00:00
00:00
00:01
Transcript
1/0
All right, we'll be in 2 Samuel
chapter 21 this morning, 2 Samuel chapter 21, if you want to kind
of turn there in your Bibles and have that ready. The other
night at men's prayer meeting, we were discussing the effect that our
decisions And the decisions that we make, how that, you know,
the effect they have on other people. And, you know, we spent,
you know, we spent some time doing that and it was kind of
an eye-opening thing. And it's something that we all
know, but it's amazing when you sit down and you think about
it. Sometimes our decisions can have a good effect on people.
Other times our decisions, quite frankly, can be pretty destructive.
On Sunday afternoons, for those of you that weren't aware, we're
studying the book of Daniel. We do a verse-by-verse Bible
study on Wednesday night and on Sunday afternoons at 2 o'clock. And that is really where you
kind of get in and dig a little bit deeper into the doctrinal
things of the Bible. And you begin to cross-reference
things and put things together. So if you're inclined or if you
have opportunity to come to those, I would encourage you to do that.
But we're currently studying the book of Daniel. And we spent
a lot of times looking at the four young Hebrew young men that
made some good decisions early on in their life. And we watched
how that over the years of their life, those good decisions produced
a lot of good fruit and a lot of good results. And it paid
dividends time and time again just making those good decisions. Now, we're not, you know, we're
not talking necessarily about the decision of salvation versus
staying lost. I think most everyone here is
saved and praise the Lord for that. If you're not, salvation
is obviously a good decision. That's a one-time thing. We're
talking more about the daily decisions that you make that
are going to have an effect in your life. You know, the Bible
says you reap what you sow. And so those four Hebrew children,
they sowed a lot of good decisions and they had a lot of good that
came from it. Well, this morning we're going to look at the other
side of the equation. And we're going to look at some bad decisions
that were made in the Bible so that you can hopefully round
out that picture and get a complete perspective on the decisions
that you make in life. So if you only come on Sunday
mornings, all you get is the negative message. You come on Sunday afternoon,
you get the positive message. But the purpose, like I said,
of looking at the bad decisions is because You know, we need
to get that complete picture so that hopefully we'll strive
to make better decisions in our lives. Amen? Hopefully we'll
strive to avoid the bad decisions. And a lot of us can look back
and see some of the bad decisions that we've made in the past.
And the idea is to be able to cling to what is good and what
is right. It says in 3 John, it says, beloved, follow not
that which is evil, but that which is good. It says in 1 Thessalonians,
see that none render evil for evil unto any man, but ever follow
that which is good. The idea obviously is we're supposed
to follow good, we're supposed to make good decisions, and that
should be in the back of our mind with everything that we
do. It says in Romans, let love be without dissimulation, abhor
that which is evil. cleave to that which is good. Right? So that's your goal. That's
what you ought to strive for in your life. But the reality
is sometimes we fall short of the glory of God. So let us look
at what can happen, folks, if you begin to fall short and you
begin to make decisions that are not good. decisions that
are bad. I've titled this message this
morning, When Decisions Turn Into Disasters. When Decisions
Turn Into Disasters. Hopefully, you're at Second Samuel.
Let's go ahead and bow our heads for a word of prayer and then
we'll jump into Second Samuel. Father, we thank you once again
for an opportunity to be here on a Sunday morning. You're a
great God. Father, you have been more than
gracious and long-suffering and patient with us, and for that,
we are grateful. But Lord, we come before you this morning,
a needy people, and I pray that you'd minister and work in our
hearts, help us to see, Father, that the decisions we make have
a huge impact, not only in our lives, but in the lives of a
lot of other people around us as well. And I pray that you
would just help us as we try to make good decisions, give
us strength, Help us to remember sometimes, Father, the bad side
of the equation so that we can strive more earnestly for the
good side of the equation. I pray these things in Jesus'
name. Amen. Take a look at 2 Samuel chapter 21. And it starts off
and says, and there was a famine in the days of David, three years,
year after year. And David inquired of the Lord.
And the Lord answered, it is for Saul and for his bloody house
because he slew the Gibeonites. And the king called the Gibeonites
and said unto them, Now the Gibeonites were not of the children of Israel,
but of the remnant of the Amorites. And the children of Israel had
sworn unto them, and Saul sought to slay them in his zeal to the
children of Israel and Judah. Wherefore David said unto the
Gibeonites, What shall I do for you, and wherewith shall I make
the atonement, that ye may bless the inheritance of the Lord?
