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Oh Good morning. We're glad to have
you here. I want to welcome you to Tri-City
Baptist Church. Happy Father's Day. We are delighted
that we can come together and worship the Lord and looking
forward to what he has in store for us. If you have your bulletins,
there are a number of announcements in there. I just want to mention
the one primary one that after our morning service, we will
be having our church business meeting. Normally we do that
in an evening but we're doing it this morning instead of our
adult bible fellowship time we will have our church business
meeting so we'll have just a brief break and our ushers will have
the proposed budget to pass out. The purpose of this meeting is
to approve the budget for this coming year. And since our fiscal
year runs from the first of July through the end of June, so we
want to get that taken care of. So we look forward to that time. Then depending on how long that
goes, the questions for that, we want to take the time we need.
But I also have some things I'd like to just share with our church
family and kind of use that as a family chat. And so we look
forward to that. It is good to have you here.
I began to wonder who would be here today with all the confusion
in our culture and in our community. On Friday afternoon, our mayor
released a statement, a proclamation, and really the concerns regarding
masks, the statement there. I've read it multiple times.
I have my copy. I've marked it up. I've highlighted
the expectations and the exemptions. And it really, the more you read
it, the more you think, okay, so ultimately the heartbeat of
this is the desire for education. We want to be careful. I think
one of the things, and we all have strong opinions, I think
we have to be careful. One of our challenges today is
we want to make decisions that are wise. We have been praying
for wisdom throughout this entire time, and making wise decisions
means having accurate information. I don't know about you, but I
don't really trust our media to be giving me the true accurate
information. And it is sad. There seems to
be a political agenda in the reporting of this. We want to
make wise decisions. We want to be safe. We want to
be faithful to the Lord. And so it's unhelpful when we
don't get good information. And I do... I empathize for our
mayor. He is in a no-win situation. Same with our governor. And anybody
making decisions right now, it will not be enough. I've told
people, even with our church decisions, when we had decided
we weren't meeting, that was an easy call for everybody else.
You didn't have to agree, but you didn't really have to do
much decision because we weren't open. Once we began to say we
were meeting, now everybody else had to make decisions. And the
decisions vary based on comfort level, based on situation, based
on where you're coming from. And so we've tried to be careful. The mayor's statement was that
if you're not able to keep physical distance of six feet or more,
then recommending masks. Well, our roads are seven feet
apart. We measured these when we took out rows. We did this
intentionally, encouraging families to be together. We're trying
to be careful. There's the personal position, there's the ministry
position. I have my mask today. I have this one. It says if it's
practical, I'll tell you wearing this headset and glasses, it's
very impractical many times. I also have my Western mask if
I need that one. A few weeks ago, when our daughter-in-law
and grandkids, Kimberly, flew in, Judy and I went to pick them
up at the airport. And of course, Sky Harbor has
big signs, you cannot come in without a mask. Both of us forgot
our masks. The only thing we had was our
glass cleaners. But they said, as long as your
nose and mouth is covered, you can come in. So I'm wearing this
around Sky Harbor. And the more I thought about
it, the more I laughed, and then I'm inhaling it. And I've used
this to clean my glasses, so I spray the glasses and wipe
them off, so I'm inhaling all that glass cleaner. I said, this
cannot be healthy for me. And it was one of those situations
that you're trying to be careful. We really, as a church family,
our desire is for unity. We're not simply focused on physical
health, though we are concerned about that. But we're concerned
about emotional health, psychological health, but most of all spiritual
health. And God has made us as social beings. We need one another. So as we come together, we're
trying to be careful. We really are looking at that.
But let me just encourage you that we all have opinions. And I really do think Romans
14 and 1 Corinthians 8 through 10 has principles that apply
in our current situation. If you, when the mayors, Proclamation
came out Friday afternoon. Pastor Jeff and I have been talking.
We've been going back and forth, both in person, through email,
through text. I've sent some things out to
the deacons yesterday. And if you got the updated e-news yesterday,
you saw some of the statements that When Paul is going to address
a very potentially divisive situation in 1 Corinthians, beginning in
chapter 8, he begins by saying, we all have knowledge. Knowledge
puffs up, love builds up. And I think that really is the
starting point. We all have opinions. We all
have knowledge. We have to be careful, though,
that what we're doing is edifying the body. If we start with, well,
I know better than they do, I care more than they do, I have a better
perception than they do, or I love freedom more than they do, I
think it's overhyped, I'm fine. All of those are statements that
contend toward puffing up rather than humility. And so I think
we have to be guarded. Romans 14 tells us we're not
to judge another man's servant, that God is our judge. And so
we want to make wise decisions. We want to make careful decisions.
But let me caution us as a church family. Discord is more deadly
to the church than any disease. A disease can only kill the body.
Now, we don't want that to happen. We want to be wise. But discord
can destroy the soul. And a mask cannot protect us
from spreading discord. Discord carries much further
than six feet. And so we need to be careful. A haughty attitude travels much
further. So we have to guard our spirit
more than we guard our spit. And that's what these masks are
supposed to guard against. Now please understand, I'm saying
this to be proactive. I do think we've got a good unity
in our church. And I've noticed even in some
of the interactions with differences of opinion, the respect, the
concern, that's fine. But let's make sure we don't
drop our guard in our spirit. That is far more dangerous. And so when Paul's speaking of
this in 1 Corinthians, he comes to chapter 10, very familiar
verses to us, but the context begins back in chapter eight,
where he says, let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall.
