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And looking to 2 Timothy 3, I
want us to take notice of the pastoral reminders, statements,
and charges the Apostle Paul gives to Timothy as it relates
to shepherding Christ's sheep among the local church in a world
that lives in rebellion toward God. 2 Timothy 3, beginning in
verse 1. This snow also, that in the last
days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their
own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient
to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection. truce
breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that
are good, traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than
lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying the
power thereof from such turn away. And then verse 10. But
thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith,
longsuffering, charity, patience, persecutions, afflictions, which
came unto me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra, what persecutions
I endured, but out of them all the Lord delivered me. Yea, and
all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. But evil men and seducers shall
wax worse and worse, deceiving and being deceived. But continue
thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured
of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them, and that from a
child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to
make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ
Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration
of God and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction,
for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be perfect,
thoroughly furnished unto all good works. Chapter four. I charge thee therefore before
God and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and
the dead at his appearing and his kingdom. Preach the word. Be instant, in season, out of
season. Reprove, rebuke, exhort with
all long-suffering in doctrine. For the time will come when they
will not endure sound doctrine, but after their own lust shall
heap to themselves teachers having itching ears. And they shall
turn away their ears from the truth and shall be turned unto
fables. but watch thou in all things,
endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof
of thy ministry. If we could condense all that
Paul is saying to Timothy in three simple statements, I believe
we can safely conclude that Paul wants Timothy to accept the fact
that people will become more inwardly stubborn and more outwardly
sinful in their attitudes and actions as the weeks and months
and years pass. This is the first ministerial
truth being highlighted by Paul to Timothy. The first truth is
a reminder that the world that Timothy is going to minister
in is going to become increasingly ungodly. The general word Paul
uses is the word they in verse three of chapter four. They,
says Paul, those under the sound of your voice, those who have
been among the congregation and those who visit the congregation
from time to time, will not be able to endure sound doctrine,
sound teaching, because sound biblical teaching will not justify
them becoming conformed to the image of this world. So the pastoral
word of Paul to Timothy is the need not to become surprised
at the increasing ungodliness of the world and the strong influence
this world will have on those inside of the church. The second
ministerial truth being highlighted in this pastoral letter sent
to Timothy is the pressing need for Timothy to be faithful in
confronting the ungodliness of people inside and outside of
the church by preaching the whole counsel of God's word at all
times. This is the commanding call of
2 Timothy chapter four, verses one and two. The commanding call
of Paul is for Timothy to hold up the mirror of God's word so
that others might assess themselves by God's standards rather than
their own standards. The commanding call is for Timothy
to preach Not to preach his own opinion, not to preach entertaining
stories, not to preach political policies. His command given by
God through Paul is to preach the word. And you will notice
that Paul explains that the Word is properly preached when Timothy
takes the truth of God's Word and reproves, rebukes, and exhorts. The Word is properly preached
when the preacher, through the Word, exposes sin and preaches
with conviction. The Word is properly preached
when the preacher, through the Word, admonishes those under
the sound of his voice to deny ungodliness and worldly lusts
so that we, God's people, might live soberly, righteously, and
godly in this present world. The word is properly preached
when the preacher preaches in a spirit of urgency, urging those
in the church to live entirely for the Lord in the midst of
a crooked and perverse generation. This is the second ministerial
truth. Paul is seeking to etch on the
heart of young Timothy. The first truth is the reality
that the ungodly world is going to do all they can to pull Christians
away from Christ toward its unholy practices. And the second truth
is the reality that Timothy must do all that he can to hold fast
to the faithful word of God while encouraging God's people to avoid
becoming like the world. So in my mind, I see it as a
kind of tug-of-war match. The world on the one side has
the rope and is striving to pull Christian towards its side. God's people are on the other
side of the rope holding on, but sometimes their hands get
tired. Sometimes they're tempted to
give in and give up. So the pastor at the other end
of the rope with God's people has to keep encouraging God's
people to dig their feet deeper into the dirt, to dig their feet
deeper into God's Word, and do all that they can to stay away
from the world side. That's what Paul is telling Timothy.