And the Gibeonites said unto him, We will have no silver nor
gold of Saul, nor of his house, neither for us shalt thou kill
any man in Israel. And he said, What ye shall say,
that will I do for you. And they answered the king, The
man that consumed us and that devised against us that we should
be destroyed from remaining in any of the coasts of Israel.
Let seven men of his sons be delivered unto us, and we will
hang them up unto the Lord in Gibeah of Saul, whom the Lord
did choose. And the king said, I will give them. But the king
spared Mephibosheth, the son of Jonathan, the son of Saul,
because of the Lord's oath that was between them, between David
and Jonathan, the son of Saul. But the king took the two sons
of Rizpah, the daughter of Ahaiah, whom she bare unto Saul, Armoni,
and Mephibosheth, obviously another one, and the five sons of Michael,
the daughter of Saul, whom she brought up for Adriel, the son
of Barzillai, the Maholothite, and delivered them into the hands
of the Gibeonites, and they hanged them on the hill before the Lord,
and they fell all seven together and were put to death in the
days of harvest, in the first days, in the beginning of barley
harvest. So here you have a passage of
scripture where King Saul has seven of his sons that are now
put to death because of something that happened in the past. When we think of King Saul, we
think of a man that made a lot of bad decisions. Obviously,
during his lifetime, he made several bad decisions along the
way, and the Bible's pretty good about throwing those out there
and letting you see what Saul is like. We think of a man that,
for the greater part of his life, was at odds against the Lord.
And and King Saul should have remembered what Moses had said
and Moses Moses said this in verse 17 says you shall diligently
keep the commandments of the Lord your God and his Testimonies
and statutes which which he hath commanded us and thou shalt do
that which is right and good in the sight of the Lord That
it may be well with thee Well Saul didn't remember that Saul
didn't take any heed to that. Saul decided to make decisions,
again, his own way. Saul became consumed with himself
as a king. And what captured my attention
about this, as I was reading it, you know, a while back, what
captured my attention is that, you know, this decision wind
up turning into a complete disaster for the nation of Israel. And
the thing that stuck out is this, Saul made this breach on the
Gibeonites, okay? They were descendants of Ammon,
they were in the land and, you know, he slew the Gibeonites
in verse one, and we're not told why he did it. We're not necessarily
even told in the Bible when he did it. of all the things that
Saul did wrong. And there's some hints about
when it may have been, but there's no really direct account of when
this happens. But regardless of when it happens,
folks, the Lord is now looking at the nation of Israel. And
the background on this is about 400 years prior to this, Joshua
made a pact, made a league, make a covenant with the Gibeonites
and said, all right, we won't harm you. Well, now 400 years
later, Saul apparently breaks this contract. And then, if that isn't eye-opening
enough, what really got me was this, the disaster that resulted
from that decision does not come in Saul's day. It comes when David is king. And I was thinking about that
for a while. So the first thing I'd like to point out about,
you know, decisions and how they can certainly turn into disasters,
folks, is what you have to watch when you're dealing with decisions
is you have to realize that sometimes those decisions are decisions
from the past. All right? Now, we've all been,
you know, we've all faced that. We all know that about ourselves.
Unfortunately, the past is not something that you can change.
It is not something you can control. For the most part, there's not
an awful lot that you can do about it. We'll talk about some
preventative measures here in a second. But as you look back
on your life, you realize you are the product of the decisions
that you've made in life. for the most part, and sometimes
the decisions of other people. But you're the product of those
decisions. And sometimes, you know, those decisions, the Lord
will overlook some things and give you crop failure and let
some things slide. But other times, you'll find
yourself in a disaster because of decisions that happened some
time ago in your life. In this case, it was a decision
that happened 400 years ago. And then for King David, it's a decision
that happened, not even in his reign, in the reign of Saul,
about 40 years prior to where we pick up the story. Take a look at verse one, and
notice what happened. Then there was a famine in those
days of David. Three years, year after year,
And David inquired of the Lord, and the Lord answered, it is
for Saul, and for his bloody house, because he slew the Gibeonites.
