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is on on my end. If you have your Bibles, take
them out and open up to 1 Timothy chapter five. 1 Timothy chapter
five is we are continuing our study through this letter of
instruction that Paul is writing to his young apostolic delegate
as he is ministering in the city of Ephesus. And the last week,
this week and next week, we are dealing with understanding the
eldership or the leadership within the church. Last week, we looked
at honor to be given and double honor to be given of those pastors,
those elders who labor in their studies. You should not muzzle
the ox while it is threshing, verse 18, as he is recommending
Timothy to ensure and instruct the church. that remuneration
is to be given and also honor and respect to those who labor
diligently. And you might be thinking, well,
Ethan, why take this extra time that Paul is giving us to Timothy
in explaining the structure of the church? You need this instruction. We need this guidance for us
as the household of God to understand what is expected of us. What
should you expect as the congregant? What should I expect as the pastor
and one of the elders here at Five Bridges? And this section
here, by way of caveat, it begins to be very awkward for me to
be preaching about my role and the other elders' role at this
church. It's difficult because it might seem as if I'm trying
to set myself up as a self-licking ice cream cone or to pat myself
on the back, and I am wishing for everyone to come and kiss
the signet ring of the pastor of Five Bridges, and that is
not the case, especially with the text we're gonna be looking
at this morning, but we need to understand what is the role
of the elder, the leader, the pastor within the church? Because
God cares about the church. We, the church, we are the bride
of Christ. And we need to take that more
seriously than we usually take this. The congregants coming
together, as we looked at last week, There's an expectation
of you, but then there's also an expectation that you should
have of me and all of the other elders. We're given further insight
in this section into how the church is to be governed, structured,
governed and instructed and led, but, We're gonna look at a few
other things, but last week, if you remember, go back to verse
17, we see that the church is to be led by a plurality of qualified
leaders and those who are especially gifted and pursue after the labor
at preaching and teaching, double honors to be given. So we understand
we are to honor godly men. But what happens when those men
violate their office? What happens when the pastor
is not worthy of double honor, in fact, is not worthy of honor
whatsoever? The way in which Paul's writing
this, and I want you to frame your mind is because often when
we read the text of Scripture, it can become opaque. It can
become just simply words. But you have to understand that
this was written by Paul for a specific reason on a specific
occasion to a specific person addressing specific issues that
were happening. And what we have to understand
is when you take the totality of 1 Timothy into account and
when we read these sections, I must go back and forth and
look at these cross references to understand truly what's happening
within the city of Ephesus and within the churches in Ephesus.
Because there is an issue that Paul is dealing with on two folds. One, the churches were not honoring
those who needed to be honored, but then two, there were leaders
in place that should not be in place. There were leaders still
in that church, in any one of those churches, plural, within
that city, that needed to be removed from office. 1 Timothy
1.20, Paul highlights this earlier in the passage, excuse me, earlier
in the book, where he says, among them are Hymenaeus and Alexander,
indicating that these individuals were being, leading the congregation
astray. They were false teachers and
false teaching, and teaching things that ought not to be taught.
And so the implication within that understanding is that these
were most likely men in some form of capacity of leadership.
maybe not specifically the eldership or the pastors, but they had
some form of influence in teaching the church. And Paul said that
he personally removed them, got them out of the church. So the
church in Ephesus is dealing with a lot of issues. It's dealing
with a lot of sexual morality. It's dealing with issues within
the church. It's dealing with the cultural pressure that's
happening from outside the church. And anytime you look at issues
within the church, there's always problems that happen within.
their own people, but then there's also problems that happen from
without on that external pressure. So there is an importance that
Paul is taking the time to give us these verses in 17 to 25 on
focusing specifically on what should your expectation be of
the elder and what should you do in certain situations. Because
the item that stands out the most that you're gonna be seeing
this morning in the text in verses 19 to 21 is accountability. And accountability, sadly today,
seems to be an afterthought for many people. And sadly, even
those who are serving as pastors do not have accountability set
up. Now, when we think about accountability,
I'm not saying accountability of like, you know, I call you
up and say, hey, help me out with this. Accountability is
talking about someone who knows you as an individual. They know
you at home, they know you at work, they know you at play,
they know you in the streets, they know you in the marketplace,
they know you. And the accountability comes
in when you know somebody, you know something's wrong when their
behavior seems off, do you not? If you husbands are married and
it's your anniversary and your wife is looking at you, scowling
at you and you're thinking something's up and then you recognize, oh
my goodness, it's my anniversary. That was an indication because
you see your wife day in and day out. I have never done that
by the way. I'm a perfect husband, but some of you men need to help
on their anniversaries or birthdays. You know that something's off.
The body language seems off. The character seems off. The
words they use seems off. Their disposition seems off.
That's where accountability comes in, is understanding what makes
that person tick. What is their passions? What
is their joys? How are we to be working with each other with
this accountability in mind? And I wish to now transition
this into the accountability for the pastors. Pastors, often
I have heard from some that I have spoken with and some that I have
listened to, claim that they don't have time for accountability.