Timothy, we're in a war. The temptations of the world
are real. People battle with it day in
and day out, hold fast to the word and keep Christians fighting
against the world. And then the third ministerial
truth being highlighted in this pastoral letter to Timothy is
the unavoidable reality that when Timothy does what God wants
him to do, in faithfully preaching the truths of God's word among
an ungodly culture, he is going to be hated for it. Paul says in this letter, I'm
sorry to break it to you this way, little brother, but all
that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. As you continue to preach the
whole counsel of God with conviction and authority to a people who
love themselves and the things of this world more than God,
you are going to be hated. You are going to be rejected.
You are going to be viewed as someone who is radical. You are going to be branded as
judgmental. You are going to be labeled as
mean-spirited. Timothy, listen. Others are going
to come in your church, they're going to hear your pointed preaching,
and they will get offended at your message, and they will turn
away from it, never to return. How's that for a church growth
strategy? Why don't we find that in pastoral
books on the New York bestselling times list? Or even on Christianbook.com
for that sake. Paul says, Timothy, listen, if
you preach the Bible faithfully, as Jesus did, as God commands
you to do, most people are going to turn away from your church
and they are going to find a preacher who doesn't confront sin and
preach principles of holiness. I'm sorry to break it to you,
little Tim. That's in the Greek. But there are going to be instances
in which people you dearly love among the flock, leave the flock
that you're shepherding because in that tug-of-war match, their
ears will begin to develop a tingling sensation which will lead them
to seek soft, non-confrontational talks that the motivating life
coach is giving at the religious institution down the street.
Paul says, Timothy, if you do ministry right, there are going
to be occurrences in which people will seek out a religious spokesperson
who will tell them what they want to hear. Namely, think happy
thoughts, stay positive, and refrain from talking about sin. Others are going to find a so-called
pastor and preacher who will praise them, humor them, and
entertain them through nice stories. They will convince them that
God never judges anyone and God is satisfied when Christians
live however they want. The time is coming, Timothy.
when you will look like a failure for doing what is right, while
the mega pastors with the mega churches and the mega ministries
will seem to be successful because they preach safe sermons, educational
sermons, historical sermons, academic sermons, continuous
calming sermons, funny sermons, rather than reproving, rebuking,
and exhorting. But so be it, Timothy. You have
been called of God to preach the truth even when few want
to hear it. You have been called to encourage
God's people to be transformed in their mind rather than conformed
to the world. You have been called to endure
hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ so that the congregation
you are shepherding might learn something of what it means to
suffer for Christ in an ungodly world. These are the pastoral
reminders and charges of 2 Timothy chapter 3 and chapter 4. Here
they are again spoken from the perspective of Paul. Timothy,
those to whom you minister to, are going to grow increasingly
more ungodly. This world is going to grow in
ungodliness and sadly, it's going to affect the professing church. Timothy, as people grow increasingly
more ungodly, you must take the hammer of God's word and you
must chip away at the hard, stubborn, selfish, rebellious hearts and
wills of men. And Timothy, as you do so, people
are not going to like it. People are going to hate you
and persecute you because you, of all people, have the audacity
to tell them that there are areas of their life that they need
to examine, repent of, and reform to the standard of God's Word.
They will hate you, but no, Timothy, it's not you that they hate.
It's God that they hate, and it's God that they are kicking
against. What we read in 2 Timothy chapter
three and four is pastoral class 101, such as the life and ministry
of a true and faithful preacher of the word. Now I don't say
this to make you feel sorry for me or any other pastor, but I
do say this so that you will recognize something of the spiritual
battle that preachers are in. Every time a faithful pastor
opens the Word and expounds the Word and seeks for God's people
to know the Word as it is, he is engaging in a battle. He's
engaging in a battle against the world, the flesh, and the
devil. He's engaging in a battle against
the sinful, stubborn wills of men, women, boys, and girls.