Now, I was thinking about that. There's a famine in the days
of David. This famine's going on for three years. I wonder
how long it took David to go to the Lord before he figured
this out. Because three years of famine
has gone by, and now he finally gets the answer. I'm certain
that David had to have been praying about it before that time. But
for whatever reason, three years into the famine, the Lord gives
David the answer. And, you know, I hope that David
would have been praying about it for the last prior to three
years into the famine. But the Lord sends three years
of famine, and eventually when it all gets sorted out, seven
sons of Saul are dead. And I thought about that, and
what struck my mind is I began to wonder, why? Why does the Lord pull up this
famine under the reign of David when David's not the one that
had anything to do with it at all? Right? Why me? You ever been there in
life? You ever been there in a place
in your life where things are going on and the world's caving
in all around you and you sit there and you put your head in
your hands and the only thing you can think of is, Lord, why
me? Why me? Why is all this happening to
me? I bet for three years, David has been sitting around wondering,
what on earth is going on? How come we're in this famine? And I know that God is just. And I know that God is right. So why punish David and his people
for something that Saul did 40 years ago? You ever wonder about
those things when you read the Bible? I do. Now, I struggle with that question.
And I hesitated to use this example because I didn't want to insinuate
or bring into your minds or make you think that God is somehow
or another unjust. that he somehow or another did
things not right. I know in Ezekiel it says, the
soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity
of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity
of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon
them, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him. Right? So I know that's a biblical
principle. And I'm sitting there and I'm,
you know, looking at this passage and going over with the Lord,
going, okay, Lord, I, hey, listen, I don't want the people at church
to think that somehow or another, I don't want to put it in their
minds that you made a mistake, because I know he didn't. I don't want to cast a shadow
on your honor, Lord. What's going on here, right? Why did you wait until David
was king before you throw this famine for three years on the
nation of Israel? And by the way, it's not as if
David just took over the kingdom. David's been a king for a long
time. And the usual answer that I get
at times like this came to me again, Bob, you're an idiot. Don't get tunnel vision. Look
at the big picture. Look and see what's going on.
Go with me, if you will, back to 2 Samuel chapter 19. 2 Samuel chapter 19. And and I'm gonna try time is
gonna escape from me very quickly I'm gonna try to condense this
and do the best that I can but a 2nd Samuel 17 19 excuse me
2nd Samuel 19 verse 17 and there were a thousand men of Benjamin
with him and Ziba the servant of the house of Saul and his
15 sons and his 20 servants with him. And they went over to Jordan
before the king. Go back to verse 16. I'm sorry,
I put the wrong reference. And Shemei, the son of Gera, a Benjamite,
which was of Baharim, hasted and came down with the men of
Judah to meet King David. And there were a thousand men
of Benjamin with him. And there went verse 18 there
went over a ferry boat to carry over the king's household and
to do what he thought good and Shimei the son of Gera fell down
before the king and he was come over Jordan and he said unto
the king let not my lord impute iniquity to me and Neither do
thou remember that which thy servant did perversely in the
day that my lord the king went out from Jerusalem." That would
have been when Absalom rose up and took over. That, you know,
don't remember what I did, all the mistakes that I made when
thou went out from Jerusalem, that the king should take it
to his heart. For thy servant doth know that I have sinned.
So in 2 Samuel chapter 19, you have a bunch of Benjamites under
Shimei that when David wound up being abdicated from the throne
and he winds up running from his son Absalom, they wind up
to some degree or extent rebelling. Take a look at chapter 20. Look at verse one, and there
happened to be there a man of Belial, whose name was Sheba,
this is another guy, the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And we all remember Saul was
a Benjamite. So Shimei's a Benjamite, Sheba's
a Benjamite, Saul was a Benjamite. And he blew a trumpet and said,
we have no part in David, neither have we any inheritance in the
son of Jesse. Every man to his tents, O Israel. So every man
of Israel went up from after David and followed Sheba, the
son of a bickery. the men of Judah, but the men
of Judah claimed to their king from Jordan even unto Jerusalem.