Nor do they feel that they can rely on anyone in terms of accountability
because they're scared that someone might out them as something or
someone might spread the rumors or someone might say something
negative. And so sadly, there's a bit of distrust that many pastors
have with their congregation. I don't understand that. That
to me should never be the case. If a pastor is fearful to be
himself in every aspect of his life, I beg to ask the question
if that's not borderline hypocritical, that what you see on a Sunday
morning behind the pulpit is different than what you see as
he's walking around the streets. Well, in order to understand
why accountability is important, Paul's giving us this instance,
but at the same time, A lot of pastors can feel isolated because
they don't feel that there are people that they can rely on
for accountability. And the way in which God has
so ordained the church to be structured is to prevent that
form of isolation goes back into verse 17 with the understanding
that the church leadership needs to have a plurality of elders.
When you have a plurality of elders, the pastor should never,
the lead teaching pastor should never have this feeling of isolation
because he has a group of other qualified men serving alongside
with him that is his accountability. And what we have to understand
is that the elders will know that pastor more intimately than
most, because they see what happens in the elders meetings, they
see the discussions, they see the disagreements, and they understand
what makes that individual tick. So when something is off, they
can approach that elder, they can approach that pastor and
confront him. But a lot of times what happens
is in this celebrity pastor culture, which is antithetical to the
position of being a pastor, the pastor is a servant, is that
the pastor has so propped himself up, he's untouchable. You can't
talk to him. You can't schedule a meeting
with him. No one can get to know him because he's got more important
things to do. He's got to carve out time for
his family and everything else, which is 100% accurate in one
way. But if a pastor is not making himself available for the people,
That begs the question of how much can the people actually
get to know the individual who is the pastor? I've attended
many churches and trying to get a meeting with a pastor would
have taken almost my congressional person to come up with a formal
request for me to just be able to have five or 10 minutes to
sit down with a pastor. And oftentimes, they would delegate
it out to somebody else. I'm like, no, this is a question
I have for you. I want to press in on something that you said,
or I have a question that I would like to have you clarify for
me, but they're untouchable. Oh, he's too busy traveling around.
Oh, he's too busy with this, or he's too busy with that. And
when that happens, what begins to happen is there begins to
be this chasm that will grow over time, in which people will
then ask, oh, what is your pastor like? I don't know. All I see
is what I see on Sunday. And sadly, a lot of individuals
put on a good show. But what has to happen is that
pastors need to have accountability. A group of men, godly, scripturally
qualified men that can hold him accountable, that can help spot
out the weaknesses and the vulnerabilities where the enemy would look to
attack this individual. And any pastor who thinks that
they don't have time for accountability, who does not think that they
need accountability, they're being extremely naive and egotistical. Because if pastors do not think
that sin is crouching at the door, looking for a stronghold,
looking for a foothold, they are lying to themselves and it
will be a great destruction. And so what Paul's giving us
here in 19 to 20 is he's giving us instructions on how we are
to handle a situation in which a pastor disqualifies himself
from ministry. And so the title for this morning
is gonna be the leadership of the church confronting elders
or what I wanted to name it is how to fire your pastor, how
to get rid of your pastor. So, and we laugh, and as I was
preparing this, it should cause fear in any man who steps into
the role of pastor and takes up the mantle of responsibility
of being a herald for God's word, because as James 3, one says,
is not many of you should become teachers because you will receive
stricter condemnation and judgment. Indicating and meaning. It's
not just necessarily what you say and what you don't say. It's
how you live. And when you are in a role of a public ministry
as a pastor, you're in the hot seat. You are easy to get picked
on. You're easy to be criticized.
You're easy to have accusations levied against you. What you
do as a pastor has ripple effects and it doesn't just affect you.
And that's what we're gonna be looking at this morning. How
to fire your pastor. So take notes. Some of you are
gonna take really good notes today. Just kidding, I hope not. All right, let's look at verse
19. 1 Timothy 5, verse 19. Paul says this to Timothy, do
not receive an accusation against an elder except on the basis
of two or three witnesses. Those who continue in sin reprove
in the presence of all so that the rest also will be fearful.
I solemnly charge you in the presence of God and of Christ
Jesus and of his elect angels to observe these instructions
without bias, doing nothing in partiality. Let's pray. God,
we thank you for your word. Your word is truth. Father, we
ask for your guidance and illumination of this text to apply to us,
to apply in our minds, our hearts, and our consciousness, God, that
we understand this, and that, God, may we read this as a foreboding
and a warning of not just pastors to live a life above reproach
and live a life pursuing of holiness, but that every man and woman
and child will also live in this way. God, may we have a fear
of you May we have a reverence when we hear your word. May we
desire strongly to obey and to pursue godliness. Be with us
this morning. Bring clarity to this text. We
love you, Father. In your name, amen. So the first
item we're going to look at in verse 19 is protecting innocent
elders. As I said, the pastor is in the
hot seat. And what happens when someone
brings an accusation against a pastor? I mean, think about
that in this digital age, with this hashtag MeToo movement.
It would not be all that difficult for anyone. Honestly, it's been
quite surprising that I haven't seen more of this happen, and
maybe it does happen, but hopefully the churches are handling this
properly, is that why aren't people just immediately just
emailing random emails into the church accusing pastors of something?
