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For more information about our
teaching and preaching ministry, you can find us online at cornerstoneorlando.org. The following sermon has been
brought to you by Cornerstone Orlando, making disciples for
the glory of God. the title of our sermon this
morning, is The Father's Love. The Father's Love. When we think
about salvation, the work of redemption, even the work of
creation, we need to understand that all of God's external works,
what theologians call his opera ad extra, his external operations,
when we think about all of the external operations and all of
the works of God, we need to understand that they're Trinitarian.
We believe in the Trinitarian God. So in the work of creation,
in His work of providence, in His work, yes, of redemption,
they are Trinitarian works, through and through, Trinitarian. One
theologian, Hermann Bavink, said it this way, he said, The God
of the Covenant is and has to be a triune God. If we believe in a God that relates
to us through His covenants, we must believe that this God
is triune. That is, There is a threefold
principle in operation in the work of salvation. When we look
at the work of salvation, we must recognize that it's a Trinitarian
work because there's a threefold principle at work. Not merely
a few isolated texts, but the whole New Testament is Trinitarian
in that sense. All salvation, think with me,
think with me. All salvation, every blessing
and blessedness have their threefold cause in God, the Father, the
Son, and the Holy Spirit. Every component of salvation
has a threefold cause that we find in the Trinitarian God that
we believe in. We see these three act immediately,
as an example, at the birth of Jesus and at his baptism, right?
You think about the birth of Jesus Christ. Think about his
incarnation, his virgin birth. The Father sent the Son. The
Son assumed a human nature to Himself, and the Holy Spirit
overshadowed the Virgin Mary and caused Him to be conceived
in her womb. It's a Trinitarian work. It's
the same, as Bovink is saying here, as the Scriptures testify
to us, it was the same at Jesus' baptism. He's being baptized
by John the Baptist, He goes into the water, and Jesus, the
second person of the Trinity, coming out of the water, The
Holy Spirit came down and alighted upon him as a dove, and he heard
a voice coming out of heaven that said, This is my beloved
Son in whom I am well pleased. Even the baptism of Jesus Christ
was Trinitarian. Before his departure, Bobbink
goes on, before his departure, Jesus, he summed up all this
teaching, and what he's talking about is that salvation has a
threefold cause, a Trinitarian cause. Jesus himself summed up
that teaching in the baptismal formula. Think about the Great
Commission in Matthew chapter 28. He gave the baptismal formula,
and what did he say? He said, you should baptize them
in the name, singular, of the Father and of the Son and of
the Holy Spirit. And they all reveal themselves.
The one divine name in which three distinct subjects, the
Father, the Son, and the Spirit, these reveal themselves. This
instruction is continued and expanded by the apostles. The
apostles pick up on this language, the one name, the three subjects.
They all know and glory in the threefold cause of salvation.
Here's the point that I'm bringing home to you right now, okay?
He says, the good pleasure, who do we see that attributed to?
The good pleasure, The foreknowledge, the election, the power, and
the love in the kingdom all belong to who? The Father. The scriptures over and over
again testify that these things can be particularly, even though
they can be attributed to all three persons, yet the scriptures
preeminently attribute these things to the Father, that is,
His good pleasure. His foreknowledge, His election,
His power, His love in the kingdom. What about the Son? Mediatorship,
the atonement, salvation, grace, wisdom, and righteousness. Who
do these things pertain to? The Son and regeneration. renewal, sanctification, and
communion. Who do we attribute these things
to? The Holy Spirit. And so our salvation is Trinitarian.
It's Trinitarian through and through. We can see this in several
texts, several texts of scripture. The benediction that'll be for
today, 2 Corinthians chapter 13, my favorite verse in all
the Bible, Paul says this, he closes that epistle by saying
this, the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ That's the second person
of the Trinity. The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ
and the love of God, the first person, and the fellowship of
the Holy Spirit be with you all. Paul relates how we can commune
with this triune God. How do we commune with Jesus
Christ? In grace, by believing in Him. How do we commune with
the Father? in love by receiving his love
and returning his love to him. How do we commune with the Holy
Spirit? Through fellowship or another text of scripture. We
know that he is called the paracletos. He's our helper. He's the one
who comes alongside of us. He's the one in whom we walk
in this life. He sanctifies us. And so, particularly
the point that I'm driving home is where you see Trinitarian
texts, what is being attributed to the Father? Love! Love is being attributed to the
Father. Ephesians chapter 1 verse 3. Here's another Trinitarian
text for you. Blessed be the God and Father
of our Lord Jesus Christ, who blessed us with every spiritual,
that is, of or pertaining to the Holy Spirit, it's the same
word, who blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly
places in Christ. It's a Trinitarian text. But
who, according to Ephesians chapter one, blessed us. Yes, we are
blessed in Christ. Yes, these are blessings that
are of or pertaining to or by the power of the Holy Spirit.