So Sheba was a Benjamite and he led a revolt. And Shimei was
a Benjamite and he led a revolt. And I got to thinking about that
whole thing. And what I realized is this, Saul made this decision
You know some 40 years ago during the time he was king and he decided
to go kill a bunch of the Gibeonites which was a breach and then God
held things off and We pick it up in in 2nd Samuel chapter 21.
We're now now David's in the middle of a famine why because
of what Saul did and But after Saul's death, you've got these
Benjamites that still are against David and they're still bringing
a revolt against King David. You know what I think happened?
I think the Lord was looking back and I think the Lord would
have let Saul's transgressions slip. except for the fact that
a bunch of people started making decisions against King David. And a bunch of the Israelites,
a bunch of the Israelites, there was a bunch of people that followed
him. A bunch of those people decided they wanted to follow
the house of Saul versus the house of David, even after David
had been king for a while. Remember, David had that problem
with Absalom, and we'll talk a little bit more about that
in a second. But Absalom rose up and he took over as king.
David fled. The kingdom's kind of in turmoil
because the king has now been run out of town by his son. Well,
they have the battle. Of course, Absalom dies. David
comes back. David takes up as king again. And now you have a bunch of these
Benjamites who they're in the mix of this political turmoil.
And they're saying, you know what? We don't want to follow
the house of David. We want to follow this house
of Saul. And I think what happened is I think the Lord held off.
on this punishment from that transgression that happened in
the past from Saul's sin. And I think he sat back and he
watched the sons of Saul to see what they would do. And he watched the nation of
Israel to see what they would do. And as time went on and as
Saul died and David took over the throne and David began his
reign and then you had some turmoil in David's reign and David's
now back on the throne. I think the Lord was sitting back there,
and when it comes to decisions that were in the past, in your
life, how does the Lord decide whether you're gonna reap or
whether he's gonna give you crop failure? Because if it's a bad
decision, you want crop failure. Hey, you know what the Lord did
here? The Lord sat back for a while and watched, and he looked at
more decisions that are made. And a bunch of those people decided
They were going to keep making bad decisions. And now here we
are, 40 years after Saul made his transgression, and the Lord
says, you know what? All these people in the nation
of Israel, they're still making bad decisions. They're still
trying to follow the house of Saul. All right, if they want to follow
the house of Saul, I'll let them reap the punishment for some
of Saul's sins, if that's the direction they want to go. You
know what I gather from that, folks? I gather from that that
The Lord, the Lord is looking, you know, you've got decisions
in your past that you made that maybe wind up in some pretty
tragic things happening. Some pretty big disasters. But
there are other decisions in your life that you made that
you're sitting there praying, Lord, don't let me have a bumper
crop on this decision. Lord, would you give me a crop
failure on this decision? And you know what I think? I
think the Lord sits back and watches. And I think the Lord probably
wanted to let it go. That's why he waited so long.
Because there's really no reason for him to punish David and his
kingdom until you consider all the decisions that everybody
else is making. So you know one of the best ways to, you know,
to avoid, to avoid this, you know, this dilemma in your life?
Hey, maybe you have made some bad decisions in the past. Don't
keep making them. It's rocket science, right? It's just rocket science. What David did when it came down
to this whole thing, David found out what was going on. The Lord
tells David, hey, it's because of Saul. You know what the first
thing David does when he finds out what's going on? David says,
I want to make things right. Okay, Lord, what do I need to
do? You want to, you want to, you know, do you want to hopefully
reap crop failure from some bad decisions in the past? Hey, take
a look at it and go to the Lord and ask him the same thing David
did. What can I do to make this right? And he went to the Gibeonites. Hey, guys, you're the ones that
have been wronged. You're the ones that have been cheated.
You're the ones that have, you know, had this transgression
made up on you. What does it take to make things right? And
they gave it, you know what? We're not after vengeance. We're
not after all that. Just give us seven sons from
Saul. And that's exactly what David
did. Decisions in the past are difficult
to deal with, right? I ran across this. It's kind
of a cool little thing. I'm sorry is a statement. You know, I won't
do it again is a promise. How do I make it up to you is
responsibility. David saw what was going on,
and you know what he was after? He was after, how do I fix it?
