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So we're in 1 Timothy 3. As we
read these qualifications for elders, don't tune out. If you
don't have any aspirations to leadership, you're not off the
hook. All these character qualities
should be true of every mature Christian man, all right? So
you need to be thinking, shining a mirror on yourself as we study
this. Also, ladies, these are the kind of things, if you're
single, that you ought to be looking for in a guy. Okay, so
this is mature Christian man kind of stuff here. So we're
in 1 Timothy 3, there's a parallel list in Titus 1 that we won't
teach through separately, I'll just make some references to
it, it's very similar. Most of these qualifications fall into
the area of character, all right. There's only two abilities listed
in this passage. So let's read it, and you pick
out the two abilities for me. All right, I'm gonna start with
1 Timothy 3, verse one. The saying is trustworthy. If
anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble
task. Therefore, an overseer must be
above reproach. The husband of one wife, sober-minded,
self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not
a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover
of money. He must manage his own household
well, with dignity keeping his children submissive. For if someone
does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care
for God's church? He must not be a recent convert
or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation
of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought
of by outsiders so that he may not fall into disgrace, into
a snare of the devil. All right, somebody give me one
of the two abilities he's gotta have. That's it, the ability
to teach. And what's the other one? Yeah,
he's got to be a good manager. Thank you. In fact, the title
overseer all by itself is a management word, isn't it? Okay, an overseer. So those are the two of the things
he's got to be able to do in addition to these important character
qualifications here. Now Paul starts off by saying,
this saying is trustworthy. This was a favorite thing for
him to say in this letter. He said it three times in this
letter, and he says it again when he writes some stuff in
2 Timothy. So when he opened with these words, this saying
is trustworthy. What saying is trustworthy? Is
this trustworthy saying about the desire to serve as overseer?
Or is this trustworthy saying about the task of overseer? What's
trustworthy here? Well, it's the main emphasis
on the desire or the task. Well, they're close, aren't they?
But if I had to come down to it, I would say what's trustworthy
is this information he's about to say about an overseer. What
do we learn about overseers or the office, as it says here,
of overseer from verse one? Two things I can learn about
it from verse one. Okay, it's noble. If you have
a bad elder, it'd be like Chernobyl. And what's the other one? Well,
it's gonna learn about an overseer or the office of overseer from
this verse. Okay, it's a task. It's a job.
The Greek word is work. Erg, as in energies. It's work. It's really not an office to
be filled. It's a job to be done. That's what it comes down to.
So that's what's trustworthy. So this saying is trustworthy.
If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble
task. Now, when Paul wrote anyone,
how do we know he didn't mean women? Well, one is, you've got
to be married to a woman. OK, so first off, it's hard for
a woman to be the husband of one wife. OK? What else? From other scriptures, how would
we know that? He does not permit a woman to teach or have authority
over a man because he does not command her to see a woman. Thank
you. And the creation order, man created
first. All right, so one of the jobs of an overseer is to teach.
How can she do that if she can't do it? And another thing we talked
about, the word overseer all by itself is a management word.
And so how can a woman have authority? She's not supposed to have authority
over a man. And yet, if you're an overseer, that's got something
to do with authority. So for all those reasons. Want
to add anything to it? Well, First Corinthians says
women have to be silent in church, and that's a pretty hard to teach
and be silent at the same time. Yeah, all right, now, so going
back to our verse, the saint of trustworthiness, if anyone
aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Is the
desire to be an overseer one of the requirements? Well, y'all
might be right, but he doesn't say that. He just mentions if
someone desires to do it, it's a noble task. I don't know why
anybody in his right mind would wanna do it. It's a lot of work. The reason I think Paul was motivated
to say this, go back in the first century. It's an illegal religion. You're persecuted by the Jews
and by the Romans. Most of these churches are so
small, you're not going to make your living off of this as an
overseer. So you've got to be bi-vocational. You've got all
these time pressures. You've got persecution going
on. Plus you got the problems, just people problems. People
are problems. You know, we got trouble right here in River City
with a capital T and that rhymes with P and it stands for people.
