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In particular, verse 11, do not
speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks
against a brother or who judges his brother speaks evil against
the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you're
not a doer of the law, but a judge. There's only one lawgiver and
judge. He is able to save and to destroy.
But who are you? Who are you to judge your neighbor? In Article 133 of the U.S. Uniform Code of Military Justice,
it speaks concerning conduct unbecoming an officer and a gentleman. And it goes on to list a number
of offenses. And the point is that if you
do these things, you're liable for court-martial. All these
things are court-martialable offenses. And there's quite a
list. of things that are covered. Now
we realize it's really for those who would be officers, for those
who would be officers of trading, the midshipmen at the naval academy,
or the cadets at the army academy. And some of the things we might
expect are the things that would be against the civil law. It
really wouldn't matter whether you're an army officer or not
if you go out and rob a bank you're liable for court-martial.
If you engage in espionage, it really doesn't matter if you're
in the military or not. But there are a number of things that aren't
against the civil law that we might think are fairly trivial,
but they're against the military standards. They're against the
conduct that A soldier, and especially one that is an officer, is to
give. And so, listed among that would
be any insulting or defamatory language toward a superior. And
it works itself out. What can an officer say about
the President of the United States? Well, he can be court-martialed
for saying anything that would be construed as insulting are
defamatory. They are cowardice in the face
of the enemy. And there would be a number of
other things that you would see. And the point, as they have established
it, and it's very long in terms of what it is, is that these
things don't properly belong with an officer. If you're an
officer, you're to rise above these things. The standard is
set high for you. And you don't have to be engaged
in these things. And you can be punished if you are. The fact that you are an officer
and a gentleman brings with it a certain responsibility for
certain high standards in your conduct. Well, the same thing
is true for Christians. As Christians, you and I are
to attain to a higher standard of conduct. The way in which
we live is to be different, is to be better than the world around
us. And even the way in which we
live before becoming Christians, there's an expectation of a higher
standard. And that is especially true as
we look at these verses that talk about how do we relate to
one another, how do we think about each other, how do we talk
to one another. Really it's saying the highest
standards are to be in operation. It's easier. And James, in his
writings, knows it's easy for our attitudes, for the things
that we say, the way in which we judge others, for our conduct
to become unbecoming. Instead of commending the Gospel
of Christ to the world, to say, wow, look at the way in which
those Christians love each other. Instead, they're looking and
saying, look at the way those Christians tear apart one another. Our conduct is unsuitable, is
unbecoming to that name that we have of being one of Christ's
followers. And so, the first point as we
look at these two verses is to see there's two specific things,
two specific conducts that are prohibited, which are really
inconsistent with being a Christian. And we'll notice that. But first,
we maybe should notice in verse 11, that as James writes, he
returns back to that address of brothers or brethren in verse
11. You know, I mentioned last week,
as he gives a shock rebuke, he talks about them, you adulteresses,
you sinners, you dumble-minded. He hadn't been very tactful to
them. And in essence he was saying,
you still have this problem of indwelling sin, and it's showing
itself. You're not living according to
the standard, God's standard. And it could be that his readers
at this point would be questioning. If he's calling us adulterous
against God, sinners and double-minded, are we really Christians? And maybe you look at your life
and you look and you see the indwelling sin in your life and
you say, you know, would a Christian do that? Am I really a Christian? And how comforting then is that
we're brothers. That it can be, despite the sin
in our lives, we're still brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ.
My sin, your sin, doesn't cut that fundamental relationship.
It puts a strain on it, but we're still brothers and sisters of
Christ. And it's because we have that
relationship, and this relationship comes first. It's not in order
to gain a relationship we do these things, but because we
have that relationship, how we live, our conduct, then becomes
important. And a conduct needs to be such
that it's becoming to Christ. It's putting Christ in a good
light. And not conduct that would be
unbecoming to brothers and sisters of Christ. Well, what are the
two specifics? Well, the first is in verse 11. Speaking evil against one another. And literally that word is to
speak against. That's really a pretty broad
word, speak and against put together. And it describes any sort of
speech that really in some way attacks another person. That's
harmful, that's what we would call verbal abuse. And if you
go back to the Septuagint, the Greek version of the Old Testament
that was translated before Christ, You can see that word being used.