How do I pay? What can I do to make up for
the transgression that Saul made? Folks, sometimes that's all you
can do for decisions that you've made in the past that have been
big blunders. You can't change them. All you
can do is acknowledge it and say, okay, Lord, how do I make
it right? And maybe the Lord will give
you crop failure. However, the nation of Israel
continued to follow those things of Saul and continued to follow
Saul and continued to have a heart and a desire to follow Saul.
And I would venture to say that a bunch of those sons of Saul
were in on a lot of these revolts. And the Lord finally got to the
point where he said, okay, There's no change in the decision-making
pattern. Now we're gonna have to reap
for the past. Decisions, right? So I think the Lord gave them
the result of their decision. You know what you gotta be careful
of, folks? You gotta be careful of the decisions that you make
now because of decisions in the past. may be affected greatly
by what you do now. You can't change the past, but
you can certainly take care of now. Let me look at another thing,
another bad decision that is an example. Another thing that
you have to be careful of when it comes to decisions, because
you don't want them to turn into a disaster, is you need to be
careful when you make a decision when you are in pain. Take a
look at 2 Samuel chapter 13. 2 Samuel chapter 13. Decisions of the past that you
can't do an awful lot about, but sometimes you get to the
place where you are making decisions when you're in a lot of pain,
or you're under a lot of pressure, and you are forced to make decisions. When you get to that point in
your life, folks, you've got to be careful, because that is
a disaster waiting to happen. In 2 Samuel chapter 13, you know
the story. Absalom is David's son. He has
a sister named Tamar. Of course, you know, Amnon, another
one of David's son, goes in under her, defiles her. Absalom waits
for the right opportunity, and then he goes out to take vengeance
on Amnon, and he has Amnon killed. And all that is the beginning
of chapter 13. I don't have time to read through all that or take, you
know, go through all that, but take a look down at verse 28. So that's where we pick it up,
verse 28. Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, mark ye
now when Amnon's heart is married with wine, and when I say unto
you, smite Amnon, then kill him. Fear not, have I not commanded
you? Be courageous and be valiant.
And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king's son arose,
and every man gat him up upon his mule and fled. So Amnon is
now dead. It says, and it came to pass
in verse 30, while they were in the way, that tidings came
to David. saying Absalom has slain all
the king's sons and there is not one of them left. Then the
king arose, tear his garments, lay on the earth, and all the
servants stood by with their clothes rent." So now David hears
news of this and of course he doesn't, just like most things,
you don't get the full story right at the beginning. But David
thinks all of his sons are dead. And it turns out, no, it's not
all of them, just Amnon. But nonetheless, David now finds
himself in a place where he is in great pain. He is in great
turmoil. And David is going to have to
make some decisions coming up here in just a second. And he
finds himself in a place where the pressures of life, the pain
of life, and what he's thinking about, all those things are weighing
on his heart. And now David's got to deal with
this family tragedy that's taken place, right? And to make things
worse, the villain, Jonadab's friend, y'all remember it was
Jonadab's friend that kind of instigated this whole thing,
right? Well, that's actually, that is actually Absalom's cousin. It's David's nephew. This is
a big mess, this is a big family mess. So David, David is under
a lot of pressure. David's got some things going
on that are just, you know, he's got a daughter that's been defiled,
a son's been killed, another son that's fled. Absalom winds
up leaving and running away because he's afraid that, you know, dad
is going to be angry at him. And so in verse 38, take a look
at verse 38. So Absalom fled, went to Geshur
and was there three years. And look at verse 39, and the
soul of David longed to go forth unto Absalom, for he was comforted
concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead. So here's David, he's king,
he's had all this stuff happen. Absalom has fled because he's
afraid that he's going to be in big trouble. David is now
overwhelmed. And David kind of to some degree
gets over, okay, I lost Amnon and, you know, he's some measure
of comfort. And it says in there that he
longed, it says he longed to go forth unto Absalom. David
has a decision to make right here at this point. David can
either go to Absalom and make amends and repair the relationship
and get things set back on order as the way they should be, or
David can do nothing. Guess what David does? David does nothing. His heart's telling him to go
make things right with Absalom. But he just can't cross that
line. And you know what that is, folks?
