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Amen. I want to begin with a
simple illustration. The purpose of the church. Why
do we do the things that we do? In seminary, we had to take a
class on the mission of the church. And one of the questions that
we had to answer and we had to give all of our answers from
scripture was, what should a regular church service look like? And there were all sorts of thoughts
and answers. And I enjoyed that assignment. But what I enjoyed even more
was how unified all of my classmates were in this one issue. The church
is for the Christian. And we have a mentality in some
churches where the church is looking to bring people in, they
have a name, they call themselves seeker-sensitive churches, looking
to open the doors to the world, to bring the world in to get
them saved. I think it's a noble attempt. I mean, there are some
churches that are truly attempting to do this well. Let me explain
to you the problem with that approach. Imagine you have a
birthday party, and you have a person of honor, and you have
people showing up to the birthday party who do not know this person
of honor. And they come in and they eat
the food, and they insult the person for the party, who the
party is thrown. They mock the things that they
love. complain about what the party
looks like, and then they leave and everyone looks around and
thinks, well, what was the purpose of that? Here's the problem. They don't know the person of
honor. And so they don't treat them well. When we bring unbelievers
into the church, they don't know Jesus, the person of honor. And
so they will lower the standards. of worship. And so what happens
when we take this approach, and I believe there's a place for
unbelievers in the church to be evangelized. I think you should
always be talking to those who don't know Jesus to get them
into the church to make them uncomfortable in their sin. To
help them understand there's a better way of living and you're
not the only one who does this. I mean, look around. You have friends, and suddenly
you don't seem like you have two heads anymore. They're in
a situation where they're the ones who are out of place, and
it challenges their presuppositions. But church is not for the unbeliever.
They don't know the person of honor. They don't know to whom
we sing. They don't know to whom we pray.
They don't know who has saved us. They don't understand our
love for Him, our gratefulness to Him. And so how can they worship
Him? This morning's sermon is really
application from last week's sermon, Christ is the head of
the church. And because Jesus is the head
and because Jesus alone builds his church, he's given us commandments
to follow on how to do church. And so the purpose of the church
really comes down to this very simple truth. Back to fundamentals. The church exists to glorify
Jesus Christ, its head. That's why we're here. We're
here to glorify God specifically to Jesus Christ. Now, we have to recognize that
Jesus builds his church, and he uses us to do that. Rather
than thinking of us as the ones who are the architects building
the church, we need to change the way we think of ourselves.
We are not architects. We are not construction workers.
We are not framers or masons. We are hammers and drills and
saws. We are the tools God chooses
to use to build his church. There was a book I read in my
counseling ministry called Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands, and
he uses that illustration. We are the tools, and some of
us feel like we're very rusty tools, and we're the off-brand
tools. Well, let me explain something
to you. A master craftsman knows how to use a rusty tool as well
as a brand new tool. It's not about the tool, it's
about the craftsman. And so do not get discouraged
when you look at yourself and say, I've got rust spots on me. Trust what the Lord can do with
you in his hands. Now as we consider this, we have
to recognize this important truth, Jesus Christ will build His church,
which means the church is going to grow. The word growth in the
New Testament letters, especially Paul's letters, is used not in
numerical growth. There is an element in which
the church will grow numerically because the gates of hell will
not prevail against it. But it's specifically dealing
with spiritual growth, the depth of the knowledge of Jesus Christ,
that we will grow into the fullness of the knowledge of the stature
of Jesus. That's talking about spiritual
growth. Now, we want more and more people
to know that. And so we proclaim the truth, and we give the gospel,
and we evangelize, and we do discipleship, and we do children's
church, and we do Awana, and we do Wednesday night Bible study,
and we do Thursday morning men's Bible study, and Wednesday morning
women's Bible study, and Tuesday night women's Bible study. Why? We want you to know Jesus. Here's an application to that.
If Jesus Christ builds His church, If he builds the church universal
and the church local, who gets to decide how big the church
is? Jesus Christ. And so we don't get to walk around
and say, it's just too big in here. There's too many people. I don't like this. It's getting
too big. I like a small church. And look,
I think there's some benefit in having a small church. The
Word of God is being proclaimed, and God is building His church.
