Thank you for listening to Servants
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we get into the wonderful Word of God. For the next few minutes,
let's take the beautiful Word of God and share it with each
and every one of you as we have a sense of anticipation to take
the Word of God and to listen to its truth for each and every
one. I'm Darrell Bailey. As we continue
on in our wisdom for life's journey, devotions from the book of Ecclesiastes. I'm glad that this book gets
into life's biggest questions. What's the meaning of life? How
can we find contentment in uncertain times? How do we navigate a world
full of both beauty and brokenness? This devotion series unpacks
all of the timeless wisdom guiding us toward God's purpose for our
lives. And I'm glad, if you would, turn
over to Ecclesiastes chapter 7 as we look at the way to handle
the limitations of life. and to live wisely day by day. I'm glad that here, as we look
in Ecclesiastes chapter seven, amen, we'll be looking at how
that we're able. You know, Solomon, he begins
this chapter by evaluating six of life's everyday experiences
in, He tells us what is better, more profitable to our lives
in these areas. And in many aspects, life can
be reduced to an unending series of choices. Every day, we make
literally hundreds, even thousands of decisions, and the majority
of life's decisions are not necessarily choices between right and wrong
or good and bad. Rather, they're choices between
what is good and what is best. A life of excellence is characterized
by choosing what is best, whereas a life of mediocrity is characterized
by choosing the good over the best. You know, Solomon was attempting
to help us see what is best. He was writing to help us recognize
that in many of life's situations, the less desirable option is
actually the better one. Some of Solomon's conclusions
in these verses are unconventional, perhaps even bizarre when compared
with people's traditional way of thinking. But we must remember
this, true wisdom, God's wisdom, often runs contrary to the logical
accepted ideas of people. And so even though Solomon made
several questionable statements, we must keep in mind that he
was telling us what is best and most profitable for us in our
journey of life. And so, We see that Solomon was
counseling us to choose the best over the good. Let's open up
with prayer. Heavenly Father, we acknowledge
that none of us are righteous apart from you and we come before
you in humility, confessing our sins and seeking your forgiveness.
Thank you for the righteousness of Christ who took our place
and offers us redemption. Lord, may we open our hearts
and minds to your word today, that we may turn to you in repentance
and trust fully in your grace. In Jesus's marvelous mighty name,
amen. Amen. You know, have you ever felt
the sting of injustice? Maybe you've seen someone undeserved
of praise or receive accolades or witnessed the wicked seem
to prosper while the righteous suffer. Well, even children sense
the unfairness of life as seen in the innocent assumption that
long life equals righteousness. And so each and every one of
us, as we look into the wonderful word of God, We're reminded,
amen, of how powerful the Lord can be. Because one of the things
that we see in Ecclesiastes chapter 7, verses 1 through 29, is the
way to handle the limitations of life, to live wisely day by
day. And one of the very first things
I see is that we need to embrace the valuable lessons of life. Because in verse one, The Bible
says a good name is better than precious ointment and the day
of death than the day of one's birth. Dying with a good name
is better than being born into prosperity. You see, Solomon,
he gave us two parallel statements. In the first statement, the author
stressed the value of a good name compared to the value of
riches and prosperity. What did he mean by a good name?