And realize there's no temptation taken you, but such as is common
to man. So we're all susceptible, and
if we think we aren't, then that's when we need to take heed. So let me encourage you that
we pray for one another, pray for unity, I think we've got
that. I'm not saying this because I see a problem, I'm saying it
because I know how Satan wants to get the inroad. I'm in a couple
of groups online with our community groups, and just the vitriol
towards somebody who doesn't agree. This is a great chance
for us as believers to shine as lights in a lost world. To
show the joy of the Lord, the confidence in Christ, and the
compassion for one another. And so I think we want to be
careful. I don't want us to become known
as the coronavirus church. That is not a good testimony
in our community. So we need to be wise. We need to be cautious. We want to have a testimony within
our community, but we also have to care for the spiritual needs
of one another. And so there are people who can't wear these
for reasons that you don't realize. Background situations, if you
were with us when we talked about why our consciences differ, a
lot of those reasons apply here. Why our positions differ. And
that's where I think we go to Romans 14, who am I to judge
another man's servant? I wanna be careful, I wanna be
cautious. As a preacher, it's very difficult for me to wear
these because most of my communication is through my voice and facial
expressions. And I've been in places where
people are wearing them and I can't hear them, I can't understand
them, I can't see their mouth moving, I can't tell if they're
smiling, if they're angry. It's a barrier and I get that.
But at the same time, we don't wanna spread this. We know it
has impacted our church family. And so it really is a spirit
of compassion. And so please pray for wisdom,
pray for unity. Let's share our faith, our joy
in the Lord, not simply the facts that we've read. I've read a
lot of articles. I've checked the Arizona website
for statistics and the CDC website for statistics for Arizona, and
they don't match. So who's giving the right information
here? And so let's be careful. We had
planned today to have congregational singing from the choir loft as
well. It was not to have a choir. It was really the reasoning for
that was because we're live streaming the service. Pastor Dave doesn't
want to be the live stream soloist. The only microphone that actually
gets picked up on our live stream is the one that we're wearing
or the one here on the pulpit. But if we had people in the choir
loft, we have mics up there. So the purpose was that those
on live stream could actually enjoy the congregational singing
with people who were part of that. In light of the edict or
the proclamation that the mayor put out, we thought it best that
we not go forward with that right now. Part of it perception, but
we do want to be careful. But we are going to sing. That
is one of the things that the Lord honors the Lord and God
tells us to do. And so hopefully the distancing
and all, but it also lifts our spirits. And Proverbs tells us
a merry heart does good like a medicine. My heart is encouraged
with our singing. It directs my attention to the
Lord. So we want to be faithful. And so I trust that this is helpful.
I really wanted to take some time this morning, you know,
because I know this is the big uncertainty. And, you know, I
still believe the safest place for us to be is in the center
of God's will. So let's strive to live there and be wise in
our decisions, be careful in our concern for one another,
show a genuine compassion, and that the Lord will be honored
and glorified in our time together this morning. Pastor Dave. Thank
you Pastor N. Dean for dealing with the elephant
in the room right away. So now we can move on. With it
being Father's Day today, you would expect that we would sing
hymn number 417, right? But we're not singing that song
today just because it has the word Father in the title. We're
singing the song today because it's a great song and there are
good things for us to learn. Perhaps you don't have your physical
father with you anymore. Perhaps your physical father
was not a spiritual leader or even a good man. There are still
people who have gone before you in the Christian life that you
can refer to as your father, that you can stand on their shoulders.
Let's stand together and sing number 417, Faith of Our Fathers,
Living Still. Faith of our fathers, Oh, say does that star spangled
banner yet wave O'er the glorious land of our
fathers' holy land, we will return to thee to bow. Boom! Right after the first stanza
and introducing the theme, you have a choice to make. Are you
willing to sacrifice your children for God's service? If you are,
you can sing the second stanza with me. Let's sing together
Ahmet's second stanza. Ahmet's children, you don't die. You still live in the land of
angels. Is that you will return? If you are there and they are
here Is that what I will do with you? If you betray, take me or
take them Shake up our world and create
a smile. To the people we shall go today. A new age is at the doorstep. A new world will open between
us. To help us all the time, when
all we do to fail. The third stanza talked of our
evangelistic mission, and the last stanza is exactly what Pastor
M. Dean was talking about, unity,
loving both friend and foe. Let's sing the final stanza together. It's too late to do I know I'll
go to hell I'll go to the end I know I'll just die I'll go
to the end I'll go to the end I'll go to the end I'll go to
the end You may be seated for just a
moment. We're going to sing hymn number 574. I love Isaac Watts. He was a preacher's kid, and
I'm a preacher's kid, and so I identify with him in so many
ways. One of them is that he can be
a little bit confrontational. He's a little bit in your face
with some of his hymn words, and this song is a good example
of that. We're going to sing together,
but what we're doing is asking ourselves a series of questions.
And the song is designed so that you have time to think about
those words. Is it true? Is this true of me? And the Holy Spirit can use this
time to speak to you. Let's sing all the stanzas of
number 574 together. I am so confused, but I love
you, baby. I'm trying to explain, but I
can't seem to explain it to you. There's a light shining over
me But I don't want to leave the light And so the world recedes
I will find my way to the stars I'll fly as high as I As days
go by, I often think to myself, I don't want to go home. So when will I move on? Time goes by so much more, but
there's Amen. Let's look to the Lord
in prayer this morning. Father, we thank you for the
privilege of following you, the faith that has been passed down
to us. Lord, we thank you for godly
fathers. that many of us have. And Lord,
we rejoice in this time and the faith that we were taught, both
in word and in deed. Lord, we thank you for that.
