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We can all benefit from more
effective public speaking guidance and direction. 1 Peter chapter
3 and verse 15 declares, but sanctify the Lord God in your
hearts and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who
asks you a reason for the hope that's within you with meekness
and fear. Now, the mission I first trained
under was Hospital Christian Fellowship, founded by Francis
Grimm. He used to say, a missionary
must be ready to preach, pray, or die with a moment's notice.
Are you ready to preach, pray, or die at a moment's notice?
That's why bishops used to wear red or purple tunics because
that was to indicate the blood of the martyrs, that they're
ready to die for Christ. If you meet a bishop, Ask him
if he remembers why they have that colour, red or purple. And is that bishop ready to preach,
pray or die at a moment's notice? The moment you start speaking
about public speaking, people have excuses. According to statistics,
people are more scared of public speaking than even death. Statistically,
People are more afraid of public speaking than death. So at an
average funeral, the average person would prefer to be in
the casket than the one giving the eulogy, statistically. But statistically they say, more
than anything else, people fear public speaking. So when Moses
was told by God to go to Pharaoh, he came up with the excuse, oh
my Lord, I'm not eloquent, neither before nor since you've spoken
to your servant, but I'm slow of speech and slow of tongue.
That sounds like a very eloquent argument that is not eloquent,
yes? The Lord said to him, who has made man's mouth? Who has
made the mute, the deaf, the seeing, or the blind? Have not
I the Lord? Now therefore go, and I will
be with your mouth. I will teach you what you are
to say. And when the Lord still tried to get, Moses still tried
to get out the Lord's call, And he requests, oh my Lord, please
send by the hand of somebody else. We read that the anger
of the Lord was kindled against Moses. God was angry with his
excuses. Maybe he thought it was humble.
No, I'm no good, I've got no experience. But it doesn't matter
what excuse, God is angry if we try to disobey his call. If
God commands us to do something, he will equip us. God's servant
is God's responsibility. The will of God will never leave
you, but the grace of God won't keep you. where God guides you,
he will provide for you. Unless the Lord builds a house,
they labor in vain to build it. All scripture is given by inspiration
of God, and it is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for
correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of
God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.
Are you complete? Are you thoroughly equipped for
every good work? You can be if you know the word of God. I charge
you therefore before God and the Lord Jesus Christ, who will
judge the living and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom.
Preach the word. Be ready in season and out of
season. Convince, rebuke, exhort with
all longsuffering and teaching. Notice, there's many aspects
to preaching. There's the convincing, there's
the rebuking, there's the exhorting or encouraging. And we've got
to do it all with longsuffering, real patience. For although we
walk in the flesh, we do not walk according to the flesh.
For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but they are
mighty in God for the pulling down of strongholds. In our preaching
we can be mighty in pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments,
every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge
of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience
of Christ. So the first question to ask,
if you get an invitation, who are you going to be speaking
to? It makes a big difference if you're speaking to a women's
group, a young group, an older group, whether you're speaking
to established Christians or a hostile audience. Is it a university
group? Is this a group of businessmen?
You would prepare very different messages depending on who the
audience is. The more you know your audience,
the better will be your preparation. What concerns do they have? If
you are being invited to a group of young people, it might be
appropriate to deal with things like sexual purity, to deal with
love, courtship, marriage. These may be things that obsess
them. Social media, how to be disciplined about your time,
not to let the technology ruin your life and rule your life.
You've got to think, what are the concerns? What are the needs
of this particular audience? What would your host like you
to speak on? Now, if your host says, the reason, then you know
what you've got to do. I've sometimes been told, we're
about to do a missions outreach, say into Mozambique, and we'd
like you to motivate people that we have more volunteers to join
us and give us some insights into the needs in the country.
Okay, I've been to Mozambique. I can speak on that. I know what
they want. They want missionary volunteers. My job is to motivate
people to join this mission outreach. Or the past may say, we want
you to have a baptism service. I want you to speak on the importance
of baptism. Well, now you know, and that's straightforward. You
go to someplace to say, we want you to prepare our people for
a particular outreach we're going to do on the college campus.
Fair enough. Okay. When you know what's the
results, they're looking for volunteers, they're looking for
candidates for baptism, or they want to increase the mission
giving of their church. They've got some results they're
looking for. If I know what the results are, it'll help. They'll
know what to plan for. Where does your audience stand
on these issues? Now, if I'm going to a pro-life group, I
don't need to convince them that abortion is murder and life begins
at conception. They're a pro-life group. So
I don't need to convince her. I might guide them how to be
effective pro-life witnesses and mobilize them for the March
for Life, but I don't need to convince them. If I'm going to
a secular group on a university campus, I will have to convince
them. They will not be pro-life. They will be mostly pro-choice,
pro-abortion. They may be evolutionary. Do
they believe in God or not? Sometimes I've been invited to
speak on blasphemy at the University of Cape Town. Now, the people
at the University of Cape Town believe in blasphemy. They were
putting me there just to shoot me down, actually, so I was going
to a hostile audience. So it makes a big difference
when you know where your audience stands. If I'm going to a missions
group, and all missionaries there, I don't need to convince them
of the importance of missions. They know the importance. I need
to direct them to where the needs are best and so on. Am I speaking
to a hostile audience? I've spoken to many a hostile
audience. where you go in and everyone there is an atheist,
or a pro-abortionist, or a Muslim, or a communist, and obviously
you have to have a different attitude to a hostile audience.