You need to understand. that deep down in the heart of
a true pastor, he really does want to be liked by others. You
need to understand that as the faithful pastor prays and studies
and prepares to preach his sermon, that he is not purposely trying
to make his sermon offensive for the sake of being offensive. But if he is to be true, to God
and His God-calling given by the Spirit. He must, in the preparation
of the sermon, prayerfully think about how to preach the word
to others through the biblical means of reproving, rebuking,
and exhorting. He must think about the ways
Christians are becoming conformed to the image of this ungodly
world, and the preacher must call things out in hopes that
God's people will grow in personal and collective sanctification. That truly is the heart of every
faithful pastor that I know, of those even who step on toes
hard. It's not their intention to break
your toe, but just to cause a little pain to wake you up. So here
we are in the continuation of our examination of the broad
subject of biblical discernment while we specifically investigate
what the Bible says about the topping of clothing. And I know,
I know that some have taken personal offense to the truths that I
have been emphasizing. I am aware of the fact that there
are some outside of the church and inside the church who think
that the pastor is a little extreme for meddling in people's so-called
personal business. And I can sense the curiosity
as to why I would waste my time preaching a series of messages
on the need for Christian people to examine their clothing choices
by the principles of God's word. So that being so, I thought it
might be appropriate, helpful, and I hope spiritually profitable
for the pastor to answer a few questions others in the congregation
have regarding the topic of clothing, while at the same time having
the congregation answer a few questions the pastor has in regards
to the topic of clothing. So in the time that we have together
tonight, I want to answer your questions and your concerns about
what I have said thus far in this preaching series on clothing. And then I want to conclude by
having you provide answers to questions and concerns that I
have about the topic of clothing. All right, so in everything I
do, I want to be fair and I want to be balanced. I hope you have
seen that that is my heart over the last eight years. In everything
I do, fair and balanced and biblical. I don't want to brush off anyone's
serious concerns. I want us to be Berean believers. Don't take what I say as truth
simply because I say it. These were more noble than those
in Thessalonica in that they searched the word with all readiness
of mind to see if what the preacher was saying is so. I want us to
hold each other accountable to the truths of God's word so that
all of us will strive to live a life that is well-pleasing
to God. So with that said, I begin with
the first question. that has been pitched toward
the pastor this week, which is the common sensible why question. Why? Pastor, why are you preaching
about the topic of clothing? Let me give you three simple
answers. Answer number one, because the
Bible speaks about it. Because the Bible speaks about
it. And if the Bible speaks about it, I am called to preach about
it. Remember the pastoral charge
to Timothy? Since all scripture has been
given by inspiration of God and is profitable, then all scripture
is to be preached by those who have been called to pastor and
preach. Why am I speaking about the need
for our clothing choices to be gender-specific, modest, appropriate,
presentable, clean, decent, humble, and unassuming? Because that's
how God expects the clothing choices of His children to be.
As I've showed you already, the Bible gives principles and guidelines
for clothing in Genesis 3, in Deuteronomy 22, 5, in Proverbs
31, 1 Peter 3, and 2 Timothy chapter 2. Lest you think that I'm preaching
my opinion or some fictitious old-fashioned tradition invented
by men, I challenge you, I challenge you to read the biblical text
and to see for yourselves that I'm giving you truth that has
been inspired and preserved for us by God Himself. And I'm of
the opinion that if God has something to say about clothing in His
Word, then it is worthy enough for a pastor to preach on it,
despite whether others want to hear it or not. So this is sub-point
answer number one. Why am I preaching a series of
sermons on the topic of clothing? Answer, because God's word speaks
about it, not once, not twice, not three times, but a handful
of times. All right, sub-point answer number
two, why? Why do I occasionally get worked
up in preaching about the topic of clothing? Answer, because
I'm convinced that many professing Christians are becoming increasingly
conformed to the image of this world through the clothes that
they wear. I'm persuaded that over the years,
Christians and Christian churches have developed a let's worship
God however we want mindset. And it has led to Christian people
in the world looking like the world through their standards
of dress, and it has led to Christian people in the church wearing
and accepting clothing that is tighter, lower, shorter, and
more revealing. Listen, if you will consider
what used to be normal to what has become normal today, both
outside and inside of the church over the past 70 years, you cannot
deny that with every decade that passes, the clothing choices
of men and women are becoming more sensual, more casual, more
sloppy, and less gender-specific. Think about it, from the 60s
to the 70s, from the 70s to the 80s, from the 80s to the 90s,
from the 90s to the 2000s, from Y2K to 2024, the trend has been
less and less and less. Some of your grandmas would be
shocked at what they see today. Your great grandmas would be
