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Greetings, all. Greetings. This is the first day of May. Actually, I thought it was the
last day of April until yesterday. And I had prepared the ongoing
First John material and then found out Saturday afternoon.
Uh-oh. So once again, I called Fred
and Fred said, hey, we can make it work, we can make it work.
And it's amazing to me that normally we do the communion service,
it's very Christ-oriented, but so much of what Fred does is
Christ-oriented in the first place that it was not a big deal
to just switch. And so we're just, I'm grateful
and thankful to Fred and to Lauren to just kind of going with this
doddering old fool as he forgets. So let's pray. Father, I just
continue to thank you for your grace and thank you for your
goodness. Lord, I thank you that you are
the God who we worship, the God who gifts us over and over again. And we just again thank you for
the freedom that we have, the ability to gather still that
we have. And I just praise you and thank you for that. And this
morning, Lord, as we again are in your book, First John, I just
pray that your spirit would guide us, that you would Give us the
gift of the presence of your Holy Spirit and that you would
give us the ability to make this a permanent value. And I pray
this in Jesus' name, amen. Well, our text this morning actually
brings us to the end of chapter three of John's first letter. And we find there John is exhorting
us in three different areas. He says to us, number one, let
us love. Number two, let us pray. And
number three, let us obey. And he starts off the paragraph
where we left off last week, and that's the subject of love
for the brethren. This is 1 John 3, 18 through
24. He says, little children, let
us not love in word or talk, but in deed and in truth. By
this we shall know that we are of the truth and reassure our
heart before him. For whenever our heart condemns
us, God is greater than our heart and he knows everything. Beloved,
if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before
God. And whatever we ask, we receive from him, because we
keep his commandments and do what pleases him. And this is
his commandment, that we believe in the name of his son, Jesus
Christ, and love one another, just as he has commanded us.
Whoever keeps his commandments abides in God, and God in him.
And by this we know that he abides in us, by the spirit whom he
has given us. Well, John makes it crystal clear
that if you don't have love for your brothers and sisters in
Christ, the chances are very good that you're not a born-again
believer in Jesus Christ. And last week I pointed out that
there are markers that demonstrate whether or not you are members
of the kingdom. And those markers might not be
what you think they are. But John said this in 1 John
3.14, he said, we know that we passed out of death into life
because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides
in death. Everyone who hates his brother
is a murderer. And you know that no murderer
has eternal life abiding in him. So I can't emphasize too highly
the fact that God says if we lack love for the brethren, we
are not saved. Moving from spiritual death to
spiritual life is exactly what it means to be born again. But
there's something else that John insists must accompany our understanding,
and that is the love that we have for our brothers and sisters
in Christ. I pointed out that there's two
different levels of love that John is describing in verses
14 and 15. He says, whoever does not love abides in death. And
then he says, everyone who hates his brother is a murderer. And
what I said last week is what John is doing here. He's removing
any middle ground. What he's saying is if you don't
love your brother in Christ, then actually you hate him. And
if you hate him, essentially you're a murderer. And here he's
echoing Jesus' own words from the Sermon on the Mount. This
is what Jesus said in Matthew 5. He says, You have heard that
it was said to those of old, You shall not murder, but whoever
murders will be liable to judgment. But I say to you that everyone
who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment. Whoever
insults his brother will be liable to the council, and whoever says,
You fool, will be liable to the hell of fire. And so between
the words of Jesus and John, we understand what God means
when he talks about loving the brethren. I gave a teaching a
few years back on just what that means practically speaking. And
again, it's probably not what you think it is. This is what
Jesus said in John 13, 34. He says, A new commandment I
give to you, that you love one another as I have loved you.
and that you also love one another. And by this all will know that
you are my disciples if you have love for one another." And so
the first thing that we notice here is that Jesus is not making
this love optional. This is a command. I mean we
are under orders to love one another. And this whole idea
of love being a command, it strikes us as strange because we tend
to think of love strictly as an emotion. I mean, who can demand,
who can command that we feel a certain way? And because we
thoroughly identify with love only as an emotion, we think
we have the option of loving those that we find lovable and
avoiding those that we don't. You know, people who frighten
us, people who anger and annoy us, people who, frankly, we just
can't stand. I mean, surely we don't have
to love those people. We have to really love them. Well, Jesus says they are precisely
who he is referring to. Jesus said this in Luke 6. He
said, if you love those who love you, what benefit is that to
you? For even sinners love those who
love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you,
what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same.