It was used in Numbers 21, when the people speak against the
legitimate leaders. The people speak against God
and against Moses. They didn't like what Moses was
doing at the direction of God. They're bringing him out in the
desert and they speak against that leadership. It's used in
Psalm 101, of slandering someone in secret. You know, that gossiping
and tearing down in private. It's used of bringing inaccurate
accusations against a person in the name of Christ in 1 Peter
2, 12. And so it has a whole range of
meanings of speaking in such a way that you defame or ruin
someone, hurt their reputation, slander them, do character assassination,
and all the rest. And please understand, as we
talk about this speaking, evil, it includes lie, but it isn't
restricted to that. Something that I say can be very
truthful, can be completely truthful, but it can be evil, because my
motives are evil. Let me give you an example. Say someone were to walk in here
and we quickly would notice he's got huge feet. He's got size 17, size 18 shoes. Now, there would be legitimate
questions we could ask, but you know, it isn't hard to find shoes. You have to have special made
shoes. But you can also speak truthful
words that are hurtful. You know, what if we instead
of calling that person by name, always refer to them as Bigfoot? And say, you know, Bigfoot, don't
you ever stomp on small pets? And all that person is known
for is his big feet. And every time we have a chance,
we rub it in. It's true he has big feet, but
we're using our speech to do harm. And there can be many, many ways
that they do that. Motivation is wrong. We're not wanting to build up
that person. So our words, even though they're
truthful, can be evil. Because our motives are evil. We may be wanting to put that
person down, so that we feel better. And so, consider the
area of gossip. A huge area. Gossip often involves something
that is true. But it's being shared with somebody
who does not need to know that truth. Isn't that some of the allure?
I know something about somebody that puts them in a bad light.
Did you hear what they did last week? Now, slander is spreading
a false report. And that's wrong, but sometimes
we can spread a true report. But it's doing mischief. It's
evil. And it would be covered under
this, you know, not speak evil of your brother or sister in
Christ. I'm going to give you two simple tests. How do you
know if it's a gossip? How do you know if it's slander?
Well, the first thing is to ask yourself as you're saying this,
if that person was standing there, would you be saying the same
thing in the same words? And the second thing is to say,
can you take what you've just said and make it a prayer to
God? And if you say no to either one of those, you're not speaking
with the right attitude in your conduct. is unbecoming
to one who's a Christian. Well, second conduct we're to
avoid is also there in verse 11, to judge your brother. Of course, that's a phrase that's
used several places in scripture. It's often quite a bit of a question. Does it mean we don't do any
sort of judging? I think of a pastor who was talking
about a certain fragrant sin, immorality, and he's really warning
the congregation not to do that. His very own sister said, stop
being so judgmental. We're not to judge others. Now,
the irony is she was doing that herself with her own brother. But is that what's being prohibited
here? I say no. The Bible recognizes there are
times when it is legitimate to make judgments. You look at Matthew 18. We're
seeing this church discipline. We're to recognize or to make
a judgment that this brother of mine is involved in sin. I'm
to confront him. Yes, there's a judgment. And
there's a judgment that goes all the way to the church. As you read through the New Testament,
you see a lot of instructions about false prophets. You need
to come to the conclusion that what this person is teaching
is wrong. It's a judgment that you make.
When we're warned not to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever, you
have to judge whether that person is truly a Christian or not. And Jesus really says the same
sort of thing in John 7.24. He tells his disciples, stop
judging. But then the next three words
are important. By mere appearance. He's not
saying never judge anyone. Stop judging by mere appearance
and make a right judgment according to the truth, according to the
facts, according to the reality of the situation. And too often
we can judge on appearance. Here we warned really about that
critical spirit of judging others, of looking down, of looking at
someone else's words or actions in an uncharitable way, of really overlooking my own
sin, but to say, oh boy, you've really messed up. Reminded Jesus
told us we're to remove the speck from our own eyes. And here it's
really talking in terms of We would be looking at the sin first
in our lives. Do we see it? And are we dealing
with it? You know, when the pastor preaches
this message talking about sin, you think, oh, you know, this
would be great for my brother-in-law. He really needs to hear this. And not, oh, how does this apply
in my life? The Puritan spoke of a judgment
of charity, that one of the things we're to do is to put the best
possible light we can on another person's actions. And I wonder
how often we just do the opposite. We put the worst possible light
on what the person does. You see a person running a recital,
do we think, what, an idiot? Do you think, oh, he must have
been distracted? I hope what he's concerned about, you know,
isn't too serious. Do I need to pray for him? Has
somebody close to him had a heart attack? Or do we think, what has he been
drinking? But he didn't see a red light. I bet in cases you're
counseling with husbands and wives, I always think they're
worse. The husband is trying to mend the relationship and
says, oh, dear, that was a great dinner tonight. And the wife
immediately thinks and maybe responds, ha, he must think I've
not cooked a good dinner in months, and gets offended. And maybe that's what he meant,
but probably not. And so we're not. to be thinking
critically and in a condemning way, of judging others, their
motives, of giving impure motives to why they're doing what they're
doing. And you see that in the political arena. Somebody disagrees
with you, it's because they're terrible people and want the