They're not interested in your message to start with, so you've
got to really get their interest from the beginning. Is this group
undecided? We're going to talk on subjects
like whether it's evolution, creation, where they stand, are
they pro-life, are they not pro-life, where they stand on the issue
of abortion, are they saved, unsaved, I must speak to people who really
share my convictions, and I don't need to spend time convincing
them of things they're really committed to. How many, well,
how will this meeting be advertised? I've been to meetings that were
not advertised at all. And I can tell you there's some
serious cases of presumption, so once I was invited to a North
Dakota, one of the worst meetings I've ever had in my life. So
the people invited me. The person's name was Norman
Grubb, and I assumed it was the Norman Grubb who wrote this great
book, Intercessor, and also on Pioneer and Cricket and Pioneer
on C.T. Studd, C.T. Studd-Sunwall. But
this was another Norman Grubb. So I allowed myself to be deceived
by a famous name, but it was not the same person. I should
have asked questions. I asked no questions ahead of
time. I got there, and the people had said, now, because you've
got such an important message behind the biggest hall in town,
and the biggest hall in town happened to be the St. Mary's of the Sacred Hearts or
something, some Catholic school hall. Now, of course, I'm not
Catholic. My hosts aren't Catholic either.
They didn't say who I was, where I was from, because they wanted
everyone to come. But people don't come to nothing
or no one. So it was just a public meeting at the Holy Convent of... a blessed virgin of the sacred
heart, something like that, a convent school. So no Protestant's gonna
come to the meeting, because it's a Catholic venue. But no
Catholic's gonna come to the venue either, because they know
it's not one of their meetings, because their priest didn't mention
it on Sunday. So this is like a dead certain
nobody's gonna come to this meeting. Massive venue, easily 800 people
can fit into this hall, they've set up the chairs and everything.
The advert they put in the media was so vague, important to overseas
guest speakers to speak on a matter of high importance, didn't give
a title, didn't give a subject. They didn't even mention I'm
from South Africa, because they thought that might discourage
some people. But you know, controversy sells too. If they just mentioned
something, but there was nothing, nothing, nothing. But the man
had his ace up his sleeve. We've got a radio program beforehand,
and he showed off to people here in the radio, everyone's going
to come to this meeting tonight. Problem was, we go to the radio station,
I've had a lot of radio programs, and some weeks I could have...
up to 15, 20 radio programs in one week. So I walked in and
I quickly got the idea, this is not a live program. You have
live and you have recorded. This was obviously a recorded
program. I could tell the way he was talking about it. And
so I asked the question, when will this be broadcast? The man
said, Tuesday next week. And my host drained of color. Oh, he was... This was his hope
for the meeting, the radio program. But it's recorded. It's not live.
It's going to be broadcast next week. The meeting will be over.
I'll be out of town already. So this was a disaster, beyond a
disaster. Massive hall that they've hired,
huge amounts of chairs that they've hired as well, everything set
up. And there were eight people in the meeting. My host, his
wife, in-laws, some relatives, there was nobody, nobody, nobody
from the town as large there, because they didn't advertise
sensibly. And I've had people do this before,
we went to Trompsburg once, out in the Orange Free State, and
the man concerned would invite us. He made enemies of every
church in town. He hates churches, he thinks
churches are bad. You get Christians like this. In South Africa, there
are two million Christians, born-again Christians, who don't attend
church. It's shocking. It's a shocking thing. More and
more you're seeing people who are unchurched who think they are...
I can't go to church because the churches are compromised
and the churches are hypocrites. Well, you know, better to go
to church or not. And these people, instead of
being a member of the church and trying to reform the church
from within or doing something good, praying for revival, no,
they just criticize the church and don't attend. Now, sadly,
my host was one of those people. Every pastor in town was sick. You'd just hear this man's name
and they'd close down. So him being my host was the
worst thing I could have done. I should have known it, but speaking
to pastors, realized, you know, this character here, he's just
organizing church, speaking against the church. Nobody wants to cooperate
with him. So it's my bad fortune that I'm
being hosted by somebody who has aggravated every minister.
But he hired the football stadium, hired the football stadium. Can
you imagine how many people a football stadium could fit? But there
were not even 20 people because he had a band that he'd hired
for music. He had a few of his, and I'm
counting them in the 20, my team, which is four of us. And we spoke
to, I can say, I preached in a football stadium. There's nobody
there. This person, if he'd had a house meeting, he could have
filled it with the people who were there. But no, he could
have organized with a single church, but no, he wasn't a member
of a church. He messed up so badly. Why would people come
from all the churches in town to Phyllis Football Stadium when
their pastors don't want to promote it? This man was the wrong host.
