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Well, hello church. If you would,
open up to 1 Kings 3. 1 Kings 3. And if I could have you stand.
This is a long passage, and I want us alert and paying attention.
We don't always stand to read the Word before the sermon, but
let's do it this evening. We're continuing this series.
Can you all hear me? We're continuing a series here
on virtues, neglected virtues, and we'll be looking at the virtue
of wisdom tonight. So let's look at it. 1 Kings
chapter 3, starting in verse 1. Solomon made a marriage alliance
with Pharaoh, king of Egypt. He took Pharaoh's daughter and
brought her into the city of David until he had finished building
his own house and the house of the Lord and the wall around
Jerusalem. The people were sacrificing at
high places, however, because no house had yet been built for
the name of the Lord. Solomon loved the Lord, walking
in the statutes of David, his father, only he sacrificed and
made offerings at the high places. And the king went to Gibeon to
sacrifice there, for that was the great high place. Solomon
used to offer a thousand burnt offerings on that altar. At Gibeon,
the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream at night, and God
said, Ask what I shall give you. Solomon said, You have shown
great and steadfast love to your servant David, my father, because
he walked before you in faithfulness and righteousness and uprightness
of heart toward you. And you have kept for him this
great and steadfast love, and have given him a son to sit on
his throne this day. And now, O Lord my God, you have
made your servant king in place of David my father, although
I am but a little child. I do not know how to go out or
come in. And your servant is in the midst
of your people whom you have chosen. a great people, too many
to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant,
therefore, an understanding mind to govern your people, that I
may discern between good and evil, and who is able to govern
this, your great people." It pleased the Lord that Solomon
had asked this, and God said to him, because you have asked
this and have not asked for yourself a long life or riches or the
life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself an understanding
to discern what is right, Behold, I now do according to your word.
Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind so that none
like you has seen before you or none like you shall arise
after you. I give you also what you have
not asked, both riches and honor, so that no other king shall compare
with you all your days. And if you will walk in My ways,
keep My statutes and My commandments as your father David walked,
then I will lengthen your days.' And Solomon awoke, and behold,
it was a dream. And then he came to Jerusalem
and stood before the ark of the covenant of the Lord, and offered
up burnt offerings and peace offerings, and made a feast for
all his servants. Then two prostitutes came to
the king and stood before him. And the one woman said, Oh my
Lord, this woman that I live in the same house and I gave
birth to a child while she was in the house. And then on the
third day after I gave birth, this woman also gave birth. And
we were alone. There was no one else with us
in the house. Only we two were in the house. And this woman's
son died in the night because she lay on him. and she arose
at midnight and took my son from beside me while your servant
slept and laid him at her breast, and laid her dead son at my breast. Then I arose in the morning to
nurse my child, and behold, he was dead. But when I looked at
him closely in the morning, behold, it was not the child that I had
borne. But the other woman said, No! The living child is mine
and the dead child is yours. The first said, No. The dead
child is yours, and the living child is mine.' Thus they spoke
before the king. Then the king said, The one says,
This is my son that is alive, and your son is dead. And the
other says, No, your son is dead, and my son is a living one. And
the king said, Bring me a sword. So a sword was brought before
the king. And the king said, Divide the
child in two, and give half to the one and half to the other.