But who ultimately is the one who blesses us? It's the Father. It's the Father and he does that
in love. Titus chapter three, a great
text. Think about relating to this. There's a Trinitarian text.
Think about the way that you used to live your lives. Paul
says, for we once, we once were foolish ourselves. We were disobedient,
deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending
our life in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another.
Wasn't that true of you? Wasn't that true of you in your
lost condition? But what is the hinge on which the door of your
salvation turned? What caused your situation to
change? But when the kindness of God,
our Savior, and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us. That's talking about the Father.
That's talking about the Father, because it's a Trinitarian text.
When the kindness of God, our Savior, and His love for mankind
appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have
done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing
of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit, whom He,
that is the Father, poured out upon us richly through Jesus
Christ, our Savior. Isn't that amazing? The Father
poured out the Holy Spirit upon us in Jesus Christ in our salvation. And so verse four from Titus
chapter three is talking about the Father. Our whole situation
changed. The reason why we are saved is
from one fountain. It is from one source. It is
from one starting point. And what is that? the kindness
of God our Savior, and His love, and His love. The text that we
read during the call to worship, beloved, let us love one another,
for love is from God, and everyone who loves is born of God and
knows God. Why? The one who does not love
does not know God, for God, that is the Father, is love. The Father
is love. By this, the love of God was
manifested in us, that God has sent his only begotten son into
the world, that we might live through him. And this is love.
Not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son
to be the propitiation for our sins. You see how over and over
and over again, the constant testimony of the scriptures is
that love can be particularly attributed to the Father in the
economy of salvation. The Father is the one who loved
us. 1 John 3, I see what great love the Father has bestowed
on us that we might be called children of God. He lavished
his love upon us by adopting us, by adopting us into his family. And so we see that Bavinck is
absolutely correct that love can be primarily attributed to
the Father in the work of our salvation. The problem is, The
problem is that we aren't always convinced, we're not always convinced
that the Father loves us. John Owen, a Puritan, a great
theologian, he was a pastor. He was also the dean of a very,
a great seminary at the time. He was a scholar, he says this.
I'll now declare, he writes this in his book, Communion with the
Triune God. Great, wonderful book. He talks
about the way that we can commune with each person of the Trinity.
And he begins talking about the Father. He says, I'll now declare
in what way specifically the saints have communion with the
Father. How can you have communion with the Father? How do you fellowship
with the Father? According to the scriptures, it is love. It is love. It is love. Free. undeserved and eternal
love. The Father specifically fixes
this love on the saints. They are to see this love immediately
in Him, to receive it from Him, and to return it to Him in any
way that delights Him. That's how you commune with the
Father. You should know that. You should know that. If you want
to commune with the Father, how do you do it? You see the love
of God in Him, you receive the love of God from Him, and you
return love to Him. That's how you commune with the
Father. This is the great discovery of the gospel, he says. The Father,
as the fountain of deity, is only known as full of wrath,
anger, and indignation against sin. Nor can natural man have
any other thoughts of him. Yet here, in the gospel, he is
now revealed specifically as love, and as full of love toward
us. The manifestation of this truth
is the unique work of the gospel. He quotes Titus chapter three,
which we just read. He goes on, as this, and I want you to get
this, I want this point to sink into your ears. As this love
is uniquely seen in the Father, it should be understood as the
fountain of all subsequent gracious dispensations. What does he mean?
What are all of the gracious dispensations of God? Well, in
time, you heard the gospel, the general call. That's a gracious
dispensation from God. You were affectionately called
by Him. You were called by name. He caused you to be born again.
