputation. And he cannot
think of surviving his reputation. Here is the woman that is brought
low. He knows that he is exposed as
a fraud. Suicide is not going to help
your reputation. Suicide is only going to irreversibly
seal your reputation as one who has given in and was one who
has murdered himself. Thirdly, C, apparently incurable
disease. Once again, Miller. He prefers
death to a life of torture and therefore determines not to wait
for his dismissal from suffering. To such a one, I would say, no
man can certainly tell whether a disease which he thinks incurable
may not afterwards be found to admit of some remedy, or at least
of some alleviation. Dark and dismal as your prospect
now is, you may, like Job, be again restored to health and
enjoyment. or if not perfectly restored,
your burden may be rendered light and tolerable. But supposing
that your case is hopeless, and that your whole life is destined
to be a scene of suffering, then which is most becoming in a rational
being, and especially in a Christian, to bear the suffering with firmness,
or to fly from it by illicit and cowardly means? What is it
that raises to such an elevation the character of the martyrs
and other primitive sufferers for the gospel? What is it in
their conduct which men of all habits and modes of thinking
admire, and which sometimes even exhorts a trembling homage from
the blaspheming infidel? It is that divine strength which
deliberately chose to suffer the most excruciating tortures
rather than to escape from them by the sacrifice of principle
or by yielding to forbidden demands. I do not volunteer for a life
of suffering. I would not propose that anyone
here should have to suffer for the glory of God. But if God
ordains that we glorify Him by enduring a long stretch of suffering,
then we must say, Amen. May God be glorified even in
my suffering. Fourthly, D. Anticipated shameful
or torturous death Here is not only where there is a criminal
exposure, but the prospect of a dishonorable death by the hand
of public justice. This seems to be what is motivating
Ahithophel. He doesn't want to be brought
up on charges of treason against King David. or of a still more
dreadful execution by the lingering torments of savage foes. This sounds like King Saul, doesn't
it? The archers have hit him and
his life is lingering and he knows that the Philistines are
coming and so he commands that he should be killed but instead
he falls on his own sword. No man can be absolutely certain
that the death which he considers as inevitable will be realized. Divine providence has frequently
interfered in a most extraordinary manner for the deliverance of
those from whom all prospect of relief from human sources
was cut off. Now, fifthly E, despondency. Despondency from disappointed
love while this passion is allowed to be most important, and when
properly regulated, most laudable, yet let us not imagine, like
those who borrow their principles of morality from the stage or
from the novels, we have to include a couple of other technologies
in our day, that love is the main business of life and the
attainment of its wishes, all that is worth living for. There
are considerations which should be regarded as paramount to everything
of this kind. There may be, and there doubtless
is in this respect, an idolatry as criminal as it is unworthy
of the rational character. We need, when our hearts are
broken, to take a little bit of time to see if God won't bring
some measure of healing, if God won't give us another direction
for our love, for our romantic interest to flow. But even in
a situation where our hearts, where our hopes have been dashed
and our hearts are broken, we need to know that God is still
on His throne and we must honor Him. As parents, we need to beware
of the dark lyrics that romanticize death. The lyrics that say, don't
fear the reaper. The lyrics that tell us that
Romeo and Juliet did something wonderfully romantic by committing
their suicide. No, they didn't. They committed
something that was wonderfully foolish and horribly wrong. And if they were real individuals,
would have plunged them into a Christless eternity. F. Emptiness from a worldly party
life. And here Miller once again, perhaps
one young in years but old in wasteful living, has run the
round of what he calls pleasures, and having found little happiness
in this course, supposing that life can afford nothing better,
he resolves to escape from a scene in which he finds no objects
that can any longer interest or gratify himself. He's been living for pleasure.