So some people are crazy enough to want to do it, but you shouldn't
be forced to do it. Peter goes on to say, I exhort
the elders, shepherd the flock of God, not under compulsion,
but willingly. So I think there are people who
don't want to be an elder, because it is a headache, but they're
willing to serve the Lord and do that if the church wants them
to, that's all right. And they shouldn't be forced
to do it, you shouldn't have to be pressured and guilted in to do it, not
on a compulsion that way, but on the other hand, if you're
crazy enough to want to do it, that's okay too. And so Paul's
saying if anybody wants to do that, it's a noble task. I would
disagree that it's a requirement. Maybe it is. But it's okay. We
don't have to agree on it. Now, he does call a church leader
an overseer. I didn't write that up here.
The Greek word is where we get our word episcopal. Epi, like
an epilogue, means over. And the other word is skopos.
You get a word scope from that. Overseer comes from that. So
an Episcopal church is so named because it's church government
in a pyramid like the Catholic Church is, where you're ruled
by overseers. But this word is synonymous in the Bible with
two other words for leaders. What are the two other words
in English? OK, pastor. And what's the other
one? Elder, right. So I won't show you the verses
on it, but they're all used interchangeably. And if you want to kind of rearrange
it, these two are functions, and this is, again, a character
quality. So Elder, Presbuteros, we're
going to work Presbyterian, it means old man. You might have
heard of Presbyopia. So this is a quality. You've
got a mature man, and that qualifies him to do these two functions
that kind of grow out of that. to be a manager over the church,
and then pastor, it's the word shepherd. We don't use pastor
much except in a religious context, but this wasn't a religious word.
It meant shepherd. So that's caring for, feeding,
leading, guiding the church. Does that make sense? So in a
modern church, if there's any distinction in these three titles,
it's completely man-made. It's convention. The King James,
by the way, doesn't put overseer here. What does it put? Bishop.
Yeah, now that's another word we don't much use. That's kind
of a high church Anglican word, really. But sometimes you'll
hear bishop. So anyway, all these words are
interchangeable. It's the same person, and they're co-equal.
So, that said, going back to this word overseer, it is a manager. And if women could be overseers,
she wouldn't be a manager, she'd be a wominger. So I'd mess his
word up. But I looked it up. Homer in
the Iliad used this word as the guardian of a city. So you see
the protective role. And so Gerald and I are always
looking out to protect the church against Bad eggs. We even took
the address off the website. So people just don't show up.
We don't know they're coming. We can't pre-qualify people before
they come. They have to call, find out where we meet. So that's
just one. We lock the doors to keep bad
actors out, give us time to respond. You know, just to protect her,
spiritually and physically. I know an Anglican priest, you
know, they always wear those funny, what do they call them?
Schmocks or something. Anyway, he's got a revolver inside
of it. And he said, it's my duty to
protect the flock, both spiritually and physically. Anyway, now,
in classical Greek, the episkopos, the overseer, it was a reference
to the gods as guardians of the truth. So, okay, there we go
again. So, overseer, guardian, that's
the idea. Theron, his lexicon said, it was someone who is charged
with the duty of seeing that things to be done are done rightly. So let's imagine we have stinky
music. Whose job is it to be sure it's
not stinky? The overseer's job. And let's suppose we're sitting
here and it's freezing cold and the lights don't turn on. Whose
job is it to be sure it's not freezing cold and the lights
do turn on? The overseers, that doesn't mean he has to do it
himself. Have you ever noticed when you come in, it's generally
clean in here and the chairs are straight, right? Who's in
charge of that? The overseers. But what if we
don't bring enough food every Sunday? We run out. Whose job
is it to browbeat everybody to bring more food? He doesn't have
to go out and buy it himself, but he's got to talk to people
about it. You see what I'm saying? Okay, somebody's got to do that.