Now let me just say this as well as a quick caveat. Satan in the
world does not care about weak pastors who do not proclaim God's
word. They could care less because that's keeping people in a form
of mediocrity. What Satan in the world cares
about is those pastors who take a bold stance on God's word and
brings the harsh realities and the truths of scripture to bear
upon the people's souls to the point where it steps on people's
toes. I can't remember who said this,
and I wish I could, but one person said, the problem with pastors
today is that nobody wants to kill them anymore. And I'm not
saying I want people to kill me. But what I am saying though,
is that there needs to be a measure of protection to protect an innocent
elder from a false accusation. Let's look at this 19. Paul says,
do not receive an accusation against an elder. Hit stop right
there. That word receive means do not entertain, do not acknowledge
and do not accept an accusation. That word accusation means a
formal charge made against someone to incriminate someone on a specific
issue. If someone was to go up and say,
I hear that Ethan is out there selling drugs off Thomas Street,
that would be a formal charge and accusation. And what it's
saying here is if one person is bringing an accusation, the
church is to turn a deaf ear to that. What is the best method
of destroying a church? Gossip, slander, false accusations. And imagine if you heard something
about me, or if this isn't your church, or about your pastor,
and one person said something, and instead of you ignoring that,
especially if it does not line up with what you believe to be
true about the individual, and it's coming from one alone source,
if you entertain that, what are you doing? You're now complicit
within this gossip and within this slander, and it is going
to start merging around the church where you're going to be tainting
the individual's reputation, the pastor's reputation, in which
there's no validity to it. There's no truth behind it. But
the church is called to turn a deaf ear to a single soul accusation. Paul is saying, pay no attention
to an individual who is making a formal charge at an elder. And it says even too, to put
more of a fine point on this, don't even investigate it if
one person makes a formal charge. And we're gonna see the why here
in a second. You must protect your pastor, me, the elders,
from false accusations. And this is a biblical theme
throughout the Bible. of not trusting a sole single
witness. In Deuteronomy 19.15 it says,
a single witness shall not rise up against a man on account of
any iniquity or any sin which he has committed. Here's the
qualifier, at the mouth of two or three witnesses a matter shall
be established. Because think about People who
would bring up an accusation. We don't know the intentionality
behind why are they bringing it up. Maybe the pastor said
something that stepped on their toes, that convicted them of
their sin and they unable to deal with their sin of feeling
that condemnation instead of repenting and moving on. They
decide, no, I'm gonna use this as ammunition to fire back shots
at him. Maybe the pastor doesn't look
the way that they wanted him to. Maybe the pastor didn't,
have that meeting with them that they had desired. And now they're
gonna just start to run the name through the mud and levy false
accusations. We have to understand too that
people from outside the church who are not a part of this church,
who do not come into our church body, they may be outside witnessing
what we're doing, watching us online, hearing some of the statements
that we make during the election season. This church was not silent
about the issue of abortion. I'm an abolitionist. There should
be no way possible shape or form that abortion should ever be
allowable. And for any of those individuals
who claim rape or incest in the state of Florida, that's less
than 0.02% of the population. So that is not an arguable excuse.
So someone might right now might be watching this and say, I don't
like that. I don't like him. I don't like
that he said that. I'm going to now do everything
I can to attack that individual to get him removed. Why? Because
the world, the devil, does not like to hear the truth. They
do not want to hear God's word. They would rather hear muddied
down, ambiguous statements about there is no real right and wrong.
Everything is subjective. Choose your own truth. It's your
truth. Follow the Jesus of your own
making. It's your Jesus. It's my Jesus. It's their Jesus.
But when you lay out Scripture black and white, the way in which
God intended this to be written and how it was written through
the inspiration of the Holy Spirit is that there is black and that
there is right. There is right and then there
is wrong. And pastors need not have a weak spine and not hit
the hard sections of Scripture and then only hit the easy sections
of Scripture. Not everybody in your life is
a Goliath and your stones are the sin that you're gonna throw
at it and take down the Goliaths. What are the Goliaths in your
life? No one cares, Satan doesn't care about that. What Satan cares
about though is the men who take a godly stance on his word and
will accurately proclaim this regardless of the effects that
may happen. But one of those effects that may and does and
will continue to happen is false accusations. One of Satan's many
attacks that he does in these false accusations, and I'm belaboring
this point because I want you to understand that we as a church
body, you must turn deaf ears to false accusations. We must
turn deaf ears because one of Satan's many attacks against
the church is to isolate the people of the church from their
pastor. is the more that they can isolate
the people from the pastor, it will gradually bring up a form
of contempt against that pastor in which there should be nothing
there. There was nothing of substance there to begin with, but because
you entertain these false accusations, you don't understand the bitterness
that is swelling up in your own heart, which eventually you will
have contempt against the pastor and then eventually You will
remove a godly man who needs to be in this position, but because
you have fallen prey to the false accusations, you are now implicit
and complicit within that removal of being, if you will, a false
witness. We see this happen in Acts 6,
if you're curious about what this would look like. In Acts
6, We see Stephen comes and he delivers a message to these individuals. And then what we see here is
in verse 11, it says, then they secretly induced men to say,
we have heard him speak blasphemous words against Moses and God.
And they stirred up the people, the elders and the scribes, and
they came to him, dragged him away and brought him to the Sanhedrin.
