Proverbs 20, 19 says, he that
goeth about as a tail bearer, revealeth secrets, therefore
meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips. I think we should
hone in on this idea of a tail bearer revealing secrets. To
start with, it's obvious in this context that the tail bearer
is revealing secrets that ought to remain secret, and that's
a bad thing. But like grave robbers, these
people go out and dig up bones, exhuming things that better left
alone, as Randy Travis might put it. They dig up a corpse
that still stinketh. Now, we need to make something
clear. We're not talking about secret, unrepentant sin here. We're not talking about covering
up sin that someone hasn't made right. If I find out that my
Christian friend Nabal is committing sin and is unrepentant about
it, I should confront him directly. and if he still will not repent
and make things right, I go to the pastor and follow Matthew
18, 15 to 17. It's in the hands of the local
church leadership at that point. It's up to them to handle things
biblically and only make it known to the church if Nabal remains
unrepentant. But if he repents, he's to be
forgiven. Luke 17, three says, take heed to yourselves. If thy
brother trespass against thee, rebuke him. And if he repent,
forgive him. And once a person has dealt with
sin and there's been restitution when possible and reconciliation
as far as is possible, then let dead dogs lie, as the saying
goes. To dig up secrets like that is
a satanic act. When Satan is finally cast down
in Revelation 12, 10, we read, and I heard a loud voice saying
in heaven, now is come salvation and strength and the kingdom
of our God and the power of his Christ. For the accuser of our
brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day
and night. We're to follow the teachings
of Jesus and the apostles, not the example of Satan. Only when
absolutely necessary should we ever look into a man or woman's
past, such as when a Christian, including pastors, by the way,
have committed some sort of crime. and that might involve money,
sex, or violence, and there's a cover-up. There are cases like
those of charismatic preacher Robert Morris or the unbiblical
ministry of Bill Gothard where the past is relevant because
they covered up their sin and refused to step down from ministry.
These both are accused of committing crimes against minor children
and have admitted to it to some degree while denying some of
what's been said. It's just messy, and it's a bad,
sad situation in both cases. But other men have sinned, especially
in their younger years, and that sin was dealt with properly.
They were restored to ministry and have had a clean record ever
since. In those cases, digging up those
secrets is an unbiblical refusal to forgive and forget. as Luke
17 teaches. A couple of my favorite teachers
in their younger years committed sin that had to be dealt with.
It was dealt with and they've had a clean record ever since.
As we mentioned in the close of our previous devotional, He
That Goeth About, We can be thankful that when we're saved and we
confess our sins to God as Christians, we can be assured of forgiveness
and the fact that once it's settled with God, he doesn't bring up
past sins. They're forgotten. We quoted
several other passages, but I also love Hebrews 8.12, for I will
be merciful to their unrighteousness and their sins and their iniquities
will I remember no more. Tell-bearers violate that trust
with God when they go digging up secrets. Only for a very specific
reason and only when absolutely necessary do I ever want to hear
about another man's sins in his past. We're about repentance,
forgiveness, and reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5.18 says, And
all things are of God who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus
Christ. and hath given to us the ministry
of reconciliation. God is about reconciling sinners,
and he's given that to us as a ministry. And verse 20 goes
on to say, now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did
beseech you by us, we pray you in Christ's stead, be ye reconciled
to God.