Every group that succeeds has some kind of leadership going
on in it. So that's what he's doing. And
he does say it's a task, and I've already mentioned the Greek
word is ergon, erg, an erg of energy. It means work, that's
what it is. So to summarize verse one, the ministry of an overseer,
it involves management, it's a noble thing to do, and it's
a lot of work. Paul said that's a trustworthy
saying. That's relief. Boy, what a great question. I
don't see that in scripture anywhere. OK. I'll just ask. Oh, you should ask. The idea
of being called to the ministry is as extra biblical as saying
there's a difference between an overseer, a pastor, and an
elder. I would add, though, that Ephesians 4 passage, where he
gifts these men of the church, that included in that is the
shepherd. So I think there is a- A gifting. Yeah. A gifting. Yes. we wouldn't call
it a calling, but we would say that the Lord is gifting this
person to the church. Aside from the gifting aspect,
because some people are gifted as pastor teachers, say, now
this guy's got to be able to teach. That's a little different
than the gift of teaching. I see you, Alan. Hang on. So
I would say I am no more called to lead this church than you
are to be an electrician. You say to somebody, what's your
vocation? Right. That's from the Latin
vocative, to call. What has God called you to do?
See, and I hate to be cynical, but I think a lot of this call
to the ministry comes from the fact that I gotta justify making
my living from this thing, so I got some special anointing
from the Lord that you need to give me money. But point is,
there's nothing more special about what I'm doing than what
you do. It's a matter of what God's gifted
you to do. You see? All right. That's my opinion,
you can disagree. Alan. Jesus had a prophet, priest,
and king, division in his religion. Yeah, I think it's mixing apples
and oranges, just like Old Testament prophets were called. And the
preacher's trying to make himself a prophet. That's what's happening
there. But to your point, we try to do church's New Testament
as we can. And most churches don't really
care about that. So they start adding on and doing
things in a different way than we see in the New Testament.
I'm not saying that's sinful. I'm not saying it's anti-biblical. It's extra-biblical. And when
you start doing things in a different way than you see in the Bible,
you have to start creating things that aren't in the Bible, like
distinctions between these three names. And so it's like sociologists
will tell you, when you get over, they say it's 150 people in any
group. You have to layer on management
and complexity. I was having a big talk with
one of the local pastors. I was at the meeting. You're
supposed to introduce yourself. And I said, I'm one of three.
co-equal leaders in our, I think I said three co-equal pastors
in our church, and that ruffled a few feathers. And one of them
wanted to be sure and point out, well, we have to make a distinction
between the senior pastor and the da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da,
and it's all about management and control. He's like the CEO
of a corporation. Well, they have to do that because
they've already departed from so many biblical examples that
we see. So that's where it comes from.
Yes, sir? In fact, it says the office of
overseer. There's no Greek word for office in it. It's a ministry.
It's not an office. Tell me about kinda. Oh. I thought I must have missed
something. Okay. Thank you. Right. All right. There you go.
Now, that's first one. I can tell. Well, Gerald, I'm
going to challenge your 26-week thing. All right. Not really. We are now about to launch into
14 qualifications that I certainly won't finish today. Look at the
first one. an overseer must be above reproach,
and on it goes. What's the significance of the
word must? M-U-S-T, must. This is a requirement. The Greek
word is dei, D-E-I. It's necessary, it's binding.
You don't want to fudge. Now that said, back in the days
before cameras, Lee Sheen tells me, that all artists tried to
paint photographic images of people and events and what they
looked at. Well, once the camera came out, Well, it's a big deal.
You don't need somebody to paint with that precision. So people
like Monet started painting more abstractly. And there's a Monet
out in the hallway there, and it's fuzzy. You know what it
is, but it's dots. And that's when more modernism
and all that jazz came out. Well, anyhow. you can argue,
is he painting here a Rembrandt photographic list, or is this
more of a Monet? Now I'm gonna argue, even though
we don't wanna fudge on anything, I'm gonna argue this is really
more of a Monet. A lot of these things are overlapping
and a little bit hard to precisely identify. So as we go into it,
it is an important thing, but I think it's more of a Monet
that he's painting here. So anyway, I think it all hinges
on the first qualification. What's the first qualification?
above reproach. So what does that look like?