See, the true mark of a loving church is not how well she loves
the lovely and the lovable. I mean, Jesus is absolutely unimpressed
with that. It's how well she loves those
who cannot or will not love her back. And that applies to those
outside the church, but it especially applies to those who are inside. Love the brethren is not an option. And one of the most important
functions of the local body of Christ is to move folks to learn
how to make every effort to love. I mean, God does that by taking
people with nothing in common but Jesus and then gathering
them together to show that Jesus Christ and the power of his Holy
Spirit can conquer their differences and demonstrate the true power
of God. And that power is the love of
God. A local body is supposed to showcase
that love by demonstrating a supernatural ability to love folks who don't
love them back. And again, the part that we have
a hard time grappling with is that this love is an imperative.
It's not optional. Christ said you must love one
another. And we're very confused as to
what that love is all about. I mean, we think of love as a
feeling, as an emotion, as something that comes up from our gut. And
again, we struggle with this idea of God commanding a gut
reaction. What if I can't muster it? Well the fact is a gut reaction
is not what God demands of us in the first place. I've said it before, love is
not something you feel, it's something you do. It's not a
matter of emotion so much as it is a matter of obedience. Now we think of love as the end
product of a process that starts with acquaintance and then it
kind of moves onward to friendship and then it ends in love. I mean,
wonder how in the world am I supposed to love somebody I don't even
like? Well, nothing could be further
from God's idea. You see, when John says we know
that we have passed out of death into life because we love the
brothers, he's expecting us to love people we don't necessarily
like. And the greatest example of that
kind of love in the New Testament obviously is the Good Samaritan.
You know it's easy to miss the sting of God choosing as his
model of what love is a Samaritan because in so doing he picked
one of Israel's most despised enemies and at the time that
Jesus gave this parable the Jews had elevated hatred for enemies
basically to an art form. They detested the Samaritans
as a group of half-breeds who had intermarried out of the Jewish
faith, polluted the worship of God, and installed a false form
of worship. I mean, Jewish travelers would
go routinely miles and miles out of their way to avoid stepping
even one foot into Samaritan territory, and they considered
detesting them to be a matter of honor. So Jesus selecting
a Samaritan as an example was no mere coincidence. And the
story itself occurs in Luke 10. This is the story. It says, and
behold, a certain lawyer stood up and tested him saying, teacher,
what shall I do to inherit eternal life? He said to him, what is
written in the law? What's your reading of it? So
he answered and said, you shall love the Lord your God with all
of your heart, with all of your soul, with all of your strength,
and with all of your mind, and your neighbor as yourself. And
he said to him, you have answered rightly. Do this and you will
live. But he, wanting to justify himself,
said to Jesus, and who is my neighbor? Then Jesus answered
and said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho
and fell among thieves, who stripped him of his clothing, wounded
him, and departed, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a certain
priest came down that road, and when he saw him, he passed by
on the other side. Likewise, a Levite, when he arrived
at the place, came and looked and passed by on the other side,
but a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was.
And when he saw him, he had compassion. So he went to him and bandaged
his wounds, pouring on oil and wine, and he set him on his own
animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. On the
next day, when he departed, he took out two denarii, gave them
to the innkeeper, and said to him, take care of him. And whatever
more you spend, when I come again, I will repay you. So which of
these three do you think was neighbor to him who fell among
the thieves? And he said, he who showed mercy
on him. Then Jesus said to him, go and
do likewise. What I love about this passage
also is that Jesus' brilliance is really on display here. I
mean, if you recall, this lawyer, it says this lawyer tested Jesus
by asking him how to obtain eternal life. And when Jesus commends
him for stating correctly that he has to above all love God
and love his neighbor, he asked Jesus, who's my neighbor? But
he asks him in a snide, snarky kind of way. I mean, the scripture
says seeking to justify himself. And of course, Jesus, knowing
that these folks detested saying even the word Samaritan, as he's
answering to this guy, he's boxing him into a corner. And at the
end, he asks him, which of these three was his neighbor? The man
is stuck. He can't even bring himself to
say the word the Samaritan by giving him that little honor.