So you can sometimes have a disaster if people don't advertise, if
they don't promote, if they don't have a title. I once drove vast
distance to get to a meeting where they had a person saying,
come for an important message. tonight and they had the names
of people, but there was no motivation, there was no title, no subject. Why would people come to a meeting
in the middle of the week without a title? Now the first thing
that you should get is if people really think you've got an important
message, invite the person to the Sunday morning service. If
you can't organize that, Sunday evening service or the midweek
service. Those are scheduled meetings and there'll be some
people who come to it. But some people have such grandiose ideas,
they hire out Wanderers football stadium in Johannesburg. Seriously.
Had some person who had a vision that they were an apostle or
prophet or something and decided to hire out the biggest football
stadium in the country. Rugby stadium, actually. Well,
it doesn't exactly help because that costs a lot, yes, but don't
hire a stadium out if you can fit the people in a church hall,
or the city hall, or the scout hall, or something like that,
or in a person's home. And they had enough people there to fill
somebody's living room, but they hired out a football stadium.
Now, these sort of people run far away when you get invitations
from people like that. They're people who don't have
a plan. They don't have adverts, they don't know what they're
doing. So you've got to find out what is being advertised,
how is it being advertised, what's the theme, what's the title.
If they don't have a title, a theme, if they don't have adverts and
posters, and these days you should have social media, how is the
meeting going to be? advertised. How many people are
expected? Well, of course, then don't forget
some of these people name it, claim it, and frame it. People
are speaking to existence. Now, I'm trusting God for 100,000
people to fill a stadium. Well, that's fine. But realistically,
how many of these meetings have you organized? What kind of a
chance have you had before? We've got people who don't know what
they're doing. How much time have you been allocated? That's
also important. The worst thing, you get a public speaker, he
stands up, and he's been rambling, rambling, rambling. You know,
a funny thing happened to me on the way to the airport. I
was at a massive auditorium, a big ministers' conference,
thousands of ministers there. The speaker stands up, and he
starts off with, a funny thing happened to me on the way to
the airport. My wife and I, we've both got the same kind of notebook,
I've ended up with her notebook, and she's ended up with mine,
all my notes on my notebook, and so my wife's got my notes,
so I don't have any notes today. And while I was sitting there,
I was wondering what to say to you. That's very disturbing. The public speaker
says, while I was sitting there, I was wondering what to say to
you. This is a minister's conference. People have come from 60 different
countries around the world, and the plenary speaker says, I was
wondering what to say to you today. He hasn't prepared before
coming in there. Shame on him. They should flog
him and kick him out. How on earth can any man stand
up and say, I was wondering what to say to you today? Shame upon
them. But I've seen big speakers in
massive events say that. And then they can ramble, ramble,
ramble. Anecdotes about their wife, anecdotes about their daughter,
this and the other. And then they've been going for
like 40 minutes. And the man says, let me begin
with, and firstly, Or worse than that, they turn
and ask the host who's sitting in the front, how much time do
I have? When a person says that to them, the host should say,
your time's up. He's only going to get worse
from there. How much time do I have? Find out before you get
in the pulpit. The most stupid, ridiculous thing
is to ask for how much time you have after you've been rambling
for 40 minutes. She said, they should set that time, 30 minutes,
you used it up 10 minutes ago. Get down. Sorry we have invited
you. Honestly, it's disgraceful. What
can you say, what can't you say? Now some places I've gone, like
in Northern Ireland, I was told at the time, you can only use
the King James. We don't accept anything but
King James. If you're quoting a scripture, it must be King
James. Everything must be King James, and you gotta watch out
because a lot of your scripture is not on your notes, it's in
your mind, and you might just quote. Now, if I know this church
as a principle, it's gotta be King James. That night, I was
sitting there, I borrowed a King James Bible, and I had to change
all my notes and everything, and be sure that I was quoting
King James. Now, I'm a Baptist, I'm a Reformed
Baptist. If I'm speaking in a Methodist
church or a Lutheran church, what can't I speak on? Baptism,
obviously, because they believe in infant baptism or what we
call dedication. We sometimes call what they do
christening. So out of politeness, I'm a guest
of a church that practices infant baptism or what we call christening.
I can't speak on believers baptism by immersion, because that would
be very rude in that I'm being a guest of it. So you've got
to know what you're dealing with. Now similarly, if you're a Presbyterian
and you're being invited to speak in a Methodist church, you should
not be preaching on predestination. Methodists do not hold to that,
they don't believe that they are a minion. So you've got to
know what can I speak on, what can't I. There's lots of things
you can speak on that is not going to clash across denominational
distinctives. And as somebody who's been a
chaplain in the army often, I've had to be polite on it. The more
scripture you have, the safer you are, but you can't preach
denominational distinctives. So for example, tongues is a
very divisive issue. You can't be going into Pentecostal
church and preaching against tongues, nor should you as a
Pentecostal preacher go to Presbyterian church and start pushing tongues.
That's a divisive issue. let's focus on what unites us.