I think everything else in this defines what it means to be above
reproach. I'm gonna keep coming back to that. If we were to go
to Titus chapter one where the same list is there, he starts
with above reproach and he ends with above reproach. He brackets
it, that's his frame. So we got this Monet and what's
the frame? Above reproach. This is what it looks like to
be above reproach. You with me? So again, guys, you're not off
the hook. If you don't desire to be an elder, it's irrelevant.
These things should be true of your life if you're a mature
Christian man. Alright, what's the difference between above
reproach and sinless? And it's your public reputation.
Everybody sins. We do, but it's your public reputation. The King James, New King James
says he's blameless. You're not perfect. Nobody's
perfect. Don't screw up, all right? So the Greek word is the
Greek word not jammed in with the Greek word on, jammed in
with the Greek word to hold. In other words, you can't take
hold of anything. There's nothing on this guy to
grab hold of that's a legitimate basis for accusation. Imagine
the grease pig contest. Some people might illegitimately
accuse him of something, but there's nothing legitimate you
can accuse him of that's a stain on his character. And what was
that word you said, Joel? You said it's his reputation.
That's it. Yeah, Gerald? among the body as opposed to
looking on a website and finding somebody. Because if you look
on a website, you don't know the person's reputation. They
may have all the domain qualifications, look great, let's hire him, here
he is. And then, boom, you realize, man, this was the best. What
have I done? Whereas when the person's coming from within the
body, like Chris has been with us for a couple of years, we
know. It's not like there's any surprises hidden under that stone
that later gets unturned and we all think, oh, no, what did
we do? That's well said. Amen. I think of Job, there was
a man whose name was Job, and that man was blameless and upright,
one who feared God and turned away from evil. He was above
reproach. So anyway, the rest of this defines what it means
to be above reproach. So the next on our list, one
aspect of being above reproach is he must be the husband of
one wife. What does it mean to be the husband
of one wife. Is this something about divorce?
Is this something about polygamy? Is this something else? What
is it? Currently. Currently the husband of one
wife. Not a woman chaser. You don't have a wife and a girlfriend
on the side. Okay. Well, some things are more clear
than others. There's a Greek word for divorce and it's not
here. But let's talk about Jim Baker. That's an old example.
He only had Tammy Faye as his one wife, but he was not a one-woman
type of man. He had other women. There's a
lot of those cats like that, right? So here's the point. The
Greek says he's got to be a one-woman man. Now, there's no dedicated
Greek word for wife. It's only the word woman. They'll
usually put a the in front of it, the woman. That's usually
your wife. But here it doesn't have that. So when you don't
use an article, it can indicate that it's the character quality
of a thing. So in other words, the idea seems,
in my opinion, is he's a one-woman type. He's a one-woman type of
man. Jim Baker wasn't a one-woman
type of man. Bill Clinton certainly wasn't a one-woman type. But
he still only has one wife. So you see the difference? So
I don't really think at this point it has anything to do with
divorce. You could maybe bring that in later. It doesn't have
to do with polygamy. That wasn't a problem in the
Roman Empire. They just didn't practice. The
Romans didn't. They had so many concubines and affairs going
on. You had one wife for legal purposes,
but you might have been terribly immoral. But the Romans weren't
into polygamy. And I'm not for it either. But
I'm just saying, I don't think that's what Paul's talking about.
So you want a guy that's morally pure. Yes, sir, Jason. The woman and the man, does that mean he
has to have a woman? Oh, that's a great question. Are we saying, let's say, a single man
that's never been married, is he saying he can't be an elder?
Well, let's have a yes to start with, and then we'll have a no.