That's a decision. But that's a decision made out
of pain because of what David's been going through. So David's
decision is to do nothing. When you know the solutions to
all your problems, but you just don't want to do them. Ever been there? I have. You know what you gotta be careful
of? You gotta be careful of making the decisions when you're in
the middle of a lot of pain, when you're in the middle of
being hurt. Why? Because oftentimes you'll decide to do nothing. Because you just don't feel like
it. because it's too much energy, it's too much work. Hey, listen,
how many times have you been angry at somebody and you knew
that you should move, take a move to make things right, but you
just didn't do it? Hey, husbands and wives, ever
have that happen between you? Right, what is that? Hey, that's
making a decision when you're in the middle of pain. And sometimes
it's easy just to not do anything. And that's what David winds up
doing. Decisions made in pain are often bad decisions. And the reality is this, folks.
You'll tend to do one of two things when you find yourself
in that situation. You will tend to be too soft
on everything because you're trying to avoid more pain. Or you will tend to be too hard
because you're putting up a defensive barrier because you're trying
to avoid more pain. And that's where David finds
himself in this whole mess. Right? David just puts up that
defensive barrier and I don't want to deal with Saul. I mean
Absalom. I don't want to deal with Absalom
chapter 14 Joab intercedes Convinces the king hey King you got to
go get Absalom. He's your son. You need to go
get him Absalom's been gone for three years now And Joab intercedes
and and and David, you know, he acquiesces and finally gives
in to Joab's You know Joab's counsel and Joab's advice and
he says, okay fine go get Absalom But So Joab arose, chapter 14, verse
23, arose, went to Geshur, brought Absalom back to Jerusalem. But
in verse 24, and the king said, let him turn now to his own house. Let him not see my face. So Absalom returned to his own
house, and he saw not the king's face. So again, David made another
decision because he was still in pain. He was still troubled
over this whole thing that was going on. And he decides, even though
Absalom's now back in Jerusalem, I don't want to see him. Bad decision. Why? Well, because
he's hurting. Man, when you're hurting, you've
got to be careful because you'll make some terrible decisions.
You'll make some decisions that will turn into complete disasters.
Why? because of the pain. King David
wasn't immune to that. It says in verse 28, so Absalom
dwelt two full years in Jerusalem and saw not the king's face.
That's five years, folks. Five years. Why? Because somebody was making
decisions when there's a lot of pain going on. Right? David made that decision. He
refused to see Absalom. Why? Because he was hurt. And
you know the story. What does it cause? Eventually,
Absalom, you know, rises up. In fact, I think it's the next
chapter. Rises up and he takes over the kingdom and David winds
up being exiled. The breach between father and
son was that bad that Absalom turns on his own father and steals
the kingdom away from him. Why? Well, because for the last
five years, David has been stifled about making a decision because
he's been in pain. And he chose to do nothing. And
now that decision has become a disaster. He's lost his kingdom. Right? When do decisions become
disasters? Well, you know, one of the times
is when they're from the past, and then you're making more just
bad decisions, you know, currently, and that has an effect on it.
Another time that decisions turn into disaster is when you begin
to make decisions from a position of being in pain. And you don't seek counsel, you
don't take counsel. It's hard to listen to people
when you're feeling that down. and it turns into a disaster. Finally, I need to wrap things
up. So you make decisions from a position of pain, which is
what David did. Finally, when do decisions that
you make in your life turn into disasters? Well, they turn into
disasters when those decisions come from pride. It says in, Take a look at 2
Samuel chapter 24. 2 Samuel chapter 24. Now this
is David. Second Samuel chapter 24 verse
1, and again the anger of the Lord was kindled against Israel.
He moved David against him to say, go number Israel from Judah,
Israel and Judah. For the king said to Joab, the
captain of the host, which was with him, go now throughout all
the tribes of Israel, from Dan even to Beersheba, and number
ye the people that I may know the number of the people. And
Joab said unto the king, Now the Lord thy God add unto thy
people how many soever there be, and hundredfold, and that
the eyes of my lord the king may see it, but why doth my lord
the king delight in this thing? Notwithstanding, the king's word
prevailed against Joab and against the captains of the host, And
Joab and the captains, the hosts, went out from the presence of
the king to number the people of Israel. So David winds up on
the throne. This is some time later. He's
back on the throne, been reestablished. And he decides, you know what?