We are not the ones to quench the Spirit. So that means we have to build
a bigger building, and we have no intention of being a mega
church, but we're going to build a bigger building to glorify
Christ so that more people in Trumbull County will be in heaven
because we were faithful to proclaim His name. So we don't get to
say, well, it's just getting too big. I don't know all these
people. Well, guess what? Christ is building His church.
And you're going to know these people for eternity. Start getting
to know them now. And let's work together with
joy and excitement and urgency. There's an urgency now. There's
an urgency. And we need to see this, how
important it is that we worship Christ properly. So the purpose
of the church is to glorify God. I want to begin with two texts.
We will be here just very quickly. First text is 1 Corinthians 10.31,
where Paul is bringing application to what he has been teaching
the Corinthians on rightly using your conscience. And he says,
whether you're eating, or you're drinking, and then he puts this
little tag on there. Whatever you do, do all to the
glory of God. This verse is what moved the
writers of the Westminster Confession of Faith to begin their catechism. And the first question is this,
what is the chief end of man? What's the chief goal of man?
And the answer is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. If you're a John Piper fan, he's
changed that just a little bit where he says to glorify God
by enjoying him forever. Either way, the point is we glorify
God in everything that we do. That word glory speaks of that
which honors God to the highest degree in our life, which means
we're careful with what we do. When it comes to church, we're
exceedingly careful with what we do. Because we want to glorify
Jesus here. We want to lift high his name.
We want to exalt his person in the world. And there are ways
to do that. But he's given us command suits,
we wanna follow those. I wanna now take you to John
chapter four, the woman at the well. Here's one of these texts
that I actually used in my response in seminary to show that church
is not for the unbeliever. Well, there's a place for them,
churches for Christians. Jesus is talking to this woman
at the well, and he tells her, we, the Jews, know whom we worship. You don't know who you worship,
and you're doing it the wrong way. See, God gave very clear
prescriptions in the Old Testament how you worship God. Well, the
Samaritans said, eh, we'll do it our way. They wanted to know why God wasn't
pleased with their worship. And Jesus is very clear. If he
doesn't tell her the truth, he doesn't love her. If he doesn't
tell her the truth, she can't be saved. to worship God the right way.
And he tells her that true worshipers in John 4, 23 and 24, true worshipers
will worship the father. How? In spirit and in truth. Now listen to what he says in
verse 24. For the father is seeking such to worship him. Let's talk
about that for a little bit, because sometimes we talk about
worshiping God in spirit and truth, and we don't understand
what that means. Well truth, that which is known
to be real. It speaks of doing that which
conforms to the word of God. We have a conviction here at
Calvary that what we do as far as our worship goes conforms
to the word of God. We want to make sure that what
we're doing honors God and the way you guarantee that is you
take God's word and you repeat it back to him. and you do what
He's called you to do. And some people look at that
and they say, that's boring. Well, the new things. Well, there's
a place for some new. But the principle is, is it found
in God's Word? I just preached on Wednesday
night, Psalm 96. Sing to the Lord a new song.
You know, we need new songs in the church. You know, Holy Forever
is a fairly new song. I'm glad we have that song. It's
a wonderful song about God's character. We need young men
and young women to write new stuff that honors God. There's a lot of new stuff being
written that does not honor God. It's all about man. Oh, you make
me feel so good. Listen, worship certainly has
an emotional element, but the purpose of worship is not about
you. And our younger generation need to get their eyes off of
themselves. And they will find that all of
these emotional troubles they have, this selfish absorption
with themselves, will lead to a lot of healing in a lot of
areas. When you put Christ first, he brings blessing. And so we
have to conform to the truth. Second, we have to worship God
in spirit. And that means you worship God
from the heart. What you look like on the outside,
that's what men see. God doesn't look there. Remember
when Samuel went to anoint the new king of Israel? And he saw
Eliab, who was strong and healthy and handsome. And he said, surely
this is the new king. And God said, no, I've rejected
him. Don't look at the outward appearance. I look at the inward
appearance. And he has to go all the way out to the pasture
to see this short, scrawny, red-haired kid. with sheep. And that was the king. We don't look at that. God does. He didn't choose the oldest,
he chose the youngest. And David is one of the most holy men in
all of scripture. He is a man after God's own heart.