worst for our nation, rather than it being an honorable disagreement
about what's the best way to achieve goals that would be good
for all. Well, the second point we need
to say, what are the reasons we're not to do this? We're given
these commands as we relate, we're not to judge others, and
we're not to be speaking evil. But why? What's the cost? What's involved when we do that? It's surprising the reasons to
be given. First of all, if you look at
verse 11, when you do these things, James says, you speak against what? The other person? You're turning them down? No,
he says, you speak against the law and judge the law. Yeah, you may be attacking the
other person, but there's something much more important, much deeper
going on when you do this. You're speaking, not just against
the person, but you're speaking against the law. What does he
mean? Well, at least part of it is,
first of all, is we have, and he's already referred to, the
law of love. And as we think of how the law summarizes, we're
to love our neighbors ourselves. as the second greatest commandment,
implicit is that we should be loving, charitable, that judgment
of charity toward all. And when we're condemning and
when we're judging and when we're falsely accusing and are quick
to rush to judgment, we're not loving our neighbor, it's ourselves. We do something wrong and we
want our best motives. That's what prompted us. It was
out of love that I did that. It maybe hurt you, and I didn't
mean to do that, but my motives were good. If we want that standard,
we should be applying it to other people. It also has the idea
that we become the judge of the law. We're judging which parts of
the law are important and which ones aren't. We're saying that, yeah, that
part about not sacrificing my children and a whole vertopical,
that's good, but some of these others, they're not that important. I happened to watch this week,
I turned on the TV, Pastor one of these mega churches was on
when they're there over 10,000 people in the audience And he
was telling a story. It was a story about himself,
which he seems to always do and And as he was doing that, he
was talking about staying in a hotel with his wife, and his
wife wanted some coffee, and I think the point he was trying
to make is a beautiful husband, he went down to get coffee, and
he didn't have any money with him, and so basically he grabbed
the coffee and rushed off while the worker was distracted, and
then later on came back and gave the money to the clerk. And as
he came back and gave the money to the clerk, She recognized
him and said, oh, aren't you? And his response was to say,
no, my name is, and he gave a fictitious name. The audience response was incredible
to me. They roared with laughter. This
was great fun. Now, if I had been a parent sitting
there with my children, I would have been mortified. Because
what is he telling the children? He's telling the children, it's
okay to lie. There are times when it's inconvenient
to tell the truth. And when those times come, go
ahead and lie. Now, children, understand, it's
not right to lie. What this pastor did was wrong.
But there was a mentality that says, I can pick and choose which
commandments of God, which parts of God's will I want to follow
and which I don't. That's what James was referring
to. He becomes the judge of the law. He decides which laws are
important and which laws aren't. And he doesn't happen to think
lying is a very important one. And he can dispense with it. But as you look here, It talks,
the contrast in verse 11 is being a doer of the law. Either we
set our hearts on doing it, or hearts on judging it, deciding
which we think are important. And it seems to be that as we
would think of the law that there are certain things that we follow,
we think those are the important parts and those others that we
don't follow, well those aren't so important. And so a person
who maybe gives and gives well thinks, well, tithing, that's
an important thing. And this guy over here, he only gives
9%. He's not very spiritual. Even though he gives joyfully,
I just give out a sense of obligation. You know, he's not very spiritual.
Pornography on the internet, well, you know, it's lost in
the heart, but it's not really that important. Everybody does
it. Or all the men do. And we excuse
that. And become a judge. Saying these
are important, these are not. It's the ones that I do that
are important, the ones that I don't do, well, hey, those
don't really matter as much. Become the judge of the law.
Rather than being a doer. Say, how do I need to put into
action those things that I see. We need to understand that the
law, as it expresses the will of God, is not arbitrary. It
focuses on what God knows is right, what God knows is good
for us, and is helpful for us. And as we've been talking about
humility, humility says, I accept the law. I want to see that law
in action in my life. I want to be born like Christ. Really, this section is saying,
don't criticize others, attend to yourself. Are you a doer of
the law? Does it shine in your life? Does it show about how you think
about others in the body? Does it show in terms of whether you judge them, whether
you speak evil of them? B, at the end of verse 12, there's
a very poignant question, but who are you to judge your neighbor? Because as we go through this
process, as we take the things that we think are important from
the Word of God and apply it to our neighbor, and kind of
measure up to are they doing what they're doing, and we maybe
don't know all their finances, but oh, I'm sure they're not
tithing, and boy, they're unspiritual. Who are you? Do you have the authority? Have
you been given that task? Do you have the wisdom and knowledge
that's needed to accomplish that task? Do you even have the right
to declare someone else is falling under the judgment of God? And
the point that is being made there in verse 12, there's only
one who has that right. One who is a lawgiver. who has
the innate sense of right and wrong, who is right in all that
he does, all that he thinks, and has the right to judge. And
of course, he's speaking of God. God alone has the right to be
the judge. And when we criticize, when we
judge, and when we think we know someone's motives, we are usurping
God's authority. And at the root of it is pride.