I want to know how big my kingdom is. And he sets out to number the
children of Israel. And Joab and the captains of
the host, they decide, hey, David, this is not the right thing to
do. This is a bad thing to do. You better reconsider this. Why
do you want to do this? And David basically said, hey,
silence. I'm the king. I can do what I want. Shut up. Go number them. And so they went
and they numbered the children of Israel. You know, when you're the king,
you got to remember you're not king over God. Right? And God specifically commanded
the kings not to number the children of Israel. David had to have
known what he was doing. But sometimes when that pride
wells up and you begin to make a decision and that pride interferes,
man, you can sure make a disaster of things. Right? It's all about me. It's all about
what I think. You know the verses, pride goeth
before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall? Listen,
only by pride cometh destruction, right? Well, that's where David
found himself. And when you're at a place where
decisions have to be made and you begin making those decisions
based upon pride, Brethren, you're just waiting for a disaster to
happen. It will get you, right? It will
get you. How many of you have heard of
the Charge of the Light Brigade? Ever heard of that? Some of you
may have heard the poem or the thing. Basically, in 1854, there
was an alliance between the British and the French and the Turkish
forces, of all things, and they were against Russia. And the
battle happened in a place, you and I are looking at it right
now, in Crimea, right, down in that peninsula that Russia is
now taking over again. It happened down in that area. But what happened is, you know,
the Russian soldiers had come down. They had taken a base and
they captured a number of forts. And they made some advances during
the battle. And they had actually, you know,
were making some headway against some of the British forces. And
they were, you know, about ready to overrun this British position,
this one position off on the side. And they were about to
take some of the British's artillery pieces. Well, Lord Reglan was
in charge of the whole army. And he, in his military career,
had never had any of his artillery pieces taken captive by the enemy. And he was not about to let that
happen in this case. So he sends this order. And he
calls on a Captain Nolan and he gives Captain Lewis this order. He says, I want you to get over
there to the light brigade. He was in charge of the heavy
brigade, which is the heavy artillery. The light brigade was they had
much lighter armor. They literally were lighter because
they were faster and quicker and they could move and maybe
make flanking movements so they didn't have the protection that
you normally would have. So they were the light brigade.
And so he gives Captain Nolan this order. He says, why don't
you go over to the light brigade and I want you to tell Lord,
Lord Lucian that he needs to attack these Russian soldiers
that are about to steal his guns, his artillery pieces, and stop
them because I have never lost any artillery pieces. I want
them to attack. Save those artillery pieces,
right? So Captain Nolan takes the message and the problem becomes
in that Captain Nolan doesn't really like Lord Lucian. They,
they got some tiffs going on. They got some things going on
and he doesn't like him and they don't like each other. And so
he's kind of got a bad attitude and he goes over there. And so
he goes over to Lord Lucian and he tells, you know, he gives
the order from, from, from Lord Reglan. And he said, you know,
he gives the order to go save those guns, go capture those
guns, which is what, which is what Lord Reglan wanted. And,
you know, Lucian wasn't really clear on the order. And he asked
Nolan, what guns does the brigade commander want captured? And
Nolan, because of this little tiff and because he had this,
you know, this pride thing, just kind of pointed out to the field
and said, well, there's the battle. Those guns. Go get them. Right? He goes, there's your
enemy. There are your guns. And he kind
of swept his arm across the battlefield. Lord Lucian is thinking, I got an order. Now, the guns that he was talking
about, that the commander was talking about, are often some
little flank over here that the Russians are about ready to attack.
Well, because of where they're at, the guns that Lucian sees
is the main Russian force right in front of him. And he thinks that is the order. Go get those guns. Which takes
him right down through this long path where those guns are firing
directly at him. And then there's also guns on
the side. that when he goes down and tries
to attack those guns, he's going to be getting bombarded from
the side and from the front during his whole advancement. But an
order is an order. So he steps back and he says,
all right, guys, let's go. I don't understand it, but we've
been ordered to go get them the guns. Let's go. He gets his light
brigade, and they head right into the main force of the Russian
artillery. And I mean, they're just, you
know, they begin charging. And then what happens, what happens
is Captain Nolan, who is now, you know, again, they had a little
tiff going between them, so he didn't take the time to explain.