But Lord, we know that on a day like this, there are many that
do not have that heritage. We thank you that you have promised
to be a father to the fatherless. That regardless of our situation
from an earthly perspective, that we have a loving heavenly
father, and that we can come into your presence today. And
so we pray that we would come with hearts of admiration, that
we would come with joy in knowing that we have a relationship with
you because of Jesus Christ. Lord, we would ask that during
this time you would calm our hearts, calm our souls. We realize
we are living in a time when there is great uncertainty and
unrest. Lord, we know that you are not
the author of confusion. So we pray that we would look
to you, that we would cast our burdens upon you, knowing that
you will sustain us, that you will not allow the righteous
to be moved, that we can cast our cares, our anxieties upon
you, knowing that you care for us. And so Lord, we would ask
that you would encourage our heart. that our fellowship with
one another as we sing together, as we ponder and teach and admonish
one another in spiritual songs, that we would direct our focus
to serve you faithfully, that we truly would be soldiers of
the cross, that we would live for a purpose bigger than ourselves,
and that in so doing, the joy of the Lord would radiate from
our hearts, our lives, our faces, our conversation to a lost world.
Lord, as there have been many examples of opportunities for
conversations just through this, because people are searching,
Lord, strip away the props in our culture that we would be
able to direct people to Jesus Christ. Lord, we pray that that
would be the case in our lives. And that as we look into your
word this morning, that we would be challenged and strengthened,
that we would live for your glory. And we pray that if there's one
here that does not know Christ as their personal Savior, that
even today they would turn from their sin and trust in the finished
work of Jesus Christ, that they might too know the joy that passes
human comprehension. For it is in Christ's name we
pray, amen. You can remain seated, at least
for the first stanza of our next song. Dr. Watts, Dr. Isaac Watts, wrote most of his
hymns for his church family. While he was preparing his sermon
during the week, he would try to distill the theme from that
scriptural passage and write a song that his church family
could sing. When he was preaching on Psalm
78, he wrote this song to go with Psalm 78. And since Pastor
Endian is going to preach on Psalm 78, at least I hope so,
this song would be really appropriate. Now for us in the congregation
that are singing, it's difficult if the words are brand new and
the music is brand new, right? So what we're going to do is
sing the new words based on Psalm 78, the sermon that Pastor Endian
is going to come and preach for us, but we're going to sing them
to the tune that we just sang. So the melody that we just sang
four times in a row, that you're familiar with now, we're gonna
sing those same words. Would you bring up the first
stanza, Jorge? Bring up the first stanza for us, and we will sing,
Let Children Hear the Mighty Deeds. This is based on Psalm
78. Let's sing that first stanza one time together. the way Do you see how that works? We're
going to sing that sermon based on Psalm 78 before Pastor Ken
comes to preach for us. 15 years of habit. Let's stand
together and sing that song together. Go back to the first stanza,
Mr. Jorge. Take us back to the first
and we'll sing all four stanzas together. Let children hear the
mighty deeds which I do for you. He built us rich and strong,
He built us rich and strong, Our world and our own deaths,
God made the man his understaff, to help him rise victorious. Our lips shall come unto our
sons, and they'll attend to theirs, and generations yet unborn must
reach unto theirs. For I shall be born in God, among
worlds, in glory's sight. Good singing. You may be seated.
As you're seated, I invite you to take your Bibles and turn
with me to Psalm 78. passage that we just sang about
in that song, Psalm 78. If you want to use the Bibles
there in the chairs that are seven feet in front of you, we're
on page 408. But Psalm 78. How many of you enjoyed show
and tell in school? I did. I liked show and tell. There was a level of mystery.
You never knew what someone might bring up. I wasn't really worried
about having to learn the material that it was going to be tested
over. And I just, I enjoyed that. And growing up in a pastor's
home, at a time when international travel was much less common than
it is today, I had the opportunity to meet a number of missionaries.
We would keep missionaries, and so because of that, there were
times I was able to share some unique items for show and tell.
But the most unconventional presentation I ever made took place when I
was in kindergarten. We had a missionary family staying
in our home. They were visiting. I think my
father had known the man from college, that they had been friends.
And this man had gone as a missionary to Japan. And there he met his
wife. And they had a daughter who was
my age. So I took the girl from Japan
to school for show and tell in kindergarten. I still remember that primarily
because I heard the story many times. It was a little awkward,
though, when we both ended up in college together, and our
only point of commonality was that I took her to school for
my show-and-tell exhibit a decade earlier. As parents, though, sometimes
you may feel like your days are full of show-and-tell. the things
that your kids are bringing to you, and questions they have,
and you're trying to do. Well, when we come to Psalm 78,
instead of the children being the presenters, it is the parents
who are to lead the show and tell. And this Father's Day,
I would like us to consider Psalm 78, the first eight verses. This is really the introduction
to this lengthy psalm. So we're not going to be considering
the entire psalm, we're just looking at the introduction.
But it's an introduction that emphasizes the importance of
teaching. It's actually a psalm for historical
teaching. Sadly though, most of this psalm
recounts how Israel forgot God's works. It's a psalm that is teaching
their pattern of forgetfulness and saying, don't follow that.