He adopted you into His family. He justified you. He pardoned
you of all of your iniquity. imputed all of the righteousness
of Jesus Christ to you. He positionally and definitively
sanctified you from the world. He progressively sanctifies you. But what is the fountain of all
of these gracious dispensations from God? Where's their source? It's the love of God. It's the
love of the Father. That's where all of them come from. Why are
you justified? The love of the Father. Why are
you sanctified? The love of the Father. Why were
you effectually called? The love of the Father. Why were
you regenerated? The love of the Father. Christians
are often very troubled, he says. He says from experience, and
you may know this from experience. Christians are often very troubled
concerning how the Father thinks of them, right? They're well
persuaded of the goodwill of the Lord Christ. The difficulty
lies in how they're accepted by the Father. What's his heart
toward them? Philip, in John chapter 14, he said to Jesus,
he said, show us the Father and that'll be enough for us. He
had that kind of attitude. But his love, don't you see?
His love should be looked at as the fountain from which all
other sweetness flows. Here's the point. He says, Titus
chapter three, which we just read, Titus three makes the Father's
love the linchpin on which the great change of the saints takes
place. Titus 3 makes the Father's love
the linchpin on which the great change of the saints takes place.
He says in verse 3, we too were sometimes foolish, disobedient,
deceived, serving many lusts and pleasures, living in malice
and envy, hateful, hating one another. Where then does our
recovery come from? It all arises from this love
of God flowing out as described. For when the kindness and love
of God appeared, then we were saved. To fully convince us of
this, there is nothing in the world This is an amazing point
that he makes. To fully convince us of this,
there is nothing in the world of a loving and tender nature
that God doesn't compare himself to, right? We see it all throughout
scripture. He tells us he's like a father. He tells us he's like
a mother, a shepherd, a hen over her chicks and the like. He says,
I do not need to add any more proofs. I have demonstrated that
there is love in the person of the father, specifically held
out to the saints in which he holds communion with them. Great
words, great words from John Owen. So what have we seen? We've seen the problem, right?
We've seen that our salvation is Trinitarian, and we've seen
that love can be particularly attributed to the Father. We've
seen that in, for example, in 2 Corinthians 13, the grace of
the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship
of the Holy Spirit be with you all. And so we know that scripture
teaches that in the economy of our redemption, the Father is
the one who, who, who loves us, and that love is the linchpin
upon which our great change takes place. All of the gracious dispensations
of God flow from this one source, from this one fountain, from
the love of the Father. The problem is that we are often
unconvinced. We're often unconvinced that
the Father does truly love us. What I want to show you this
morning is one text, one text that helps to shed light on the
Father's love for us. If you are not still open there,
please turn in your Bibles to Hebrews 12. What we find in the book of Hebrews
is that the apostle, probably the apostle Paul, is instructing
Jewish believers and warning them, severely warning them,
don't turn back to Judaism. I know you're being persecuted
heavily because of your Christian faith, because you converted
to Christianity, but don't turn back to Judaism. There's nothing
there left for you. The old covenant is obsolete
at the point in which Jesus Christ died. Now we have the new covenant,
something better, something greater, a greater mediator. So he says
in Hebrews chapter 10, but remember the former days, Verse 32, but
remember the former days when after being enlightened, you
endured a great conflict of sufferings, right? Partly by being made a
public spectacle through reproaches and tribulations, and partly
by becoming sharers with those who were so treated. For you
showed sympathy to the prisoners and accepted joyfully the seizure
of your property. See, they were being persecuted
very severely. They had their property seized.
Knowing that you have for yourselves a better possession and a lasting
Therefore, don't throw away your confidence, which has a great
reward, for you have need of endurance, so that when you have
done the will of God, you may receive what was promised." So
he's telling them, don't turn back to Judaism, hold fast to
your confidence, no matter what the cost is, even if you're being
very severely treated as you were at first. And so he begins
to give examples. Examples of what does it take?
What does it take to persevere through tribulation, through
trial, through persecution? What does it take to endure?