Then the woman whose son was alive said to the king, because
her heart yearned for her son, oh my Lord, give her the living
child and by no means put him to death. But the other said,
he shall be neither mine nor yours, divide him. Then the king
answered and said, give the living child to the first woman and
by no means put him to death. She is his mother. And all Israel
heard of the judgment that the King had rendered, and they stood
in awe of the King because they perceived that the wisdom of
God was in Him to do justice. Let us pray. Father, we pray for Your wisdom to be
understood tonight and desired and sought after. We know it's
available for us. You say that there are storehouses
of wisdom to those who will ask. And so, Father, we pray that
You would work in us a yearning and a desire for this wisdom. That, Lord, we could live lives
of wisdom and that people could see in and through us Your wisdom
so that You get the glory and many people receive good. We
pray it in Jesus' name, Amen. You can be seated. Well, as we continue this series
on neglected virtues and we get into the virtue of wisdom, I
don't know about you, this was an easy one for me when I thought,
well, who do we study? Who's the person in the Old Testament
we study to learn about wisdom? Most all of us are going to say
Solomon. And that's because God promised
Solomon, even in this passage, promised him wisdom as none before
him had and none after him would have." And then we know that
God used Solomon to write wisdom literature. He wrote Proverbs
and Ecclesiastes and Song of Solomon. Now, look, Solomon is
not wisdom personified, okay? He, even Jesus said, one greater
than Solomon is here. And the greatest thing about
Solomon was his wisdom. And so Jesus claimed to one up
Solomon with wisdom. Jesus, it says in 1 Corinthians
1, He is the wisdom of God. Colossians 2, 3 says that all
of God's wisdom is in Christ. And so Jesus is the personification
of wisdom. He embodies it perfectly. So
what we're seeing in Solomon is some measure of Christ's wisdom
coming through Him. And we want to learn from Solomon
what true wisdom looks like. And I want to come at this in
three levels, I guess we could call them. The first level is
wisdom in self. So that's verses 1-15. Wisdom
in others is the second. That's verse 16-27. And then
the last one is wisdom in God, verse 28. So we'll just walk
through the passage like that. Let's start with the wisdom of
God and the self. The first thing you notice here
about Solomon's wisdom is that he lacks it. At least at the
beginning. Look at verse one. It says he
married Pharaoh's daughter. Now, I spent too much time studying
that out this week. You can get lost in a lot of
rabbit trails on that issue. Was this right? Was this wrong?
Most commentators say he was not actually wrong, but unwise
to do this. And we know that this first marriage
led to Solomon had a thousand wives and concubines. So this
may have opened the door for many other unwise decisions. We know that Deuteronomy 17 says
that they should not return to Egypt. And it says that a king
should not have or acquire for himself many wives, lest his
heart turn away from the Lord. And we know later in life that's
exactly what happened to Solomon. He's offering sacrifices in high
places here. That also is compromise. And
we know later by chapter 11 of 1 Kings, he's already apostatized. And so another area of compromise
because of his lack of wisdom. And then we see in verse 2 that
he builds his own house first, and then he builds the Lord's
house. At the very least, the priorities are wrong. Now the
redeeming quality of Solomon here is in verse three. It says Solomon loved the Lord. And that was genuine. And we
know it's genuine because number one, it says he loved the Lord,
but then it's also demonstrated by how he walked in the statutes
of David, his father. And I don't know if you've ever
seen anybody who genuinely loved the Lord, but because they lacked
wisdom, there were still many areas of compromise in their
life. So what is wisdom? Hukmah is
the word in Hebrew. Hukmah, what is that? And many
have said it very succinctly and we'll start at the most simple
level. It is the skill or the art of godly living. The ability
to, with skill, live godly. Some of you who are flight students,
I know we got a lot of people out tonight, but any of you who
have who are pilots, you know there are certain laws in aerodynamics
that if you follow those laws, you can keep a plane in the air,
you can fly. If you break the laws of aerodynamics,
the plane is not going to fly any longer. When it comes to
emotional realities or relational realities, there are certain
realities embedded in the universe and how people are to relate.
Wisdom works in line with those. Those who rebel against those
laws of nature, those relational or emotional realities, are fools. There are spiritual realities
in the universe. You go against those, you move
away from God, you work within those, and you move toward God.
So foolishness is living against God's created order What he has
created, it says that God created the world in wisdom. He created
the world to work in certain ways and to get your life in
line with those ways is wise. To rebel against that is foolishness. Now, let me try to make this
maybe a little more practical. About 20, 25 years ago, there
was a book written by Dan Goldman. I think I've mentioned this before.