We all should agree on missions and caring for the persecuted
church and praying for revival. Focus on a subject that isn't
going to breach a denominational distinctive. So again, church
government. If you go into the Bible, you
will see there are forms of church government of all kinds of churches. So you will see congregational see Episcopalian church governments
in the Bible, where Paul appoints Titus to appoint leaders in Cyprus. So, fair enough. Okay, you can
proceed. You can see cases where Timothy
is appointing leaders and so on. You can see where the leaders
are being elected by the congregation, like in Antioch. You can see
places where they've plainly got bishops overseeing other
pastors, and you've got other places where it looks like this
congregation is completely run on its own. So you've got top-down,
you've got bottom-up. We've got a variety of church
leadership forms seen in the Bible. Presbyterians see synods,
and they can see the Presbyterian form where they see the elders
leading. So you get ruled by the elders, you get ruled by
congregation, you get ruled by bishops. So you can see Episcopalian,
congregational, and Presbyterian type of forms of church governments
in the Bible. It's no good going into one church and attacking
the form of church government. or attacking their form of worship
or their form of baptism. Those are divisive issues. You've
got to know what you can and can't speak on. Now, why have
you been selected to speak to this particular group? If I'm
being invited because they want me to give my testimony of when
I was in prison, then that's what they expect. I can't decide,
well, I'd rather speak on the two natures in the one person. I can't start giving theology
when they want me there for my testimony, and so on. Now, I've
had the difficult situation of preaching in churches like Dr. James Kennedy's Coleridge Presbyterian
Church. There's Dr. James Kennedy, one
of the greatest preachers in the world, sitting in the pulpit
next to me, and I've got to preach. That's seriously intimidating.
I even had to preach at St. Andrew's in Florida, where R.C. Sproul, the greatest theologian
of the 20th century, sitting in the front row with his wife,
and I'm in his pulpit. Well, obviously, I can't produce
theology to their level, so what do I do when I'm there? I focus
on testimony. I give them missionary report
back on persecution church in the field. I speak on the testimonies
of Christians in Mozambique and Sudan, and I'm giving something
that is unique to my experience. They didn't invite me there to
give better theology than their pastor. I can't. They've got
the greatest theologian on earth sitting there in their church.
I mustn't try and be what I'm not. So when I'm in Dr. James Kendi's or R.C. Sproul's
church, I give missions, persecuted church, testimonies of revival.
I give them insights from my experience that nobody else could
give. I'm not there because they think I'm a better theologian
than in the past. I'm not. I'm there because I've got experience
and insights and testimony. So you've got to focus on what
is your strength and what you've been invited for. In what way
are you going to benefit your audience? What information do
you have to give that they're unlikely to receive from another
source? Now, if you have got a unique insight into maybe it's
witchcraft, maybe it's Islam, whatever your particular insights
are, your insights to the persecuted church, your insights into how
this youth ministry can be effective, you give them what they're unlikely
to get from another source. There's no point me coming and
teaching you about Swazi culture. You know about Swazi culture
better than I do, obviously. So pointless for me to bring coals
to Newcastle, or as they say, unnecessary for you to try and
give the people what they already have. You want to give them something
new, something different, something that they'll benefit from. So
what actions do you want them to respond with? If your goal
is repentance and baptism, like the Apostle Peter at Pentecost,
what response did he want? Believe in Lord Jesus Christ,
repent of your sins, be baptized. So that's actually the result
he got at the end of Pentecost prayer meeting. What do you want
to happen as a result of this meeting or these series of meetings?
If you want to increase your church membership, if you want
to increase your outreaches, increase your missionary activity,
that's what you aim at. The whole point is you've got
to know something about your audience, what their needs are,
what their expectations are, what the goals are, what the
results are. If you aim at nothing, well,
if you short it, nothing. But you've got to have a target.
The goal isn't to shoot and then see where the bullets fell and
then go and paint the target afterwards. We don't decide the
target afterwards. We decide the target beforehand.
Appearance is important. Your appearance is important.
Dress appropriately. So before you've even said one
word, your audience will have formed a first impression of
you by your clothing, your grooming, and your body language. No good
coming in, as has happened, and the person's briefcase falls
apart and all of his notes fall over the floor and he's scrambling
around picking up. I mean, that happens, embarrassingly. There's all sorts of things.
Some people come in and they look a mess. Sometimes I think,
you know, did they sleep in their clothes? And sometimes they might
have. and grooming. There's no excuse for being long-haired
and messy and so on. I'm talking about men having
long hair. Some of these people walk in
their basket case, they look like a disaster. I've seen youth
leaders walk in, they've got sunglasses propped into their
head and hair, and they're walking wearing sunglasses. I've seen
men, famous men, some of the most famous men in the world,
preaching in a cathedral in Sudan wearing a baseball cap. Would
they preach with a baseball cap in a church in America? No. But
they're in the field, and they think they can stand in an Episcopal
church in Sudan and preach with a baseball cap in their cathedral.
There's some strange things that are done, very strange. And then
you get these people who, they literally get a barstool up front
and they sit on a barstool and dialogue with the people, emergence.
And they think that's cool, open neck shirts and so on and so
forth, in a formal church. Now, when I'm in a formal church,
I wear a suit and tie and so on. You've got to know what's
appropriate dress. For example, Livingston, 2013.
This is the 200th anniversary of Dr. David Livingston's birthday. And we were at Victoria Falls
on the 16th of November 2013, part of the Livingston 200 event. And I had people coming to me
saying, you can take your jacket off. And I said, no, I can't.