A person's name represents the individual's reputation standing
in the minds and the eyes of others and this is based upon
the strength of character that he or she has displayed in their
daily life and routine. It is who a person is on the
inside. You know, precious ointment of
fine perfume was a luxury usually reserved for those who had an
abundance of financial resources, and possession of costly oils
was a symbol of wealth and material prosperity. The average person
seldom had the money to go and buy those unessential things
to daily needs. Do you remember when Mary of
Bethany anointed the feet of Jesus with her fine perfume in
John chapter 12, verses one through eight? The sacrifice she poured
out upon Jesus was valued at a year's wages. Many offered
what was most likely her greatest financial asset to the Lord as
a symbol of his worth and her devotion. But again, the value
of her fine fragrance was equivalent to an entire year's earnings
for an average laborer of that time. Well, Solomon's lesson
is simply this. If a person must choose between
a good name and a lifestyle of extravagance afforded only to
the wealthy, choose the good name. It is of a greater value. Solomon's second statement is
that at first the most perplexing because the day of a person's
death is better than the day of a person's birth. Or put it
another way, the day a person's life ends here on earth is better
than the day that it begins. Because this sounds irrational,
but if you meditate on the statement for just a minute, you can conclude
that the Christian believer, death is indeed a promotion. Because for the believer, the
day of one's death is a friend and not a foe. It's the occasion
for celebration. The believer leaves this world,
moves directly into the presence of God. And according to 2 Corinthians
5a, the believer's toil and labor and trials and tribulations and
pain and suffering are all behind and not ahead. And the believer
moves to a land of perfection, a place where no pain or suffering
exists according to Revelation chapter 14 verse 13 and Revelation
chapter 21 verse 4. So the believer is set free from
the earthly body, the old nature, that is so prone to sin, and
the believer's faith becomes sight, that is, what was once
believed but not seen is now gloriously experienced. And I'm
glad that we're told that in Hebrews chapter 11 verse 1, 2
Corinthians chapter 5 verse 7. But there's a warning. What is
true for the believer in many cases is not true for the unbeliever.
Here in Ecclesiastes chapter 7 is one of those times, especially
verses 1 and 2 and verse 4. And I'm glad that verse 2 says,
it's better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the
house of feasting, for that is the end of all men and the living
will lay it to his heart. Verse 3, sorrow is better than
laughter, for by the sadness of the countenance, the heart
is made better. And then verse 4, the heart of
the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in
the house of myrrh. And so we see that we can embrace
the valuable lessons of life. Let me go on down to verse eight.
It's better to hear the rebuke of the wise than for a man to
hear the song of fools. Verse six, for as the crackling
of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool. This
also is vanity. Verse seven, surely oppression
maketh a wise man mad and a gift destroyeth the heart. And verse
eight, better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof and
the patience spirit is better than the proud in spirit. Now
that's the reading of eight verses. And unbelievers who do not trust
Christ as their savior do not have the hope and the promise
of eternal life. In many of their minds, this
life is all there is, and therefore, this life is all that matters.
Gaining wealth, living lavishly as possible, to them normal and
even unexpected, their reputation at death does not hold the same
significance as it does for believers. Some people, the more they make,
the more they wanna make. And you know, the frail to realize
that after death there's judgment, that we're all gonna stand before
God and give a reason. And the reason, an account of
our lives, and then spend an eternity in hell. They'll be
separated from God and from any family and friends who followed
the Lord and tried to lead them to Christ. For all unbelievers,
death will be a manifold times worse than birth, and their lives
on earth, no matter how good or how bad, will be a distant
memory and the face of everlasting doom. Now, when we look back
at verse 1, when one of the two statements stands on its own,
two valuable insights are gained. You see, the key to understanding
the overriding truth is to consider the statements together. That
the second half of verse 1 is not intended as a standalone
statement. It's developed. Because that
first half of the verse, thus what Solomon was saying is this,
dying with a good name is better than being born into a life of
wealth and prosperity. Throughout our lives, by our
daily decisions, words and actions, we're building a name, a character,
a reputation that will survive after we're gone. But it's more
important to leave behind a good name than to go through all of
life with the abundance of this world's wealth. Solomon emphasized
the same. priority in the book of Proverbs. Because in Proverbs 22, a good
name is rather to be chosen than great riches and loving favor
rather than silver and gold. And so, You know what? Every one of us, many people
will sacrifice their good name and their character and their
reputation and their testimony for worldly success, possessions,
or pleasures. But as believers who are called
to be a light to the world, our good name is to be treasured
far more than these things. Our testimony and name are a
reflection upon the holy name of our Holy Father, our Lord,
Savior, Jesus Christ, whose name we all bear. And so, the first
step toward living wisely is choosing a good name over the
things of this world. And so, we embrace the valuable
lessons of life, amen, is what we're saying that every one of
us should do, amen. And so, we see that As we go forward, Solomon was
not condemning wealth or saying that it was wrong. God had placed
riches in this world to enjoy, not to despise, but keep in mind
that Solomon was making a comparison. He was telling all of us what
was better between the two items. A good name is better than riches,
and the same holds true for Solomon's statement about death and birth.