And so he's stuck, and he looks at him, and he says, he who showed
mercy on him. Don't mess with Jesus. He'll
put you in a place where you don't want to be. And Jesus is
defining two very important things here. First, he defines love
not as what you feel, but as what you do. And secondly, he's
defining what a neighbor is. He points out that a neighbor
is not somebody who just lives close to you. He's pointing out
that a neighbor is someone who is identified to you as someone
in need. And Jesus said to the lawyer
in verse 36, so which of these three do you think was neighbor
to him who fell among the thieves? So your neighbor can live down
the street or he can live on the other side of the world.
And what makes him a neighbor is not his location. It's his
need. And when God places someone with
a need on your heart or into your life, he's asking if you
are willing to become his neighbor. I mean, in other words, Mr. Rogers
was on to something when he said, won't you be my neighbor? I mean,
he knew that once you've acknowledged someone as your neighbor, you
therefore have an obligation to love him as a neighbor. And
Jesus just happens to select for his story a neighbor who
happens to be physically unconscious. This is a person who can contribute
absolutely nothing by way of personal response other than
the fact that he's needy. And notice the way the Samaritan
loves this neighbor. It's not with what he feels.
It's with what he does. And there's absolutely no place
in this story for love to have anything to do with feeling or
emotion. In fact, how the Samaritan or
how the victim felt, it was completely immaterial. Now, a modern equivalent
might be a volunteer emergency medical technician treating an
accident victim with a head injury who's incredibly belligerent.
I mean, does he like the person who is cursing and screaming
at him? No. Is he loving the person he's
caring for? Absolutely. And how does he love
him? Does he love him by trying to
drum up some warm fuzzies for the guy? or by binding his wounds
in spite of the abuse. You see, love is not what you
feel, it's what you do. And when Jesus demands of us
to love one another, he is demanding action, not feeling. And furthermore, God says when
feelings cause us to confine our love to those people that
we find lovely, we're no different than pagans. He says, if you
love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even
sinners love those who love them. I mean, God says, hey, big deal.
I can't overemphasize how important this is to God and how much of
it is presented to us as non-optional commandments. This is Jesus in
John 15, he says, this is my commandment that you love one
another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than
this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are
my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you
servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing,
but I have called you friends. For all that I have heard from
my father I have made known to you. You did not choose me but
I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit
and that your fruit should abide so that whatever you ask the
father in my name he may give it to you. These things I command
you so that you will love one another. Love is not Christ's
suggestion to his people. It's an absolutely non-negotiable
demand. God has given us a place where
people themselves become God's primary resource for developing
our ability to love people we might not like. That place is
right here. The place is the church. And
that ability usually grows through conflict and through struggle. I mean, after all, if you only
love the people who love you, what credit is that to you? If
you only pursue those relationships that are safe and mutually protective,
well, don't expect to grow. Even pagans do that. If you're
willing to let God grow your capacity to love, then the church
is the perfect place for that to happen. And, you know, for
many today, that model is the megachurch. But for me, it's
really just the opposite. And I know it's a fact that there
are large churches that can do lots of things that small churches
can't do. And I thank God for the blessings
that they have been. But there's also some things
that small churches can do that big churches can't do as well.