shocked I told my wife that I'm fearful if we continue in this
trend, that in 20 years, most people living in the United States
will look like some Indian tribes and go around wearing nothing. Listen, I challenge you to think
about this. The farther and farther our nation strays from the truths
of God's word, the more and more immodest and careless we become
in our clothing choices. Take up the challenge, prove
me wrong. This is my pastoral concern. And to be clear, my
pastoral concern is not so much for the lost world, but for the
Christian world to be an influence to the lost world. I'm concerned
for our personal and collective testimonies For Christ, I'm concerned
that our saltiness is losing its savor. I'm concerned that
there really is not much difference between so-called Christianity
today and the world. My pastoral concern is that in
our becoming more and more like the world, we are blurring the
lines of Christian distinction, which only ruins our testimony
for Christ. I'm concerned, I'm deeply concerned
that Christians have become desensitized to sin. I'm concerned that sin
is no longer exceeding sinful. I'm concerned that the things
we used to blush over, we don't blush over anymore. I'm troubled
that the local church which is called the pillar and the ground
of the truth, the local church, which is called the house of
worship, the house of prayer, can sometimes be a place where
Christians can be stumbling blocks to other Christians by what they
wear. I'm preaching this series of
messages because I'm burdened. by the troubling thought that
over the last several decades, the world has influenced Christians
towards its sinful lifestyles by its spiritual carelessness
more than Christians influencing the world for Christ by its separation
and holy lifestyle. That's sub-point reason number
two as to why I'm preaching a series on clothing. I'm convinced that
many professing Christians have become and are becoming more
conformed to the image of this world through the clothes that
they wear. And then connected with sub-point
answer number two is sub-point answer number three. I'm preaching
this series of messages because over the years, most pastors
and preachers exhort God's people ambiguously And in that, they
thoughtlessly assume that those who hear their voice will properly
apply such ambiguous truths to their life. Why am I preaching
this series on clothing? Because I'm persuaded that pastors
and preachers over the years have wrongly assumed that merely
quoting a verse from Scripture without giving specific application
is satisfactory Exhortation. Let me explain. Far too long,
pastors and preachers have stood behind a pulpit and have exhorted
God's people to be holy. Is that in the Bible? First Peter
chapter one, be ye holy. Pastors say children of God need
to be holy, and they do. Pastors and preachers say from
the pulpit, it's needful for God's people to guard their testimonies
for Christ, to come out from the world and be separate, to
live soberly, righteously, and godly in the world. Pastors over
the years have passionately said from the pulpit Sunday by Sunday,
do not love the world. Do not be conformed to the image
of the world. Avoid being a stumbling block
to others. And do you know what happens?
Do you know what happens? Here's what happens. God's people sit in the church
and they shake their heads and they say, amen, pastor, that's
right. And they think that all is good.
because the sermons rarely mention specifics. And by specific, I
mean pastors rarely teach people the specific ways in which we
can grow to be more like Christ and less like the world. You
see, ambiguous statements. I'm saying that pastors are scared
to teach others how to apply Bible truths to their life. So
the pastor says, don't be like the world. And the one who dresses
like Britney Spears and Taylor Swift thinks, well, I'm not like
the world because I don't cuss, I don't smoke cigarettes, and
I go to church. The pastor says, come out from
among them and be ye separate, says the Lord. And the one who
posts pictures of themselves in a bikini on their social media
account says, I've come out of the world because I don't practice
witchcraft anymore. Ah, you see, it's a cherry picking
Christianity. Well, I am holy and I am not
worldly because I don't do this and I do this. You see, a pastor
can say, live for God, don't be an offense to the gospel,
grow in holiness. He can say that abstractly while
failing to challenge others to think about the specific ways
they can be a brighter light for Christ through their attitudes
and actions. So what am I doing? I'm coming
along in this series and I'm saying, Houston, we have a problem. We Christians have become like
the world in our clothing choices. We Christians have become like
the world through the influence of feministic ideologies. We Christians have become like
the world through our treating animals like humans. We Christians
have become like the world through the entertainments we allow in
our lives. And we Christians have become
like the world through the way we worship God in church. I know, we want the pastor to
talk about everybody else who's not here. I know, we want to
point our fingers towards those evil politicians and blame them
for society's problems. But I'm taking the finger of
God's word and pointing it at us, those who claim to know the
truth. And I'm saying that we are the
primary reason why our nation is the way it is. Not just in
dress. but through every aspect of life. Why am I preaching a series of
sermons on discernment and dress? Because Christians have developed
a careless attitude about living for God. The first question that
is pitched toward the pastor is the why question. The second
question that is pitched toward the pastor is the don't you realize
question. It goes something like this.