He just gave the orders and left. Captain Nolan now realizes they're
going after the wrong guns. So he takes off at full speed
to try to intersect the charging light brigade. Well, Lucian sees
Captain Nolan coming this way, charging, and he thinks in his
mind, this guy wants to take over and be the leader. I'm not
about to let him become be the leader of my blight brigade.
Decisions made from pride. And so he, you know, heralds
his men, let's go faster. Let's charge these Russian guns
even harder. And they run right into the main artillery of the
Russian defenses. And they just get slaughtered. Captain Nolan is, meanwhile,
coming over, trying to intercept and tell, hey, what are you guys
doing? You're going after the wrong
guns. You're going to get killed. And he winds up getting killed
in the opening fire. Never gets the message to Lucian. And so they take that light brigade,
and they just charge right into those Russian guns. And they
just get utterly decimated. What is that? Well, you got a
lot of pride that welds up in there, and you got some decisions
that were pretty foolish. And it turned into a disaster. One of the great military disasters
that was there. Now, the thing about it is, is
Lucian and his people, they actually made it all the way to the Russian
guns. Some of them did. They fought for a while there,
they turned around, they ran, and then they got shot and killed
on the way back when they were trying to retreat. What is it from? Well, because
you got somebody that, you know, his pride raised up and he was
ready to make that charge and nothing else mattered. Decisions. Decisions. I better
hurry up. I got kids out there that are
done, right? You ever been in a place where you'd rather move
forward with a bad decision than admit you were wrong? Somewhere up that, you know,
heading up that cactus, that cat had to think, should I keep
going to the top? Well, he made it. Well, guess
what? Now he's got to get down. All right. I'm going to wrap
things up and get it to the end. Hey, when can decisions that
you're making in your life turn into disasters? Folks, I tell
you, you know what? They can turn into a disaster
real quick when you've got things coming from the past. You have
the possibility of either reaping a crop or crop failure. And those
decisions that you're making now might make the difference
as to which one of those two you get. But sometimes decisions
from the past can come and haunt you. Decisions that you make
when you're in pain are more than likely gonna be
the wrong decisions and lead you down a bad path. It's just
something you gotta watch, you gotta be careful of. Another
one that'll get you is decisions when you begin to make decisions
from a standpoint of pride. There's just something about
us as human beings. We get halfway up the cactus
and we don't wanna turn around and go back down. And then we
wind up at the top of the cactus and we're stuck, right? Those are, that's the other side
of the equations, folks. Daniel and his three friends,
they made some great decisions when they were young, and they
reaped the benefits of those decisions for years and years
to come. The other side of the coin is you make bad decisions
because you're at a bad time, and you run the possibility of
reaping destruction for years and years to come. But the life
you and I are in is all about the decisions that we make. Amen?
It's about our decisions. So be careful. If you find yourself
in one of those places, be careful, because that's when you're likely
to make a pretty big mistake and have a decision turn into
a disaster. Let's bow for a word of prayer. Father, we thank you
again for the opportunity to be here on a Sunday morning.
Lord, I know these things are not pleasant to think about,
because every one of us has got things that in our life we can
look back and father we can we can peg so many bad decisions
we've made in our lives and we do father we regret those things
we're sorry for them we we wish we could go back and change and
make things different and and do things differently but the
reality is we can't so father help us if we find ourselves
in that position help us to make good decisions now and to be
around people that make good decisions so that Lord, maybe
you'd give a crop failure for some of those things that have
happened in the past. Father, when we find ourselves in a situation in this life right
now where we're in pain and we've been through some stuff and it's
hard to deal with life, Father, help us to realize that But we
need to be able to just sit back, maybe take counsel, listen to
other people and realize that we may not see things just as
clearly as we should see them. Father, help us to be extra prudent
and careful, cautious during that time. Same thing when it
comes to pride. Father, help us to put our pride
down. Realize we're just sinful men. If David can make those
mistakes, Father, we can make those mistakes. to help us to
learn and to be very cautious about making decisions from a
position of pride. It never turns out to anything
good. Father, we thank you and love you. Just pray that you'd
help us as we try to make these decisions in our life. I ask
these things in Jesus' name, amen.
When Decisions Turn Into Disasters
| Sermon ID | 515231446385013 |
| Duration | 51:32 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | 2 Samuel 21:1-9 |
| Language | English |
© Copyright
2026 SermonAudio.