And they put forward false witnesses who said, this man never ceases
speaking words against this holy place and the law. They brought
up false witnesses. They contracted their own false
witnesses. Think about the life of Christ. How many times were
false witnesses and false accusations levied against Christ? All the
time. They would accuse Jesus of being
a blasphemer. They would accuse him of destroying
the temple and all these other things that they were not understanding
what Jesus was saying. And ultimately, that's what led
to him dying on the cross. What we have to understand is
that there is a method There is a method of when we as a church
should accept an accusation against the elder. Lest we take this
passage and a pastor props himself up saying, see, you are never
allowed to accuse me of anything. And I hear this, touch not God's
anointed. Now you don't touch God's anointed
when he's doing the right things, but when he's not, you are to
lamb blast this elder and Punish him however you possibly can
according to the biblical standard. So I wish to say this, that if
in case anyone's thinking, oh, see, there's another church acting
as propping the pastor up as he's untouchable. Absolutely
not. The pastor is not untouchable. But let me say this, if I had
someone come to me and say something about one of you, my first reaction
is on a singular instance from one person who says, hey, did
you hear so-and-so is doing this, is to reject that. If that's
just coming from one individual, I may think that you have a vendetta
against this other individual. And imagine if I got recruited
to their side, and then I sit down with you, and I just start
prodding and prying and attacking you in a direct confrontational
way, and you're like, whoa, whoa, whoa. Proverbs 18 says, whoever states
this case first seems right until the individual is cross-examined.
There must be a due process. So what Paul is saying here,
verse 19, do not receive an accusation against an elder. Church, protect
your elder. If you hear people speaking ill
of him, and you know that it is not true, and it is coming
from a singular witness, you are to ignore it. You are not
to investigate it. You're not even to pry open that
rock. Ignore it. But we see sometimes that accusations
can come, and they come from a variety of means and a variety
of ways, but the understanding is when these accusations come,
the reason why you two are rejectus, the reason why you are to turn
a deaf ear, is because you are to protect the reputation of
the pastor, and you protect the reputation of the pastor by not
listening to this lone wolf's accusations. And sadly, what
I have seen happen personally, I've witnessed this firsthand,
is that as soon as an accusation is brought against a pastor by
a singular witness, it's already believed prior to it being proven.
They've immediately discounted in their mind that this is in
fact true and how quickly these mutinies happen. But we have
to understand that bearing false witness and partaking in a false
witness of someone bringing a false accusation, the Bible is not
silent on this. Proverbs 19.9 says, a false witness
will not go unpunished and he who breathes out lies shall perish. So extreme caution must be taken
to not give ear to false accusation. And in so doing, by giving ear
to a false accusation, you might be implicit and guilty of the
sin of false witness. But again, before I transition,
this is not saying that the pastor cannot be accused of anything,
nor is this saying that the pastor is immune to accusations. Rather,
this is going to give us the how on when and the due process
to bring an accusation against an elder. So let's look at point
number two, fire sinning elders. Look at the last section in verse
19. Do not receive an accusation
against an elder, except, if we just stopped there, then yeah,
it would be like, yeah, the pastor's untouchable, and that would be
horrendous. Except on the basis of two or three witnesses. If there are two or more reliable,
credible witnesses levying the charge, then the investigation
must occur. And what happens is when you
have these two or three credible witnesses, it prevents an act
six issue when Stephen was killed of power players recruiting other
people to the cause. Because would it not be easy
to find two or three people that would say, yeah, I don't like
him either. Let's all get together and mutiny against this guy.
Because if we're all saying we're in line with the biblical structure,
two or three witnesses, But if it's a false accusation, you
need to be very careful about levying a false accusation. And
let me hit pause real quick. I'm not saying this because this
is happening right now within this church. Let me be very clear
here. That has not happened here in this church with me. I'm not
saying this to also prop myself up to make you guys scared to
ever bring something against myself or any of the other elders.
I wish to show you the biblical way to do this so that it prevents
you from going into sin. So I'm literally, my heart cares
for you to know this so that if I sin, any of the elders sin,
or if you're at this church or another church, that you do so
in a biblical, God-honoring manner so that you, in so doing it,
are not falling into sin yourself. So even if with me telling you
how to fire me or how to fire another pastor, I'm doing so
with care and caution for your souls to not allow you to step
into sin unknowingly. I hope you understand this here.
Because when we fire these sinning elders with false witnesses,
we have to be careful, which is why Paul gives us this on
the basis of two or three witnesses. You might say, well, Ethan, where
does it say they must be credible witnesses here? Well, we must
understand here that this phrase, two or three witnesses, in this
era where Paul is writing, there's a type of protocol that was understood
legislatively that was implicit within this time period and within
the context of what Paul is writing. But what's also happening here
is you should be thinking now also about Matthew chapter 18
when it comes to church discipline. So if you have your Bibles, turn
to Matthew 18 very briefly. I wish to show you something.