Pastor, don't you realize that God is more concerned about someone's
heart than someone's clothing? The answer is yes. I do recognize
this, and I've given an answer to it in my first sermon. But
for sake of clarity, with the desire to present truth in a
biblical, balanced way, I will emphasize it again. Listen carefully. What someone puts on their body
does not conclusively make them spiritual, holy, or godly. Did you hear what I said? What
someone puts on their body, namely clothing, does not conclusively
make them spiritual, holy, or godly. A woman can wear the most
modest dress that covers their body from the top of their neck
down to their toes and be an unholy, wicked, sinful, rebellious
woman in her heart. A man can walk into this church
building with a beautiful silk three-piece suit with shiny dress
shoes, a presidential tie, and a new haircut and be more unholy
than the drug addict on 5th and Crocker downtown LA. Are you
listening? What you and I wear on the outside
does not make us acceptable to God. What you and I wear doesn't
change the nature of our hearts. The Pharisees went around parading
themselves in fine clothing and Jesus rebuked them strongly because
their hearts were not right in the sight of God. Because salvation
and even sanctification is not about cleaning up the outward
man. Salvation and sanctification
is about God cleansing, washing, and transforming the inner man. Salvation and sanctification
is not about what we do. Salvation and sanctification
is about who we are in Christ before God. We considered this
truth this morning, didn't we? The Pharisee was outwardly religious,
outwardly righteous, but he was inwardly lost. The publican who
cried out for God's mercy because he knew his heart was deceitful
and desperately wicked was justified in the sight of God because his
faith was resting on the propitious work of Jesus Christ. So let
me say it again loud and clear. God is more concerned about people's
hearts than people's clothing. The prophet Joel told the people
of Judah to rend their hearts and not their garments and return
to the Lord. But there is a nevertheless.
Nevertheless, this being true, nevertheless, The Bible does
tell us that what is in our heart will show itself through our
attitudes and actions. Out of the abundance of the heart,
the mouth speaks. Proverbs 27, 19, as in water,
face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects man. And for those who still deride
me preaching on a series on clothing, I would have you know With my
wife and the longstanding church members of this church as my
witness, I have never, ever preached specific standards of clothing
from this pulpit. I have never given specific criteria
of do's and don'ts. I have never turned away anyone
yet from entering into the doors of this church for not wearing
some required uniform. I have never said that wearing
a tie to church is a forgotten fruit of the spirit. I have never
publicly condemned anyone for wearing or not wearing a particular
type of clothing. In fact, the truth is, I despise
such preaching. In my 21 years as a Christian,
I have sat under preaching that places certain standards on Christians
that cannot be supported by the truths of God's word. I have
sensed, I have seen the legalistic, pharisaical spirit that comes
from such preaching, and I abhor it. If specifics cannot be backed
up by the Bible, I'm not going to hold others to such standards. But at the same time, I have
and I will take the truths of the Bible and I will preach principles
against the sloppy, casual, I don't care, God doesn't care attitude
that is poisoning our churches. So on the one hand, Your tire
does not make you spiritual. Sorry to burst your bubble. But
on the other hand, it can and does reveal something of where
your heart is with God. Sorry to burst your bubble too.
