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Honoring marriage through Christian
modesty, that's what we're going to talk about today. Before we
proceed any further in the book of Hebrews, we're going to talk
about the issue of Christian modesty and how it is a critical
part of honoring marriage. Let's stand together and hear
God's word. Hebrews chapter 12 verse 28 through
chapter 13 verse 19, and again our text of focus is verse 4. Listen carefully please, this
is God's holy and infallible word. Therefore since we are
receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace
by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear.
For our God is a consuming fire, Let brotherly love continue.
Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some have unwittingly
entertained angels. Remember the prisoners as if
chained with them, those who are mistreated, since you yourselves
are in the body also. Marriage is honorable among all,
and the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Let your conduct be without covetousness. Be content with such things as
you have. For he himself has said, I will
never leave you nor forsake you. So we may boldly say, the Lord
is my helper. I will not fear. What can man
do to me? Remember those who rule over
you, who have spoken the word of God to you, whose faith follow,
considering the outcome of their conduct. Jesus Christ is the
same yesterday, today, and forever. Do not be carried about with
various and strange doctrines, for it is good that the heart
be established by grace, not with foods which have not profited
those who have been occupied with them. We have an altar from
which those who serve the tabernacle have no right to eat. For the
bodies of those animals whose blood is brought into the sanctuary
by the high priest for sin are burned outside the camp. Therefore,
Jesus also that he might sanctify the people with his own blood
suffered outside the gate. Therefore, let us go forth to
him outside the camp bearing his reproach. For here we have
no continuing city, but we seek the one to come. Therefore, by
Him, let us continually offer the sacrifice of praise to God,
that is, the fruit of our lips, giving thanks to His name. But
do not forget to do good and to share with such sacrifices.
God is well pleased. Obey those who rule over you
and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls as those who
must give account. Let them do so with joy and not
with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you. Pray for
us, for we are confident that we have a good conscience in
all things desiring to live honorably. But I especially urge you to
do this, that I may be restored to you the sooner. Thus ends
the reading of God's Word. Amen. Amen. You may be seated. So here we are again, the author
of Hebrews, teaching the Hebrew Christians in the first century,
sometime in the mid-60s AD, teaching them how to carry out brotherly
love in their midst. And the topic is marriage. And
the proclamation is that marriage is honorable among all and the
bed undefiled. That is the reality that God
has defined for Christian marriage and marital intimacy. But marriage
and its undefiled bed has enemies. There are enemies that seek to
attack the institution of marriage and the purity of the marriage
bed. The text calls these fornicators and adulterers. And we must remember
in our fallen flesh, that's a good way to describe each one of us,
isn't it? Apart from Christ, we are all fornicators and adulterers. None of us will respect God's
laws for how to satisfy our desires. None of us will submit to the
institutions and the commandments that God has given to us. we
will rebel apart from Jesus Christ. So the enemy exists within us
as well. And my thesis, one of my main
points in today's sermon that I hope to prove to you is that
immodesty is a stealth weapon used by the enemies of marriage
to help decrease how we can proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ through
our clothing And you need to understand that immodesty is
much more alluring than total nakedness. And so the devil uses
immodesty. The forces of darkness use immodesty. The enemies of God and of marriage
use immodesty as an entryway into fornication and adultery.
And you know, just like in most ethical situations in life, a
friend of mine says, you know, the devil doesn't show up dressed
in a red suit with horns and a tail and a pitchfork and say,
hey, I'm the devil, follow me. That's not how it works, y'all.
The devil is tricky. He comes as the angel of light. And so the path from marriage,
honor, and an undefiled bed to dishonored marriage, fornication,
and adultery is a slippery slope. It is a path that the forces
of darkness want to slowly walk you down. And I believe that
one of the landmarks, one of the milestones down that path
will be immodesty. I do not believe, in fact, that
it's likely at all that you're to go from honoring marriage
and the marriage bed undefiled to being a fornicator and an
adulterer without passing through the world of immodesty. It's
possible, but I think it is unlikely, especially in today's world.
Because the enemies of truth, they're sly as they seek to dishonor
marriage and defile its intimacy. And they'll twist the glorious
concept of Christian liberty and scoff at all those who present
the law of God in regard to Christian modesty. So the path towards
dishonor and defilement, it must seem reasonable at first. And a modest dress and culture
in today's world serves as a powerful way to slowly draw people away
from honoring marriage and its intimacy. Can you see that? We've all been exposed to this
immodesty. You cannot even go to the grocery
store in today's world. Usually, you will be exposed
to immodesty. You will see partial nakedness.
And in fact, you will often see partial nakedness that used to
be illegal in our culture. they would arrest you for exposing
those parts of your body. Because our culture has its roots
in the Word of God and in Christian modesty. So we need to see that
this path has been laid out before us in today's culture. And it
will seem reasonable. And you'll be accused of being
legalistic if you embrace God's commandments regarding modesty. Remember Psalm 1? Here's the
path defined for us. And it can be that, look, this
path will apply to any ethical question that you can consider.
Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly,
nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful.
And this is not only a path that you may walk down individually,
but it's a path that the devil takes cultures down, generations
at a time. I commend to you the work by
Jeff Pollard. I think it's called Christian Modesty and the Undressing
of America. And in that book, he chronicles
from their own words how the swimsuit industry was designed
to change the ethics of America, to undress America. And it happened
over generations. It happened from the early 1900s
through until the final blow was struck with the bikini industry
in the 1960s. And so you can see this. You can study this. It's all
there. And Psalm 1 gives us how to understand this process. What
is the counsel of the ungodly? Well, in this context, it's the
advice or the examples regarding our clothing choices, and it's
advice and examples that are not built upon the Word of God.