It takes faith. And so he gives several examples of faith throughout
the Old Testament in Hebrews chapter 11. Beginning in Hebrews
chapter 12, he gives the preeminent example of perseverance through
trials. He says, In verse one, therefore,
since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us,
he's talking about martyrs who have gone before us, particularly
those in the Old Testament. Since we have so great a cloud
of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance
and the sin which so easily entangled us and let us run with endurance
the race that is set before us. That's the exhortation that he
gives after considering all of these faithful ones who have
come before us. But he gives us another example,
verse two, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter
of faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross,
despising the shame, and he has sat down at the right hand of
the throne of God. For consider him who has endured
such hostility by sinners against himself, so that you will not
grow weary and lose heart. And so in verse four, in verse
four, he begins this section talking about endurance, exhorting
us to endurance. He says in verse four, you have
not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood and you're
striving against sin. Why does he say that? He wants to give
us a perspective check, right? He's giving us a perspective
check on our own persecutions, on their own persecutions. He
says, look back at their example from Hebrews chapter 11, verse
30, verse 35. Women received back their dead
by resurrection. Others were tortured. They strove against
sin, even to the point of shedding blood, right? They were tortured,
not accepting their release so that they might obtain a better
resurrection. And others experienced mockings and scourgings. Yes,
and also chains and imprisonments. They were stoned. They were sawn
in two, probably Jeremiah. They were tempted. They were
put to death with the sword. They went about in sheepskins
and goatskins, being destitute, afflicted, ill-treated, men of
whom the world was not worthy, wandering deserts and mountains
and caves and holes in the ground. And all these, having gained
approval through their faith, did not receive what was promised,
because God had provided something better for us, so that apart
from us, they wouldn't be made perfect." They wouldn't be made
perfect. So when he says in verse four of chapter 12, you have
not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood and you're
striving against sin, he's giving us a perspective check. I just
told you about all of these martyrs who went before us, sawn in two.
They strove against sin even to the point of shedding blood.
So, therefore, you should endure. Strengthen. Strengthen the hands
that are weak and the knees that are feeble. Consider those who
have gone before you. You haven't yet resisted to that
point. And also the example of Jesus Christ, the author and
perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before him endured the
cross, despising the shame and is sat down at the right hand
of the throne of God. You must consider him as well. You have
not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving
against sin. That's a perspective check, okay?
It's a perspective check on the way that we should think during
our trials. And beloved, let me entreat you.
Let me entreat you. Trials, I think specifically
here in the book of Hebrews, he's talking about persecution,
but through the analogy of faith and through the analogy of scripture,
we can bring other types of trials into this text because we know,
we know that God brings us other kinds of trials because those
other kinds of trials bring us to God. God brings us, yes, the
trials of persecution, like he's talking about in Hebrews 10,
11, and 12. But in other texts of scripture, trials can just
be a thorn in the flesh, like what Paul went through. We can
have health trials, right? We can have relational trials,
like Jesus spoke of, man against his son, daughter-in-law against
mother-in-law, and so on. We can have relational trials.
We can be impoverished as certain texts even here in Hebrews chapter
11 speak of, like Moses. He despised the pleasures and
the riches of Egypt. And so there are many kinds of
trials and not just persecution. And so what I'm entreating you
is I'm calling you, I'm calling you to persevere knowing that
there are others who have experienced even worse trials than what you're
going through now. You need to have a perspective
check. Don't grow weary, don't grow faint, don't grow feeble,
but strengthen the hands that are weak. Why? Because others
have gone before you and God was able to strengthen them.
However, However, the main thrust of Hebrews 12, verses four through
11, is not the perspective check that we find in looking at the
example of others, martyrs and Christ, but it's found in recognizing
the exhortation which is addressed to us as sons. Verse five. So he says, you haven't resisted
to the point of shedding blood, and you have forgotten the exhortation
which is addressed to you as sons. What are you talking about? There was an exhortation that's
addressed to me as a son. There's a father who has exhorted
me, who has written something down, a letter to me, so to speak,
as I am his child. There's an exhortation that's
addressed to me as a son. Yes. And he quotes Proverbs chapter
three. My son, do not regard lightly
the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you're reproved by
him. For those whom the Lord loves, he disciplines and he
scourges every son whom he receives. What follows in verses seven
through 11 is an inspired commentary on Proverbs chapter three. Turn
back with me to that text, Proverbs three. Remember the point that I'm driving
home. It is that in the economy of
redemption, the father loves us. And we should receive that
love. And the reason why I decided
that Hebrews chapter 12 would be helpful for us, and the concept
of discipline would be helpful for us, is because oftentimes
the reason why we don't believe that the Father loves us is because
we're being disciplined by Him. We're being disciplined by Him.