Why do you think that? Besides the fact that it says
this. There's things that are dependent on it. It is proof, isn't it? Yeah,
that's right. Well, no, you're right. So the best testing ground is
if his wife's not happy, that's a problem there. He might not
be the cause of her unhappiness, but he's certainly got his hands
full if she's not happy. All right, so yeah, now are you
for or against? Well, that's the question. What
if a guy was a general in the United States Army and he never
had been married? Well, he's probably got management abilities,
but he might not be very loving. What if he's... Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Right. So we got a yes and probably
maybe a no. All right. Ooh, what about Paul and Timothy
and Titus? And Jesus, we would never let
Jesus be elder in this church. All right. Well, that's right, though. What about that? No, he was higher than that.
He was an apostle. I know, this is not inspired,
but the ESV study Bible, if you have one, you can look it up
in your own notes. It says, Paul is speaking here of the ordinary
cases and is not absolutely requiring marriage or children, but is
giving a picture of a typical approved overseer as a faithful
husband and father. So it's the exception not to
be married. Most of the time, this is an
academic question, although it does come up upon occasion. And
so run that either way. But back to Gerald's main point,
it ain't enough to have been to seminary. You've got to somehow
have proven character. You know, a lot of single guys,
I mean, if he's single, okay, still, he needs to be a one-woman
type of man in the sense that he needs to not be running around.
So I think the issue right here is not marital status, it's moral
purity myself. Yes, sir? Yeah, I was just going
to say, I knew a guy that was going to Fort Nation and did
all the doctrines and this sort of thing and gets to the end. Next time you do this, you're
going to have this part of your denominational process. You need
to find out about that stuff. Yes, it will. Thank you. Amen. That's well said. It was really hard for us to
have others in small churches. I guess if I had the air on one
side or the other, I'd rather have the air on that side. This
is in the framework of a buffering approach. Yes. Yes, right. That's right. Boy, that really looks suspicious.
I don't know what's going on with this guy. And so the idea
is, being above reproach, he needs to be able to handle his
relationship with women in a pure and honest way to where he's
not going to be accused of something because of the way he's acting
around it. Thank you. I agree. That's well
said. Now, the next requirement, another facet of being above
reproach in verse 2 is to be sober-minded. Now the Greek word
for sober-minded is literally not drunk. The opposite of drunk
is sober. What's the difference between
sober and sober-minded? Okay, all of you here are sober,
I think. But what does it mean to be sober-minded? Level-headed. And somebody over
here said temperate, right? What's temperate? OK, carefully considering pros
and cons. Right. Good judgment. That's right.
Yeah. That's good. So to use the drunk
example, if at this moment a drunk driver was going down Cowan Road
out here, he's going to be swerving from one side to the other. He
might run the stop sign. He might hit up on the curb.
He's not well balanced. He's not using good judgment.
So his life has got to be well balanced. Good judgment. He's
weighed pros and cons. He's thought through things.
That's right. So if you've got a guy that's real moody and he
has mood swings, he probably shouldn't be an elder, for example.
Or if his life is just a wreck and he's hopelessly in debt and
his car's always broken down because he don't get around to
fixing it and you go to his house and there's a hole in the roof
that's been there five years and the grass looks like you could
make a Vietnam movie in it. OK. He's probably not sober-minded
in these things. I saw a hand. Who was that? Oh,
yes, sir. James talked about being double-minded.
Oh. Yes, that does fit very well,
not double-minded, that's right. So I looked up words, and you
know, when I was looking this up, it says, he's to be level-headed,
well-balanced, stable, freed from excesses. So in that sense,
he does have authority, but he shouldn't be authoritarian. He
has to make judgments, but he shouldn't be characterized as
being somebody that's judgmental. And certainly, people come to
him for his opinion, but he shouldn't be opinionated. That's not being
sober-minded. OK. That's right. That's right. Well, this is written in Greek
and it's not drunk in Greek. Yeah, I don't know what sober
is etymologically in English, but I do in Greek there. All
right, so now we're still in verse two, right? The next one
is self-controlled. So part of being above reproach
is to be self-controlled. See, that's very similar to sober-minded,
it sounds like to me. What situations can you think
of where it would be important for an elder to be self-controlled? Okay, everybody is losing their
heads. You need to have a cool head. That's very good. There
are a lot of issues that people can get really worked up over.