And I was astounded, frankly, the first time that I studied
God's word about modesty and what it's all about, what the
underlying principles are of Christian modesty. I was astounded
realizing how much of my thinking had been shaped by counsel and
examples from our culture. Not only about what modesty is,
but even in regards to what is legalism and what is antinomianism.
What comes next? What comes next is the step in
the process called the path of sinners. So you've received and
acted upon the advice and the examples of those who are teaching
and demonstrating immodesty. So the first step was walking
in the counsel of the ungodly. So you're seeing the examples. You're taking them in in a way
that is unexamined. You're listening to the teaching
of individuals who teach falsely about immodesty. And the next
step is to take this into your own heart and mind. not only
the actions, but the justifications for the actions. Misuse of the
doctrine of Christian liberty is the most often seen argument
within the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ against God's standard
for modesty. I was astounded similarly in
this regard. The first time I studied God's word about modesty, realizing
how much of my wardrobe, of our family's wardrobe, had been shaped
by counsel and examples from our culture. This was a costly
study. Buying new clothes is expensive. God cares for us. He knows, does
he not? As we were promised, seek first
the kingdom of God and all these things will be added to you.
And what was one of those things? Clothing. Next. And this is where it gets
really bad. Sits in the seat of the scornful.
This is becoming one who gives out the counsel of immodesty
and abuses the doctrine of Christian liberty to scoff against the
law of God in regard to Christian modesty. This is one who mocks
the advice and the counsel of the Word of God. And again, I
was shocked as I first studied this, realizing that I was not
only listening to unbiblical advice and acting immodestly,
but also I was parroting the advice of immodesty, and ultimately
I was scoffing at God's design for modest clothing. So I identified
this process in my own life the first time I studied this, and
I had to repent. I just had to repent and say, OK, Lord, I did
not know this was what Your Word taught. I submit to Your Word. I'm so glad to know this from
Your Word, Lord. Show us the way. So, Christian
modesty, as described to us in God's Word, serves as a culture-building
expression of the Gospel. Let that sink in. It is a culture-building
expression of the Gospel that honors marriage and the undefiled
marriage bed. Whenever an individual embraces
Christian modesty, they are battling on behalf of Christian marriage
and the undiviled marriage bed, and they are proclaiming the
gospel of Jesus Christ through their clothing. Because Christian
marriage is the only acceptable place for our nakedness to be
exposed. It is a foray into heaven. So when nakedness is exposed
in public, whether it's partial nakedness or full nakedness,
the institution of marriage is mocked, the law of God is mocked,
and the temptations towards defilement will abound. And as a result of studying the
scriptures more closely on this question, you know, the clerks
want you to know that we have changed our family modesty standards
some over the last few years. And we continue to submit our
family standards to God's word, not claiming that we've arrived,
but seeking to walk within the parameters set out for us in
his word. I'm really thankful for the scholarly biblical efforts
of Pastor Jeff Pollard and Pastor Phil Kaiser. They've been of
much help to me in this study that I'll share with you today.
Pastor Kaiser has shared with me some unpublished information,
and Jeff Pollard's book has been published, Christian Modesty
and the Undressing of America. And there are also various scholarly
commentaries that I've studied on this topic in reaching the
main conclusions that I'll share with you today. A few more points before I get
to the meat of the teaching. Legalism versus antinomianism. It's a really important part
of thinking through our clothing. What is legalism? What is it?
It is adding to what God's word commands. When we do this, we
are creating traditions of men that unjustly bind our consciences
and unnecessarily limit the freedom that God has given to us in our
clothing choices. 1 Corinthians 3 verse 4 speaks
of it as going beyond what is written. So may God spare me
from ever doing this as I teach and as I preach to you, dear
Foothills Christian Assembly. And on the other hand, there's
antinomianism, which is rejecting any of what God's word commands.
When we do this, we forsake God's protections. We forsake opportunities
to proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ. Did you know that when
you obey God's law, you proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ? God
in His infinite wisdom has made His law to be an expression of
the gospel of Jesus Christ. And when you obey Him, you are
revealing Jesus Christ. Because it all comes down to
expressing Christ the way that God tells us to. And so when
we reject God's word, we not only fall outside of his protection
and experience the hazardous life of rebellion and the danger
from being unprotected, but we miss out on the opportunities
to proclaim the glory in the gospel of Jesus Christ through
specific obedience that he has given to us. Now, putting this
together, usually, in my observation, most unbiblical approaches to
clothing will usually include some legalism and some antinomianism
and whatever blend of unbiblical teaching you may get from that
particular corner of Christianity. We don't want to do that. This
blend will usually be some sort of rejecting parts of scriptures,
and then adding our own standards. So it'll be like this potpourri,
this hodgepodge of principles that come together. Maybe some
of them are from scripture, and then there's things that are
rejected from scripture, and then we add our own thing, and
it's just kind of this little monstrous thing that we create. It's like
this deformed set of principles that come together. If God's
Word is, if you will, a perfect work of art on any topic, say
modesty, then what we've done is we've taken our scissors and
we've just clipped out the parts of the painting we don't like,
and a lot of times we end up replacing it with things that
are just really strange when you look at the whole story.