It was a sweltering hot day. Beyond sweltering, it was steaming
hot. Everyone had their jackets off
and so on, if they had jackets. But I didn't think I could honor
David Livingston preaching on anything less than a suit on
that day at Victoria Falls. And people offered to stand with
an umbrella over me because it was very, very, very hot. And
I would have felt stupid having somebody standing holding an
umbrella with me while remembering David Livingston, who walked
across Africa wearing effectively a suit and tie, hiking through
the bushes. And he dressed smartly. How could we honor him by coming
in a safari suit or something like that? And here, one of our
missionaries, he's dressed in a suit at a chaplain service
in the Sudan army. And that might look like he's
overdressing, but not really. The army's got a dress code,
and it's good for the chaplain to be dressed in a smart way.
Maintaining good posture is important. You should stand up straight,
not slouch. I mean, the amount of people who are sloppy and
slouching, don't lean on the lectern. And some of these people
rock the lectern. Don't rock back and forth. There
are these people who rock back and forth with their feet while
they're talking. And then there's nervous movements which distract.
I don't know if you've come across people like that, but we've had
people fidgeting with their jewelry, especially ladies. There's this
one lady speaking at a public meeting, and she has the whole
time flicking her hair out of her eyes. You know, get a damn
hairband, really. I mean, she has the whole time,
pushing her hair. Her hair kept coming back like
a dog with hairs in front of the eyes. And, well, just, you
know, prop it up with something or cut it. But the idiocy of
just the whole way through. We couldn't remember a thing
she said because we were so distracted by this person fiddling with
their hair. And then you get these people jangling with their
jewelry or hands in their pockets. They should, like our teachers
in school in Indonesia, they would take the ruler and smack
us over the knuckles for putting our hands in our pockets. You
don't put your hands in your pockets while you're preaching
or singing hymns. Disgusting. No, you should have
a ruler and put out your hands, wham! Don't put your hands in
your pockets. And clasping your hands, crossing
your arms. This is such a closed body language,
isn't it? You know, a person sitting there
with their arms folded, it means I'm close to you. It's very negative. And then you get these people
who scratch themselves like they're apes or chimps the whole time.
Just scratching, scratching, scratching, literally. All the
way along. I've seen people like that. It
distracts people. If you're doing any strange movement,
ask your friends to warn you. There's strange things we do.
And then speak to people's needs. Avoid cliches. What are the cliches
you get? God is good all the time. All
the time, God is good. Again, what have you communicated?
Or, we serve a good God. Amen. Well, I mean, those are
cliches. Or, we're living in the last
days. The whole congregation, amen. I mean, those are cliches.
We've got to have something more meaningful to say than that.
And the stock phrase, meaningless repetition. If you watch the
God's Not Dead films, they've got this, you know, God is good
all the time. All the time, God is good. And, you know, that's
been done to death now, and let's not carry on with these cliches. There's a certain amount of things
you can't just carry on saying that. And these people, it's
like, instead of um or er, they just throw in these, or you get
these people, hell yeah! It's like, instead of saying,
I'm more ill, I'd say that's in danger of going to blasphemy.
Because you're not taking the Lord's name seriously. It's just
being used like a filler. The person's not thinking, he
doesn't know what to do, so he just puts it out there. So let's
avoid meaningless repetition. Our Lord Jesus spoke about when
we pray, it should not be with meaningless repetition. We should
not do that. Put yourself in the position of the people you're
speaking to. It would be nice if you said something meaningful.
and original and not just keep repeating cliches. What are the
concerns of your audience? What are their needs? What are
the issues they're facing? Can we speak to these issues? That
will be most relevant. You know, when you start off
with a person like, what are we so worried about? Now you
name what we're worried about. Or the fear of death, or you're
tackling the economy, or how do we manage in this and that
situation? Or how should we respond to the transgender movement?
That's an issue of concern people have, or crime and punishment,
whatever it may be. But think of what is their concern.
What must I do to be saved? How can I be sure that I'm going
to heaven? These are issues and concerns that you might want
to address. Now, here's an example. The Apostle Paul on Mars Hill
gives an example of evangelism in a hostile environment. And
he finds something in the culture to use as a stepping stone to
capture their attention and to awaken their curiosity. He starts
with God and creation. He has to start with creation
because he's dealing with people who don't know anything about
God. They're polytheists. They worship many gods. They're
idolaters. He's not speaking to Hebrews who know something
about the law and of God's creation and of the prophets. He deals
with the spiritual longings and the need for repentance. So when
you receive an invitation to speak on any subject, you should
brainstorm. Write down briefly with a few
words and symbols everything you can think about that subject.
So I've got a notebook and I write all sorts of things in there
when I'm thinking about a new Bible study or sermon or whatever.
You think of sources, scriptures, principles, examples, illustrations,
action items. Action items are important, and
you should review your ideas and then organize them. Start
with the problem, and then the scriptural principles, then the
illustrations. from the scripture, then from history, then from
contemporary, and then from your personal experience to illustrate
the issue. The most important thing is you've got a subject
and you've got a goal. Now, okay, what stories are going
to resonate to the people to understand this issue or subject
or applies? And that's the most important
thing. You've got stories, you've got principles, and you've got
applications. You should prioritize the most
important ideas, starting from the least important to the most
important. So when you're giving your arguments,
you start with the least important one first, so that your last
one is the best, the biggest, the flamethrower napalm that
clears the field, wipe out the enemy, whatever that may be.