He's not a Christian. But he wrote a book, and in that
book, he talks a lot about emotional intelligence. And this is where
they coined the phrase EQ as opposed to IQ. You know, we know
IQ, how you test your intelligence. EQ is another form of intelligence,
but different. It's an emotional intelligence.
And he argued what we need for living is not just intelligence,
a high IQ, but a high EQ. which is the ability to apply
the right emotions at the right time in the right way. So Dan
Goldman would say it is to hate the right things at the right
times. It is to love the right things at the right times. It
is to say and do the right things at the right time. That sounds
a lot like biblical wisdom. And it's interesting, there's
been a lot of studies that have come out that those with high
IQ don't necessarily succeed in life when it comes to relationships,
when it comes to holding jobs. They aren't necessarily happy
people oftentimes just because they have a high IQ. But someone
with a high EQ seems to be more successful in life. And so it's
interesting that the Western scholarly elite took about 3,000
years to come up with the same thing Solomon's arguing for over
and over in his writings. Wisdom is the ability to not
entertain every thought and pursue every emotion. It's the awareness
that My own heart and my own ideas cannot be trusted, but
God can be trusted. Wisdom is clear thinking that
weighs out consequences of actions. It's the renewed mind that's
able to test and discern what is the will of God, what is good,
acceptable, and perfect. That's wisdom. Ephesians 5.15
says, look carefully how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise,
making the best use of the time because the days are evil. Therefore,
do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
So wisdom is the ability to understand the will of God. And in the time
allotted to you, which you don't know how much you have, you order
your life according to God's will within that time frame.
That's wisdom. It's ground level Christianity,
which is what we need, especially in our church, because we love
this book and we love to study this book. But you're a very
unbalanced, I'll say it charitably, unbalanced person if you just
know a lot about this book, but you're not good at actually living
the realities of this book. That's, some have called that
lopsided Christianity. You know, you've got your theological
library all situated. You really get technical and
you understand, but your life's all out of order. And there's
a big disconnect. That would be someone who greatly
lacks wisdom. We don't want to be the lady
who's having her daily devotions, but who, she's lazy all day. We don't want to be the man who
gets a men's internship Tuesday night and we can talk about prayer,
but we never pray. And there's no godliness in our
lives. We don't want to be a man who's
diligent at work, but then comes home and has no control with
food or entertainment. We don't want to be someone who
can talk gently to strangers. but then verbally lashes out
at our own family. Wisdom aims at the formation
of the whole person. It balances the whole person.
And guess what? It doesn't just fall in our laps,
and it doesn't just come with age, and it doesn't just come
through sermons on wisdom. Wisdom is something you must
seek. You must desire it. I don't know y'alls. I don't
know everybody here. You know. You're how much you've sought
or desired wisdom in your life. I know this wasn't something
that was really on my radar much when I first became a Christian.
I thought about discipleship. I thought I need to be making
disciples. I need to be preaching the gospel and I put a lot of
time and thought into that. And then I realized, man, I don't
really even know what I'm saying to people. You know, I should
probably start reading my Bible and learning what the gospel
is and how to. And so I began to just listen to as many sermons
as I could and read scripture and study. And then I realized,
wait a minute, now I'm actually got some stuff to say. Lord,
give me the ability to preach and teach. And I started praying
for power and for the ability to preach and teach the Word.
And then I realized, what does it matter if I can preach if
I can't go and love my wife during the whole week and raise my children? And then about four years ago,
I think it became really, really clear to me. And I would say
that this desire has persisted over about four years as what
I would consider my greatest need is wisdom. As I've studied this particular
passage, here's the struggle with this word hukmah or wisdom
and trying to preach this passage to this church and to help you
see you need this. You need this. What Solomon's
praying for, what Solomon's displaying, you need it. I feel like if I
was talking to a bunch of courtroom judges, you know, who you were
sitting at a bench and you were deciding between two difficult,
in a difficult case. Is this person right? Is this
person right? Here's all the information. You know, I could
read this passage to you and you'd be like, oh yeah, absolutely. I see why I need wisdom. You
know, one woman says it's her baby. The other person says it's
her baby. You can't figure it out. Clearly, you know, wisdom's
needed. But how do I preach this passage
to you? And then you go, I need that. I need wisdom. Because I believe you need wisdom
as much as Solomon does. And so here's my argument. You
are not a judge. You are not a king. But you are
called to rule and to govern. Therefore, like Solomon, you
need wisdom. You're not a king, you're not
a judge, you're not a pastor, most of you. But you are called
to govern and to rule, and therefore you need wisdom like Solomon.