Because Matthew 18 shows us the church discipline process. for
every Christian. But then the 1 Timothy 5, 19
through 21 issue is in addition to, if you will, an addendum
or an appendix to the Matthew 18 process, specifically for
elders and those in leadership. Look at Matthew chapter 18, verse
15 to 17. This is the process of how church
discipline should be done. And if a church does not practice
church discipline, it's not a true church. Verse 15 says, now, if
your brother sins, go and show him his fault between you and
him alone. If he listens to you, you have won your brother. What
verse 15 is saying, if you know of your brother or sister who
is living in sin, and you know that it's in sin, and you go
to your brother and sister and you confront them on that sin,
and you say, you're in sin, you need to repent, and they say,
you are absolutely right, please, I need to go to God, I'm asking
for forgiveness, it need not go any further. The church discipline
issue stops right there. But now look at verse 16, but
if he does not listen to you, take one or two more with you.
There you have it again, two or more witnesses. Why? So that
these other witnesses can observe that you're doing due process
according to the biblical standard as it comes to church discipline.
Take two or more with you so that by the mouth of two or three
witnesses, every fact may be confirmed. See, everything that
is brought up as an accusation, it must have validity and it
must be investigated and it must be validated. Then look at 17. If he refuses to listen to them,
tell it to the church. So the Matthew 18 process says,
one-on-one confront. If he confesses, fantastic, it
ends. If he does not confess, take two or more, confront. If
he does not confess, you move to stage three, and that's what
stage three is here at verse 17. If he refuses to listen to
the two or three, then you are to publicly declare it to the
church. If he refuses even to listen to the church's declaration
of excommunication, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax
collector. See, the purpose of church discipline
that I wish for you to understand, as you turn back to 1 Timothy
5, the purpose of church discipline is to be understood, specifically
Matthew 18, in reference to the parable of the lost sheep, for
the purpose, Matthew 18 is for the purpose of restoration. Not
excommunication, but restoration. However, in dealing with elders,
it's different. Restoration is the focus and
both issues spiritually. Restoration should be happening
that an individual will confess their sin, come back to Christ
and stop living in this habitual sin lifestyle and live according
to godly standards. For a church member, if it ever
gets to point three and they come back to church, they are
immediately restored back into the fellowship. We will never
hold that sin against them ever again. But if an individual does
not, the individual could leave whatever else, Sadly, that's
where it ends, and most churches don't practice church discipline.
But with the 1 Timothy 5 discipline issue, the focus is still on
spiritual restoration. It's on restoration spiritually,
but it's not focused on... I've got to turn a phrase here,
but it's not on restoration positionally. The restoration is spiritual
focus, but not positionally focused. Because Matthew 18 is the parallel
that we can understand, but Paul gives us additional insights
in this section here. Well, why do you say that? Look
what it says here. You bring two or three witnesses,
they levy a formal accusation. Look at verse 20, those who continue
in sin. Now, I wish to understand this
a little bit for you. When you look at the Greek, this
is a present ongoing verb. So it almost could make someone
ask the question, oh, so that means if they're continuing the
sin, but if they were caught earlier, but they repented, the
elders or whatever, it doesn't need to be presented to the church.
That's not what this is saying. Those who continue in sin, meaning
those who have lived this as a lifestyle, those who have done
this sin, reprove in the presence of all. When you see that phrase,
those who continue in sin, this is referencing the elders who
have a continual and habitual lifestyle of sinning. And if
two or three witnesses bring forth an accusation of an elder
who is continuing in sin, you are to reprove that individual
in the presence of all. But you might ask, well, now
what sins? Well, there's obviously a plethora of sins, but what
I would like to say is, if you go back to 1 Timothy 3, 1-7,
you look at the qualifications that a man must meet to even
be in the position of an elder in the first place, you just
take the negative of that. So, what sin would disqualify
a man from the pastorate? Well, obviously, any form of
sexual immorality, period, dot. But then also, if you go through
that list of 1-7, this would be a man who's not living a life
that is above reproach. This is a man who's not a one-woman
man. This is a man that's not emotionally
stable. This is an irrational man, an inhospitable man, a drunken
man, an argumentative man, an inconsiderate man, an abrasive
man, and a man who loves money. If you look at 1 Timothy 3, 1
through 7, the positive character qualifications, just take the
reciprocal of that, and that is what Paul has in mind here. Now there is more to that, but
this is abundantly clear that if a man violates any one of
those sins, any one of those qualifications, he is not above
reproach and he is to be removed. How are you to remove a pastor
then? Look at what this says. Reprove in the presence of all. The all here is not referencing
all of the elders. The all here is reproving in
front of the entirety of the church. You are to make that
pastor's sin known to the entirety of the church and to show that
this individual is being removed from this position because here's
why. We must do this, but so often what is happening today
that I have seen is a pastor will be violating his oath of
office, if you will, according to the qualifications of 1 Timothy
3, one through seven, and it's swept under the rug, and then
magically he comes back onto the scene, pastoring another
church, leading other conferences, as if nothing ever happened.
I will be very clear here, if a pastor violates the qualifications
of an elder, he is permanently disbarred from ever stepping
back into the pulpit ever again. He has no right. He has no claim. He has completely violated God's
word and should never step back into a pulpit. And any man who
does is an arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical man continuing to
live in sin by violating God's law. And you may say, well, that's
kind of harsh. No, this is the bride of Christ. The church belongs to Christ. And how could you ever, Listen
to a pastor who's like, well, you know, two years ago I had
an adulterous affair with a woman, but I've been restored and now
I'm back here. So turn in your Bibles to 1 Timothy and we're
gonna talk about adultery and why you don't need to do it. No. I mean, you see the silliness. But what happens though is too
many churches are concerned, the public, vocational ministry
of this guy, what are the ripple effects going to be? Man, if
we out this guy, man, this is gonna be bad for the church.