That's what I mean by monstrous. Whereas when we receive God's
commandments, we receive His principles, it's beautiful. It
adds up. The pieces of the puzzle fit
together. Next, and this gets into the meat of the conversation
and the debate, is are these principles cultural or are they
timeless? Certainly there are cultural
expressions of clothing, but friends and family, people of
God, what I'm going to present to you today, I claim, that the
principles, the foundational principles I'm going to present
to you today are timeless. They are divine mandates that
are global and that are for every generation, for every person
that's ever walked this earth, for every church, for every family,
for every institution, for every place that you will ever go.
These principles will guide you in understanding modesty. So
I hope that we'll agree after today's teaching that Christian
modesty principles are timeless. They transcend culture, having
their origin in God's word, not in man's culture. And yet granting
that when a specific culture embraces these principles, it
will have a unique cultural expression in that place. We're not going
to all wear the exact same clothing. And of course, there are other
purposes for clothing besides modesty. The Bible says for glory
and for beauty. And so when we choose our clothing,
we're not only choosing it in terms of principles of modesty,
we're also choosing it in terms of function and beauty and glory. And isn't that awesome? Like,
who here doesn't just think, hey, I want to be a fashion designer
now. Well, wait until I get to the end, because that's another
part of the problem in terms of Wow. That's another part of the problem
in our world today is there are very few Christian fashion designers
who are putting all of these principles to work in the clothing
that they design. So there's an opportunity for
you. There's an opportunity for you to be that person who makes
these clothing designs after the way God designs clothing.
Because did you know that God was the first fashion designer?
He did it in the garden. He did it in the temple. So that's,
we're gonna look to that. We're gonna look to that as our
pattern for what is modesty. Now, another thing you need to
understand is a lot of times when this topic comes up, everybody
starts thinking about the ladies, right? Well, I got some word
for you, men. These principles are for men and women, okay? Nakedness is defined as the same
in God's word for men and women. Did you know that, men? Did you
know that, men? We've been tricked into thinking
that nakedness as parts of our body varies from men to women.
It does not. So we will see that nakedness
is defined the same for men and for women. Next, while we will
see that women, let me say it this way. And yet we must admit
that women are particularly tempted towards immodesty. We can gather
that from Paul's focus in 1 Timothy upon the women, giving the women
instructions about modesty. But we can't say that therefore
men are not included in the principles of modesty. Adam and Eve both
sensed shame and were both covered by God with the same type of
garment. The Bible also mentions many
different styles of clothing as acceptable in terms of beauty
and glory and the occasion and the function, but we need to
see that while there's great variation in the clothing types
and choices, all of them are bounded by these principles of
Christian modesty. In other words, there's no place
or clothing type where immodesty is acceptable as foundation principle
for that clothing. No place. No sporting event. Just let your mind... Everything out in the world that
you might go do in public is still bounded by these principles
of Christian modesty. Next, another thing to remember
about clothing as we're going through this, which is associated
with modesty, because it's a form of calling attention to yourself,
a major form, is that God always requires a distinction between
men's clothing and women's clothing. Deuteronomy 22.5, A woman shall
not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put
on a woman's garment. For all who do so are an abomination
to the Lord your God. And there will be varying cultural
expressions of that. But there will be clothing that
is for women. And there will be clothing that
is for men in a godly Christian culture. There will be an intentional
approach to fashion in public where women, their femininity
is declared by the clothing. And the men, their masculinity
is declared by their clothing. And attempts to blur those lines,
attempts to blur those lines are forbidden. Next. Another really important point
here, and you've already probably thought this. Come on, Dr. Clark,
say it. We're waiting for you to say it. Modesty is both an
internal and an external Christian value. So a lot of what we're
going to talk about today is the law of God in regards to
external requirements of Christian modesty, but all of this you
must see as a fruit of love for Christ. Pastor Kaiser says it
this way. It is possible for a person to be well clothed,
but immodest in attitude. We see this in Isaiah chapter
3 verse 16. It is possible for a person to
be covered from head to toe and to still be seductive. We see
this in Genesis 38 and in Proverbs 7. Though we tend to focus on
the outward, the inward attitude of modesty and a chaste spirit
is reflected in our attitude, our carriage, and our demeanor.
And scripture seems to indicate that if this inward attitude
is in place, the outward will take care of itself. 1 Peter
chapter 3, 1 Timothy 2. So my recommendation, this is
Pastor Kaiser still speaking, as you discuss this with your
families is to encourage both the men and the young women to
focus on how inward principles of grace should manifest themselves
outwardly. Rather than getting out a ruler
to measure the hemline, it might be good to discuss what a young
daughter wants other men to think of her and what a young man is
proving with his clothing. How can we protect the opposite
sex from stumbling, even if we have liberty and even if we think
they are weak? How can Christian principles
be expressed in our outward attire? Though freedoms cannot be taken
away without legalism, many times we can willingly give up freedoms
out of love for the brethren. That's a really important point
as we're seeking Christian wisdom in our clothing choices, is that
we can willingly give up our freedoms for one another out
of Christian love for each other. 1 Timothy 2 verse 9 talks to
us about the internal virtues of modesty. What the King James
Version calls shamefacedness and sobriety, these internal
qualities. Shamefacedness is also interpreted
as propriety. And of course this is directed
at the ladies, but this is also men. You're called to shamefacedness
and sobriety in your clothing choices as well. And this is
a sense of shame. A sense of honor, modesty, bashfulness,
reverence, regard for others, respect for others. That's shamefacedness. So there's this awareness of
our own fallen state that our personal physical nakedness as
defined by God is a representation to the world of our fallen state
apart from Christ. Shamefacedness understands this
and submits to this reality. And there's this regard for others
so that we're aware that our own sin has the potential to
excite the sin of others. We're aware of this. We acknowledge
this. And we're aware that our own
sin has the potential to distract others from the worship of God.