Be careful of the extreme pendulum swings to the left, to the right. It goes both ways. You are not
more holy for dressing up. And the one side says amen, but
you are not more holy for dressing down either. Ah, everyone's guilty. Dressing like your grandparents
doesn't make you more holy. But dressing like a grungy gangster
doesn't make you holy either. God wants your heart yielded
to him. And if it is yielded to him,
it will be seen in your attitudes and actions by those around us. Again, I'm not listing specifics,
I'm just listing a principle. It will be seen if your heart
is yielded to God. In some way, the humility of
your heart, the response to living for Christ will be seen and known. All right, now let me give you
third common question and concern that has been pitched toward
the pastor over the last several weeks. Pastor, it seems that
you are primarily attacking the clothing choices of women and
not men. Why are you speaking about how
females wear clothing more than how males wear clothing? Now let me just say, such a question
is a sincere, valid question that deserves an honest answer. And if truth be told, I have
been addressing the clothing choices of women more than men.
And my honest, straightforward answer to this third question
is, I'm addressing the dress of women more than men only because
God, through his word, addresses the attire of women more than
men. Such a truth cannot be denied
if you will honestly examine the scriptures. Through the Proverbs,
specifically Proverbs 31, the virtuous woman. Among the third chapter of Peter's
first epistle addressing the woman who's married to an unsaved
man. Second chapter of Paul's first
letter to Timothy speaking to the modest apparel of women in
church. You will find specific statements
being made that are primarily connected on how women ought
to dress rather than how men ought to dress. I'm sorry that
bothers you, but that's just Bible. If you have an issue with
something in the Bible, your issue is not with me, but with
the one who wrote it. I'm just the messenger, I didn't
write it. The Bible does not speak about the attire of a harlot
man, but the attire of a harlot woman. Jesus did not say, whosoever
looks at a man to lust commits adultery in her heart. The Bible says, whosoever looks
at a woman to lust commits adultery in his heart. Now, this is not
to say that women cannot and do not lust after men with their
looks, but this is to say that God knows something about the
particular temptation that men struggle with more than women.
Are you with me? God knows something. He is God. He is all-knowing. He knows something
about how men and women are wired. And let me add here also that
in my years of pastoring, I've never heard of, I haven't seen
a woman being tempted to sin through the clothing choice of
a man at church. No, wait, no, it could be that
I'm completely ignorant of such things going on, and if so, I
would like to ask all of the women of our church to approach
me privately if there is ever an occasion in which a man wears
something to church that causes you to stumble. Please, please,
I'm giving you permission now. If a man wears something to church
and it's causing you to stumble and we need to take care of it,
please come to me. I will be happy to take care
of it. But listen women, let's be honest for a moment. You and
I both know that the greater problem in this world and in
the church is not with men's dress but with the women's dress.
It just is. Men are visual people to state
things discreetly because there are children in this room. And
I'm wondering, I'm wondering, I'm wondering. Why some women
want to get upset with me about women covering their body parts
when I'm only trying to help their husbands and their sons. Do you want your husbands and
your sons to be pure or not? I could spend an entire sermon
on this one question alone, but I need to refrain. My answer
to why it seems that I am focused on the women more than the men
is simply because The Bible addresses the clothing of women more than
men. And come on, women. More times
than not, you like to go clothes shopping more than men. Yeah? I don't know about you, but I
despise it. I would rather hit my head against
the wall than go to the mall. You can ask my wife. Drives me
crazy. But women, on the other hand,
love it. They value clothing and are tempted to be more sensual
in their clothing. And they need to be more careful
with how they present themselves toward the male gender. So that
being said, God has given discerning principles to help guide women
in their clothing choices more than men. Do you think God might
know something about where we would be in 2024? Way back then. And it's helping us now? Maybe,
maybe. Maybe he is God. Now if it will
help some women to feel better about things, I can direct a
few statements at the men. Would that help? Men? Let me tell you what our problem
is. Our problem is not wearing things that reveal. Our problem
is not so much with being immodest. I think our problem is just being
too casual, looking too scrubby. I mean, we have the tendency
as men to just grab whatever and go with it, yeah? We go to
the laundry basket, and if it doesn't smell, hey, that's good
enough, yeah, okay, we're good. All right, I'll get after the men
if you want me to. Women? Wearing tight, short shorts
is not the most appropriate thing to wear in church and even among
others in the world. Used to be cool, maybe back in
the day, yeah, maybe not. Men, don't sag or bag your pants. When you bend over, it can be
very, very, very inappropriate and embarrassing for you and
others. Men, unbuttoning the top button
so that you show off your chest hair may not be the most suitable
thing to do in church. This is not an Elvis concert,
this is a place of worship. We are not worshiping an earthly
king, we are worshiping a heavenly king. Men, if you have to use
Vaseline to put on your skinny jeans, then you and I need to
go shopping together. I will endure it and I will pay
for the jeans. And that's saying a lot. Men, listen, you are called to
lead your home, to lead your wife, to lead your children. Listen, you set the tone. So
show your boys what it looks like to dress nicely. Show the
young men of our church what it looks like to dress for the
occasion. We are at church, not the beach.