Man, this is gonna do more harm than good if we do this. So let's
just, you know what, hey, we'll ask you to leave quietly, here's
some severance pay, just go. And we're not gonna talk about
it, we're gonna protect your reputation, go find another church
somewhere else and continue on in ministry. What would that
happen to you if all of a sudden, magically, I was not here anymore?
You'd be like, what happened? Where did he go? He's moved on. Where did that come from? Why
did he move on? I would have a slew of questions. Why did he leave? What did you
guys do, Elder Board? Why did you remove him? When
you might have had a valid reason for removing that individual,
but because you're trying to protect the reputation of either
the church or that man, you're not publicly declaring it to
the church. It raises more questions and it's not helpful at all.
It causes more damage and it raises more questions, but what's
happening now too? Did you know, I had to look this
up, there's pastor's insurance that a pastor can take out insurance
if he ever gets removed from the pulpit. Now granted, I will
say, if he's removed wrongly, I get that, but there's insurance
for pastors who are removed for something like this, and there's
also a counseling center that will come into a church to help
reconcile that pastor back with that congregation to restore
him to the pulpit. What is that? That's monopolizing
and making money off of the bride of Christ. If a pastor is known
to have violated his position, he cannot, nor should not, ever
step back into the pulpit. And I think what's happening
today is too many men are entering into the ministry thinking, well,
if that happens, I've seen what happened to this guy, this guy,
this guy, this guy, they're back in it again. So it's not that
big of a deal. So it makes the temptation, well, it's not that
bad. I mean, I can do that. Look, I'll be restored or you
know what? I'll just fade away and I'll go pastor another church
somewhere else and I'll still continue writing books and I'll
still continue to have a ministry and everything else. That's okay.
There should be a fear of the man who steps behind this pulpit
to know that the life will be scrutinized through every angle,
that if they violate this, they need to step out and they need
not ever seek to desire to go back in because they are disqualified. And you might ask, how are they
disqualified? Look at one of the first qualifications of 1
Timothy 3.1, above reproach. If an individual in another church,
if I was to have done something, and I go to another church, and
it was swept under the rug, or someone got out leaking somewhere,
that Ethan had a meth problem, and he was selling all this other
stuff, and then I went to this other church, it's like, whoa, whoa,
wait, wait, wait, isn't this the same guy that was pastoring
a church in Texas that is now here? Doesn't he have an addiction
problem? You're not above reproach. You
understand the logic here, right? The Bible's airtight on this.
There's no room for wiggling here. But what happens though
is people sweep it under the rug. Churches sweep it under
the rug. But what happens is when you restore a man back into
his position, how could anyone truly ever listen to this guy?
I mean, truly. You violated God's word. You were teaching God's word.
You knew God's Word. You interacted with God's Word.
You declared God's Word with authority, and you fell for what
you were preaching against. Now, am I saying that pastors
cannot fall? No, I'm not saying that at all.
Pastors can and do fall. But what needs to happen, though,
is when they do fall, the church needs to know about it. They
must know about it. Why? Look at what it says here.
So that the rest also will be fearful. The rest here is referring
to the elders, but also as the elders have that fear, it will
trickle down to the congregation. Wow, look at what happened and
how the church handled that. I don't wanna be in that position
ever. There was a prominent man who fell recently. And this man
who fell was declared publicly, and I remember that sent rippling
shotgun blast waves across the pastoral world. And it made all
of the pastors fearful to keep an even higher barrier on their
lives, to not ever become complacent in fighting sin actively. I was
on a Zoom call this week, and I love to be a part of these
with John MacArthur and some other pastors, and the issue
was specifically this issue in Matthew, excuse me, in 1 Timothy.
And I asked him the question, with what we saw happen, do you
believe that this was handled biblically according to 1 Timothy
5? And he says, absolutely it was. It absolutely was handled
exactly how it should. There wasn't but one, there was
multiple witnesses. The church presented it to the
entirety of the church. He was immediately removed, and
now he's completely disbarred from ever coming back into any
form of ministry, period, dot. And this should send fear, because
if men who desired to go into the office of elder overseer,
as 1 Timothy 3 says, they desire a noble thing. But what you need
to understand is being in the office of pastor, it's a dual-edged
sword. In one instance, the honor that
you receive in being able to publicly declare God's word and
the love that you feel from the congregation is so incredible.
But at the other side of the sword, the fall can be so detrimental. Think about what it would take
for a man of God who is in a pastoral role, for instance, to commit
adultery. You have to blow by your wife,
you have to blow by your kids, you have to blow by every single
person in the church, the elders, your reputation, your future,
your finances, your job, for what? A fling? For what? A slight fall into temptation? Yeah, that's exactly what you
have to do. You have to be so calloused and
hardened to do that, it begs the question if the individual
was ever a Christian to begin with. Because how can you be
declaring God's word and then living a closet lifestyle somewhere
else? So this is why it must be presented
to the entirety of the church. The church is not to sweep this
under the rug because it will make the rest of the elders and
the rest of the congregation to be fearful. We must understand
that this is not to just destroy the guy. Whatever happens in
that reputation of him on this earth is nothing in comparison
to eternity. What happens if that man who
was a pastor actually wasn't a believer, but it took the church
discipline of removing him from that position for him to see
that he is a sinner in need of grace that only Christ can provide?