But once he starts drinking the same drinks of pleasure over
and over again, there is an inability to satisfy in the way that he
used to get drunk on these pleasures. But how degraded is that mind
that can find no interesting employment, no gratifying pursuit,
in a world such as this? Where are those elevated pleasures
which arise from the cultivation of our minds, from the acquisition
of knowledge, from walking with chosen companions in the delightful
fields of literature and science? It's like a blind mortal is like
the pig that roots around the scraps of carnal sensuality and
feels its emptiness. He misses the greater part of
life. Altogether misses the beauty
of the sunset that God has sent. G. The supposed boldness and
independence of self-murder. Once again, Miller. Finally,
a vain worshipper of human applause, supposes suicide to be a distinction
of bold and elevated minds, and therefore becomes his own murderer
to get a name, to evince that he has firmness and courage enough
to commit the crime. Socrates had his hemlock, and
I have my arson. But we need to look at that critically. Even from the eyes of a distinguished
atheistic father, when the dead body of his son who had destroyed
his own life was found, this atheistic father exclaimed, poor
insane coward. And the father was never heard
to mention the unhappy event again. No. Suicide is not a bark
of boldness and of independence. But now, secondly, this evening,
the environments. The environments favorable to
self-murder. And you'll see some of the blanks
are filled in. I'm simply going to mention several
of these, so don't be alarmed by looking at all of those sub-points. The environments. contexts out
of which Mr. Miller would not be surprised
to find self-murder arising. First of all, A, faulty religious
principles. If we live in an atheistic context,
then we ought not to be surprised if there is suicide that flows
out of that. Thus, when a man believes that
there is no moral governor of the universe, no judge to whom
he is accountable for his actions, no heaven to be sought, no hell
to be avoided, will he not, of course, feel himself at liberty
to dispose of his own life at pleasure? And if he is at any
time weary of existence and finds the affections which bind him
to his family and friends more than counterbalanced by the pressure
of suffering, What is there to prevent his taking refuge in
the grave? There can be a corrupt religion
that is religion only in name, but a religion that is going
to deny that God exists as He does, that He does not see, that
He does not hear, that He does not understand. But false religion
may give us the freedom to commit suicide, but it also is going
to be altogether devoid of any comfort in that kind of context. Another environment, B, an early
and excessive indulgence in pleasure. If someone starts with Solomon
in their youth and tests with mirth and with pleasure and says
that all I want to live for is happiness and for the party and
I'm going to have the continual buzz either of the marijuana
or the wine, then we ought not be surprised if there's going
to be a vanity of vanities that flows out of that kind of life
of pleasure. those who ride their horses in
the morning and have their deck of cards in the afternoon, and
that is all that their life affords, there will be an emptiness where
we would not be surprised to hear them say, My soul is weary
of life. Thirdly, an environment of drug
or alcohol abuse. We considered something of that
this morning, particularly with all of the medications that are
available in our day. But even back in the 1800s, there
was a danger of drug and alcohol abuse. There was an awareness
that wine is a mocker and that strong drink is a brawler. and
whoever is led astray by it is not wise. Solomon is very graphic
as he pictures the man who is impacted by his drunkenness and
is oblivious to the world that is around him. Hosea 4 and verse
11 speaks of harlotry and wine and new wine enslave the heart. But listen to Miller. But I speak
of those instances in which habits of intoxication have so perverted
and disordered the mind, so clouded every prospect, so tortured the
animal feelings, or so plunged their miserable subjects into
sadness and despair as to tempt them to take refuge from the
burden of suffering in a voluntary death. Instances of this kind
are by no means rare. Rare, did I say? It is probable
that a large portion of the suicides which occur are directly or remotely
connected with this species of intemperance. The course by which
habits of intoxication conduct men to this catastrophe is direct
and natural, while these habits debilitate the intellect and
pervert the moral faculties. They inflame the passions and
add new strength to every corrupt propensity. While they weaken
the power of self-command, they give a force to the appetites
and a turbulence to the feelings which require a more than ordinary
share of self-government. You see what he is saying. that
if someone gives themselves to intoxication once, and then again,
and then again, and then again, that there is going to be this
accumulative effect that comes from it where they're simply
worn down by it and are willing to step out of this world, most
likely at a time when their judgment is significantly impaired by
the bottle. Now, fourthly, D, gambling. God's
way is for us to not have a slack hand, but know that the hand
of the diligent makes rich. God's way is that the hand of
the diligent will rule, but the lazy man will be put to forced
labor. God's way is the lazy man does
not roast what he took in hunting, but diligence is man's precious
possession. But gambling comes in and says,
instead of a life of ongoing and careful diligence, instead
of a life of hard work every day, I'm going to show up at
the gaming table and I'm going to make my whole life savings
in one day, in one week. And what happens? Well, man's
way of getting rich quick with gambling is one that Miller says
dazzles, but to deceive. It flatters, but to trample under
feet. It allures, but to destroy. It
tends to undermine every virtuous principle, to harden the heart
and convert him who once abhorred duplicity and fraud into a determined
villain. The gambler is agitated by a
thousand contending passions. At the cast of the die or the
turning up of a car, he is ultimately the sport of hope and fear and
joy and grief and confidence and despair. He is held in suspense
more painful than racks and torches till it is decided whether his
wishes succeed. And when he finds that they succeed
not, which is generally the case, he retires mortified. reproaching
himself, out of humor with mankind, filled with malignant passions,
or perhaps weary of life and furious and desperate. I thought it might be interesting
to consider something of the casino suicide rates. I found
that approximately one in five pathological gamblers attempts
suicide. The suicide rate among pathological
gamblers is higher than for any other addictive disorder. That is saying something. A survey
of nearly 400 gamblers anonymous revealed that two-thirds had