So the motivation and the desire in a man's worship is pure from
his heart. And because Jesus is the head
of His church, He gives the commands and we follow them. And so the
most important command you can follow this morning is to be
saved. Know Jesus. If you are here this
morning and you have not confessed that you are a sinner, that you
on your own cannot get to heaven, that you even in part can get
yourself to heaven, If you think that Jesus has done most of the
work and you have to do a little bit more of the work, you misunderstand
salvation. Salvation is all of God. He offers it to you as a gift
and you receive that gift in faith in Jesus Christ. That's the first call for us
this morning. Know Jesus. And if you are here
this morning and you're not sure that describes you, then you
need to be praying that God makes me stop talking a little bit
faster this morning so you can find me and we can get you worked
out so you know Jesus. We're going to walk through four
commands that make a New Testament church this morning. Four. I
had many more, but I know myself and I'm not going to get through
more than four. I might not even get through four. But if you're
here this morning and you're not sure what to look for in
a New Testament church, You're not settled that Calvary is your
place and you're still looking for different churches. These
are the most important marks to look for in a local church
because these are the commands that God gives what a church
looks like. Let's begin in Galatians chapter
one. And the first central tenant of a New Testament church is
that the word of God is central to everything that is done. If
we don't start with the Word of God, we're going to go off
into all sorts of other little tangents. Emotions are going
to take over. Our imagination is going to take
over. We're going to start making deals with the world. And we're
going to miss what God has for us. So the Word of God has to
be central. Look at Galatians 1, verses 8 and 9. I mean, this
is after Paul gives his typical grace to you, and we're thankful
for the Lord who's given himself for our sins. And then he turns
in verse 6. I'm shocked! Paul went to Galatia
and he preached the gospel. By the way, this Galatian church
is the same church that we're looking at in Acts right now
in Acts chapter 13 and 14. That's the Galatian church. And
these men are thrilled that they get to be saved. And then in
a few short years later, Paul's writing a letter rebuking them
because they've wandered away from the truth of the gospel.
And Paul says in Galatians 1.8, Even myself, Barnabas, Silas,
Peter, if we preach a different gospel, if an angel were to come
down from heaven and just shock you and bring you to this awe
of his appearance, and they preach a different gospel than what
we preached to you at the beginning, they are to be accursed. Now, these are strong words.
You think about what it means to be accursed. It doesn't, it
speaks of a curse, but not like a swearing word. You know, we
think of, you know, some people use bad language, we say accursed.
That's not the idea with the word accursed. The idea is to
be cursed from God. Anathema is the word here, anathema. to be cursed from God, that which
is rejected because it's hated. And one key point I want to make
this morning, God hates false worship. God hates it. We must be diligent as a church. This is the primary job of a
pastor and elder is to ensure our worship is pure, but it still
is on you, the congregation. If you see things and you're
worried about what you're seeing and say, pastor, elders, is this
worship God honoring? Is this true worship or are we
wandering into the realm of false worship? We need to be serious about this
because God hates false worship. He desires, he is seeking after
true worshipers. Not that God is lacking something. It's a metaphor that Jesus uses
that God is after true worshipers. And that's what our standard
needs to be. The main hope for a Jew was to have God's face
shine on them. In Numbers 6, 24-27, the Lord
bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you. The inverse of that? The Lord
curse you and cast you away and forget you. Look at that and we think how
horrifying. So we worship Jesus Christ. We
do it according to his word. We're careful about the songs
we sing. We're careful about how we proclaim the word of God.
We're careful about who does it. We're careful about when
it's done. We think through all of these
things. because these are the applications of keeping the word
central. Second, so we have the negative
imperative, don't preach another gospel. Look at the positive
imperative in 1 Corinthians 1.18, where Paul writes, the cross,
the preaching of the message of the cross is foolishness to
those who are perishing, but to those who are being saved,
it is a power of God. We have to deal with the fact
that the gospel is the power of God. Now, there's a paradox
here. Because when the world hears the message of the gospel,
they say, that's foolishness. And the Greek word here means
a wildly mistaken or unfounded opinion or idea. We would say,
that guy's crazy. And when the world hears the
message of the power of the cross, they go, that's ridiculous. How
does a dead man save anybody? And they just miss the point. But here's the paradox. For the
world, that which they think saves them is absolute foolishness
in the eyes of God. I don't know how it's all going
to work. I know that there are illustrations given in the Bible
of standing before God on the last day. But Jesus makes it
clear there will be some who will stand before Him thinking
that they absolutely are getting in. And He says, depart from Me.