That's my argument. But let's start with Solomon
and then we'll get to us. Solomon needed wisdom because he's ruling
Israel at this point in the shadow of David, his father. That's
a high bar. Right? And he makes that clear in verse
7. He says, Oh, Lord, my God, you have made your servant king
in the place of David, my father, although I'm a little child.
So you say, where does wisdom start? It starts with a realization
of what you don't know. It starts with admitting, I don't
have what I need. Look at the end of verse 7. He
says, I do not know how to go out or come in. I'm a king, but
I don't know how to be a king. I'm in charge, but I don't know
how to lead or rule. He feels the weight of responsibility.
He says, your servant is in the midst of your people whom you
have chosen a great people too many to be numbered accounted
for multitude. And then what does he ask for?
Give your servant, therefore, an understanding mind to govern
your people. That I may discern between good
and evil. For who is able to govern? Your
great people. Now again, now I hope you see
what I'm saying when it's kind of difficult to make the application.
You go, well, I see why there's need for pastoral wisdom or if
somebody has a big place of leadership and all these people under them.
Somebody is a king, somebody is a judge. So again, you aren't a king,
you aren't a judge deciding cases, but you are called to rule something
or someone. We have, we'll call them little
kingdoms. All of us. We have things that
God has called us to be over, to rule, to govern wisely. And
many of the problems in our lives come when we haven't governed
wisely. Our family. Our home. Our work. Our self. You know, we see some sort of
disorder or neglect or failure or sin and we go, what's the
problem? We try to trace it out. Where did the thing go wrong?
Why is this such a mess? Why is there chaos here? Why
is this not right? And usually you can trace it back to a poorly
governed self. Proverbs 25 says a man without
self-control or wisdom is like a city broken into and left without
walls. So a lack of wisdom brings chaos
and disorder. Wisdom is how you reorder and
restructure your life. At least it starts
there. Which means you've got to know
your limitations. You aren't a master or ruler over Israel,
over God's people, over a nation, but you are ruler and master
over yourself. Genesis 4. Sin is knocking at
your door. Its desire is for you. But what? You must rule over it. Colossians 3, 5. Put to death,
therefore, what is earthly in you. Sounds like ruler. Sounds like a mastery over what
is earthly in you. Sexual immorality, impurity,
passion, evil desire, covetousness. So I'm not saying that you're
master of your own destiny or you're the God of your own soul.
I am saying that you are responsible to rule over what comes out of
your mouth. And what words you use. You are
responsible to rule over your bodily passions and your calendar
and how you spend your time. You know, this is one of the problems
I think with youth ministry isn't so much what, you know, is taught
to youth or even humor or something like that, that's not I think
the biggest problem with youth ministry, at least at the teaching
level, is that many tell youth that they can change the world before teaching them the basics,
like how to think logically, how to Reason, rationally, the
importance of objective truth in a culture that's relativistic
and that rejects truth. I mean, if we've never learned
basic biblical doctrines or to obey parents or to work hard
in our school and in our jobs, if we've never learned to deny
self, if we've never learned to consider someone else more
significant than ourselves, what good are we to the world? You know, everybody wants Solomon's
influence and wealth and success, or at least a lot of people do.
They want a big kingdom. But they need to start with the
little kingdom they already have. And rule that well. That's wise. Especially, you read the book
of Proverbs. So here's what's interesting when studying Solomon
when it comes to wisdom. We don't just have to look at
this passage. We also listen to what he's saying to his son.