That is more important than a tarnished reputation or not being able
to preach and sell books anymore. That's a far more significance.
And when the church is acting the way that the church should,
and the church is honoring God's word the way in which God wants
the church to be honoring God's word, it will protect the church. I think if that was to be the
case, if we saw more churches doing this, and less of them
sweeping it under the rug, and they pop up all over the place,
there's pastors, their podcasts have been made about them, and
they're back in the ministry. What are you doing, guy? No one
cares anymore. You violated your office. Imagine
if you had a president of the United States that was known
to be a traitor to the US and sold government secrets and everything
else, and he re-ran again for an election. He said, hey, I
confess, I'm sorry, but hey, this time it's gonna be different.
We wouldn't trust him. And that's in the physicality
of this world. Think about your spiritual souls.
How could you ever listen to what a guy has to say if you
know, as you're reading this, he's literally hypocritically,
you're reading him to be a hypocrite as you're reading him, or as
you're listening to him, or as you're interacting with him.
The church is the bride of Christ, and it must be treated as a holy,
sacred place where the saints gather to worship him. But when
you prioritize a man's reputation or good standing or public aspect
of the ministry over and against the bride and the holiness of
Christ in his church, that entire elder board needs to be fired
then, if that ever happens. They cannot, should never find
an open door of opportunity to ever step back into the ministry
at any church ever. If the elders do their due diligence
and inquire, why did you leave that church? Oh, well, I had
an affair. Or, oh, I was addicted to drugs. Or, I was addicted
to alcohol. Or, oh, oh, oh. No. If the church actually cared
about the holiness of the church, they would never allow an individual
to speak in that church, to lead in that church. or to be a pastor
in that church. Now let me say this too. Does
that mean then if a pastor is removed that he can't still use
his giftings? No, he can. He can do another
aspect of ministry, but never to be in a leadership pastoral
role. And I pray that God will use men in that role, but you
need to figure it out. What is that role for me now that I have
been disqualified for ministry? Immediately take that desire
to go back into the pastorate completely off the table. That's
not there. God can still use you and will still use you. But
some people may say, well, Ethan, wouldn't it be good if the pastor,
he can speak to those sins now. Look, I don't have to go to the
bottom of the Mariana Trench to know that it's steep. I don't
need to know that adultery is bad to hear from somebody saying
that I lived through an adulterous affair and say, oh, this is really
hitting me harder now. The sin is the sin is the sin.
And I should never try and justify like, oh, he can speak to us
better on this. Really? I don't think that's
the case. It's a permanent removal. Now,
let me say this too. The elder should be restored
and remain in that church. Could you imagine the testimony
of that church if the elder was publicly reproved in front of
the entirety of the church? Just think about the embarrassment
of that individual, the tarnishment of that individual's reputation.
How would the church respond in that regard? If that pastor
truly was repentant and desired to stay here, would we alienate
the individual? Would he become the black sheep?
We've got a special seating section for you, buddy. It's in the back
field on the sand spurs. No, there should always be the
desire and the prayer if anyone falls into sin and has to go
through this discipline process for restoration back into the
body, not isolation, but not restoration back into the position,
but restoration back into the family and the household of God.
I don't know if I've ever seen one church do that. My father
at his church, when he went to go pastor the church in Philadelphia,
the previous pastor was caught looking at very inappropriate
things on his computer screen. They did the 1 Timothy 5 process,
he was removed. But the church ostracized him,
he was very repentant, he went through a whole reconciliation
process. They basically cut him out. And so he had to leave the
church. The church handled it poorly.
This man repented. This man was very repentant.
He was trying to maintain this, but he literally was cast out.
And I asked my dad, how did you navigate that? He said, well,
we had to disciple the church through that instance. It was
very poorly handled, and another church basically took him under
and helped continue to restore him. But again, he's never serving
in a pastoral position. Now that man is helping out people
in prison ministries and stuff like that, which is absolutely
something that he can do. He's not to be considered a pastor
nor to ever step back in the pulpit, but can he still teach
in small settings and everything else? Sure. But never to be gummed
back into the role of the pastor. We need models of example. We
need models and examples of holiness. The pastor should be the model
and example of holiness. Think about Paul, who says, imitate
me as I imitate Christ. That should be what we're imitating.
Well, Ethan, that seems harsh. It does, doesn't it? But let
me remind you of Moses in Numbers chapter 20. What happened to
him? He disobeyed God, violated God's
rule for what he was to do, and was permanently disbarred from
entering into the promised land. One action on Moses completely
negated him from, can you imagine being Moses? You just did all
of this, and then because you struck a rock, and I was like,
nope, not going. Why? Because God cares about holiness. God cares about the holiness
of your heart, of your actions, of your intentions, and of your
behavior. He will not permit sin. He will not permit sin in
the church. He will most especially not permit
sin in the pulpit. So you need to take caution.