He's brought trials to us, and we're concerned that in those
trials He doesn't love us anymore, or that He hasn't loved us at
all. And so in the darkest time in the Christian life, which
is when you're being disciplined by the Father, I want you to
see that even in those times, you can see the Father's love
for you. We could have talked about 1 John 3, see what great
love the Father has lavished upon us that we would be called
children of God. We could have talked about our adoption and
what that means and how God's love is demonstrated to us in
that, in the way that he has brought us into his family. Or
we could have talked about 1 John 4, that the Father's love is
demonstrated in the sending of the Son to be the propitiation
for our sins. He proves His love for us in those ways. And yet,
I want you to see that in the practical realities of your life,
that as you are being disciplined by the Father through trials,
through the conviction of the Holy Spirit, as you are being
disciplined, yes, even in the darkest hour of your trials,
the Father loves you in that moment. Proverbs chapter three,
beginning at verse one. When the New Testament quotes
these Old Testament texts, they bring all the context with them.
There's a context that comes before and after what the apostle
quotes. Verse one, my son, my son, do
not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments
for length of days and years of life and peace, peace, peace,
they will add to you. We'll see that later in Hebrews
chapter 12. Keeping the commandments of God has temporal benefits,
right? Just like training up a child
in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord, even though it can
be painful for the child, it brings the child peace, it brings
the child stability, it gives the child character. In the same
way, keep God's commandments for length of days and years
of life and peace they will add to you. Don't let kindness and
truth leave you, bind them around your neck, write them on the
tablet of your heart so you will find favor and good repute in
the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your
heart and do not lean on your own understanding. When we're
going through trials, relational trials, persecution, financial
trials, health trials, trials of conviction, feelings of guilt
and the like. When you're going through trials,
what does trusting in your own understanding look like? This
isn't good for me. This thing that God has brought
to my life is not good for me. It's truly bad because it feels
bad. It's uncomfortable, it's painful.
Trusting in the Lord with all your heart, what does that look
like? God has said that he will not withhold any good thing from
me. So I must believe that as painful and as difficult, as
much suffering as this brings to me, it is a good thing. So
I must trust him. You see how we have to trust
God and not lean on our own understanding during the time of trial? You
see how that's related to all of this? In all your ways, acknowledge
him and he will make your path straight. Do not be wise in your
own eyes. This truly is a bad thing for
me. God has brought this into my life and it will lead to my
doom. That's what being wise in your own eyes looks like.
But instead, fear the Lord and turn away from evil. Oftentimes,
turning away from evil comes with a cost and it's painful. Doing the right thing is hard. And so he says, do not be wise
in your own eyes. Don't make excuses for sin, it'll
be easier, or something else. But instead, fear the Lord. Have
integrity before God and turn away from evil, no matter the
cost. It will be healing to your body and refreshment to your
bones. We think obeying will be a wound to our body and the
breaking of our bones. But he says, no, it'll be healing
to your body. It'll be refreshment to your
bones. Honor the Lord from your wealth and from the first of
all your produce. What does being wise in your own eyes look like?
I'm gonna lose all my money. I need that money. But what does
he say? So your barns will be filled.
It'll be the opposite of what you think. Giving is receiving,
he says. Honor the Lord from all your
wealth and from the first of all your produce, so your barns
will be filled with plenty and your vats will overflow with
new wine. That's fearing the Lord. That's trusting in God
with all your heart and leaning not on your own understanding.
And then he gets into it. Verse 11, my son, do not reject
the discipline of the Lord or loathe his reproof. For whom
the Lord loves, he reproves, even as a father corrects the
son in whom he delights. What is the result? The result
of submitting underneath God's loving reproof. What's the result
of being submissive during His reproof, during His correction?