I don't know who you are. And one of the reasons is because
they are doing life. their way. They'll take a practical,
pragmatic, easy, worldly way and say, look how much this works.
Look at all the people that are around here. This is why numbers
are never the right metric to use for blessing. There's better
metrics to use. Or second, they will say, look
at how much money we have. Wealth is very rarely a wise
metric to use for God's blessing. I believe in America, our wealth
is a curse more than it's a blessing because it prevents many people
from coming to know Jesus. What did Jesus say about the
wise young ruler? It's easier for a camel to go
through the eye of a sewing needle than for a rich man to go into
heaven. And the disciples go, what? Then who can be saved? Because they thought wealth meant
blessing. Sometimes wealth is a curse. And look around at our
country. I don't need God. I've got money
in the bank. I've got a good job. I've got
an education. I've got a good family. All of
that gone. The moment the Trump sounds.
And so we have to have the right metrics. We emphasize preaching because
it's the power of God. God does this work. Every once
in a while, I just have to sit in my chair and confess, God,
you did this. I couldn't do any of this. I'm
amazed at what God is doing in our church right now. Amazed. You know, before this series,
I was not wringing my hands, but I was concerned about some
things I was seeing and hearing, and preaching these tenets of
truth. And all of a sudden, the Lord
says, hey, look at what you couldn't see. There's a blessing here
that you had no idea I was doing. I just, I'm amazed. God builds His church. Now, He
puts urgency and concern in the hearts of the pastors and elders,
that we would oversee you well. But then we have to just sit
back and confess, wow, God, you're amazing. I couldn't do that.
I couldn't see that. I didn't know that. And yet you
are working the whole time to bring all of this to pass. And
so we have to confess the preaching of the word of God is the power
of God. Second, the practice of the ordinances
of the church must be consistent. Matthew 28, 19, go therefore
into all the world and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them
in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Baptism
is an ordinance of the church. Now, there's a disagreement as
to the number of ordinances, or some would use the word sacraments,
in the local church. Some go as high as seven, some
say five, but everybody says at least two. Well, why is there
universal agreement about these two? Well, because these two
are explicitly commanded by Jesus. Baptism is commanded by Jesus
to go and make disciples and baptize them. And the idea here
is to instruct them in the ways of the teaching of Jesus. And
then when they come to understand and believe, you give the sign
of baptism of dipping them in water, which shows the death
of Jesus and bringing them back out. It's a momentary dipping.
Not a long dipping, a momentary dipping. Very clear about that.
Some people don't like going to water. I get it. And you come
back up and it shows a resurrection. Well, why is it a momentary dipping?
Because Jesus' death was momentary. It was momentary, and his resurrection
came right after. We're not waiting for Christ
to rise still. He's been alive for 2,000 years. And we serve a risen savior. Now, baptism is for Christians,
not just anyone. There are some out there who
believe that you have to be baptized to be saved. And so they'll baptize
anyone and everyone. But that is clear, is clear in
Matthew and in Acts that baptism is for believers. About five
years ago, we took a trip to the Dominican Republic. Pastor
Chris and I were there together. And at the end of our week, we
did a baptismal service for those who wanted to get baptized. And
there were a couple of young men that we were really preaching
hard at. And they decided they wanted to get baptized. They
made no confession of faith. And so right there in the water,
they jump in. Hey, I'll be baptized. Chris
and I were like, I don't think they understand. And we asked
them, have you confessed Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?
No. Well, then you can't be baptized. And so right there in the water,
we went right after him again. Know Jesus Christ. Believe on
him and you can be saved and be baptized. No, thank you. Guess
what? He didn't get baptized. I don't
know what happened. We left after that week. But
we left an impression upon that young man. Going into the water
without Jesus, you're just getting wet. It means nothing. You must know Jesus. That's the
most important part of this. The second ordinance is that
of the Lord's Supper in First Corinthians 11, 23 through 26.