contemplated suicide, 47% had a definite plan to kill themselves,
and 77% stated that they had wanted to die. Then I came along one study that
said, no, we found that the suicide rates are no greater in communities
that have a casino than in the whole general population. And
I went to that one a little bit cautiously as it was sponsored
by the gambling industry. In Chicago, a young couple committed
suicide together after the wife racked up a $200,000 gambling
debt. A 76-year-old man hung himself after losing $134,000 at the casino. A 38-year-old policeman shot
himself after losing $3,500 at Blackjack. There are environments that will contribute to the taking
of our own lives. E, I'm simply going to name these,
illegitimate romance, habitual idleness, arrogant ambition,
hypocrisy. All of these are those environments
out of which we may be more inclined to take our lives. So as we come
this evening to Roman numeral 3, let us hear these appeals
against self-murder. Here's a word, here's an appeal
to parents. See how this subject demands
your careful attention. There's a whole realm here that
can suck our children in to get them to believe that the reaper is nothing to worry about. That
Romeo and Juliet have found something wonderful in the romantic pursuit
of suicide. Miller says, you are the guardians
of their health and lives. You form their morals. You direct
their pursuits. You are the depositories of their
happiness in this world and at a degree in that which is to
come. With what unceasing care then
should you imbue their minds with correct principles? With
what sacred fidelity should you put them on their guard against
the licentious opinions of the age, against the contagion of
evil company, and against the destructive habits of intemperance
and sloth? with what devout tenderness should
you exhort them, warn them, pray over them, and endeavor to win
them, both by precept and example, to the love and fear as well
as to the knowledge of God. May God grant that as we interact
with our children, as we start interacting with them while they're
still on the changing table, that God will grant us a bridge
of communication over which we are comfortable to walk back
and forth and interact with them on everything under the sun. That we would be able to instruct
our children that at the end of the day they need to conclude
where Solomon concludes the book of Ecclesiastes. You want to
avoid a life of breath of breath, where your whole life is insignificant? Then hear the conclusion of the
whole matter. Fear God and keep His commandments. For this is man's all. Why? For God will bring every work
into judgment, including every secret thing, whether good or
evil. God says that after life is over,
God is going to bring every work into judgment. And that imparts
significance to what we do here and now. For you parents whose
hearts drop in disappointment even with the mentioning of your
children, may God grant that you would know the last chapter
is not written. May God grant that you would
be able to pray and labor on in hope, that God would grant
that you would recognize, though you are to have a powerful influence
over this son or daughter, that nonetheless that son or daughter
is his or her own moral agent, and you cannot decide for them
that they follow God. You cannot convert them. You
can only decide for God yourself. But then secondly, by way of
appeals to young friends. Young friends, get a realistic
view of life. Try to forget the maxim that
you can be whatever you want to be Try to forget that you
are the master of your own destiny. Now, if someone says that to
you, if a teacher, if an instructor pushes that philosophy on you,
if they merely mean by that, that you need to be a hard worker,
and anything worth accomplishing is not simply going to fall into
your lap, but that you need to work diligently to accomplish
something, then yes, a thousand times yes, we agree. For the
Bible promotes strong work and a determined effort to accomplish
our desires under the blessing of God. But if they mean as they
normally do, that you can be whatever you want to be departed
or with God locked out of the picture, then it's altogether
wrong. Just don't dream that you can
do whatever you want to do because you have a mind set to it and
you're going to work hard. You don't control your physical
and emotional health. And that's going to have a little
bit to say about whether or not you can be whatever you want
to be. You don't control the weather. And if you're dreaming
of being a rich farmer in California and drought sets in, why don't you go out there and
tell those farmers, you can be whatever you want to be. You
can do whatever you want to do. You don't control the stability
of the nations and of international trade. But you and I may know
the God who does. We live in a sin-cursed world,
a life of difficulty and disappointment, and you need to steel yourself
for reality. If you come bouncing along, thinking,
I'm going to be whatever I want to be, and you hit disappointment
and you hit difficulty, then it can send you down in a hurry. Miller once again. This consideration
of suicide should affect and alarm you and awaken all your
vigilance in guarding against every source of danger. The river of life flows troubled
and foaming before you, but inexperienced and optimistic, you cast an eye
down the current, overlook its agitations and fondly hope for
passage that will be uninterrupted, smooth and joyful. Disappointments
will occur. Vexations will arise. Bereavements
will cover you with mourning, and various forms of affliction
will teach you that this world is, to every child of apostate
Adam, a veil of tears. And that's why Paul speaks to
Titus, exhort the young men to be sober-minded. You, in a special way, need to
put on the whole armor of God that you may be able to stand
against the wiles of the devil. For we can't forget that we do
not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities,
against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age,
against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. You need more than a boundless
optimism that you can do whatever you want to do, that you can
be whatever you want to be. When disaster strikes, you're
going to need an anchor. You're going to need to have
this confidence that God is on His throne. You're going to need
something of true religion. of seeking first the kingdom
of God and His righteousness, with the awareness that all these
things will be added to you after you seek first the kingdom of
God. And then finally, see, for those
who may be in deep troubles, we all go through seasons of
trial. And some of us are going to have
concentrated doses of pain prescribed by God for us. How will we respond? With Job, will you be able to
say, though he slay me, yet I will trust him? When the props are
knocked out from under you, and you are faced with daily and
weighty disappointment, how will you go on? Friends may not understand
you and abandon you. Things may lose their glitter.