You're taking the place of God. Because it's really two different
views of where we stand. There'd be one that would say,
you know, God is way up here, and everybody No matter if they're
Isaiah or whoever they are, they're way down here. Now they may be
a little bit higher, some of them may be a little more mature,
but they're all down here. And God is way up here. And who
is anyone down there to be judging someone else? But the other point
of view says, you know, God's here, and I'm here, and the others
in the church are about here. You know, I'm not too far from
God. I have that ability to judge and to see the ones down here
that are wrong. And you're exalting yourself. And you're failing to see who
God is and who we are in relationship to God. You did not see our lowly
position in that question. Who are you to judge? If you
understood your position as down here, as far separated, as Isaiah
did when he cried out, you'd realize I have no authority on
my own to judge. Not in this way. And we need
to recognize very carefully that there's one lawgiver and judge. Because we want to often take
for ourselves those things of being a lawgiver. There are churches
that feel free to add rules to the scripture. You know, if you
want to be a good Christian, you do X, Y, and Z. And their motivation can be good,
and they can look and say they have legitimate reasons for saying
not to do this. Let me take one that is not,
I don't know of any church that's against this, but it's the type
of thing that could be done. You know, you could publish a
rule that says no one should skydive. Could we come up with
some reasons why that would be good? Well, you think about cost. Every time you go and spend $100
on skydiving, would it be better to send it to a missionary and
help evangelize the world? Is there any risk involved? Well,
every once in a while a parachute doesn't open. Why are you doing it? Is it because
there's an adrenaline high as you jump out of that plane? It's
easy to think, well, For the good of others, let's make a
rule. If you're going to be part of this denomination, you don't
start it. But has God said that? Has He said you should not do
that? And if we begin making rules like that, have we not
replaced God's logic? Now for me, there's no danger.
I don't like heights. To think of looking out an open
door in a plane would terrify me. So I won't do it. There are good reasons why you
wouldn't want to do it. But it's different than saying
the church is going to come along and it's going to give us the
rules to Christians. If you want to be a good Christian,
you can't do this and this and this and this. God has given
us the rules. God has told us what things are
right, what things are wrong. So the church Churches often
become the law-giver rather than God. And as individuals, we can
become judges of others. Judges with wrong motives. Judges
looking to condemn. Well, the third point, and it's
very brief, is how can we achieve this conduct that is becoming
to a Christian that should characterize our life? Well, if you look at
verse 12 in the middle, we have the answer there. It's speaking
of God. It says, who is able to save
and to destroy. It's a reminder that salvation,
growth and grace, Christian maturity, really belongs to God. God working,
God's grace, the help of the Holy Spirit, as we sang earlier
from Psalm 123. We're all prone to evil, to speak about
others in a way in which we shouldn't have judged them, to judge their
motives, How do we overcome that? As we understand who God is,
the salvation that He has, as we look to the Spirit and are
directed by the Holy Spirit and enabled, our works can build up rather
than tear down. We can have a judgment of charity
where we look at the best possible motives, not the worst. And the higher your view of God,
the more you'll realize I'm down here. And I need God's grace
just as much as everyone else around. And who am I? I don't have the maturity. I
don't have the wisdom. I don't have the understanding.
The implications of Scripture? I don't know the hearts of others? In humility, I need be asking
God to help me be a doer of the law. And not a judge of others. Again, not for salvation. Not
so that I can be saying, But as one who has been saved, how
do I show it? In humility. Let's pray. Heavenly Father, we look at the words that you've
written down in the book of James, and especially in chapter 4,
verses 11 and 12 that speak about a sin that is common in the church. that can be so easily in our
lives. Speaking harmful words, or judging
others in the church, or outside the church, or thinking that
we know the motives in those times when
someone is not living up to your standards. rather than looking to ourselves
and saying, show me those times when I'm not living up to those
standards. Give us your grace, so we might
be charitable and loving with one another, so we would say those things which build
up and encourage. Rejoice with those who are rejoicing
with it. Mourn with those who mourn. Help us by your grace to do that.
We pray in Christ's name. Amen.
Conduct Unbecoming a Christian
Series James
SERMON: James 4:11-12
Introduction: Uniform Code of Military Justice…conduct unbecoming
I. The ___________________
Note:
A. v. 11 –
B. v. 11 –
II. What are the reason for __________ doing so?
A. v. 11 –
1.
2.
B. v. 12 –
III. How can you _____________ this conduct becoming to a Christian?
A. v. 12 --
| Sermon ID | 422101029539 |
| Duration | 36:25 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | James 4:11; James 4:12 |
| Language | English |
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