The king was not saying that birth was not an occasion to
celebrate, nor that life was not a precious gift from God.
He was saying that death for the believer is better than birth. And so, I'm glad in verse 2,
going to a funeral is better than going to a festival. And
I'm glad that in light of all of this, Solomon makes a statement. that he says that to believe
a funeral is better than a festive occasion, here he writes and
explains that attending a funeral is better than attending a feast
because death is every person's destiny. And so, every single
one of us is going to die, according to Hebrews 9, verse 27. Funerals remind us of this brutal
fact. We cannot escape death. And the
fate of a mourned friend or a loved one is our fate as well. When
we sit through a funeral, we are faced with this inevitable
fact. In reality, most of us spend
our days without giving a thought to the subject of death. Most
of us never consider that death may well be our door before the
sun has set. But when we attend a funeral,
we cannot help but remember the unavoidable appointment that
we have with death itself. One day, we too shall die. One
day, people will gather for us just as we gathered for our departed
acquaintances, our friends, our loved ones. And it's good for
us to remember this. at a funeral forces this fact
upon us in a way that nothing else quite does. Attending a
funeral is better than attending a feast because death is a matter
to be taken seriously. And so, The wise person will
listen with his heart at a funeral and take stock of his life. Ask
any person who has affiliated at funerals such as I have, and
they will tell you that many people there reflected on their
own mortality. And the occasion makes the reality
of death come to the forefront. Though some people may deny that
there is something awaiting them after death, they cannot deny
what God has placed in their hearts, a consciousness, occasional
thoughts, that there is some kind of life after death. And
remember, God has set eternity in the human heart. First comes
death, then eternity. Funerals remind us of this. And
so, the Hebrew writer says, as is appointed unto men, once to
die, but after this, the judgment. And I'm glad that as before,
the king was not saying to avoid legitimate causes for celebrating.
God has given us much to rejoice over. Solomon was cautioned against
being focused on partying and having a good time and neglecting
the fate of our souls. If we do not take time to consider
where we're gonna spend eternity, death will catch us unaware.
And then it'll be too late. the soberness of a funeral, the
ideal place to meet with God, to confess our sins and to accept
Christ as our Savior and Lord. That's why I always like to give
an opportunity to do something like that. And so in verses three
and four, it talks about how that sorrow is better than laughter. A person can feel sorrow or sadness
or any number of reasons, but the emotions that are involved
all depend on the cause for the individual's disheartness. Solomon's
claim that sorrow is better than laughter seems absurd when we
think about it at first, but just as with the last point,
he offers some clarification. It's important to keep in mind,
though, that it was Solomon who first said that laughter is beneficial
to us like a good medicine. And so Solomon was not against
laughing or having a good time. He was not against enjoying parties
or celebrations. In fact, he had already acknowledged
that it is God who appoints tears and laughter and mourning. and
dancing to our lives. Because what did he say back
in chapter three of verse four? A time to weep, a time to laugh,
a time to mourn, and a time to dance. Solomon wants us to understand
sorrow brings benefits to our lives that laughter cannot. And
some lessons are learned only through suffering. Lessons of
everlasting significance. And so we see in verse three
that sorrow refines the soul as tears wash the dirt and pollution
from our eyes. So sorrow can cleanse the impurities
from our soul. Sorrow causes us to release pent
up emotions and draw closer to others. In other words, sorrow
stirs us to take a deeper look inside ourselves. And laughter,
on the other hand, primarily affects our outward earthly dispositions. And so, a wise person thinks
about death and borns, but a fool thinks only of the pleasure of
the here and now, in verse four. Fools are more inclined to block
out the serious contemplation of difficult and painful things.