We will practice this next Sunday. And Paul writes very clearly
this is not from him. I received from the Lord that
which I also deliver to you. And it goes back to when Jesus
on the night he was betrayed, broke bread. And he tells his
disciples, this is the new covenant. This cup is a new covenant of
my blood. Now let's understand that word
new covenant, because it speaks of a change, so to speak, a new
way of relating to God. It's not under the old covenant
anymore. There's a new administration
of grace, and it's all through Jesus Christ. It's always been
through faith. The Jews were saved by faith.
They misunderstood the purpose of the law. And so they wanted
to earn their salvation. And that's why so many of them
ended in disbelief. It's why you can see a man like
Moses leave Egypt and the comforts of everything he had and be at
peace in the desert for 40 years. He was so at peace in the desert
for 40 years, when God called him to go back to Egypt, he pitched
a fit. And God reminded him, you're
just an instrument in my hands, Moses. I made your mouth. I'll
speak for you. And Moses believed God. And through
the leadership of Moses, God led the people out of Egypt through
the wilderness for 40 years. Right to the doorstep of the
promised land. It's by faith. that Joshua could
possess the land because there were times where he looked and
he said, we can't do this. And God said, I got it. And he
dropped fireballs from heaven to burn up the enemies. And he
stopped the river to let them cross. And he confused the enemies. David. Great, great man with
great sin. Who is greatly forgiven. Because
he had faith in God. The new covenant doesn't change
the method of salvation or the means of salvation. It simply
reveals that Jesus Christ is the Messiah and that he has shed
his blood for our sin. And all of the Old Testament
saints are still saved by the blood of Jesus. And it was God
who just put off the wrath for a few moments And then on Christ,
he poured it out for those who had come before, for those who
would come after. And Jesus Christ secures a salvation
of Adam all the way to the last believer. That's the new covenant,
and we know it's in Jesus Christ. And Paul says, as often as you
remember this bread, which signifies Christ's broken body on the cross
for you. And drink this cup, which signifies his blood, which
washes you of your sin. You proclaim the Lord's death
until he comes. You make openly known the good
news of Jesus Christ that is through Jesus Christ alone you
have salvation. The church's one message is that
Jesus Christ saves. I get a lot of pressure from
some people. Why don't you talk more about election stuff and
political stuff during COVID? Why don't you talk about all
the lies going on? I've got one message, people, and it's Jesus
Christ will save you. That's the message you need to
know. Because in four years, we're doing all this over again.
But nothing will have changed about your soul. Jesus Christ
saves it. That's why we preach what we
preach. And so while we stand here and
we say, yes, we have a responsibility on Tuesday to go and vote, you
stand as a Christian and go, Lord Jesus, come quickly. But
I'm at peace. I know how this ends. I know
how this all works out in the end. I don't understand all the
details, but I know my Redeemer. I know he lives. I know he's
returning. And I can sleep peacefully at
night. Third, the presence. of the offices of the church.
There's two of them. Elder, pastor, deacon. Now you say those three terms
there. Yes, the terms elder, pastor, bishop are interchangeable. They have the same task. It's
that of teaching and oversight. So elders, pastors, bishops,
if you want to use that term, they're overseers. They're teachers. They're instructors. Deacons
are ministers, they're servants. Turn to 1 Timothy chapter 3.
And as I told one of the men at the Bible study on Thursday,
I put in my notes, keep going, because my tendency is to get
stuck. So we're going to just keep going
through this. But I encourage you to read through
1 Timothy 3, 1 through 13, as you think about the qualifications
for both elders and deacons. They are very similar. But listen
to what Paul says, speaking for God under the inspiration of
the Holy Spirit. This is a faithful saying. If
a man desires, if he seeks to attain a good position of bishop,
elder, pastor, he desires a good work. But not everyone who desires
it is qualified. Not everyone who desires it is
qualified. Look at the first qualification
for an elder, bishop, pastor. Blameless. This means that your
testimony is clean. You're not perfect. I mean, at
some point, someone's going to dig something up on you. Talk
to your parents, talk to your siblings, talk to your kids.
Oh yeah, I remember one day. Look, it's not that you're perfect,
but you have moral excellence. The moment that a man has an
affair on his wife, he's disqualified. The moment that a man cannot
handle money with trust and without reproach, he's disqualified.