Even if it does not tempt them to sin, even if the other person
isn't tempted to sin, they may notice your nakedness and worry
for you and be distracted from whatever they're doing at the
time, whether it be the worship of God or anything else. So choosing
our clothing wisely is an expression of our inner awareness of our
own sin and its potential to negatively impact others and
an expression of our humility wherein we admit to all that
we need to have our sin covered. It's a theological statement.
Our clothing choices are theological statements. Whether you're attempting
to make a theological statement or not, you are making a theological
statement with your clothing choices. The next word we see
is sobriety, which is a soundness of mind. It's a self-control
in our thoughts, which is the opposite of intoxication, where
our minds do not consider decisions with wisdom. It is a careful
and well-studied decision-making process So we choose our clothing
wisely in an expression of our inner awareness that our personal
freedoms are not the only factor that should influence our decision
making. We consider others, we consider
the situation, we consider the occasion, the function, we consider
God's definition of nakedness, and we make a wise plan that
includes all the factors involved in each situation. And Christian
modesty is a critical set of principles for making our clothing
choices. And sober-mindedness makes sure
that we consider not only Christian modesty, but all of the other
Christian principles of wisdom that go into choosing our clothing
based on the situation that we are in. So, in general, I think
we can agree that God requires a distinction between modest
and immodest dress. The Bible speaks in 1 Timothy
2.9 that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel. So it only
makes sense that we would want to know what is modest apparel. Proverbs 7 verse 10 says in there,
a woman met him. So this is the naive young man,
not protected by wisdom and the law of God. And he's out and
about and a woman met him with the attire of a harlot and a
crafty heart. So we see there the description,
the opposite of modesty is a crafty heart. So when we are immodest,
our heart is crafty. We're using our clothing to get
what we want, and it's tricky, and it is alluring. And we see
here in Proverbs 7, immodest dress. So we see that the Bible
speaks of both modest apparel and the attire of a harlot. How
are we to know the difference? Is it culturally defined? No. Ultimately it is defined by God
for us in His Word. Is it defined by the conscience
of the particular culture? No. Or is it defined by God's
Word as a timeless set of principles that transcend and command any
culture? So this is one of the key points
that I'm stressing in today's teaching, is that most of us
have probably been taught that modesty is primarily culturally
defined. And I am here to speak against
that teaching today, and to say to you that modesty is primarily
defined in God's Word. by God defining what is nakedness,
so that therefore we know what needs to be covered. Here's a
story related by a former student at a Christian college. He says,
I remember having a missionary speak to us in chapel about her
work in Papua New Guinea. The natives she worked with were
stark naked, other than a thin rattan cord around the waist.
She said that at first she was uncomfortable with all these
men squatting in front of her. So early on in her work, she
brought barrel loads of shorts to clothe these naked people.
The people were excited with the gifts. They took the belts
out of the shorts, threw the shorts away, and replaced the
rattan cords with leather belts. She said that eventually she
gave up trying to clothe the natives and came to the conviction
that their cords around the waist were their cultural way of expressing
modesty. They wouldn't be caught dead
without those cords. And her conclusion was that culture
defines modesty, and we shouldn't impose Western values of modesty
or even first century standards of modesty upon any people,"
unquote. So that's an example that you
will hear that is false teaching about modesty. that does not
understand God's Word regarding modesty. But you know, on the
other hand, it is true, Scripture never imposes a cultural custom
upon the consciences of believers. In fact, we're specifically forbidden
from this. Think about that. So those who
are in favor of this approach to modesty are saying that we're
required to submit to a cultural norm. And yet in the scriptures
we are specifically told that to do so is to unjustly bind
men's consciences with the traditions of men. Kaiser goes on, in fact
scripture forbids Christians from submitting to the traditions
of men. What the culture-bound advocates
are ironically saying is that the very person who insisted,
Mrs. Paul, quote, that you may learn
in us not to think beyond what is written, unquote, was in 1
Timothy 2.9 imposing a cultural tradition that could not be found
in the Bible. So that Paul, their argument is Paul is grabbing
a cultural requirement and imposing it on Christians. But Christ
condemned those who teach as doctrines the commandments of
men. Paul also strongly reacted against false teachers who imposed
unbiblical restrictions through their, quote, touch not, taste
not, handle not, quote, code. Paul's maxim was, let no man
judge you, and do not submit to the commandments and doctrines
of men. So American culture is not a good guide for what is
modesty, and nor is our opinion. We must look to the word of God.
Now, next, we need to see there are degrees of modesty and degrees
of nakedness that are discussed in the Bible. Degrees of modesty
and degrees of nakedness. Now, first of all, degrees of
modesty. 1 Corinthians 12, verse 23 and 24, listen to these words.
And those members of the body which we think to be less honorable,
on these we bestow greater honor. And our unpresentable parts have
greater modesty, but our presentable parts have no need. So here is
a very helpful principle that we have presentable parts and
we have un-presentable parts according to the word of God.
The un-presentable parts, this is our nakedness. This requires
modesty, the greater modesty. Presentable parts, this is not
nakedness. There's no need for modesty when
it comes to our presentable parts. So there's a spectrum from no
modesty to greater modesty. John 21-7 likely shows us an
example of this. Quote, Therefore that disciple
whom Jesus loved said to Peter, It is the Lord. Now when Simon
Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his outer garment,
for he had removed it, and plunged into the sea. So he put on clothing
to go for a swim. Of course, he was going to Jesus.