So these introductory verses really give us the encouragement
that we are to teach. And I hope that it will encourage
and challenge us today, especially as fathers. If you have your
Bibles open, follow with me as I begin reading in verse one,
we'll look at the first eight verses of Psalm 78. Give ear,
O my people, to my law. Incline your ears to the words
of my mouth. I will open my mouth in a parable. I will utter dark sayings of
old, which we have heard and known and our fathers have told
us. We will not hide them from their
children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord
and his strength and his wonderful works that he has done. For he
established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel,
which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known
to their children, that the generation to come might know them, the
children who would be born, that they may arise and declare them
to their children. that they may set their hope
in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments,
and may not be like their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation,
a generation that did not set its heart aright, and whose spirit
was not faithful to God. In these verses, we find the
importance of sharing with the next generation, I've taken my
title from verse four, that we will not hide them from their
children. We will show them and tell the
generation to come. We will tell, the show and tell
the praises of the Lord. But the question then that comes
to mind is how do we do that? What is it that we're supposed
to show and tell the next generation as parents, our children, as
grandparents, our grandchildren, as those who are working with
children? What are we to tell them? And I think what we see
in this is that a wise father will purposely communicate the
greatness of God so that the next generation will faithfully
serve Him. It's been said that parents only
have 20 years to move children away from barbarity and train
them to be civilized. And as we watch our news today,
I think we would say many parents have failed in the 20 years they
had. The human depravity of the heart
is not new. But for Christian parents, we
have a higher goal. We must set the bar higher than
simply civilized children. That is a good starting point,
especially when they're two. How do we get this two-year-old
to be civilized? But our goal is really to have godly children.
to raise them up that they will follow the Lord, they will put
their faith in the Lord, their hope in God, and follow Him.
And please, I realize, as I've mentioned already, that Mother's
Days and Father's Days, these are days that bring mixed emotions
in a church. Some of us have happy memories
of our parents and their parenting. For some, the memories are painful.
difficult home situations, absent fathers, the unfulfilled desires,
unmet expectations. For most of us as parents, and
especially as fathers, we sense our own personal failures and
inadequacies, even when we've tried to serve the Lord. We look
back and say, I wish I had done this. And what we have to realize
is the grace of God. God cares more about our kids
than we do. And he puts them into homes with
parents that struggle and fail. And I know in a group this size,
there are probably parents that are hurting, fathers that are
hurting. Sometimes those wounds are self-inflicted.
We look back and say, boy, I shouldn't have done that. Sometimes we've
done the best we can and our children stray. I have pastor
friends that, you know, my heart grieves with them. We've prayed
together. I pray for their kids. I was thinking of some even this
morning and praying for their children. That they would come
back to what they've known. And understand, when we have
sought to be faithful, God's arm is not shortened that He
can't reach the heart of that child. Even as an adult. So we
continue to pray. But I want us to realize that
in all of this, our goal must be to pass on to the next generation
the praise of the Lord. And to perpetuate the faithfulness,
there are several things that we must do. To perpetuate faithfulness
to the next generation, the first thing that we see in this passage
is we must initiate intentional teaching. The call is, give ear,
O my people, to my law and cline your ears to the words of my
mouth that listen to what I have to say. We might say, listen
up. Pay attention to this. that we
have a responsibility, and as parents, we need to be very aware
of who's teaching our children. We need to be doing it at home.
Is it a screen or is it a parent? Deuteronomy 6 gives us the importance
of teaching, and in those verses, that passage that really is foundational,
not only for the Israelites, but for us, says first of all,
we have to love the Lord with all of our heart, soul, and strength.
So it has to begin with us. And then we have to observe God's
law and obey Him. We have to walk in a reverential
fear of who He is and keep His commandments with our heart.
So it's flowing from life. And then it says that you will
teach when you sit down, when you rise up, when you walk by
the way, when you sit in your house, all of these. We might
say, you know, when we're sitting at home, when we're riding in
the car, that we're looking for opportunities. The idea there
is that in the structured and the unstructured, the formal
and the informal. And isn't it amazing how much
of our teaching is done informally? These questions that come up
and it's like those open the doors. Let's make sure that we're
looking for that time. But for us as parents, it means
that we have to know what we believe and why we believe it.
So we have to be in God's Word. And when we can say, here's what
the Bible says, we give security to our children. That our leadership,
our life, our decisions are anchored in the unchanging Word of God,
not in our changing whims or in the changing culture. And
if our children don't learn about God at home, where are they going
to learn it? Where are they going to learn of His grace, of His
glory, of His majesty? We can't outsource that responsibility. Yes, the church is here to help
the family. We have a Christian school that
we're seeking to use to help the church. We have children's
programs. We have Awana and all of that.
But we can't delegate our responsibilities. And so that means that as parents
we have to have something to say. that in parents in general, and dads
in particular, we have a responsibility to lead our families for the
Lord. And the truth is that is a challenge
today. Because not a generation ago, the byword was question
authority. Today, it's nobody wants to be
authority. And why should they look at the attacks on anybody
in authority? And sadly, parents don't want
to be the authority. So often it's left up to the
kids to make the decisions. And frankly, I'm amazed sometimes
how many parents follow their children. We have to be setting
guidelines, and they have to know that security, that we have
to lead. That is a God-given responsibility. and lead according to God's word,
that the most important thing is that we be faithful to the
Lord. David Wells, in his book, No Place for Truth, said, to
the evangelicals, a broken relationship is the worst thing that can happen.