Verse 23. then you will walk in your way
securely and your foot will not stumble. When you lie down, you
will not be afraid. When you lie down, your sleep
will be sweet. Do not be afraid of sudden fear nor of the onslaught
of the wicked when it comes, for the Lord will be your confidence
and will keep your foot from being caught. He's leading you
in the right path, in the right path, in the right path, so you
have to trust him during the time of discipline. But I wanna
point out several things. primarily from verses 11 and
12, because this is what the apostle quotes. Verse 11, my
son, do not reject the discipline of the Lord or loathe his reproof. He's calling you not to do two
things. Don't reject it and don't hate it. And those are the two
things we're tempted to do when he's disciplining us during trial,
right? We want to reject it. We want to say, no, don't give
me this. Give me the thing that I want. or loathe it, I hate
this, I hate what I'm going through. I hate the way that I'm being
treated. I hate that my reputation has been affected by this, or
the like. Don't loathe his reproof, don't
reject his discipline. Notice what we are not supposed
to reject and what we're not supposed to loathe, his discipline
and his reproof. In Ephesians chapter six, in
Colossians chapter three, what we find are instructions for
fathers for their children. raise them up in discipline and
instruction, and do it in a way that does not exasperate your
children or cause them to lose heart. I'm combining a lot of
elements from Ephesians six and in Colossians chapter three.
The point is, love, and I'm getting that from don't exasperate them
and don't cause them to lose heart. So you need love when
you're raising your children. Love, instruction, and discipline. And if you have those three things,
you're going to have a very healthy dynamic in your home with your
children. It's the same with the father. And we see that here
in verse 11. Don't reject his discipline or
his reproof. Those are two different things.
They signify the trials that he brings to us or discipline
like the way a father disciplines his son. And they signify his
instruction. It would be a mistake for a father
to discipline his child without any instruction. Right? It would
be a mistake to instruct your child without any enforcement,
without any discipline, right? The father is wise and loving
in the way that he deals with us. He instructs us through his
word and he disciplines us through trials that he brings to us.
Don't reject it and don't loathe it. Don't hate his word. and
don't reject the trials that he brings to you. Instead, submit
to his word, submit to the trials. God brings trials to us because
trials bring us to God. Verse 12, why should we not reject
his discipline? Why should we not loathe his
reproof? For whom the Lord loves, he reproves. Even as a father
corrects the son in whom he delights, And I love the way, I love the
way that it's translated in Hebrews chapter 12, and you can turn
back there. I love the way that it's translated here. For those whom the Lord loves,
he disciplines, and he scourges every son whom he receives. I want you to get this. I want
you to believe it. I want you to, as John Owen was
saying, I want you to see it, I want you to receive it, and
I want you to make returns of it. The Father loves you. The
Father loves you in Christ. The Lord loves those whom he
disciplines, and he scourges every son whom he receives. Rather than thinking that discipline
is a result of God's hatred for you, You must be grateful and
remember that the discipline that he brings to you is a sign
and token of his love for you, of his love for you. I want you
to see his love for you. I want you to receive his love
for you. And I want you to make returns of love to him. It would
be terrible, terrible if a father, according to the Bible, in a
biblical way, with love and instruction, if a father disciplined his child,
and the child did not believe because of the child's petulance,
that the child did not believe that the father actually loved
him. You're disciplining me, so you must hate me. That's a
petulant child, that's an ungrateful child. We should believe, we
should believe that the father loves us during our dark times,
during our dark hours. So we quote Proverbs chapter
three to show us that discipline is a matter of love, and then
he begins to make commentary commentary on Proverbs 3. In
verses 7 and 8, what we find is that discipline is a sign
of our relationship to God as children. Verse 7 and 8 shows
us that discipline is a sign of our adoption. And then verses
9 and following shows us the goal of discipline. First, that
it's a sign. Second, that it's a goal. Look
at verse 7. It is for discipline that you
endure. In other words, you're not just enduring through your
trials because you have to and it's pointless, but you have
to survive. He's saying, no, it's for the
sake of discipline that you have to endure. In other words, your
trials have a purpose. They're from the hand of God.