I mean, I had a friend a while back. I hadn't seen him for a
long time. And I asked him how things were going. I said, how
you doing church-wise? And he told me that he'd recently
left a church that he'd been attending for two years. And
it was a mega church. And I said, well, what was their
response to your leaving? And he just chuckled. And he said,
they had no idea it was there in the first place. I mean, if you
walk into this building, I can tell you something. You will
be noticed. That's one of the blessings of
a small church. I know some large churches make it mandatory for
you to belong to a small group. And I think that's helpful. But
here's the point, if you go to a church on a regular basis and
you don't have a relationship with anyone who has any spiritual
authority in that church, and if you're not in a position to
get to know some of those people and for them to get to know you,
you're not really getting the point of going to church. You're
just attending a service. Now, Rosario Butterfield said
it well in a Lisa Childers podcast on biblical sexuality. This is
what she said. She said, quote, if you're part
of a mega church and your pastor has no idea who you are, and
your small group is made of people who are sinning in the same way
that you are, flee, OK? Run. In fact, nobody's going
to notice you're missing, so don't worry about it. Well, the
test of whether your church is real for you is actually, it's
very simple. The test is, if you left, would
anybody notice? I mean, COVID did an absolute number on all
churches, big and little, by encouraging everyone to retreat
to the safety of their own living rooms to watch it on television. And we were no exception. I mean,
it certainly was understandable, given the dangers there. But
there's a danger of isolating yourself into a self-protective
family unit that's just as real and present today. You got to understand God knew
exactly what he was doing when he organized the body of Christ.
He knows what happens when people come together. I mean, the very
first church that was organized, it had the very first big church
fight. And it was a fight over whether
or not two different groups of Jews were being treated equally.
But out of that fight came the office of deacon. I mean God
understood exactly that it's conflict and stress and difficulty
that produces the growth that lets God's glory and love shine. That's why God designed the body
of Christ to be a group of people related only by the fact that
they love Jesus. I mean bring any group together
and there's bound to be conflict and that's really by design.
I mean God did say in Proverbs 27 iron sharpens iron as one
man sharpens another. And when you add racial and cultural
and ethnic and just plain human friction to it, you have a recipe
for conflict. And you'll find that God will
be right there at the center of those conflicts if you let
him, because that's where the real growth takes place. I mean,
the worst reason to leave a church is that you are engaged in a
conflict with a fellow believer, yet that's one of the main reasons
why people leave churches. I mean, God knows that sometimes
conflicts within a church are unavoidable. But God causes all
things, even conflicts, to work together for good to those who
love him. And Romans 12 tells us, if possible, so far as it
depends on you, live peaceably with all. And someone pointed
out that living peaceably with all is not an easy task, and
God recognizes that because this command has not one but two different
qualifiers. I mean, Paul says, first of all,
if it's at all possible, meaning that sometimes it will be impossible. And that means sometimes there
are and will be legitimate conflicts. Conflicts over doctrine, conflicts
over truth, conflicts over character, where people are going to take
sides. And the command then lists a second qualifier. It says,
so far as it depends on you. What God is saying here is that
he's only going to hold you responsible for your side of the street,
your side of the arguments. What takes place on the other
side is someone else's responsibility. God clearly recognizes that human
beings are messy, and that relationships are messy, and that churches
can be messy as well. And more often than not, people
leave churches because they have the wrong idea that the church
is supposed to be a place where no conflict ever takes place.