Being in a public setting, here's what we can learn from this,
it appears. One way to understand this is being in a public setting
with Jesus seems to have required greater modesty than being on
a fishing boat. But Peter still would have had
on his undergarments, which in Jewish culture would have covered
his nakedness. And we'll talk about this more
fully as we go on. So there are degrees of nakedness
and degrees of modesty. Listen to the degrees of nakedness
shown to us in the Scripture. There's totally naked. We see
this in Genesis 3, 7. Then the eyes of both of them
were opened and they knew that they were naked. Next, there's
the poor who are in inadequate clothing from Job 24. It says
they spend the night naked without clothing and have no covering
in the cold. So they have inadequate clothing. And then there's also the idea
of being underdressed for an occasion, like what we saw with
Peter. But also Isaiah 20 says, in verse 3, the Lord said, quote,
just as my servant Isaiah has walked naked and barefoot three
years for a sign and a wonder. So, you know, Isaiah was not
totally naked, but he was underdressed. And that was a sign, that was
a message to the people at that time. And then there's partially
naked. Job 22.6 says, for you have taken
pledges from your brother for no reason and stripped the naked
of their clothing. Well, obviously, when they say
strip the naked of their clothing, there's an idea of being partially
naked. Those who were partially dressed,
they took even that from them. Those who were partially naked,
they took even that from them. So I think that's great background
for the details we're going to dive into now. The covering of
our nakedness, this is the first purpose of clothing and the definition
of modest clothing is based upon this, the covering of our nakedness. Genesis 2.25 says, And they were
both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed. So God
emphasizes to us at the conclusion of creation that nakedness was
not associated with shame. And this is fascinating if you
think about it, because, you know, God gave the Word of God to Moses. Moses is the one who wrote this
down. So Moses is getting this from God afterwards, right? He's receiving this written form
afterwards. And there it is. Now, do you
think Adam and Eve were aware of the absence of shame at that
time? No, they weren't even aware they were naked. Nakedness is
a concept that only has meaning within the concept of shame.
But it was a noteworthy absence at the end of creation that God
emphasizes to us. Now, why is this emphasized? Because no sin equals no sense
of shame for the man and the wife in nakedness. And the point
is, the only way you can have that is when you are completely
free of your sin, which none of us will be until we're glorified.
There's these crazy people who argue in favor of Christian nudity,
right? Because they think we've been
so cleansed of our sin, it's not even there anymore. We don't
even have our flesh anymore, so we should be naked. Like Adam
and Eve, we're in the garden. Right, well that is definitely
premature eschatology. No doubt about it, okay? Now
there's people who say, but you can see logically why they might
reach that conclusion if they don't understand current human
anthropology. Every one of us currently still
has our fallen flesh within us, trying to mislead us, trying
to follow the devil and the forces of darkness. Listen to Jeff Pollard's
words. It's important to understand
that in the beginning, nakedness was not shameful. In fact, God
saw everything that he made and behold, it was very good. Though
Adam and Eve were naked, they felt no sense of public disgrace
or humiliation. Their nakedness was very good
because God created them that way. Under these circumstances,
clothing was unnecessary. So what transformed good nakedness
into something shameful? And why did God himself cover
man's body? Next, Genesis 3, verses 6 and
7. So when the woman saw that the
tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes,
and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit
and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.
Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that
they were naked, and they sewed fig leaves together and made
themselves coverings. So what happened? as soon as
sin entered their soul, as soon as the fall occurred, what happened
next? God gave them a sense of shame
that was inextricably linked to their physical nakedness They
became aware of their own sin and the sin of others, and specifically
through a God-designed, unbreakable connection between that corrupted
flesh and what God came to define as nakedness. Do you see that? That's what happened at the Fall.
So the principle we see here is that God designed that at
the Fall, Shane entered the world as an internal awareness prompted
by an external observation of our physical nakedness. Fallen
man then goes on to attempt to cover this very uncomfortable
shame by covering the nakedness ourselves. Adam and Eve tried
to cover their nakedness themselves, and this is the standard pagan
response, seeking to cover our shame ourselves, and it never
works. But in Genesis 321, we do see
what works. And it is God's provision for
our covering. His full and complete provision
for our covering. The Bible says, also for Adam
and his wife, the Lord God made tunics of skin and clothed them. So you see, prior to this, Adam
and Eve had insufficient coverings, these fig leaves that they had
woven together. But now they were clothed. Before
they were not clothed, before they were still partially naked.