It's not an issue of abandoning truth that's breaking a relationship. We have to build relationships
on the truth. But please understand, this isn't
a new situation. This isn't new to the 21st century.
Back in 1 Samuel chapter 2, God told Eli that his lineage would
not continue in the priesthood, and one of the reasons was he
honored his sons more than he honored God. And God said, because
of that, I'm taking the priesthood away from you. We see that in
1 Samuel 2.29. One of the dangers is we don't
want to raise children who are wise in their own eyes, because
then they don't have a fear of the Lord. See, knowledge is not
the same as wisdom. Just because your child or teenager
knows their way around your iPhone better than you do, doesn't mean
they understand life. There's a difference between
knowledge and knowing how to apply that. And we can never
forget that we are in a spiritual battle, that we as fathers are
leading our families through a cultural upheaval, and their
souls are on the line. We are in enemy territory. Just
look at the decisions coming out of our Supreme Court, and
you'll see that. The biblical definitions of marriage,
of gender, of family are under assault. Where are our children
going to learn what God said if we don't tell them? We must
teach our children not only what we believe, but they have to
learn to defend their faith. They need to know what they believe
and why they believe it. We need to be able to question
their answers, not just answer their questions. and help them
understand there has to be a biblical foundation that we will lead
them to hope in God. And part of that is helping them
see the bigger picture. So not only do we initiate intentional
teaching, the second thing is we have to disclose historical
complexities. Verses two and three, I will
open my mouth in a parable, the dark sayings of old, the things
that our fathers have told us. We have to learn from the past.
It was the German philosopher, George Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel,
who said, the only thing we learn from history is that we learn
nothing from history. Unfortunately, that's very true,
and that's much of the testimony of Psalm 78. Israel didn't learn. But the admonition at the beginning
is learn. Don't forget. You know, our news
right now is filled of current reports of people who are tearing
down statues of people that actually stood for what they claimed to
want. And unfortunately, the barbarians
are too ignorant to know that. Their parents didn't bring them
to civilization in the 20 years they had. But folks, let's understand,
rewriting history is nothing new. It goes all the way back
to Genesis 3. That Satan sought to rewrite
history. God made a statement that ended
with a period and Satan came in and wanted to rewrite it with
a question mark. Did God really say? That wasn't a question. God had said. And understanding
that, and the reason we have disease and strife and social
unrest and political division today is because of what happened
back there. and understanding that we are
living the consequences of sin and Satan's the God of this world. But we know that our God reigns.
So we have to share that. We have to be able to discern
it. And so when this says, I will open my mouth in a parable, there's
going to be these understanding gets, you've got to get below
the soundbite, the Twitter statement. The 144 characters that you,
if you can't get below that, you're not gonna understand.
We have to get beyond one election cycle to see what's actually
taking place and see the bigger battle that is going on that
is a spiritual war that's raging. Proverbs 1 verse 6 says, to understand
a proverb and an enigma. To explore the interpretation.
What's really below the surface here? Folks, this is why we need,
as Christians, we need to be careful about jumping on bandwagons.
Because most of our culture is not headed for godliness. And
neither is their wagon. And so we need to think below
the surface. What's really at stake? Oh, but
it sounds good. No, to understand a parable and
a difficult, the idea of a dark saying there is the riddle. Do
we look below the superficial? This is what Proverbs is about.
You see an example of this in Proverbs 24 verse 30 and following
as he's writing, he says, you know, I walked by this field
of the lazy man and I saw that it was overgrown. Now what's
the superficial decision there? Somebody needs to cut that. That
was not what he came away with. That was not what he learned
or gleaned from that. He said, I considered it well.
Who's ever just stopped and considered an overgrown field? Solomon did. He said, and I received instruction.
What did he learn? Verses 33 and 34 said, a little
sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest,
so shall your poverty come like a prowler. That's getting below
the surface. Okay, what's really at stake? The Lord spoke in parables, and
one of the purposes of parables was to hide the truth from people
who had no heart for it. But what you see is the disciples
had a heart for it. So the Lord would tell this story,
this parable, and then they'd get along, the disciples say,
okay, what do you mean by that? They want it below the surface.
And the Lord would tell them. And say, if you have ears to
hear, young people, children, you need to listen to your parents.
You need to be teachable in understanding that. But if we do not grasp
historical complexities, we're just going to be stuck with superficial
observations, and we're not going to learn from history. And if
we only interpret the past in light of our modern day circumstances,
we're really not going to get wisdom. One of the reasons that
as we come to Scripture, so often we try to give you the context
of what was happening then so that we can learn and apply today. We can be frustrated with the
historical illiteracy of our nation, and we see the harvest
of that today, but as I pondered that, I was convicted and thought,
well, do we really communicate God's working through history?