Well, the fact is, church should be the place where no conflict
goes unresolved. Because our love for Jesus must
be bigger than any potential conflict we might be involved
in. Our desire to honor him by resolving the conflict should
outweigh any desire to win at any cost. If God has taught us
anything, it's that winning isn't everything a servant attitude
is. I mean, if Jesus could leave heaven itself and live out his
life perfectly and then take that life to the cross as a sacrifice
so that we, by faith, could exchange his perfection for our sin and
stand before a holy God, now worthy of heaven, if he could
give up everything for us, we certainly should give up our
desire to win at all costs. And that's why God says, by this
we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought
to lay down our lives for the brothers. But if anyone has the
world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart
against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children,
let us not love in word or talk, but in deed and in truth. By
this we shall know that we are of the truth and reassure our
heart before him. What John is saying is let your
love be marked not by what you say, but by what you do. And the truth that you embrace
while you are doing it. And then he writes this in verse
20. He says, For whenever our heart condemns us, God is greater
than our heart, and he knows everything. I tell you, I probably
read 15 or 20 different commentators. gets this verse, it's a very
difficult verse. They're trying to figure out
what exactly is John saying here. And it seems to me that John
says when we ask ourselves if we're really loving the brethren,
it's reassuring to be able to point to a practical reality
of me actually doing something to love my brothers and sisters
rather than some theoretical talking point. It's a lot easier
to recognize my love as real when it consists of actual doing
instead of some theoretical posturing. But even so, John recognizes
that a heart that's tuned in to deeds and truth is still subject
to the whims of broken consciences such as we all have. And he suggests
that even at those times when our heart condemns us, we are
to take solace in the fact that God is far bigger than the petty
battles that take place between the healthy and the unhealthy
parts of our conscience. And he knows us better than we
know ourselves. Then John goes on to address part number two,
which is let us pray. He says, beloved, if our heart
does not condemn us, we have confidence before God and whatever
we ask, we receive from him because we keep his commandments and
do what pleases him. Now, does that mean as long as
we obey his commandments and do what pleases him, we're going
to get whatever we ask for? Well, that all depends on what
we ask for. See, it's important to realize here that when John
speaks of receiving whatever we ask from God, he's relying
on a whole history of statements that he's made in the Gospels
and the other letters that he's written that qualify exactly
what it is he's saying. He's made this statement before.
In John 14, John says, whatever you, this is quoting Jesus, he
says, whatever you ask in my name, this I will do that the
father may be glorified in the son. And in John 15, Jesus says,
you did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you
should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide
so that whatever you ask the father in my name, he may give
it to you. So what is God actually saying
here? I mean, is this truly what the name it and claim it prosperity
preaching suggests? That you have not because you
just haven't asked in the right way? Well, no. I mean, neither James nor John
nor anywhere else in scripture are you going to find an appeal
to your flesh that's going to be answered by prayer. And probably
the easiest way to understand what Jesus is saying here when
he tells us that anything we ask for in his name, he will
give us. is to put it in the context that
he originally intended it to mean. And to ask for something
in someone's name is to speak for that person as if you were
them. So Jesus is promising us that
anything that we ask for as if we were him, with his heart and
his passion and his desire and his kingdom inside, any prayer
that we ask with those qualifiers is going to be answered yes.
That usually doesn't include Cadillacs winning lottery tickets
and trips to Disney World. James does state quite clearly
the obvious reason why we don't see answered prayer. He says,
you ask and do not receive because you ask amiss that you may spend
it on your pleasures. Have you ever asked amiss? I'm sure every one of us has
been guilty of that. But what if you feel you've met
all of the qualifications? What if you're asking for good,
solid kingdom priorities? And still the answer is no. What
then? Well, just the other day, two
or three days ago, I was watching a sports series. It was about
Tom Brady, the quarterback for the Buccaneers, considered the
best quarterback of all time. There's a show about him. And he was quoting in that show
a Chinese proverb. that hit me about how we react
to circumstances. And it made perfect sense listening
to him repeat this proverb about how we treat answered prayer.
The proverb goes like this. It says, there was an ancient
Chinese farmer who had one of his horses run away. And his
friends all came around him, surrounded him, and said, you
lost your horse. Oh, what a tragedy. And he responded simply with
one word. He said, maybe. A few days later, it says the
horse returned, this time with 10 other horses with it. The
farmer's neighbor said, what a great event. This is a time
to celebrate. And the farmer simply said, maybe. So the farmer began to enjoy
his many horses. But then one day, his son fell
off one of the horses while he was riding and then broke his
leg. Now, the farmers, the friends, and the neighbors, they saw it
as a catastrophe. And they asked if he didn't think so as well.