So we call this BOP, brainstorm, organize, prioritize, B-O-P.
That's what you're writing. And that should be done in the
study, not while you're sitting on the front pew at a major conference
thinking, what am I going to say when I get up there? That
is so shameful, that person should be flogged. Aim for results. Consider what attitude you want
your audience to develop considering your subject. Determine what
actions you want your audience to do as a result of this presentation.
Then consider what advantage are you offering them through
the material you are pre-presenting. You've been asked to speak on
the right to life for people and babies, say. And so you start
with the principles of life begins at conception, biblically, scientifically,
medically. The attitude you want, people
must be hostile to abortion. I'd never consider it. I must
counsel people against it. I'd never vote for a political
party that supports abortion. You think of your subject. And
then what advantage are you offering? Now, you might have had some
experience in abortion, maybe you've counseled somebody. In
my case, my mother was advised, was counseled by the doctor to
abort me because she had had Thalidomide tablets, which were
the wonder drug to stop any kind of morning sickness. But the
babies were being born deformed, without arms, legs, without eyes
in many cases. And so she is advised to have
an abortion. So, okay, I've got some personal
experience. My mother was told she must abort me, and she chose
not to, obviously. That's some personal insight
I can give. My mother was a medical nurse.
She works in maternity most of her life. So I can think of some
things I could put in there. But I've counseled some people
who have come from abortions or been a product of a rape and
people said she should have been aborted. But meanwhile, of course,
the person who does the rape should be the one who gets killed,
not the victim or the innocent victim. The child's not guilty.
No child should be put to death for the sin of the father, as
Ezekiel 18 tells us. So we think of the scripture,
we think of the principles, choose life's You and your children
may live. Speak up for those who cannot
speak for themselves. Rescue those being led away to death.
Hold back those staggering towards slaughter. We gather our scriptures.
We get the medical facts. Life begins at conception. At
three weeks after conception, the baby's heartbeat can be measured
on an EEG. At six weeks after conception,
the baby's brainwave can be measured. lifelong brainwave. So if the
absence of a heartbeat is a sign of death, the presence of a heartbeat
should be a confirmation of life. The absence of a brainwave is
a confirmation of death. Well, the presence of a brainwave
should be a confirmation of life. So we think of our arguments,
what we want the people to do, make your presentation come alive
relating a Bible story, and we just think now, When Moses was
about to be born, the deliverer, Pharaoh issues an order, all
the male children are to be killed, thrown into the river to be eaten
by crocodiles and so on. When the Lord Jesus is about
to be born, King Herod issues the order that all male babies
under two are to be killed in Bethlehem, and so on. So you
think of Bible stories. There's the pharaohs and the
Herods of this day who tried to kill babies as well. The menace
of the manger. Think of historical illustrations,
personal anecdotes. Help the audience understand
and relate to the principles you're communicating. Life begins
at conception. Abortion is murder. And you energize
your audience. to put your faith in it, there
are three basic requirements for all public speaking. Number
one, have something worthwhile, important, and relevant to say.
Is it important? Is it worthwhile? Is it relevant?
Then you can go further. Now, for example, a true love
waits message for, you know, you should not engage in sexual
relations until you're married, that may not be appropriate if
you're called to speak to an old age home. People in their
80s and 90s don't necessarily need to hear that. They're kind
of past that. This is a message for young people. Similarly,
you can think of some messages that are appropriate for a girl's
group, but not for a boy's group. There are things appropriate
for a man's group, not for a woman's group. You've got to think, is
this relevant? It's not just, is it important
and worthwhile? Is it relevant to this particular group? Number
two, explain and illustrate what you say. You say what you mean
directly and preferably what the scripture says, but then
you illustrate. You've got to have a story that
goes with it. It's the stories that people
remember. So have appropriate stories and explain what you
say. Thirdly, know how to start and
how to finish and when to finish. Not 40 minutes into message,
how much time do I have? Or even worse, I've seen guest
speakers say this in conferences, can I have some more time? Which,
it's very manipulative. You're asking a host in the middle
of a service, you've gone over time, you haven't been disciplined.
He said you've got to stop by this time. Now you're asking,
can I have more time, and so on. That's not appropriate. You can ask for more time before
the service, but not during it. That's very rude, I think. How
to start, how to finish. One of the problems is these
people who don't know how to start. They come, good evening,
hello, I'm so-and-so, and I come from this place, and so on, and
then they ramble, ramble, ramble, waffle, waffle, waffle. Get on
with it, start with it. If you don't know how to start,
there's several ways you can just start. I like to start with
the scripture, or with the title. Or you can start with a problem.