but now they were fully clothed, their nakedness was now covered
by God completely. So God first, now listen to this,
how does God first demonstrate, He preaches the gospel to them,
He tells Adam and Eve about the seed to come, but how does He
first demonstrate the gospel of Jesus Christ to the world? He demonstrates it by making
clothing for Adam and Eve. Clothing that fully covered their
external nakedness and that represented the full covering of their sins
in Christ. And it required death. God killed an animal and he took
the skin of that animal and he made clothing out of it. And
he fashioned the clothing perfectly to cover the external God-defined
nakedness of Adam and Eve. God-defined nakedness at that
time. Do you see what a critical principle
this is? This is not culturally bound. This is not a cultural
thing. This is from creation and the
fall. The definition of nakedness comes
from God at creation. So we see that the very first
moments after the fall, God shows the gospel of Jesus Christ via
clothing. And y'all, the same is true for
us. Every time we make clothing choices, our clothing preaches
something to the world and to one another every time we step
out into public. Will we preach the gospel of
Jesus Christ like God did in the garden, proclaiming with
our clothing that all of our sin, nakedness, has been fully
covered by Christ and can only be fully covered by God? Or will
we preach the message of our first parents, that our sin is
not fully covered or that we can cover it ourselves? Christian
modesty, friends, family, people of God, Christian modesty at
its core, is the attempt to proclaim this accurate message with our
clothing that Jesus Christ is our great High Priest who has
covered all of our sin, washing it away by His precious blood. And I really hope that these
glorious concepts will fill your mind as we come to the practical
application of this section. It's so easy to forget the foundational
principles of modesty and start to get your measuring tape, right? Instead of remembering what this
is all about and rejoicing in the opportunity to make these
choices. Jeff Pollard says, The main point of this account is
its spiritual or gospel application. Adam and Eve lost their righteous
standing with God and were naked in their sins. God then killed
animals and fashioned coats of skin to graciously cover Adam
and Eve after they pitifully attempted to cover themselves
with aprons of their own works. This beautiful type of God's
mercy and grace was later fulfilled in the propitiatory sacrifice
of Jesus Christ. Thomas Boston comments, but on
surer grounds we may observe that our first parents made their
first garments and God made the next, which were effectual for
the use of garments. Whence we may learn the utter
insufficiency of our own righteousness to cover spiritual nakedness
and the absolute necessity of the righteousness of God, the
imputed righteousness with its fitness every way to clothe the
sinful soul. So what does this teach us about
practical modesty? What does God define as the parts
of our body that are included in nakedness? Isn't that just
the obvious question that comes to mind? God, show us. Teach
me, Lord, what is this nakedness that you're talking about? Do
we have to learn this from various cultures, O God? Or do you tell
us? Listen to Jeff Collin. Though
we have no snapshots of Adam and Eve's apparel, the word coats
is consistently used throughout the Old Testament to mean a tunic-like
garment. Coats in Genesis 3.21 is the
word Hebrew which is cutnet from an unused root meaning to cover. The cutnet was the ordinary garment
worn by man and woman as seen in the tunics of skin worn by
Adam and Eve. This shirt-like garment usually
had long sleeves and extended down to the ankles when worn
as a dress coat. Hardworking men, slaves, and
prisoners wore them more abbreviated, sometimes even to their knees
and without sleeves. Several well-known lexicons echo
that it was, quote, the principal ordinary garment of man and woman
worn next to the skin, a long shirt-like garment usually of
linen. Adams was made of fur, unquote. So the cut net resembled
the Roman tunic, corresponding most clearly to our long shirt,
reaching below the knees always, and in case it was designed for
dress occasions, reaching almost to the ground. while the simplest
kind was sleeveless, reaching only to the knees. Another description
tells us that it was made of linen or wool and reached down
to the knees or to the ankles. All these sources agree regarding
the cutknit. It covered the body from at least
the neck to the knees, while sometimes reaching mid-calf or
all the way to the feet. And the important thing to remember
is that this was God's design for covering Adam and Eve's nakedness
and shame. So, we discover that God defined
nakedness in the garden. And we discover the general teaching
of what that nakedness is by the clothing that God made to
cover them. Isn't God good? Going on, we
see the same pattern given to us in the priestly garments.
Again, Pollard. God not only ordained the priests
to their holy office, he designed their holy garb as well. He said
to Moses, quote, and thou shalt speak unto all that are wisehearted
whom I have filled with the spirit of wisdom, that they may make
Aaron's garments to consecrate him, that he may minister unto
me in priest's office. And these are the garments which
they shall make, a breastplate, and an ephod, and a robe, and
a broidered coat, that's the cut knit, a miter and a girdle,
and they shall make holy garments for Aaron thy brother and his
sons, that he may minister unto me in the priest's office." So
God, the original designer of clothing, covered their bodies
as he had covered Adam's and Eve's bodies. Now, another example
here, this is another example of the pattern of God designing
clothing and demonstrating the same pattern of covering nakedness
that was given to us at the fall in Genesis. And I want us to
note especially Exodus 28 verse 42, which really, from God's
word, focuses our understanding. You shall make for them linen
trousers to cover their nakedness. They shall reach from the waist
to the thighs. Now while this described the
undergarments, we know that the priests moved around during their
work, presenting the possibility that their outer priestly garments
might end up not covering their nakedness in certain movements
or positions. So God gave them undergarments.
And in this text we see specifically that the waist to the thighs
is included in the portion of the body considered by God as
part of our nakedness. And so we see the definition
of the upper leg down to the knee being included in the definition
of nakedness by God. The priestly garments would have
been sashed and secured at the waist with no likelihood of sitting
above that point. And so these trousers were designed
to make sure that the nakedness beneath was not revealed if they
were seen from below or from a position they might take during
their priestly work. Jesus Christ Himself wore these
same garments. The Lord Jesus Christ is the
Word who became flesh and dwelt among us. This is Pollard. A
fair question then would be, when God became man, what did
He wear? The answer to this is worthy of this lengthy quote
from Alfred Edersheim. Listen carefully to this quote
from Alfred Edersheim about the clothing of the time of Christ. Three or else four articles commonly
constituted the dress of the body. First came the undergarment,
called the chalouk or the katuna, from which later some have derived
the word cotton. This chalouk might be of linen
or of wool. The sages wore it down to the feet. It was covered
by the upper garment, and the upper garment is the talith,
and it was covered to within about a hand breadth. The chalouk
lay close to the body. It had no other opening than
that around the neck and for the arms, and at the bottom it
had a kind of hem. To possess only one such coat
or inner garment was a mark of poverty. Hence, when the apostles
were sent on their temporary mission, they were directed not
to take two coats. Closely similar to, if not identical
with, the chalut was the ancient garment mentioned in the Old
Testament as the kethoneth. to which the Greek chiton corresponds. As the garment which our Lord
wore and those of which he spoke to his apostles are designated
by that name, we conclude that it represents the well-known
kephoneth or rabbinic katuna. This might be of almost any material,
even leather, though it was generally of wool or flax. We can now form
an approximate idea of the outward appearance of Christ on that
spring morning amidst the throng at Capernaum. he would, we may
safely assume, go about in the ordinary, although not in the
more ostentatious dress worn by the Jewish teachers of Galilee.