They cannot bear the deal with crisis, denying the sorrow of
troubling circumstances. Fools turn to alternatives to
numb them from the pain. The wise person takes sorrow
to heart. And he or she does not deny or repel it with forced,
fabricated things. The individual allows the truth
of the situation to sink in, no matter how distressing that
it might be. And since Jesus, the sonless
son of God, remained perfect through all the suffering that
he did on our behalf, we who are sinners can learn some very
valuable lessons from his experience, amen. And so, in verses five
through seven, We read about a wise rebuke is better than
the song and laughter of fools. Pleasure and partying is what
he's talking about. And so each and every one of
us, when we look and we realize that what he's talking about
as we embrace the valuable lessons of life, no one likes to be corrected. No one enjoys being scolded.
No one relinquishes hearing criticism. But quite the opposite is true
because people prefer flattering. People prefer compliments. They
don't want no fault-finding criticism. They would much rather hear someone
praise them. And Solomon wants us to recognize
that we gain far, far more from wise criticism than from foolish
flattering. And so, living wisely as we are
anticipating correction, accepting it, appreciating, applying that
correction, wise people not only accept constructive criticism,
they invite it and they humbly welcome it. Solomon was not saying
that we do not need affirmation and encouragement, nor that we
should never accept or enjoy compliments. He was telling us
that wise rebuke benefits us more. And so Proverbs chapter
25 verses 11 and 12 says, a word fitly spoken is like apples of
gold and pitchers of silver. As an earring of gold and an
ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient
ear. When constructive criticism is
openly and properly given at the right time, in the right
spirit, with the right motive, It is a beautiful thing, he says.
And the person who cares enough about you to offer the appropriate
counsel or admonition is giving you a very valuable gift, like
beautiful jewelry. It'll decorate your spirit. It'll
improve your appearance before others. Still, we cannot overlook
the fact that being rebuked carries a sting, and all of us have some
measure. At such times as these, we need
to recall what the wise king said on the subject. In Proverbs
chapter 27, verses 5 and 6, open rebuke is better than secret
love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of
an enemy are deceitful. The person who is truly your
friend, who genuinely loves you, will not allow something that
hurts you to remain in your life, not without correcting you. The
person who is constantly flat and praising you is not genuinely
your friend. That sounds familiar, doesn't
it? The lesson Solomon is conveying is this. A wise person will value
constructive criticism and rebuke over the ingo inflating praise
of foolish flattery. Rebuke is not profitable because
laughter will quickly pass, like burning thorns. When we read
that in verse six, thorns burn quickly and make a lot of noise
when they are burning, but they don't generate any heat or fuel. They produce nothing that is
useful. And so is the song of fools. Rebuke is more profitable
because pleasure is meaningless and short-lived. And so we look
and we realize that in verse eight, finishing and achieving
our goals is better than beginning. And so most people will testify
that there's a great deal of personal satisfaction found in
achieving a goal or reaching an end. A person who perseveres
until a job is completed is a person who uses his or her time wisely.
In a spiritual sense, we must recognize the important things
in life. They're not quickly completed.