And he simply said, maybe. But then the Chinese rulers started
drafting young boys to go after war and they found that the boy
wasn't able to serve because his leg was broken. The neighbors
once more said to the farmer, isn't this a blessing to which
he said, maybe. How many times have you and I
seen things as either blessings or curses that turned out to
be exactly the opposite of what we thought they might be? Only
God knows the future. Only God is omniscient. Only
God knows the full implications of all the things that we're
asking of Him. So we can ask God for good, solid,
biblical, kingdom things, and maybe it will turn out that way,
and maybe it won't. God alone knows. And He still
has the right to say yes or no based on our good and His glory. John says, Beloved, if our heart
does not condemn us, we have confidence before God and whatever
we ask, we receive from him because we keep his commandments and
do what pleases him. What John is talking about here
is the confidence that comes from an ongoing relationship
with the living God. I mean, we have confidence that
yes or no with regard to prayer still comes from the same place
of God's deep love for us and his desire for his own glory. And because we keep his commandments
and do what pleases him, we can say just like Paul said when
God said no to one of his requests. This is what Paul said. He said,
so to keep me from becoming conceited because of the surpassing greatness
of the revelations, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger
of Satan to harass me, to keep me from becoming conceited. Three
times I pleaded with the Lord about this, that it should leave
me. But he said to me, my grace is sufficient for you, for my
power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore, I will boast all the
more gladly of my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may
rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then
I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions,
and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am
strong. So Paul comes up with some amazing
insights about his own character through this lengthy process
of being denied his requests by God. Now, I just want you
to think for a second. Do you think that Paul actually
sat down with God and had a conversation where God said, Paul, I think
you're getting conceited, and because of the surpassing greatness
of the revelations that I've given you, I'm going to give
you this thorn in the flesh? I rather doubt that that's the
way it happened. You see, God reveals bits and pieces of who
he is to us progressively within the context of our relationship
with him. At least that's the way it's
occurred in my own personal journey. My own personal journey has been
a piece of information here, a piece of information there,
an intuition here, an intuition there, a connection here, a connection
there. And then I start to see what
I could not see before. particularly with regard to prayers
that God has chosen to answer no. You know, people complain that God
doesn't answer prayer, but I think a lot of times they just misinterpret
any of the three answers that God always gives to prayer, and
that is yes, no, and wait. I mean, the one answer from God
that no one ever complains about is the yes. We don't complain
about it, we just often forget it. I mean, I truly do wish that
I had kept a journal of answered prayer in my years as a Christian,
because I know I've gotten hundreds of yeses, and I also know that
I've forgotten almost all of them. You know, the two issues
of prayer that people take issue with is wait and no. And a huge one is wait. I mean,
I've done whole messages on our Western way of the way we receive
God's responses to prayer. And, you know, we Westerners,
we want it, and we want it now. We want it yesterday. God's way
has always not been Western. It's been Eastern. It's been
a matter of slowness, then suddenness. God's reacting not at all the
way Westerners expect. It's never been based on speed.
We have ample examples of God clearly answering prayer, but
in time spans that we would interpret as a no or as an abandonment
instead of as wait. God took 25 years to answer Abraham's
prayer for a son and never once apologized for being tardy. He
took 40 years to answer Moses' prayer to free Israel from Egypt.
He's taken over 2,000 years to answer the prayers for his return,
and that still hasn't happened yet. And it won't happen until
the very last sheep enters into the sheepfold. And yet we still
pray because, quote, we have confidence before God. And whatever
we ask, we receive from him because we keep his commandments and
do what pleases him. And, you know, we also develop
confidence before God when he says no to our prayers. I mean, I know now that some
of God's no answers to my prayers had to do with my immaturity
and some of them had to do with my ego. I mean, there are times
when I've asked God for something exactly the way James says we
shouldn't. He says, you have not because
you ask amiss to spend it on yourself. And learning how not
to ask amiss is a process that takes time. It's incredibly easy
to mix up motives and think you're asking for something of great
kingdom value. In reality, that's not true at
all. I mean, I've said it many times. The two things that I
ask for on a daily basis and have done so for many, many years
is not just wisdom, which God promises to give if you just
ask for, but also for the ability to see my own sin and folly when
God is presenting it right before my eyes. It's not pleasant, but
it's a genuine blessing to be able to hear God when he's saying
something that you don't want to hear. When he says, I'm not
granting you that prayer because you're asking for it to feed
your own ego and not my kingdom. And then when he adds, you're
so self-protective that somehow or other you can't seem to hear
it or see it. I mean, I've told people this before. The very
first time that God told me that I really want to preach in order
to feed my own ego, in order to make people think that I'm
smart. God is saying this. I said, ooh,
that's not me. That couldn't possibly be me. Who would have
such a base motive to want to do that? That couldn't possibly
be me. God, it's you. That's not an easy thing to hear.