What must I do to be saved? You can start with some issue,
but just start, for goodness sakes. These people who carry
on and on, and somewhere along the line, they say, well, let
me start. Or firstly, people think, you
know, I thought you were getting close to finishing. And here
this person talks about firstly. Firstly, and you know, we've
been going 40 minutes. This is pretty bad. What do you
mean, firstly? Now there's some bad things people do, and then
they don't know how to finish. It's like they take this plane
round and round, they can't land it. So how do you conclude? Sometimes
you can just say, let us pray. And that's one way of definitely
stopping. You can also start by saying, let us pray. That's
also acceptable. But knowing how and when to finish
is important. If anything, if you do nothing
else in your servant preparation, you should have your final conclusion,
your last paragraph, your last statement written down. Because
the last thing you say should be concluding. It really wraps up. It's powerful. So if you haven't worked out
your first words or anything, maybe you think, I've got these
three stories I'm going to tell. There's these three points I'm
going to make. Have your first sentence and your last paragraph
written down so that you know exactly where to go. So to give
you other principles and effects of communication, your appearance,
your clothing, your grooming, your accessories, the better
you're dressed, the better. Because if you've got a serious
message, dress seriously. So like for funerals, you would
be in a suit. If you were in clerical gear,
you would wear clerical garbs and accessories. Your personal
appearance, your cleanliness, your neatness, your clothing,
are an important part of your message. People can't take a
man seriously if he's not dressed seriously. Your posture, your
body language is key. Your gestures, your eye contact,
your facial expressions, your tone of voice can either undermine
or enhance your message. If you have a serious message,
being too jovial undermines it. You get these people who, especially
the Americans, have got to start with a joke. Well, there's a
place for jokes, but is it appropriate and is it relevant for that particular
audience? And sometimes your message can
really undermine what you're saying by how you look. Your
gestures, sometimes there's a need for challenging people. And occasionally,
good arm and hand movements make a difference. Eye contact is
what they call the visual handshake. that you look at the people in
the eye when you're speaking to them. Your facial expressions,
you set the tone, whether it is serious or whether it is not
serious and so on. Your voice, this pitch, volume,
inflection, pace, you can't always keep going at the same pace.
And the people who can make even exciting messages sound boring
just by how they say it. Sometimes it's so tedious as
a person just drags out every word, and you just sit in there
in agony. Then there's these wasted words,
well, um, er, like, you know, and these people are coming along
with, we serve a good God. We're living in the last days.
And it's like, sorry? I didn't hear you. You can say
the devil is a liar. Oh, the devil is a liar. Yes,
that's another good one. Now your personal involvement
works better. So when a person is invested
into your life and cares for you, my father-in-law, Bill Bethman,
67 years of missionary, even in his 70s, going up to Sudan,
right to the battlefront. Now this man, you could see when
he was in the field, the people loved him because he had sacrificed,
he'd risked his life for them. Eastern Europe, going behind
enemy lines. When no one else cared or dared, Bill Bethman
was there for him. So he could say anything and
the people were hanging on his words because he had shown by
his life And so it's not our words that matter as much as
our deeds. It's what we've done. And the people know this person's
invested. They've helped. They've put their
life on the line. Now, in Sudan, the people there know and love
me because I was coming there early, early, when no one else
was coming, and ministering to them during the dark days when
the church was being bombed and so on. That's more valuable than
anything I could say. We need to identify with our
audience, and we need to respect the integrity of our audience
and not insult them. I came across a revival speaker recently who
spent a lot of his time insulting the audience. He said, nobody
knows these things. Nobody does this. I don't see
anybody taking the Bible seriously. He just would pound and pound
and insult. To assume that your audience are all idiots and hypocrites
is just destructive. Nobody's going to be listening
to you if you carry on insulting them. And so it's important to
respect your audience and be natural. It's important, God
doesn't have a mold. You don't all have to be like
Billy Graham. You don't all have to be like Teddy Jakes or whatever
it is that people have as their models. Be natural, be yourself. By the way, this is my youngest
son, Calvin. I took him up on some mission
trips with me because from age six, he had memorized Evangelism
Explosion. He could have led the EE presentation
we did just now, the marching song. So I took him to show people
in Zambia how even a little child can memorize a lot of scripture
just through repetition. Now, there's a place for humor.
Sometimes you can relax the people who've been too tense or hold
their attention with some humor, but don't overdo it. And then
it's important to have questions, but it's important in question
time to listen what is a person saying and try and respond in
a relevant way. Now sometimes you're in trouble
because people whisper. I mean, just take the other day
when we were, yesterday morning, we were introducing. And most
people mumbled what they were saying and you couldn't hear
what they were saying. They have no idea. And have no idea who
they are, have no idea where they come from, have no idea
what church they represent. They just mumbled a few words
and you couldn't hear it. So that's pointless. If you can't
be heard, it's sometimes necessary to say, excuse me, pardon, could
you repeat that? Or if a person's rambled, I'm
sorry, I missed it, what's the question? Because sometimes a
person's made a bit of a speech, but they haven't asked you a
question. If it's question time, you sometimes need to reiterate what
is your question or ask the person to clarify. Or could you summarize
that in a question? Because sometimes a person isn't
making a question, they're just making a speech. In fact, in
some cases, they should have advertised for their own meeting,
hired their own venue, because they've got a totally different
message to give, not even relevant to what we gathered here for.