What else? Yeah, what kind of temptations? Okay, take more power than you
need. Well, I was thinking too, first century, most of the church
leaders were bivocational. What does that mean? Yeah, in
other words, they weren't full-time as church leaders. He's got a
lot less time than a full-time person would. So he's got to
have self-control when it comes to what does he do with his free
time? How does he manage his family
and his business? When does he have time to study?
Does he make time to study? Does he have free time to counsel?
So he's got to be a man of self-control. One of the big duties is teaching.
Well, look, if he never spends time to study, he's gonna be
a pretty cruddy teacher, probably. Hudson Taylor, you know, his
famous missionary, way to go to China, isn't that right? He
said this, it touches on both points. He says, my greatest
temptation is to lose my temper, self-control, his temptation
is to lose his temper, why? Over the slackness and inefficiency
so disappointed in those on whom I depend. So he was frustrated
because the other missionaries were slack and inefficient. They
should have been having self-control. And the good thing, he did have
self-control because it tempted him to lose his temper. He goes
on to say, it is no use to lose my temper, only kindness, but
oh, it is such a trial. The Greek word for self-controlled
is the word saved, jammed together with the word thinking. Literally,
you would translate it, he's got to have saved thinking. It
doesn't mean that like it does in English, but it came to describe
someone who was reasonable, sensible, had a sound mind, and from that,
the idea of self-control. So Proverbs says, a man without
self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.
The NAS here doesn't say self-control, it says prudent. What does it
mean to be prudent? There's a prudential life insurance
company. What do you want from a life insurance company? Trustworthiness,
wisdom in investing money so that they can help you in your
time of distress. So it means marked by wisdom,
shrewd in the management of practical affairs. And so one commentator
said, the ministry is no place for the man whose life is a continual
confusion of unaccomplished plans and unorganized activity. All
right. Let's go for one more. Are we
still in verse 2? Yeah. Alright. Oh yeah, here's respectable. You remember Rodney Dangerfield?
He always said, I don't get no respect. To be above reproach
includes being respectable. So how would you describe someone
who is respectable? Worth paying attention to? Actions lead to fruitful outcomes,
usually. Yes. Okay. Well, according to the
dictionary, or actually the internet, it said respectable people, this
is convention, right? They're polite. They're authentic. They're determined. They're empathetic. They're helpful. They're confident. They're open-minded. They're
honest. level-headed, humble, optimistic,
and decent, as in moral. So as you see, Gerald and I will
soon be resigning from being elders. Nobody can make that
up. But we kind of know it, right?
We bank on Main Street under Tandem Bank. When you go into
your bank, you're not going to see a guy behind the counter
covered in tattoos with a nose ring and long stringy hair taking
your money. See, that's not respectable.
They're going to at least hire people who look respectable.
They might be just as crooked as anybody, but you see what
I'm saying? We know respectable. when we see it. Now the Greek
word is kosmos. We got our word cosmonaut or
kosmos from that and it means orderly or proper. And so an
overseer's life is to be well ordered. He's got to have his
act together. Honorable would be a definition
for this Greek word. It's the opposite of dishonorable.
When a soldier gets a dishonorable discharge, that means he's had
some bad conduct. That's not respectable. So he's
gotta be a man worthy of respect. I tell you what, I'm gonna do
one more and I'll quit, because I can do it quickly. An overseer
must be above reproach in the area of, what's the next one
in verse two? Hospitality. What does it mean
to be hospitable? Yeah, the ability to serve is
good. Loving different people. Yeah,
that's right. Inviting. Approachable. Approachable
is a good one. Very good. Were you going to
say that? Good. Accessible, yeah. The Greek is a Greek word, affection,
and the Greek word stranger, jammed together. And affection
for strangers, fond of strangers. Again, I looked it up, it says,
it involves extending warmth, kindness, and generosity toward
guest visitors, or even strangers, creating an environment that
fosters genuine human connection and a sense of belonging. True
hospitality, watch this, it extends beyond the confines of professional
settings. Somebody wrote a book, Open Heart,
Open Home, that's what it was. And so the idea of hospitable,
literally, an elder is a type of person whose home is open.