Because remember the book of Proverbs is Solomon, the father,
speaking to his son. And we can gain a lot of wisdom
from how he speaks to his son. He says, son, you must not go
after the adulterous woman. Control your bodily impulses. Learn to love one woman, not
many women. Don't covet things that are not
yours, son. He says, control your anger.
Speak graciously. Learn to work hard. Don't be
lazy. What is He saying? He's saying, master the self. This is the boy who will be king
one day. But before he can lead a kingdom, He says, handle your
own kingdom. Handle your own self. Manage
that well, son. And then you can worry about
bigger issues. So Solomon's wise enough to know
one's ability to change bigger issues starts with their ability
to govern well the self. Let me read what he says to his
son in chapter 2. This is Proverbs 2. Listen to
Solomon's wisdom to his son. He says, my son, if you receive
my words and treasure up my commandments with you, making your ear attentive
to wisdom, inclining your heart to understanding. Yes, if you
call out for insight, if you raise your voice for understanding,
if you seek it like silver and search for it as hidden treasures.
Look at what he's putting his son's focus on. He's not just
saying you need to graduate, you need to make some money here.
He's saying what's valuable is wisdom, son. Above all else. Why? Look at verse 5. Then you
will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of
God. For the Lord gives wisdom, and from His mouth come knowledge
and understanding. He stores up sound wisdom for
the upright. And then he goes, I won't read
the whole chapter I have written out here, but he goes on and
he says, you will not commit adultery, you will manage your
money, you will handle your body. He pours out all of this wisdom,
tells his son to seek wisdom, and all of it is directed toward
his son and mastery over the self. And he says at the end of that,
if you will walk in the way of the good, the virtue, and keep
the paths of the righteous, if you live wise and virtuous, son,
you will inhabit the land, those who remain in integrity." So
Solomon's wisdom to his son, who would later be king, is rule
and govern yourself, then you can rule and govern a kingdom. This is very important also to
notice how much emphasis is in Proverbs regarding wisdom to
conquer sexual sin. We won't do this now, but if
you want to read later Proverbs chapter 5 or Proverbs chapter
7, this father has long teachings for his son on how to be sexually
pure. And here's what he tells him
he needs. He puts the focus on one issue to keep purity. Wisdom. Wisdom. And then Paul, in 1 Corinthians
6, Paul makes this argument to the church in Corinth that can't
control their bodies sexually. He says, your body's a temple
of the Holy Spirit. Make sure it's pure. How do you
keep your body pure? Wisdom. Ephesians 5, Paul says
the same thing about avoiding sexual immorality to the church
in Ephesus, and he says, get wisdom. He says you keep being
unwise and doing foolish things and you don't have good discretion,
therefore you are immoral. Get wisdom. And that flows into
his teaching on marriage and parenting in Ephesians 5 and
6. Why is parenting so hard? It's
hard. Why is parenting hard? Especially
when they're little. Because they don't show up at
your doorstep. You know, well or well ordered,
very obedient. Knowing how to walk wisely, right,
they show up and there's disorder, there's chaos. They don't know
what to do. They're all over the place and
wise parenting is going, this is the path. And they're all
over the place and you just keep. Making the path straight. And it takes a long time. And
God gives us 18 years, usually, or so. But that's not how our
culture thinks about this. The long approach. You know,
our culture, we live in a culture that everybody, you know, we
want to fix the biggest problems in the world with a Facebook
post. The most complex global issues,
you know, hey, listen to this guys, bam, you know, We don't
want 18 years to try to give someone wisdom, right? We want,
give me two minutes of your time to read this post and I'll fix
everything wrong with the world. It lacks wisdom. you know, are all the outcries
of the environmentalists in our day. They're saying, and please
don't, this isn't about that, don't come up to me afterward
and talk to me, I'm giving an illustration here, but they'll warn, the trajectory
is bad. If we keep treating the planet
like this, it's going to go bad, right? The irony often is, there's
such a concern about the big global geopolitical issues, the
cultural issues, but yet, very little concern, not even half
as much concern about their own life or their marriage. These
things are often very backwards. Here's another example, Japan.