That history is His story. Do we think of how God has worked,
and just recently there was the celebration again of the Normandy
invasion, the D-Day invasion, and do you understand how the
weather played such an important part in that? Well, who controlled
the weather? God did. Years ago I went to
a library sale, our public library was just selling out books, getting
rid of them, and I picked up a book, it was titled The What
Ifs of American History. And the book recounted a number
of historical situations and how they hinged on what were
seemingly insignificant issues of chance. I remember one of
where George Washington and his troops during the Revolutionary
War were pinned down on Manhattan Island and they were under attack
and there was a pretty good chance that they were going to be wiped
out. And he wanted to move his men over to Brooklyn. and tried to do that, and they
were doing it by small boats, and the fog rolled in. And so
the attacking army couldn't see what was going on, and they were
able to move the entire army away from the attacks. And now,
the book was secular, but as I read it, I said, look at what
God did. So how do you know that was God?
Well, when we get to heaven, you ask Him, and if He had nothing
to do with it, I'll say I was wrong. But we know that we don't
worship a God of chance. We worship a God who can measure
the stars with his hand, as Isaiah 40 tells us, and he knows when
the sparrow falls from the sky. He knows about that little bird
that gets stuck in the grill of your car. If not a sparrow falls without
his knowledge, he knows us and pays better attention to us than
we do. He knows how many hairs there are on our head. No, we
don't bother counting that. We just see when they fall out.
But understanding the God of history is the God who works
in our life. Oh, how important it is we share
that with our children. Introduce them to people who have stood
for the Lord in history. And not just biblical characters,
but we should start there, but historically. Those who have
died for their faith. That those who stood in the face
of persecution, as we sang, the faith of our fathers, and sang
of the persecution that they endured for the faith. We think
we're persecuted if somebody unfriends us on Facebook. That
really hurts, I'm under great persecution. We need to read
history. Picked up a book, Let Waters
Roar, it's a compilation by Georgie Vins of what went on in the Soviet
Union. Tolds of Andre. Andre was arrested at a Christian
youth meeting in 1982. He was 18 years old. They brought
false witnesses against him into the courtroom. And he questioned
those witnesses. As an 18 year old, he had to
do his own defense. And he just picked apart how
they weren't even there when he was arrested, and he turned
to the judge, how can you convict me on witnesses who weren't even
there? And so the judge had to guide the witnesses so he could
convict him. Andre thought he would probably receive 15 days,
maybe be fined, they gave him three and a half years. And he
told of his conversations in the cell, and how he always tried
to answer the questions that were asked with Bible passages,
because that's what he had been taught at home. And when he arrived
at the prison camp, someone asked him, how are you going to live
in the camp? And his answer was this, the
same way I lived in freedom as a Christian, I want to live the
same way and not back off from my beliefs even here. And he
sought to do that. He served three and a half years
and four weeks before he was released, his father was arrested
for Christian ministry and ended up spending seven years in prison.
And yet he said, you know what, I thought as an 18-year-old how
that wasted those years of my life, but I saw how God used
that in me. Oh, how much better for our children to get their
heroes from Christian history rather than from Hollywood. Because
that's really not our perspective. I remember years ago hearing
of, I had the privilege of teaching Chinese pastors, and the testimony
had come from one of those who had been taught before me, and
his son was arrested in China for serving the Lord. And they
asked the dad, how did you feel when your son was arrested? He
said, I rejoiced that he was worthy to suffer for the Lord.
That is not my gut reaction as a parent, but it should be. Maybe we need to dust off Fox's
Book of Martyrs and read of William Tyndale who was martyred in 1536
for translating the Bible for the common person. And much of
Tyndale's translation is in our Bible today. Or Hugh Latimer
and Nicholas Ridley who were burned at the stake in England
in 1555 because they stood for salvation by grace alone through
faith alone in Christ alone. And as the wood caught fire around
them, Latimer yelled out to Ridley, Be of good comfort, Master Ridley. Play the man. We shall this day
light such a candle by God's grace in England, as I trust
shall never be put out." What a perspective. Or John Bunyan,
the Baptist Puritan pastor who was imprisoned because he was
part of an unregistered church and refused to refrain from preaching,
and while in prison wrote Pilgrim's Progress. or come up to the 20th
century with Jim Elliott and Nate Saint and Georgie Vins and
others who have suffered, or maybe the 21st century with Martin
and Gracia Burnham, who were missionaries in the Philippines
and celebrating their 18th wedding anniversary were kidnapped by
a militant Muslim group and held captive for more than a year
until June 7th of 2002, when the Philippine Army attempted
once again to rescue them. And Martin was killed in that
rescue attempt. His wife was wounded but rescued. And her
story is in the book, The Presence of Mine Enemies. That's a 21st
century, but you know, martyrdom's going on today. But CNN's not
gonna cover it. But it's happening today in countries
in Africa, in China, in North Korea. when I shared with, I
had the privilege of teaching Chinese pastors, and one of the
things they said is they saw the need for the gospel going
into what we call the 1040 window, that area of the world where
it really is unheard, but there's a lot of persecution. And he
said, you know, we think that us, the Chinese believers are
better positioned than American believers to reach the 1040 window
because we are used to persecution and you're not. I think we better
get used to it. Because we see it rising. We
have people that we send to restricted access nations. And we use that
term because they're going to frontline areas. So we need to
teach history. Thirdly, we need to declare theological
reality. Don't hide what God is doing.