People stay there, they come for counseling, for training,
for meals, for prayer meetings, for Bible studies, that kind
of thing, or to host itinerant workers. So you remember, Jay
was telling us that he was a member of a church for 10 years, but
never once. was he invited into the home
of another church member of that church. That's a little too cold
for me. So we ought to all be hospitable,
right? But especially a leader, because he sets the tones for
the church. So I went to another church. I was invited to be on
an ordination committee. I didn't know this guy from Adams
off OX. And I thought, why are they inviting me to come to this
ordination committee? But I went. I could ask him theological
questions. I got there, and they all knew
each other. I was the odd man out, okay? So I go in this room
with about 15 guys, and they're all sitting there quietly, waiting
for it to start. Nobody said a word to me. Hello? Who are you? How are you? No
interest in me or getting to know me. And they all obviously
knew each other. And so then the guy came in,
you know, everybody asking questions. And then they all left. I might
as well have been invisible, but I think a pastor sets the
tone for a church like that. If he's cold, the church is going
to be cold. See what I'm saying? It's risky because you don't
know the person. You don't know the people. So I think maybe
the idea could be that this is a man who used his stuff, flew
in his home. That's not his stuff in his home.
He's kingdom minded, and that he's willing to take that risk
to have people in his home, not knowing whether he's going to
benefit from them in any kind of way. But he's doing it because
he wants to love on them and minister to them. And it is risky. I think the leader is willing
to take that risk as an example to the other people. But it's
worth the risk. That's right That's right. And remember, too,
house church was de rigueur at the time, all about home meetings. And as churches become more like
businesses, they become more professional. And that's why
I read this part, hospitality that extends beyond the confines
of professional settings. Actually, some seminaries advise
the students, you know, like in the military, officers do
not fraternize with enlisted men. And we had a ministry at
our church in Memphis to one of the military bases, and the
officers wouldn't even ride in the van. We'd get enlisted men,
and the officers would come separate. And there they are in church,
and they wouldn't fraternize together, which I always thought
was pretty weird. But anyway, in seminary, sometimes they're
told, you do not be friends with church members. You get your
friends with other pastors in different churches. You do not
be friends with church members. This is crazy thinking. That's
just wrong. Chris, I'm going to close after
you say something. I just thought I'd share one of my mentors early
on. The church growth movement told
me, do not visit the home of your members. Wow. There you
go. Because it'll sidetrack you. And the thinking is familiarity
breeds contempt. That's why you wear a tie. I
got my act together. I'm professional. Don't get too close. All right,
well, I think we'll stop there. We've got plenty of material
and we certainly won't finish today. Now next week, we're gonna go
with the last qualification in this first, which is able to
teach. And so we're gonna look at what does it look like when
an overseer is not above reproach in his teaching ability? That's
what we'll be looking at. This message was produced by
the New Testament Reformation Fellowship, reforming today's
church with New Testament church practices. Permission is hereby
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to follow Him in complete obedience to His Word. May your faith in
the Lord Jesus be strengthened and your daily walk with Him
deepened.
8a. Qualifications for Small-Church Leaders, Part 1 + PDF Discussion Guide
Series Key Early Church Practices
1 Timothy 3:1-7 contains fourteen qualifications for church leaders (a similar list is found in Titus 1:6-8).
Universal Applications:
- Don't assume this does not apply to you if you don't aspire to be a church leader. Every brother's goal should be to embody the character qualities listed here.
- These are the character qualities single sisters should look for in a man.
| Sermon ID | 25241518303533 |
| Duration | 38:57 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 Timothy 3:1-2 |
| Language | English |
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