Talking to somebody yesterday about this. They're seeking to
change the world with technology, maybe cutting edge innovation,
but They're not going to be a culture
or civilization in the future because they can't reproduce
at a rate to be a culture or civilization. Putting all this
time, all this effort, all this into becoming this amazing country,
amazing nation, but yet you can't reproduce children at a rate
to even be a country. Lacks wisdom. You know, there is obviously,
as you all know, much talk about social justice in our day. Much
of it lacks wisdom. Because it's not grounded in
facts, or reality, or real responsibility. It's just random, non-grounded
outcries of anger. You know, look at Solomon though.
Solomon actually does justice. He does social justice. for these
two ladies, why? Because he actually had two ladies
before him. He actually had facts and reality
to deal with and he could actually do justice because he wasn't
just shooting it out into outer space. He was dealing with real
people and dealing with a situation that was actually on his plate
to solve. There's wisdom in that. You know,
our culture cares more about aligning with political parties
and matters of justice than actually doing real justice. You ever
notice that? It's way more acceptable if you
just line up with this person or line up with this person politically
on a matter of justice rather than just actually doing justice. And by the way, we will be judged
on Judgment Day for what we actually did that was just not what we
believed or lined up with on social media. We will be judged for what we
do. Wisdom starts with self handling
our own kingdom first. Deal with what's on our plate
before we worry about what's on someone else's plate. Now,
wisdom and others, the second point, I'm not going to re-read
this whole story, but it is quite a situation, right? You've got
two ladies fighting over a baby. They both say it's theirs. What
does Solomon do for them? He loves them. He loves these
two prostitutes. He's able to actually love them.
It says he does justice and he does. But what is justice? In
this case, he's actually loving that baby so that that baby goes
to the right mother and that mother actually gets her baby
back. That's love. And so let me take a little side
note here. Jonathan Edwards, he has an old sermon that's called
The Nature of True Virtue. And his argument is that the
highest of all virtues is benevolence, love. And some of y'all, maybe
you're aware, people in our church, I think, understand this. Some
people outside of our little world think we're a little odd.
We put a lot of time and money into helping our children gain
virtue. I'm speaking, I guess, of our
family. That's a great time-consuming, money-consuming thing that we
think is very important, to instill in them virtue. But if we instill
in them all these virtues, but they have not love, they have
nothing. Love really is the greatest of
all virtues. It really is. You say, Pastor,
are you going to preach a sermon on the neglected virtue of love?
No, because it's not neglected. We preach about this all the
time. Talk about God's love for us. We talk about our love for
God. We talk about our love for each other. I don't think this
is so much a neglected one, but I will say, if we don't have
wisdom, we won't actually love in biblical ways. The connection
between wisdom and love is that you can't actually love people
biblically without wisdom. Paul said that. Philippians 1,
he says, I want you to grow more and more in love with all knowledge
and discernment. So love abounds when you have
knowledge and discernment, when that love is wise and discerning
love. That's Paul's prayer for the
Philippians. Let me, maybe this might be helpful. Sometimes we can become wise
or we can always become wise by just studying the Bible. Obviously
this is, as my wise son said this morning, dad, if we want
wisdom, we just study the Bible. I'm like, okay, I guess I could
just say that today, you know, that would be helpful. So that's
true, right? We study the scripture and we
can gain much wisdom from that. But what do you do about all
the situations that there isn't necessarily a verse for? Like
this one that Solomon's dealing with. Two ladies show up and
they both say it's their baby, and the baby was born at the
same time. You can't look at the baby and tell. What do you
do? Did Solomon go, oh, hold on a
second, I think I read something. No, he had no, there is no verse
to speak to that. There are 10,000 You know, situations
in our lives every day that there is no verse to specifically speak
to that. Therefore, we need wisdom. You know, maybe one way to say
it is his with his theological Solomon's theology informed his
anthropology in his psychology. He didn't make a decision strictly
out of his theology. That theology informed his anthropology,
his psychology. He understood if I threatened
to kill the baby with a sword, surely the real mother will scream
out. He understood human nature. He
understood human emotion. He understood something about
people. And therefore he could do justice. He could do love.