The things that really matter, that require commitment, determination,
and discipline. It's not always easy to live
the Christian life, nor is it always easy to remain at a difficult
job, or to remain faithful and constant in our marriages. Fewer
and fewer couples honor the promise to remain wed until death. Even when churches go through
difficult times, some members leave. This is a day when people
fail to follow through with their commitments to follow Christ
and to serve in the church. And even fewer continue to live
lives of righteousness and holiness. You know what? I'm glad that
verse eight talked about not only finishing and achieving
goals is better than beginning, but a patient spirit is better
than a prideful spirit. And so, Patience is linked to
both statements, preceding it and to the one following it,
that we're fixing to read in verse nine, that Solomon completes
his previous thought about finishing being better than beginning by
referring to patience, staying with a task until it's finished
that requires perseverance and endurance. And so, James 1.4
says, but let patience have a perfect work, that you may be perfect
and entire, wanting nothing. You see, Solomon's referral to
patience also sets up the next thought, that keeping rather
than losing one's temper calls for patience instead of an eruption
of pride. Remember, the subject, grasp
the better things of life, other words, We need to embrace the
valuable lessons of life in verses one through eight. Solomon, as
he addresses six specific areas that can help us guard against
this. These areas don't deal with right versus wrong or obedience
versus rebellion. They have to do with our taking
the high road in life. Choosing the better of two things
by heeding Solomon's wise counsel. We find ourselves better prepared
to face eternity and will leave behind a richer legacy. With
that in mind, the path before us is well defined. We need to
strive for and keep a good name and a good reputation. Number
two, we need to live with eternity in view. Number three, We need
to take life seriously with a sense of urgency. Number four, we need
to be approachable, humble, and willing to accept criticism.
Number five, we need to finish everything that we have started
and finish it well for the glory of God. And number six, of the
six specific areas that can help us guard against these areas
of dealing with right versus wrong, obedience versus rebellion,
We need to be patient, not prideful in our spirits. Life is brief
and our window of opportunity to affect others for eternity
is limited. If we'll acknowledge our weakness
in any of these areas and adopt a prayerful attitude to deal
with them. God will surely hear and answer
our prayers. And this line of thinking ties
in well with the Old Testament book of Haggai, because Haggai
was written because the remnant of Jews who returned from Babylon
to Jerusalem in 538 BC had begun to project that they left unfinished
for 15 years. The remnant had laid the foundation
for the temple and had failed to complete it. And because they
had devoted their efforts and resources to other pursuits,
as a result, the Lord pointed out that the unfortunate circumstances
the remnant was experiencing was because of his chastening,
his correcting. God was discipling them because
of their lack of perseverance and devotion to him. God does not lead us to begin
something without finishing it. And He is displeased when we
do not complete the work He's commanded us to do. And so, as
we get ready to close out, every one of us, when we look at the
universality of sin, there's a hard truth to accept. Sin is
universal and no one is exempt. And so, are the degrees of wickedness
and the impact of unseen sin, the injustice of life. And so,
as we get ready to close out, Solomon in the book of Ecclesiastes,
reveals the stark truth that none of us is righteous, and
life often seems unfair, but God, in his mercy, sent Jesus
to provide a way for us to be made right with him by trusting
in Christ's perfect righteousness that we can find hope and peace,
even in a broken and an unjust world. And so, each and every
one of you as we close out Wisdom for Life's Journey, Devotion
for Ecclesiastes in chapter 7, verses 1 through 8. I hope and
pray that as we close this out, that you begin to realize that
it is only through acknowledging our need for Christ's righteousness
that we place our faith in him. He tells us to repent and therefore
be converted that our sins may be blotted out. And I hope and
pray that through the hope of righteousness, through Christ,
the gospel's core message, the hard truth of universal sin is
the good news of the gospel. For the wages of sin is death,
but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our
Lord. Jesus lived a sinless life, took our sins upon himself on
the cross, And I'm glad that Paul said, for ye hath made him
to be sin for us who knew no sin, that we might be made the
righteousness of God in him. Only through faith in Christ
can we be declared righteous before God. Our response to this
truth must be repentance and trust in Jesus Christ. Let's close out with prayer.
And I hope that you can reflect on your need for a savior of
how this truth shapes our faith. and consider ways to put our
focus and our circumstances on God's eternal plan. Lord, we
confess that we are sinners, unworthy of your love and grace.
Thank you for sending Jesus to live a perfect life and to die
in our place. Help us to trust in his righteousness
alone and to walk humbly before you and give us faith to trust
in your justice and peace to face life's challenges. In Jesus's
marvelous, mighty name, that we pray. Amen.