The moment that a man uses the position for his own personal
game, he's disqualified. The moment that a man can't be
trusted to speak the truth, he's disqualified. And many of us, myself included,
have men who have crushed us because we trusted them. And
in the end, they were not trustworthy. They were not qualified or they
were qualified and they disqualified themselves. So this is not perfection. This is blameless, moral excellence. Now look at the second qualification.
This is interesting. We live in a time where we have
to define our terms. He is the husband of one wife. Here's the emphasis on that.
He's a man married to a woman. That's God's design. Men marry
women. I don't understand how we are
so morally confused on that issue. Even nature itself speaks of
the fact that males and females procreate, and that's the order
of design. But I want to draw your attention
to something even more profound for the church. Bishops, elders
and pastors are men. That's God's design. That's not
Paul's design. That's not Peter's design. That's
not John's design. That's certainly not my design.
That's God's design. This is His word. And some people
go and say, well, that's just a cultural thing. No, it's not. Because Paul will go to the order
of creation. Christ is the head of the church.
The man is the head of the wife. Not that the wife has to Just
knuckle under. There should be a mutual love
there, men. You should love your wife and
lead her with such care and compassion that she doesn't even have to
question whether or not she'll submit to you. Because he trusts
you so much. That's the idea of headship here.
But men, we have been given the task of leadership. It is our
job. to oversee. God has, in the image
that is given in Acts that we just read, God has granted to
some men to oversee his church until he returns, and he will
call us to account when he returns. And elders, that should cause
us a little bit of trembling. There's some holy fear that we
should have. It motivates us to do our job well. I don't know how much we should
fear for churches in America, because I don't know all of them,
but I do know this. You should fear for the typical
evangelical pastor who plays fast and loose with the Word
of God, because he is going to be brought to account And when he stands before Jesus,
he's going to recognize the weight of his calling. I will confess
to you, I don't understand the full weight of my calling right
at this moment. I understand it's great. None of us will understand
the weight of that calling until we stand before the King of Kings. But we take it seriously. So
we're men. Now, a few years ago, we had a group of people come
to Calvary. There was another church. There
was a church split. the church they came from not
only had female pastors and female elders, some of these women served
as elders. And when they inquired about
Calvary, how we did things, and whether or not, you know, how
things operate as far as government goes, and if they were going
to join the church, they weren't really sure. And I took the opportunity
to be very open and honest with them. I said, we take 1 Timothy
chapter 3 very seriously, and we take it literally. Which means,
You, my friend, cannot be an elder if you're a woman. And
I had no idea how they were going to respond. I didn't know if
they were going to put their fist. What do you mean? These women, you know what the
response was? Thank goodness. Because women who have served
in that responsibility understand how important it is for men to
lead. They understand the importance of God's design. So men, you
need to step up. First, in your own home. Second,
here in the church, as you oversee God's people. Now, not everyone
here oversees, but if you desire that, that's a good thing. And
we can talk through that. You know, the only skill that
the elder and pastor has to have is to be able to teach. It could
be like this, and I would trust any one of my elders to stand
up here and proclaim the truth. And they all just got a little
bit nervous. Hang on. What are you going to do? What's your
plans? What are you doing? But here's
also the implication. They can teach small groups one-on-one. They know how to instruct you
in the word of God. I understand how hard this can
be to stand up here and look at all of you. For me, that doesn't
bother me anymore. It used to be very intimidating.
Now it's just Sunday. But it's sometimes more. Only skill that's given. We could
say so much more about this. I want to end with that section
with saying that an elder should not be a novice. Literally, he
should not be a sapling a tree that's easily to be rooted up He needs to have some skin in
the game he needs to be tempted and tried he needs to have some
scars and Their purpose is not teaching,
it's serving, it's ministering, it's taking important work that
should be done away from pastors, elders and bishops so that it
frees them with prayer and preaching and teaching and overseeing.
And the deacons do that work. The function of the church in
taking care of the building, that's important. I'm glad I
have men. I don't have to really worry
about that too much. I might give the instruction and wait
for them to do it, but they do it. Keeping the parking lot clear
of snow. I don't have to ever worry about
that. We have men who take care of that. Going and helping a
widow or a single mom with a car that breaks down. Our deacons
are good about those things. You don't always hear about them.