but he's working outside of a particular verse. And so often we need wisdom
to even know what virtue is. How do I even know the right
thing to do so many times when there isn't a verse that explicitly
tells me how much I'm supposed to watch TV or not watch TV,
or how I educate my kids or don't educate my kids, or what time
I wake up in the morning or don't wake up? The verse doesn't tell
me exactly. What do I need? I need wisdom.
to discern those things, and the way I discern those things
will result in how virtuous or non-virtuous I am. So how do we become wise? Well,
practically, we pray. That's the first thing. Charles
Bridges says, earthly wisdom can be gained through study,
heavenly wisdom through prayer. Solomon asked for wisdom. God
said, ask whatever you want. Solomon said, I want wisdom.
And then God said, well, because you've asked for wisdom, I'll
give you the other stuff. As well. And in church, look. That same offers on the table
for you. Ask and it will be given to you. James 1 says, if anyone lacks
wisdom, let him ask God who gives generously to all without reproach,
and it will be given to him. That's your new covenant promise. You know, I was speaking to a
man earlier this week and we were talking about parenting.
It wasn't anybody in our church. But he said, man, I don't know
how to lead my son. I don't know how to be a dad.
And he's like, you you seem to know how to be a dad. I'm like,
well, I do know how to be a dad. I'm not always a good one, but
I do know what I'm supposed to do. He's like, well, how do you
know that? Like, well, you just told me earlier, sir, that you've
not you don't read your Bible and you don't go to church. So
you're neglecting. You're neglecting what God's
given you to learn how to be a dad. You're not availing yourself
of the wisdom that He puts before you. Like you could. You know, that's hopeful for
you, but you haven't done that. You haven't asked for wisdom.
You haven't gone to the Word. You haven't gathered with His
people. You know, there's two institutions
that God really loves to give wisdom through. Maybe you've
never thought of it in this way. Human institutions God has appointed
that He loves to dispense wisdom through. The first is parents
to children. He loves in a family for parents
to pour wisdom into their kids. You know, that's ideally what
should happen in all of our lives. We get wisdom in the home. But
then we also have the church. Which Ephesians says God loves
to display His wisdom in the church. Through the church, it says,
the manifold wisdom of God is made known. Proverbs 24.6 says,
by wise guidance you can wage war, and in abundance of counselors
there is victory. So, Hebrew parallelism there.
Wise guidance equals abundance of counselors. I get wise guidance
through an abundance of wise counselors. Where are the wise
counselors? In the church. There's wisdom here among us. Look, some of y'all are very
discontented with your lives. You know, maybe you don't like
your job. Maybe you don't like your body. Maybe you don't like your health.
certain circumstances in your life, you have desires, right? Listen to this. Listen to Proverbs
1. Proverbs 1 says, for the gain
from her wisdom is better than the gain from silver or the profit
from gold. She is more precious than jewels
and nothing you desire can compare with her. Solomon desired wisdom
above all else. He said, I want wisdom. That's
the greatest thing I want. And what did God do? He said,
because you ask for the greatest thing, Solomon, I'll give you
the other things. Listen, this is not prosperity
preaching what I'm about to say here, OK? It's not. Solomon asked
for wisdom and God gave him health, wealth and prosperity. What is that then? You say, if
that's not prosperity gospel, what is that? That's Jesus in
Matthew 6.33 that says, seek first the kingdom of God and
all these things will be added to you. Solomon didn't ask for
wisdom just for his own pleasure and enjoyment. He asked for wisdom
for the sake of advancing the kingdom. Seek first the kingdom
and my righteousness and then I'll give you all the other things
that you need and desire. sometimes desire, not always,
but need always. That's not prosperity gospel,
that's a generous God. That's our God. That's the God
that Solomon said, give me the thing I need the most, Lord.