Proud teachers may counsel you to put an end to it all. Yeah, your life is miserable.
If my life were as miserable as yours, I would end it for
sure. But bear in mind that those atheistic
teachers will not be available to do anything to help you once
you jump from the burning inferno of your own life into the burning
inferno of everlasting punishment. How different it is to find refuge
in the gospel of Jesus Christ, where We have the prospect of
going to heaven and God will wipe away every tear from their
eyes. There shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain,
for the former things have passed away. Don't you want to be there? Don't you want to be there in
heaven, to be in this place where all of the curse is taken? Don't you at least want to be
there to see what it's like to be in a realm where there is
nothing of the curse and nothing of sin and nothing of disappointment? And how will you get there? By
faith. Therefore, having been justified
by faith. having been declared righteous
by simply looking away from ourselves to the Lord Jesus Christ, we
have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. To anyone
who struggles, to anyone who gets depressed, to anyone who
gets down, being right with God, having peace with God, will be
a tremendous ballast in your ship. Remember that John Gifford. He was graciously moved from
being the gambling, drunken man at the door of suicide who mocked
the Christians there in Bedford into becoming Holy Mr. Gifford, the evangelist who had
directed John Bunyan to the cross. Remember that Philippian jailer
who, due to the grace of God, heard the apostle Paul crying
out to him, and therefore he did not fall on his sword, but
instead he was able to go home to his wife and to his children. And he was able to bring the
gospel with him into that home. And he ended up rejoicing, having
believed in God with all his household. What a radical change! From suicide to rejoicing that
his whole family is going to the place where there is no curse. Now to him, who is able to keep
you from stumbling and to present you faultless before the presence
of His glory with exceeding joy, to God our Savior, who alone
is wise, be glory and majesty and dominion and power both now
and forevermore. Let's pray. Father, we have been stunned
by the initial news on Monday evening of Robin Williams' passing
from this world. We have seen and witnessed and
been involved in a number of discussions regarding him. And
with our minds turned to this very sad topic, we have come
this morning and again this evening to ask if there was anything
in our sufficient scriptures that would direct us on how to
think. And we're very grateful, O God,
that even this sad topic is covered in your Scriptures. We see something
of a prevalence of suicide, not only in our society around us,
but even in the pages of Scripture. And we find those directions
that we can very plainly establish the wrongness of suicide. And then we come this evening
and we consider more of the causes and the motives, something more
of the environments. And we would bless you, Lord,
that in your kindness we have exposure to the Bible, we have
exposure to a biblical Christianity, a biblical Christianity that
is going to hold before us the solemn reality of a holy God,
who has come up with a place of eternal destruction for those
who ignore him. But we find that in our biblical
Christianity that we are confronted not only with that sobering reality
of hell, but we are confronted with the most encouraging reality
of justification by faith. of the hope that is ours in the
gospel through your son, the Lord Jesus Christ. And our Father,
we would pray that you would be pleased to take this walk
through the reality of suicide and this walk through the scriptures
to direct our minds. And we would pray for those who
are of younger years, that you would help them to weather the
storm of youth with all of the raging of their hormones, with
the potential experimentation in drugs and in alcohol. We pray, our God, that you would
sustain our children, that you would preserve them, even in
their foolishness. And we would ask that you would
bring all of us to the place where we trust in your Son, And
we are thereby granted peace with you, the God of heaven,
and our candidates for that heaven to come where there is no more
sorrow, no more death, no more curse. Grant it through the powerful
working of your spirit, applying that great work of your Son,
the Lord Jesus Christ. We ask it in his name. Amen.
A Biblical Response To Suicide - Part 2
Series A Biblical Response To Suicide
A Biblical consideration in the wake of Robin Williams suicide this past week. (Part 2)
| Sermon ID | 8171418385010 |
| Duration | 44:22 |
| Date | |
| Category | Current Events |
| Bible Text | 1 Chronicles 10:1-7; Acts 16:25-34 |
| Language | English |
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