I mean, it's jarring to finally realize that God sees all of
you and yet for some reason has still decided to love you. And
God very slowly, very kindly, very lovingly assured me that
yes, he still loved me. And the reason why his answer
to prayer was no is because I was pursuing my own agenda and not
the kingdom's far more than I ever realized. And now when God points
that out to me, I'm not shocked anymore. Yeah, that's me again.
But let me tell you, the very first time, that was a struggle.
That was a battle between God and me. Some no answers also have to
do with God's own timing and logistic and a whole host of
other reasons. But all of the ability to grapple
with and understand why God would say no comes about through having
a relationship with him. And that's clearly what Paul
had, and that's clearly what enabled him to say, to God's answer of
no, this is what Paul said. He said, therefore, I will boast
all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may
rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then
I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions,
and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am
strong. Now, I have no idea how long
it took Paul to arrive at that conclusion that he did, but I
suspect it wasn't instantaneous. And that's precisely what John
is getting at as he concludes this third chapter of his letter.
I mean, John says, let us love like the good Samaritan love.
Let us pray like we had the heart and mind and will of Jesus. And finally, he says, let us
obey as the measure of the reality of our faith. I mean, John speaks of how critical
it is to do these two things. He says, in verse 23, and this
is his commandment, that we believe in the name of his son, Jesus
Christ, and love one another, just as he has commanded us.
You know, you can't really say you're doing the one without
actually doing the other. You can't believe in the name
of the Lord Jesus Christ without understanding the critical importance
there is of loving one another. So he says, whoever keeps his
commandments abides in God and God in him. And by this, we know
that he abides in us by the spirit whom he has given us. And again,
what John is saying, it's incredibly basic. Faith is not something
that you can see. I mean, it's not something that
you wear on your sleeve like a tattoo, although some people
do just that. He says, faith can only be seen
by what you do. James says, show me your faith
apart from your works and I'll show you my faith. by my works."
And keeping God's commandments is not some rote obligatory technique
for getting what you want. It's the culmination of trust
that produces obedience that Paul was referring to and what
James and John referred to as well. It's a relationship in
which you place your trust in God by obeying his commandments
and loving the brethren, even when it hurts. even when it makes
little sense. I mean, in my 49 years as a Christian,
I've never met anyone who's ever expressed a regret about giving
God too much trust, too much obedience. See, the more of that
you give, the more you recognize you've made the best investment
you could have ever made. That life and truth and beauty are
found in Christ and Christ alone and the spirit of Christ who
now lives inside you. And as you work through understanding
who God is and what his effect on your life is, you realize
whoever keeps his commandments abides in God and God in him. And by this, we know that he
abides in us by the spirit whom he has given us. Let's pray. Father, I just thank you for
the proof that you've given to us. of your love for us, of who
you are, of the power that you've given us to live our lives. And
Lord, we know that there's two different aspects of it. There's
the obedience aspect and there's the love for the brethren aspect.
And Father, I just accept that it's hard work, loving each other,
especially loving those whom we choose not to love under any
other circumstance. And Lord, this is the place,
this is the grid where it all takes place, the church. I pray,
Lord, that you would give us an understanding of what it is
that you are doing by creating this body of Christ that exists
in local expressions in hundreds of thousands of areas around
the world, all of which are designed, Lord, to grow us in our ability
to do just that, to obey your commands and to love each other.
Give us the grace, the strength, the power, and the wisdom to
do just that, we pray in Jesus' name, amen. Okay, folks, if you'd
all stand, let me give to you God's blessing.
God says, now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling and
to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with
exceeding joy, to God our Savior, who alone is wise, be glory and
majesty, dominion and power both now and forever. And God's people
said, amen.
Let us Love, Pray, and Obey
Series 1John
| Sermon ID | 5222192929171 |
| Duration | 42:37 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 John 3:18-24 |
| Language | English |
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