We are worshiping God, not playing volleyball. Single men, single
men who want a nice godly woman to marry, you will be respected
more by a godly single lady if you take care of yourself and
dress nicely. That's just the way it is. So take the pastoral challenge.
Have I attacked the men enough? Enough to be balanced at least.
Some say no. The men say yes. If I have, I'll
move on to my second half of the sermon, which I need to preach
very quickly because of time. Having provided to you answers
to your questions and your concern regarding my series on clothing,
now I have a few questions I want you to answer in regards to my
preaching. Are you ready? Question number
one. For those who charge me with being too judgmental for
preaching on principles and clothing, can you not be charged with being
too judgmental in your opinion toward me? Those who want to get mad at
me and cry, judge not that you be not judged, can you not be
properly charged with wrongly judging my motives? See, it goes
both ways. People come in this place crying,
Pharisees, legalism, judgmentalism. That Calvary Baptist Church is
legalistic. The pastor wears a suit and a
tie, and in so doing, he thinks he's better than everyone else.
That Calvary Baptist Church is so judgmental, not one female
among the church wears spaghetti straps. They're Pharisaical,
they're holy rollers. Wait a second. What did you just
say? What are such people doing? They
are condemning people they don't even know. And they are doing
so with no Bible verses other than misquoting, judge not that
you be not judged. See, we've been programmed to
think that that judgment only goes one way. Not so. So to those who would accuse
me of wrongly judging others, my question for you is, have
you made wrong judgments of those who desire to be modest? Have
you made judgments toward me, toward others, toward our church? Question number two. Are you
not bothered by the lowering of dress standards in our culture? And I'm just talking broadly
now. Are you not bothered by the lowering of dress standards
in the culture? I mean, we now have United States
senators who are pushing the normalization of wearing shorts
and a hoodie at the US Capitol in Washington, DC. Is that the
direction you wanna see our culture go? What would you think if you went
to your doctor's office and the doctor came in the room looking
like a gangster rapper with a Snoop Dogg t-shirt smoking
a joint? Would you trust him with your
heart surgery? Oh, you judge her? What would you think about
someone representing you in the courtroom looking like a hick? Come on now, would it not lower
the tone of seriousness? I mean, think about our president.
What if our president went around wearing sweatpants and a football
jersey? You think people might take him
seriously? And yet, you know what's normal in high schools
now? I see it when I go on Onaga towards the high school. Half
the kids are wearing pajama pants. And I think, what? They just,
what, rolled out of bed and just went to school? And then, what,
go back to home and roll back in bed? What? What? When did this come normal? Like
I said, if we keep going in one direction with no pushbacks,
in 20 years, anything and everything will be acceptable. Listen to
me. You think it's shocking what we see on TV shows and movies
now? I mean, it's almost nothing. In 20 years, it may be nothing.
We just accepted it, accepted it, accepted it. That's how you
boil the frog. It's just slow, slow, slow, slow before you know
it. I'm sorry, that's not the world
I want my children to grow up in. I'll push back as much as
I can. It's not what I want. Question
number three, are you not bothered? Now let's get specific, let's
bring it home. Are you not bothered by the casualness of worshipers
among the worship of God in the church? Again, it's not so much
the clothing, but the attitude, the spirit, making it into a
Starbucks, rock and roll concerts. Are you not bothered that many
times Christians will dress up more for a funeral or wedding
than for a church? I don't get that. They'll dress
up for a dead guy who's not there, but they won't dress up for a
living savior who died and rose again, right? Are you not troubled that Christians
will dress sloppier for church than they will a job interview?