The chaluk, or more probably the katuna, which formed his
inner garment, must have been close-fitting and descended to
his feet. Since it was not only so worn by teachers but was regarded
as absolutely necessary for anyone who could publicly read, the
scriptures or exercise any function in the synagogue. So our Lord
Jesus Christ, the living God, come in the flesh, covered himself
in the same way that he had covered Adam and Eve in the holy priesthood.
So we see that God in his word does give us the definition of
nakedness. He shows that to us in his word.
Let's run through the summary principles and some questions
for application. First, modesty is an internal
virtue defined by shamefacedness and sobriety, whereby we humbly
acknowledge the shame of our fallen flesh, and we happily
rest in Christ alone as our full covering and our only propitiation. And we know, we know, we know
that our sin can damage and distract others, so we long to express
only Christ in all of our dealings with others. And internal immodesty
fights against these truths. It scoffs at these truths and
with the resultant external expressions of sinfulness that end up attracting
attention to ourselves and distracting others from the effort at hand. Next, immodesty in dress is the
revealing of any portion of our nakedness in a public setting.
It's a very simple definition. Immodesty in dress is the revealing
of any portion of our nakedness in a public setting. Next, Christian
modesty is the covering of our nakedness in public for the glory
of God and for the proclamation of the gospel via our dress.
So Christian modesty is motivated by being a Christian, by being
filled with the Holy Spirit of God and longing to express the
kingdom of God through your life. And then it shows up in obedience
to God to these principles of covering our nakedness. Now God's
pattern of clothing design shows that God defines our nakedness
as from neck to knee, including for sure all of our torso. The
transition zones are always the areas that spawn the questions,
yes? Now who's listening most of all right now in the sermon,
right? He's an okay guy. He's gotten to it now. Listen up,
he's about to tell us. No, I'm not. No, I'm not. I'm not going
to. Here's what I'm going to do.
I'm going to ask you some questions. Okay, of course, the first question
is, what about the shoulders? How much of the neck? Covers the
knee. What do we do? How do we work this out? Knees,
shoulders, necks. That's the area where the questions
come in. And don't forget, But the issue
here is to hide our nakedness, not just to cover it. So clothing
that is too tight that reveals the details of the shape of our
nakedness is not modest even if it covers the areas defined
as nakedness. Now clearly this is an issue
of prudence and wisdom that is a very private conversation that
husbands and wives will have together and make those decisions
about their family. But it's a reality of our decision
making. if the idea is to hide our nakedness. Now, I've got some strong words
here. We don't have the option to excuse
ourselves from God's design for clothing just because of the
situation. We do not have that option. Public settings cannot
be exempted from God's standards just because of a unique activity
in that setting. This is a standard of God to
be proclaimed throughout the earth in all settings because
it is the way it is a very personal and intimate way that every one
of us have an opportunity to proclaim the gospel of Jesus
Christ. Public settings are going to include any setting where
you'll be viewed by people outside your family. Beaches, pools,
lakes, weddings, athletic events, and most importantly, here at
corporate worship. Or we must use the greatest discretion
of all. Here in corporate worship, we
must use the greatest discretion of all because the activity we
have in mind here today, brothers and sisters, family, friends,
people of God, it is the most important thing that you do on
this earth. There is nothing more serious and more joyful
than this time. And there is no place on earth
where you would feel more deeply saddened by your activity than
distracting someone from the worship of God. So we come here
and also as an expression of our love to God. So for one another
and for God, the greatest discretion is called for in corporate worship. The covering mentioned in the
Bible generally covered neck to knee and usually had sleeves. We don't have the option to excuse
ourselves from these standards because of weddings, because
of playing in the water, because of athletic uniforms or whatever
you come up with. Gymnastics, track, dance, swim
team, cheerleading, basketball, pole vaulting, you name it. These are places where, unfortunately,
I think we can agree, immodesty is usually the norm in our culture.
It was not always this way. The standards of Christian modesty,
when you go back through the history of our nation, were in
place. And public nakedness, partial
public nakedness, was everyone saw it as for what it was. It
was publicly exposing our nakedness in a way that contradicted the
law of God. We knew this in the foundations
of our nation. We can see it. You can go back.
You can read about it. You can see the gradual undressing
of America. No shirts for men playing at
the pool or the beach is the norm in our world. And this is
the main area for me where I had to repent when I first studied
this. I mean, I just, who here, who
here didn't grow up pulling your shirt off, guys, when you jumped
in the water, right? That's just, everybody did it,
right? Did you know that men took their shirts off before
women did in the history of undressing of America? Men, it's our fault. We need to lead the way back
into modesty, men, by covering our nakedness when we're in public.