We will not hide them from our children. We'll show them and
tell the next generation the praises of the Lord, His strength,
His wonderful works, that we share what God is doing. The
answers to prayer in our life, in our ministry, is we see what
God is doing, that we really help them see, look what God
does, teach them the fruit of the Spirit and how that applies
in how they treat their brothers and sisters. develop an attitude
of gratitude within our homes. We pray for our meal, do we let
them complain about what they're eating? Let's not be training
little hypocrites. We understand how important this
is, but we need to declare the truth compassionately. We have
to make the truth attractive. We can talk about the omnipresence
of God, that He's always there, He sees everything, and use it
like a club. And we can talk about the majestic
love of the Lord that He sees us, and He's there that we can
call on Him. He loves us, that when you're
lonely, you can go to Him. When you're discouraged, He's
there. When you're hurting, He cares. And when you sin, He's
there to forgive you. That if we confess, He's faithful
and just. Let's teach the love of God.
There is a crisis of compassion in our culture. People around
us are hurting. You go into the stores and you
start being friendly and people just open up. saw from one of
my friends, Dan Pelletier, who's an assistant pastor in San Francisco.
Some of you may have seen it on Facebook. He's there at the
church, and all of a sudden, somebody's banging on the door
there, downtown San Francisco. And he looks out the windows
at the postman. He said, just leave it. I'll
come down and get it. He says, no, you need to come down. He comes down.
The postman said, can I take some of those? And he's pointing
to the track rack. He said, can I read those? There are people
looking for answers. Let's show the compassion of
Christ in a time of difficulty, but we've got to teach the theological
reality to our kids. Fourthly, we need to recall biblical
responsibilities. For he established a testimony
in Jacob and appointed the law in Israel, which he commanded
their fathers that they should make known to their children.
They need to know God's word. What has God said? So we teach
them the Bible. They need to know God's works.
It says in verse 4, I will tell of his wonderful works. In verse
7, it indicates that the goal is that the next generation will
not forget his works. But if you go down to verse 11,
you find out that was part of the failure of Ephraim. They
forgot his works and his wonders that he had shown them. And then
in verse 32, it says that Israel did not believe his wonderful
works. Oh, we have to start when they're
young of showing the greatness of God. And then as it goes on
in that passage and says, the generation to come might know
them. The children who would be born that they will arise
and declare them to their children. The word make known here, the
idea of knowing is that it's more than just teaching with
our lips. It's not just what I tell them, it's that we live
it out. It carries the idea of being
revealed. It's noticed. That it is part
of our life. It's more than our lips. It's
our life that teaches. Values are often caught more
than they're taught. And it's interesting that at
least three generations are involved here. that the fathers will make
known to their children, that a generation to come, the children
who would be still yet to be born, will declare them to their
children, maybe four. But this is what we look at,
and I thought, you know, my father taught me, and we start to teach
our kids, and now our son who's here is teaching his children,
my grandchildren, and how many of us heard the gospel because
of a parent? Now again, I realize not everybody
has that heritage. But will your children? Let us
start with you. God doesn't have grandchildren.
And so it can begin with us. Our goal ought to be to raise
children who will put their faith in God. Our goal was that we
want our children to be independently dependent on God. Not dependent
on us, but dependent on God. And so how does this happen?
Well, we want them to keep the truth. And so we anticipate faithful
acceptance. That they may set their hope
in God. And not forget the works of God,
but keep His commandments. So what are they to do? They're
to obey God's work. Keep His commandments. Well,
how do you do that? Don't forget what He's done.
Remember His works. Don't forget them. But the foundation
of all of that is that very first statement. They have to set their
hope in God. And as we direct them to God
and show the goodness of God and the glory of God, that God
is trustworthy, and they see His works, then they can obey. When I remember what God has
done in the past, I can trust Him in the present, so I will
obey Him. Well, I don't know how this is going to work. No,
but I can trust God. His way is right. And so we learn
in that way, and then learn from negative examples. Learn from
the mistakes of others. It says in verse 8, and may not
be like their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation, a
generation that did not set its heart aright and whose spirit
was not faithful to God. Don't repeat the failures of
the past. Well, this is how we always did it in my house. Yes,
but was it the right way? Let's look at God's Word. Notice
the problem with their parents, their fathers. They were stubborn.
They were unteachable. They were unleadable. They were
immovable. When you read the rest of the
Psalm, you see that played out. They were rebellious. They were
unruly. They were disloyal. They did
not set their hearts. They weren't steadfast. They
were vacillated. And they had a wrong spirit.
Their spirit was not faithful to God. They were unfaithful.
And as I read that verse, I say, okay, Lord, are there areas where
I tend to be stubborn and rebellious and wander and unfaithful? And
unfortunately, the Holy Spirit points to areas and say, yeah,
you need to work on this. And we continue to grow. Lord, help
me not to be like those fathers. But I have to examine it personally.
Lord, I don't want to be like them. Then learn from bad examples. I had a calendar in the past,
it has demotivator pictures on it. And they're like the motivational
ones, but with not that same purpose. It has a different,
it fits my sense of humor. And one of my favorites is this
ship that has sunk, and just part of it is sticking out of
the water, and it's titled Mistakes. And it says, it could be that
the purpose of your life is only to serve as a warning to others. Don't be like them. I thought
of using it today. I thought probably not on a Sunday
morning, though I've used it with our college kids on various occasions
and in my ABF. But we are to learn from those
who have failed. So how do we apply this to our own personal
lives? I think number one, we have to be humble in listening
to those who teach us. Children, young people, do you
listen to your parents? Instead of trying to defend your position,
do you try to understand where they're coming from? Have you
ever tried to see their perspective rather than play the little lawyer?
Are we willing to learn from those who have more life experience?
We have to be teachable. Wisdom is more than knowledge.