And then God said, you know what? I'll give you that and I'll give
you all the other stuff. That's a generous God. Here's the last, let's just end
on this last point. Solomon's wisdom in God. Let's
just look at verse 28. And before we do, let me say
this, maybe some of you have noticed that this sermon sounds
like, maybe you haven't studied this, but Aristotelian virtue
ethics, that may mean nothing to some of you, Greek philosophy,
Plato, Aristotle, Much of what I've said, honestly, is just
Greek philosophy, the best of it, the best of Western thought.
When I'm saying master the self, deal with your own kingdom before
you deal with bigger matters, that's basic logic, that's just
pure wisdom, even on a worldly level. Even the world goes, wow,
that makes sense. It's not necessarily Christian. So what makes this Christian?
Well, verse 28 makes this Christian. Look at verse 28. It says, they
perceived the wisdom of God was in him. They aren't just seeing
Solomon's wisdom. They're seeing God. They're seeing
something of God in and through Solomon. so that Solomon isn't
glorified, but God is. Remember, that's how it's supposed
to work. Lord, let them see our good works and what? Give glory
to the Father who's in heaven. That's what virtue is about.
That's why we're kind. That's why we're loving. That's
why we're meek. That's why we're gentle. That's why we honor. That's why
we... All of these virtues. So that they see our good works
and they give glory to our Father. They saw Solomon's wisdom But
they didn't see Solomon. They saw God's wisdom. This is
not moralism. This is God-centered living. And all of this is from God,
through God, to God. And I want to just end reading
a passage. And this will be just to kind
of walk us into the table. A passage about the wisdom of
God. 1 Corinthians 1. You can just
listen to this. You don't have to turn over there.
Where is the wise? Where is the scribe? Where is
the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the
wisdom of the world? Since in the wisdom of God, the
world did not know God through wisdom. It pleased God through
the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. For the
Jews demand signs, and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ
crucified, a stumbling block to Jews, and folly to Gentiles,
but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ,
the power of God, and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of
God is wiser than man, and the weakness of God is stronger than
men. For consider your calling, brothers, not many of you are
wise according to worldly standards, amen? Not many of you were noble. But God chose what is foolish
in the world to shame the wise. God chose what is weak in the
world to shame the strong. God chose what is low and despised
in the world, even the things that are not, to bring to nothing
the things that are. So that no human being might
boast in the presence of God. And because of Him, listen, because
of Him, you are in Christ Jesus who has become to us wisdom from
God, righteousness, sanctification and redemption, so that as it
is written, let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord. So our boast
is the wisdom of God. The God who looked down on a
world of rebel fools and sent his son. That's the wisest thing
ever to happen in history. God saw rebel fools and sent
his son and his son died for their sins and reconciled them
to the Father. What Jesus accomplished on the
cross that we remember in the table is the greatest display
of wisdom we've ever seen. And we're fools if we don't know
that. And we're wise if we embrace it, and believe it, and treasure
it, and trust it. Let's pray, church. Father, Lord, we know these things are
miraculous. Lord, we don't come across the wisdom to believe
in Your Son through our own intellect. Lord, You say it is not the wisdom
of this world that we could know You. It's the folly of what we
preach. It's Christ crucified. So Lord,
we don't want to be wise people that just say things and know
things and do things, but Christ is not a part of it. We're not
interested in that type of wisdom. Let the world have that, Lord.
We want the wisdom that comes from You, that starts with Your
Son, Jesus Christ, hanging on a cross, dying for our sins,
coming out of the grave alive, giving us life and virtue so
that people see us and they give glory to our Father in Heaven.
We ask for that type of wisdom. And Lord, we ask it so that You
get glory and many people are blessed and helped. We pray these
things in Jesus' name, Amen.
The Neglected Virtue of Wisdom
Series Neglected Virtues
| Sermon ID | 53121137193975 |
| Duration | 51:50 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 Kings 3 |
| Language | English |
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