Did you know that? That when you look back through
the history, it was men who took their shirts off first? It was
men who had partial nudity first before women got on board? Go
back and look at the history of it. Will we take the gospel
of Jesus Christ with us via our clothing into every place that
we go? And you know, we can really rejoice
because we will stand out. I mean, you should see me when
I put on my bathing suit these days. People are like, dude, what do
you got there, man? And I say, well, I don't know. I think this
is what the Bible teaches. They'll be like, what? Yeah,
Jesus covers all of my nakedness. So right boom, you're right into
the gospel. And so we have this opportunity before us. And this
is not legalism. This is living out the gospel
of Jesus Christ in our clothing. And you know, here's another
point. Parents should set the trajectory for little children
by having the same standards for them as for teenagers and
adults. Even though a little child isn't revealing anything,
really. Does the definition of nakedness
change based upon our age? You know, this was really sweet
because we started having these practices in our family. And
I forget who it was, but something happened and a guy had his shirt
off. I don't know where we were or what was going on. He's like,
oh, he's naked! Right? So like the little ones,
they catch on quick as to what nakedness is. And you know what?
That should be shocking. It should be shocking. When we
have God's standards in our mind of what is nakedness, we should
be shocked. We should be shocked when we're
exposed to it. And as Christians, we want to shock the world with
the gospel of Jesus Christ as we dress. And we will have that
opportunity if we embrace the teaching. Now, I think there
is, I've tried to think of some exceptions, and I do believe
there's one critical exception, and that is critical medical
settings where life and limb must be saved and protected.
The family must make this decision as to when it is necessary to
transiently allow someone else into a family member's privacy
for the purpose of saving and or protecting life. Okay? So,
again, we have to be sober-minded, right? We want to look at all
of the principles involved in our decision-making process in
each situation. Okay? Now, some helpful questions
we tried to put together about choosing our clothing. First
of all, what is your purpose in your heart as you choose your
clothing? I think that's the most important question you must
ask. Is it to glorify God? Is it to
serve those around you? Is it also in keeping with your
personal liberty of expression, your own tastes, your own preferences? And is it in consideration of
the occasion and the purpose for the event? Are you being
deliberate in your clothing choices? You see, it's another part of
being deliberate as a Christian, is the clothing that we choose.
And here's some more questions. These are more detailed. Thinking
about nakedness. Does the clothing reveal the
chest area from the front, from above, maybe somebody taller
than you, or from the side, maybe through the sleeve hole? These
are important questions. Does it reveal undergarments?
Undergarments are tantalizing. Does it reveal undergarments?
Is it so tight that it reveals the details of your shape? These
are important questions to seek to cover and hide our nakedness.
Does your outfit cover properly when you're just standing there?
But as soon as you start moving, it becomes a problem. You lean
forward, you bend over, you lift your arms, or you sit down. So even if you remain covered
properly with movement, so you've got that all figured out, you
worked that out, but even if you remain covered, and you know,
this is from the scriptures, God considers the movement of
his priests and he gives them special undergarments, right?
So we're going to mimic God by considering the movements we're
going to be doing in our clothing choices. But here's an even step further.
Even if you remain covered properly with movement, does the garment
suggest to others that it might not cover properly with movement?
So you've done all your tests, and you know it's good. But you
know when you look at that garment, you had to test it really good
to make sure. See, that's going to be potentially tantalizing
or distracting to those around you. And that's a way of considering
others. And you know, look, they may
be immature, they may not be immature. You know, the more
immature who have not mastered the lust of the flesh by God's
grace, yeah, you've got to know they're out there. And you're
going to potentially mislead them by the way you dress. Or
those who have, by God's grace, embraced what Christian modesty
is and who understand what nakedness is, they're going to notice it,
but not for a sinful reason. They're going to be worried about
you. So either way, it's distracting. And in both situations, it can
tempt to sin. Next. Well, I've already covered this.
When you're standing, it covers you, but when you sit, it might
not. So you've got to consider that. You know, you might not
think about your heels, but do the height of your heels necessitate
an immodest posture that ends up highlighting nakedness? And
heels do that. Heels cause a woman to stand
in a way that her posture changes and they are actually designed
for that purpose, to highlight certain parts of what God defines
as nakedness. So think about that when you
look at your shoes and how the shoes affect your posture. Most
men don't wear heels. It's not really an issue for
men. This is more an issue for ladies. But you have to think
about why is it an issue for ladies? Why is it an issue? So I'm sure
there's many more questions that you may have on this, but I think
that we've covered enough to really, I think, have some
important principles in mind about Christian modesty. And
to go ahead and put in the last stitch on this garment of the
sermon today, don't forget that this is honoring to marriage.
Don't forget, in addition to everything else we've talked
about, the starting spot is that this is a way that as a community
we're expressing brotherly love by honoring marriage and working
to keep the marriage bed undefiled and to refuse to be a voice for
the fornicators and adulterers who want to attack Christian
marriage. Amen? Let's pray. Almighty and gracious Heavenly
Father, O God, we pray that You would just give us Your Word,
Lord, that all of us would just have Your Word in our hearts
and minds, and that if in any way, Lord, I minimized or lessened
Your commandments, God, forgive me, and erase it from the minds
of all the hearers here and in the future. And if in any way
I added to your word, Lord God, erase it, I pray, from the minds
and hearts of the hearers now and in the future. Lord, we just
want your word. Help us to believe and embrace,
Lord, Your definition of nakedness, Your definition of Christian
modesty, and to do it from hearts that love You, hearts that are
modest, that are shamefaced, and that are sober before You,
O God, rejoicing in the full and complete and abundant covering
that we have. Christ Jesus, our Lord, whom
we have all put on by faith. Amen.
Honoring Marriage: Christian Modesty
Series Hebrews
This sermon describes how we can be modest people according to the scriptures and honor marriage through our modesty.
| Sermon ID | 718161511593 |
| Duration | 1:04:24 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Hebrews 13:4 |
| Language | English |
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