It's the practical application of God's Word to life. It's truth
applied to life situations. Let's not be wise in our own
eyes. Don't be like Ephraim. If you look down at verse 9,
it says, the children of Ephraim, being armed and carrying bows,
turned back in the day of battle. They didn't keep the covenant
of God. They refused to walk in His law. They forgot His works
and the wonders that He had shown them. Now, we don't know the
specific situation here, but if you read about Ephraim, if
you read Judges 8 and Joshua 17, Ephraim strikes me as really
high maintenance. This was a high-maintenance tribe.
Every time they're coming, they want something. Well, we need
more room. And Joshua says, well, then go
get it. We're such a big tribe, we need more space. He says,
you're such a big tribe, go get it. You've got the army, get
it. They come to Gideon and say,
well, why didn't you invite us? And he has to appease them. They
were high-maintenance. But they turned back in the day
of battle. That's their testimony. They didn't stand fast for the
truth. They turned back. Oh, how important
it is we clothe ourselves in humility and that we would be
faithful. Secondly, we have to perceive
current events from a biblical worldview. Spurgeon said, the
best education is education in the best things. It's not enough
to learn good things. We need to learn the best things.
He went on and said, grammar is poor food for the soul if
not sprinkled with the grace of God. Without God's grace,
we just get smarter, better educated sinners. And so we have to be
careful that we are looking, okay, what is the biblical perspective
on what's happening in our world even today? You know, we have
to be careful. What are the messages our kids
are getting? Even in acceptable entertainment, what is the underlying
worldview? Follow your dreams? That's not
really what the Bible says. Follow the Lord. You know, without
viewing life in a biblical perspective, we're going to struggle to make
sense of the craziness around us. Now, a biblical worldview
doesn't answer all the questions we will have, but it gives us
a grid. It answers the most important
questions. Why am I here? I've been created for God, for
His glory. That's what I'm supposed to do. That's where I came from.
What's my purpose? Where am I going? We live with
an eye for eternity. We also need to contemplate the
greatness of God in all areas of life. I've already mentioned,
this is an unsettled time. There's a discouragement in our
world. I mean, it hits us if we don't
keep our eyes on God. It's like, what do we do? We
trust in the Lord. We count his works, read the
psalm, see what he's done, and then don't forget like they did.
See God, we see God in the big things. Do we see him in the
little things? We can see when that car just
misses us. But do we see God's providence
when the driver in front of us was so slow that we didn't get
through the light, and he protected us from what was going on further
on that we never even know about? God sees the mundane. And are
we purposely striving to be faithful to the Lord? Live a life of serving
Him. We must be committed to something
bigger than ourselves. We must be committed to more
than our own safety. We must be committed to the glory
of God. Every generation of believers needs those who are willing to
die for the Lord. I heard Les Olawa make a comment
one time that parents often don't want their kids to go to the
mission field because they don't want the embarrassment of them going from church to
church asking for money. They'd rather their kids are making
the money than asking for it. And I thought, I heard that,
I thought, really? I thought, what? You know, that our sons
can bear the message, our daughters can go and, but if we worship
at the altar of safety, we'll never put our lives on the line
for the Savior. We need to be wise, but we need to be serving
the Lord. Do you realize that our children,
other people, are all that we can take to heaven? When we stand
before the Lord, we're not going to say, boy, I wish I had a bigger
house, more vacation time, a bigger bank account, a better retirement
plan, a faster car. When I stand before the Lord,
I'm not going to be bringing a kindergartner from Japan. But I do want to
stand with my family, my children, my grandchildren, and spiritual
children that we have been able to influence for the Lord, to
tell a generation to come the praises of the Lord. Oh, that
we would commit to do that as fathers, as mothers, as single
individuals to pour into the lives of others. And if you're
here without Christ today, we'd love for you to be one of those
who stands with us. If you would turn from your sin,
trust in Christ alone, that you too can know the joy of salvation. Let's pray together. Father,
we thank you that you have declared your glory, your majesty, your
works to us. We pray that we would have eyes
to see and ears to hear. That as we look around, that
we would see what's going on through a biblical worldview,
and that we would see that you truly are in control, that we
don't always understand, but Lord, that we would trust you.
Lord, we pray that you would comfort our hearts, help us as
parents to direct our children to love you and to serve you.
And where we fail, that we would be willing to ask forgiveness.
And Lord, we thank you that your grace is greater than our stumblings
and our sin. And so Lord, we pray that you
would continue to work. And we pray that if there's one here
today that has not trusted you, that they would understand how
their sin has separated them from you, that all have sinned
and come short of your glory, and the wages of that sin is
death. but that the gift that you have offered through Jesus
Christ is eternal life. And that if they would trust
in him by faith alone, that they might know the joy of salvation
through grace alone, that it's only in Jesus Christ. And Lord,
that even before they leave today, they would speak with one of
us that we can show them from your word. Lord, help us to be
faithful. Protect us from the assault of
this world, that we might be lights in a lost world, to show
forth your glory and grace, to truly show and tell that you
are a God who deserves praise. And we'll give you the honor
and glory, for it is in Jesus' name we pray, amen.
Parental Show and Tell
"A wise father will purposefully communicate the greatness of God so that the next generation will faithfully serve the Lord."
| Sermon ID | 621201846427733 |
| Duration | 1:06:56 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Psalm 78:1-8 |
| Language | English |
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