Now, if you've got visual aids, like I've used Ovid Projector,
but you can have clipboards. You can use the flip charts.
I see here there's boards that you can write on. But if you've
got photos, artwork, handouts, literature, that does help. Like
small Paul with his artwork, he draws people to Christ, literally
draws using chalk chalks. But I think he's come to this
area before. You know him, or his son Tiny Tim. This is small
Paul. You can get an audience almost
anywhere for things like artwork, especially if you're a confident
speaker. And the Jesus film, my early years, I many times
opened up meetings by organizing film evangelism. People would
come, and at the end of it, people would invite you to come and
speak at their church or their school, and you'd have a ministry
all organized. But the first step was public
evangelism through a film evangelism. I could go in a village I've
never been to before, and just by that, draw people in. we've
got PA system, we've got generator, there might be power failure
everywhere else in Mozambique or Zimbabwe, but you've got the
only show in town, people come and they will hear the gospel.
And we had preached before and after each of the film showings,
so we'd have opportunities, especially 16mm, four reels, you'd have
five preaching opportunities. And that's a powerful way. We
can also demonstrate. You can see in the Bible how
the prophets would sometimes walk through town with an ox
yoke or demonstrate things, set up models and destroy them in
town to communicate. So we set up little coffins and
crosses and flowers on the 1st of February of the year at Parliament
to make a protest against the government legalizing abortion
in South Africa. So demonstrating life against a conception Abortion
stops the beating heart. Babies have been killed. So these
small coffins and crosses help. We are visualizing outside Mary
Stope's abortuary. We make a stand. This abortion
is now closed by God's grace. It took years of protest and prayers, but making a stand.
don't you like, they call it reproductive health care. They
kill babies and they call it reproductive health care. What
is healthy about killing babies? What is reproductive about killing
babies? But the internationally preferred reproductive health
care. That sounds better, I suppose, than saying infanticide international
or something like that. And here we've got posters, we've
got coffins, we're demonstrating making a stand against an abortory
that also doesn't operate anymore. They've closed down. You can
have banners plainly with scriptures. Even a few people can make a
big impact if you've got well chosen and designed posters and
banners. And then of course, what is your
conclusion? Aim for your goal. What must you do next? Every
sermon should have a Now what, what do I need to do? So you've
got to make it so clear. It's not just that you gave some
principles from the scripture, but at the end, repent, believe,
be baptized, go into all the world, preach the gospel. There's
got to be some action item, next step of action. For example,
in Geneva, after William Farrell had evangelized Geneva, debated
the bishop, taken over his pulpit, gave the people of Geneva a challenge.
Do you want to stay with papal superstition? or do you want
to join with the Protestant Reformation of going back to the Bible? And
the citizens of Geneva said, we are for the Reformation. They
put their back on the Pope and they said yes to the Bible. And so Geneva became a Protestant
town. They remember that in Geneva regularly. When John Knox went
back to Scotland in 1860, he called the people to reformation.
And you can see the people expected action. Look, they came to church
with their helmets and their pikes and their swords, their
banners, and they weren't disappointed. John Knox called them to action
to retake Scotland for the Reformation. no more papal superstition, no
more Mary Queen of Scots and her adulterous affairs and murdering
her husbands and all the rest of it. We're going to make Scotland
Protestants. And they went out and they smashed
idols of Mary and they smashed idols throughout the churches,
they pulled down crucifixes, they demolished altars, they
replaced them with the Lord's table, and you could see Scotland
was brought to the Reformation. John Knox had prayed, give me
Scotland or I die. And the sermon was not aimless.
It was calling the people to action. And they took action. And Scotland was revived and
sent out how many mysteries, including people like David Livingston
and Robert Moffat, Mary Schleser, how many great mysteries went
into foreign fields from Scotland. But Scotland had to be called
to action. And in St. Giles Kirk in Edinburgh, John
Knox in 1860 called the people to action, repentance and reformation. Basic guidelines for all public
speaking. Stand up to be seen. None of this dialoguing, sitting
on a chair. Shame on these pastors today,
these emerging pastors, sit with their gelled hair and all that,
and they're sitting on a stool. Stand up to be seen when you're
preaching. No preaching sitting down, please,
ever. Speak up to be heard. No good
mumbling. And do you know what often happens
in these churches? There's a little old lady sitting
in the back row, and she comes to you after and says, I've got
poor hearing. I couldn't hear you. Well, ma'am,
why were you sitting in the back row? Maybe you should have sat
in the front row and switched your hearing aid on. But nevertheless,
bear in mind, the people who can't hear very well tend to
speak in the back row. You must project your voice. You must
speak to be heard. No good mumbling like we had
from many people yesterday in the introductions. And shut up
to be appreciated. This, by the way, is Ian Paisley,
one of the most powerful gospel preachers I've ever heard in
Northern Ireland. And his preaching was like that. It's like hammer
blows. Here he's got a hammer, and that's
exactly the way he preached. So stand up to be seen, speak
up to be heard, show up to be appreciated.
Effective Public Speaking
Series Mission to Swaziland 2024
Effective Public Speaking
by Dr. Peter Hammond
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| Category | Special Meeting |
| Language | English |
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