Oh, you'll dress up for a job interview. You'll smell good,
you'll look good, and ooh, it's important. What, but less than? Are you not bothered that we
have pastors and preachers looking like they're going to the skate
park with holes in their skinny jeans while they talk to others
about the holiness of God? That's inconsistent. Go back
and listen to my sermon on Fun Church. We now have pastors dressing
up, or should I say dressing down, like Super Mario Brothers. What's wrong with us? I'm not
suggesting that men wear a tuxedo to church. I'm not suggesting
that women need to wear fancy, expensive silk dresses. But I
am suggesting that it seems strange to me that courtroom dress standards
are higher than most churches claim in their worship of God.
Are we not worshiping the eternal judge or not? You know, in the
courtroom, there's no bubble gum chewing or popping. In the
courtroom, there's no clipping of the fingernails. We come to
church, I won't do it. Every church has fingernail clippers.
What? I'm concerned that worshipers
among Christ's church look no different than people at a sporting
event or a dance club. Come on church, I'm asking you
to think about this. If pastors don't help Christians think about
these things, who will, who will? If the church does not encourage
Christians to think about standards of holiness and separation, who
will? Who will? And then tied in with
this is my fourth and final question. How else do you want me to preach? How else do you want me to preach
to you and others? I'm often tempted to preach a
sarcastic sermon on how some would like me to preach. It would
go something like this. You are all good people. Really
nice, kind-hearted, loving people. We all struggle. Nobody is perfect. God doesn't care how you live. God doesn't judge. So it's okay
to listen to what you want to listen to. It's okay to watch
what you want to watch. It's okay to date whoever you
want to date. It's okay to marry whoever you
want to marry. It's okay to say whatever you
want to say. God's Word is more like an entertaining
abstract story, not really a moral guideline for life. And then
next week, I come back and say, you all did such a fantastic
job. Good job. Keep it up. Everyone
gets a gold star. You are perfect. Our church is
perfect. Keep thinking nice, happy thoughts. Stay positive. And here's a nice
story about how Jesus helped feed people who were hungry. Thank you, Brother George. Amen. Let's think back to our opening
text. Paul told Timothy to do what? Three words, preach, proclaim,
herald the word. Preach the word. How does he
do that? What does it look like? Everybody says they preach the
word. All the Christian churches around Yucca Valley say they
preach the word. What does that look like? Boil it down, get
specific. Reprove, rebuke, exhort with
all longsuffering and doctrine. Have you read the Bible you claim
to believe? The prophets called out profaneness
in the temple. Jesus went into the temple, the
place of worship, and flipped over tables, charging people
to get out because of the casual, irreverent worship taking place.
The apostles called out the misuses of Christian liberty. The apostles
urged others to guard their testimonies by putting others first. You want me to just keep my mouth
shut? Christians are becoming worldly
and they are struggling with sexual lust. Listen, church,
more and more men are struggling with sexual lust more than ever
before, more than ever before. It was bad in Corinth, but it
is accessible to us more so. At least in Corinth, you could
go home and hide from it, right? But now we have it, boom, in
our face. More and more men and women are
addicted to pornography. More and more young people are
losing their virginity at a young age. More and more marriages
and families are being absolutely destroyed by pornography and
adulterous relationships. Sexual images are being pushed
in our faces everywhere we turn, again, How else do you expect
me to preach? Seriously, think about it. This
goes back to our interdiction, back to Paul's warning to Timothy.
The world is becoming increasingly more ungodly, so what's the answer,
what's the solution? For pastors to just sit back
and watch it all fly by? For Christians just to give in
to the culture's influence? No, the answer is for pastors
and Christians to push back. to live distinctively different
from the world, and to preach the truths of God even if the
world doesn't want to hear. How else do you want a pastor
to preach? My time is up. I've answered
some of your questions and concerns, and now it's time for you to
answer some of my questions and concerns.
Discernment in Dress: Questions and Concerns
Series Clothing
| Sermon ID | 72924168597913 |
| Duration | 58:01 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | 2 Timothy 3:1-4:5; 2 Timothy 4:1-2 |
| Language | English |
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