You have to believe it. We're not deists and we're not
pantheists. We are Trinitarian Christians. You have to believe that according
to your relationship to God as an adopted child, everything
that happens in your life happens with a purpose. He has a good
purpose in it. It is for discipline that you
endure. God deals with you as with sons, as with sons, not
just as creatures, but in a special redemptive relationship. That's
how he deals with you. And then he begins to make an argument
from our earthly situation. For what son is there whom his
father does not discipline? And let this be a rebuke to those
who don't discipline their children. It was so commonplace and such
common sense to the apostle that fathers discipline their children
that he can assume it here. He says, what son is there whom
his father does not discipline? In other words, we know it happens
with everybody. Everybody who has a good father
gets disciplined by their father, right? When they're children.
Verse eight, but if you are without discipline, of which all have
become partakers, he's saying of which all of God's children
have become partakers, if you are without discipline, then
you are illegitimate children and not sons, like a child that's
born out of wedlock. That's like the hypocrite. That's like the person who says,
I'm a Christian, God is my father, and yet the father doesn't recognize
the legitimacy of his adoption, and so the father doesn't discipline
him. In other words, the point that the apostle is making here
when he says, if you're not disciplined, you're like an illegitimate child.
The point that he's making is that if you are disciplined,
if God does bring trials to you and you see how those trials
terminate in your holiness, if that does happen, then you are
a legitimate child and a loved child. Do you see, look at your
life, look at your history. Do you see how the trials that
God has brought to you, your persecution, that your health
trials, your relational trials, even the conviction that is brought
to you as a consequence of your sin. Do you see how all of these
trials have resulted in greater holiness than that which you
had before? It's a sign of your sonship. Praise God. You should
receive God's love in that. You should thank God for the
trials that he's brought to you. It's resulted in your holiness.
If you are without discipline of which all have become partakers,
then you are illegitimate children, not sons. Furthermore, we had
earthly fathers to discipline us and we respected them. He
makes an argument from the lesser to the greater, right? Shall
we not much rather be subject to the father of spirits? You
were subject to your earthly father. How much more the father
of spirits? And what's the result, right?
Shall we not much rather be subject to the father of spirits and
live? If God is our father, we have
eternal life coming our way. And this is a part of the process.
Love it or hate it, it's a part of the process, right? Verse
10, for they disciplined us. He's talking about our earthly
fathers. They disciplined us for a short time as seemed best
to them. He gives our earthly fathers two characteristics.
One, the temporal nature of our discipline. It was for a short
time. And then two, according to the finitude of their understanding,
they did it as seemed best to them. There's a contrast, but what
about the father? Does he discipline us for a short
time? And what is, how does his discipline differ from those
of an earthly father who just do it as seems best to them? He doesn't
do it for a short time, but as long as we are in this life as
his adopted children, it's for a long time. So a long time,
gird up your loins because your whole life is going to be a life
of fatherly discipline. Trials being brought to you.
They disciplined us for a short time. but not God. And they disciplined
us as seemed best to them, but, and here's the primary point
that he's driving with the contrast, but he disciplines us for our
good. In other words, it may be a good thing for fathers to
discipline us at times, and at times they might be wrong, right?
But not so with the father of spirits. It is always good. Everything that he brings to
our path is for our good. It is for what is best for us. so that we may share His holiness."
You see how our sharing in His holiness is a necessary result
of the trials that He brings to us? If the Proverbs speak
about the man who ruins his way, ruins his life, and then he rages
against the Lord, that's not what this is talking about. It's
not talking about the consequences of our sin that don't terminate
in our holiness. This is talking about any trial
that God brings to us that results in our holiness. If any trial
that you look at in your life, this is the point that I'm making
to you, any trial that you look at in your life that terminates
in your holiness, in sharing in God's holiness, those trials,
all of them, were God's loving and fatherly discipline. any
difficulty whatsoever that you go through in your life that
results in your holiness, it is the hand of God. You can see
his invisible hand working in your life, in love. Verse 11,
all discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful.
It's not a matter of confusion. What you're going through is
hard. And the biblical remedy isn't just saying, no, no, this
is easy. No, no, this is something that
is happy. That's not the biblical remedy.
The Bible does acknowledge the fact that the trials that we
go through are hard and are difficult. And if you read the book of Psalms,
you can see the heart of the Psalmist and it is totally permissible
for us to have a sorrowful, sad heart at our circumstances when
we're praying to God, totally permissible. We shouldn't just
turn a blind eye to our trials. We lift them up to God as we
feel them. All discipline for the moment
seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful. Yes, it's true. Yet, here's the
remedy. to those who have been trained
by it. Afterwards, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
Remember Proverbs 3, what he's talking about. Your foot will
not slip. Your foot will not slip when you keep God's commandments.