They take place. It happens. That's the role of
a deacon. I want to speak for a moment
to the wives of our elders, our deacons. I want to speak a moment
to the wives of the men who desire this position. If you look at
verse 11 in 1 Timothy 3, likewise, in the same way, women, you must
be reverent, not slanderers. Meaning, you're not allowed to
be a gossip. You're not to cut people down.
You yourself, women, you're to be self-controlled, and you are
to be faithful. Let me put it to you in very
simple terms. Women, you can disqualify your
husband from a good work. I've sat on a search committee
at a different church where we were looking at bringing someone
in, and as we got to know that man's wife, we said, no way. No way. She will cause way more
problems than she would help us solve. There's nothing wrong women with
being strong willed and opinionated at the proper time. But speaking
your mind and you don't care who hears it. You don't care
who you offend. That is not honoring and glorifying
to God because we put others first. We consider others is
better than ourselves. And as we consider our husbands
and the position that they desire, that God may have called them
to, you need to see how important your character is in this. So
I understand you don't always agree with everything that happens
in life and in this church. Be reverent, be self-controlled,
glorify God in all that you do, and honor your husband. Finally,
I will just say a few words. We are over our time, but just
say a few words on the fourth one, which is church discipline.
It's the hardest one, I think, for a lot of churches. You can
go to a church, and you can see they do all these other things
very well, and then it comes to church discipline, and you
go, well. Church discipline is not commanded
by Paul or Peter. Church discipline is coming straight
from the mouth of Jesus Christ, your King, who desires this place to be
pure, And the great fear of every one
of your pastors and elders is that we have to confront someone
who is living in sin, who will not change, and discipline them. And declare to the church they're
acting like an unbeliever. No one here wants to do that. I've been in churches where church
discipline hasn't been practiced quick enough and it causes a
cancer. And it festers and it grows. And a really good church
A situation went for 10 years, 10 years, because they were doing
their absolute best to lead people to repentance. And what did they
do? They caused a great division
in the church, so that when they were disciplined, there was a
good portion of the church that picked sides. And this person
went to that church, and some people followed them. And that
person went to this church, and this person followed them. And
we felt that. We're not going to rush to discipline
anyone because sometimes these problems, people get saved and
they've got problems of decades and they're working through it.
So I don't see where Jesus says you have to, after two days,
go to the next step. But once you see that they are
no longer responding to you, it's time to go to the church.
It's time to help them see how serious their sin is. It's time
to put them on trial. Are you a Christian? If you honor the name of Christ,
your sin must change. You must repent. Must. Not an option. It's a mark of
a church. A New Testament church. You don't
have to like it. I don't like that one. I don't
get to not do it. We practice that here since my
time. Not often. We've had to practice it. We will continue to practice
it. As much as we hate it. Because we love Jesus Christ
so much more. These are the standards of the
Church. This is the purpose of the Church. This is how we are true worshipers
that God is seeking. The Word of God is central. The
ordinances are regular. There's offices of deacons and
elders and they practice their position well and we do church
discipline. Next week we'll talk about how
we all work together to bring about the purpose of the church
of glorifying God in practical ways. Let's pray. Father, we
thank you for this morning and Lord, there's just so much here.
And I know there are people in different places and different
walks, places of their walk of faith. And so I ask that you
would send forth your word and bring an obedience in your people.
You know where we all are. You know where we need to grow.
You know where we are weak. You know where we are strong.
You know where we are concerned. You know that there are some
here who are just hurting from a past church issue. Would you remind us that the
local church fails, but the universal church does not? Would you remind
us that pastors and elders, we are not perfect, and we make
foolish decisions when we do not consult you? And even when
we seek to honor you, we still, we're not perfect. But Christ
never fails. And one day we will see you in
your glory. And while we are disappointed with men, and we're
disappointed with decisions, when we see you, it will be all
worth it. Give us this perspective. Give us this urgency. Give us
this hope that we would come every Sunday morning and sing
as an expression of our love and serve as an expression of
our thankfulness and fellowship as an expression of our need
for each other and hear your word as an expression of our
need for you. It is in Jesus'
What is the Purpose of the Church?
Series What is the Church?
Calvary Bible Church
| Sermon ID | 114242159276432 |
| Duration | 49:26 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | 1 Corinthians 1:18; 1 Timothy 3:1-13 |
| Language | English |
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