And that's the purpose. That's why God brings these trials
to you. I want to close by giving you a case study in Psalm 38. Look at Psalm 38. David in his prayer to God in
Psalm 51, He says, I know my transgressions and my sin is
ever before me. He's talking about a sin with Bathsheba. In
Psalm 38, we can see exactly what this looked like in his
life. On your own time, you can also look at Psalm 32, which
also gives us a vivid portrayal of what was going on in David's
heart as he was sinning. But in Psalm 38, we see really
clearly God's fatherly chastisement. Ask yourself, is this not what
I go through in my life? This is God's love. It's his
love. Oh Lord, rebuke me not in your
wrath, and chasten me not in your burning anger. In other
words, do it in love, he's asking. For your arrows have sunk deep
into me, and your hand has pressed down on me. There is no soundness
in my flesh because of your indignation. Talking about his fatherly indignation,
his fatherly displeasure. There is no soundness in my flesh.
There is no health in my bones because of my sin. We are creatures
of soul and body, body and spirit. And when something is affecting
us spiritually, it can even have an effect on our physical bodies.
He says, there is no health in my bones because of my sin, for
my iniquities are gone over my head. As a heavy burden, they
weigh too much for me. My wounds grow foul and fester
because of my folly. I'm bent over and greatly bowed
down. I go mourning all day long. for
my loins are filled with burning, and there is no soundness in
my flesh. I am benumbed and badly crushed. I groan because of the
agitation of my heart. Lord, all my desire is before
you, and my sighing is not hidden from you. My heart throbs, my
strength fails me, and the light of my eyes, even that has gone
from me. My loved ones and my friends
stand aloof from my plague, and my kinsmen stand afar off." You
see, these events that are happening in David's life as a result of
his sin, David was a believer. David was saved. This is God's
love. It's God's love for David. And
did it not for David result in the peaceful fruit of righteousness
in his life? What's the point? What's the
point? Don't faint. Don't faint when
you're enduring. Think of the fruit of your holiness.
Think about the outcome of what you're going through right now.
Think about eternal life. He says, shall we not much more
submit to the father of spirits and live eternally? Value God's
love higher than whatever thing you're losing by this trial.
You should value God's love higher. God may take something away from
you. It's his prerogative. He gave, he can take away. Maybe
he's taken something away from you, but you should praise God
that you have something worth more. You have God's love in
the trial that you're going through. Think of your trials. This is
the primary point that I want you to let sink into your heart. Think of your trials as tokens
of God's love. What you're going through is
a token. As long as it's resulting in your holiness, right? It is
a token of God's love. It's a sign of God's love. It's
very personal. You look back at these events
in your life and you say, that was God's love, that was God's love,
that was God's love, that was God's love for me personally.
Think of your trials as tokens of God's love. Receive the Father's love. return
the Father's love. Let's pray. Oh Lord, we can apprehend your
love that is demonstrated to us in our adoption. We do see
what great love you have bestowed on us that we would be called
your children. And we see also your love as we look back 2000
years ago in your word and we see that you sent your son to
be the propitiation for our sins. In that, truly, love is manifested
and demonstrated. We see your love. Even in our
personal lives, we look back and we see the result of our
trials. You have brought those trials to us because those trials
have brought us to you. We pray now, Lord, let us pierce
through the clouds of your fatherly indignation and see that it is
all a result of your fatherly love for us. We love you, and
we thank you. In Christ's name, amen. Amen. Hello, and thanks for listening.
My name is Mark Brashear, and I have the blessed privilege
of serving with the saints at Cornerstone Church near Orlando, Florida.
We're so grateful that you've connected with us through the
sermon that you've just heard. For more information, visit us at
cornerstoneorlando.org, or better yet, come and see us on the Lord's
Day at 3370 Snow Hill Road in Oviedo, Florida. We're just east
of Orlando and about 15 minutes from the campus at UCF. It would
be a joy to have you worship with us.
The Father's Love
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