Now let's look at the next verse here, verse 21. I solemnly charge
you. There is a significant weight
in which Paul's writing this. I solemnly charge you in the
presence of God. and of Christ Jesus and of his
elect angels to observe these instructions without bias, doing
nothing impartiality. Now, let me explain this right
here. Obviously, we understand where
one person of the Trinity is, all three are present. He is
charging us by the authority of God's wording of Christ Jesus,
but then also this section here of his elect angels. What this
is saying is those non-fallen angels are observing the church,
are observing us, and they do care about the church's purity.
If you read in 1 Peter, even 1 Peter says that even the angels
are waiting for the unfolding redemption of God's plan to be
outlined. Angels are not omniscient. Angels
are not omnipresent. But the angels in the heavenly
realm are watching and observing us and how we are to do this.
So this isn't just a testimony of the church here in the physical
sense, this is a testimony of the church in the spiritual sense.
So this is not something that we should take lightly. And he
says now at the end of this, observe these instructions without
bias, doing nothing in partiality, meaning don't go after a person
just because you don't like him, nor don't withhold the reproving
because you do like him. Regardless of how this person
stands within the church, within the elder board, show no partiality,
show no bias. It's very hard for that to happen,
but this charge carries a significant amount of weight in the presence
of God, Christ, and his angels. The church should follow and
obey these laws because all of heaven is concerned with the
bride of Christ. No one has earned Nor should
anyone be allotted preferential treatment. That's what he's saying
here at the end of verse 21. No elder should be untouchable. Nor should any elder have an
accusation thrown against him just because someone doesn't
like them. Regardless of how popular or gifted or loved a
man is, there should never be any form of preferential or biased
treatment. And this, ladies and gentlemen,
this is not a fun item to discuss. I looked this up just on Sermon
Audio to see how many messages have been preached in this section.
I only saw 10. Why would pastors not want to
preach this? Think about it. I'm telling you how to fire me.
I mean, really, that's exactly what's happening. And if I violate
this, I deserve to be fired. And I deserve, I was telling
my wife as she was asking me, like, what's the thematic element you
think of this? I'm like, it's almost like a spiritual public execution.
Like, you stand this guy up, almost put him in stocks, like,
look at this guy. Hopefully he's confessing and repentant of his
sin, but then also should cause fear in everybody else. Like,
if they're doing that to the elder pastor, I need to be very quick to repent
of my sin and be grateful too that I won't ever, nor do I want
to enter into the third phase of that Matthew 18 church discipline
process to be in that position. Why though do we need to discuss
this? Why? Because Christ cares about his bride, which is the
church. Paul says in Ephesians 5, 25
to 27, husbands, love your wives just as Christ also loved the
church and gave himself up for her, so that he might sanctify
her, having cleansed her by the washing of the water with the
word, so that he might present to himself the church in all
her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but
that she would be holy and blameless. This stuff is to be done. We
honor the word of God so that we will present this church.
We the elders desire to present each one of you with no spot
or wrinkle or any such thing that this church will be holy
and blameless. That is our desire is for us
to be biblically driven, biblically centric, biblically submitted
to God's word. And that should be your desire
as well. And this is done so that we do not have to deal with
the hypocritical condemnation that is all too frequent in this
era. Church is a bunch of hypocrites. Church is a bunch of, anytime
a pastor or someone else falls that's a promise in Christianity,
it's like, another one. It's a shame. It's sad. It breaks my heart. It gives
me no joy. But at the same time, it should make all of us fearful
that we live our lives with such high barriers that we do not
ever become ignorant, nor do we ever become complacent, nor
do we ever think that sin could never get to me, that could never
happen to me. Yes, it could. And yes, it can. And it happens when you don't
think it will happen to you. It happens if you do not take
up the proper accountability, the proper desires, the proper
motivations, and then also if you do not fear God. Fear God. I hope that this helps
give you an understanding of what's being said here. Because
as we're gonna look at next week, we're gonna look at appointing
elders. How do you appoint elders? Imagine
if this was the recruitment poster to become an elder at the church.
Hey, become an elder, but, you're gonna get fried if you mess up.
That's what it should say. I have an advertised recruitment
poster. Applications accepted, not all
need to apply. Yeah, sign me up, baby. But that
should be the standard we have. You mess up, you're done. And
you're permanently done. And then you're gonna be flipping
burgers. You're gonna be selling MLM stuff online. I don't know.
But I hope this is, in one way, a reality for you. Secondly, I hope that if you
do still follow a fallen pastor, to think carefully about why.
Think carefully, too, about what you're allowing into your life,
what sins are in your life. The great thing about Christ
is that if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive
us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. That's
why I love when Chad leads us through the time of confession.
I cannot stress enough, you need to be a confessing person. And you need to be a person that
has a hardened target against sin. And in my life, the best
way that I combat sin, and I believe the best way that all of us can
combat sin is through prayer. When you pray, you are humbling
yourself before God. You are showing and demonstrating
before God and before yourself that in and of myself, I do not
have the power to overcome this sin. So if you're wrestling with
a sin and you have not seen victory over this, no book is gonna help
you. No small accountability group
is gonna help you. There are some helpful things
in certain instances and everything else. You need to pray. I cannot
stress that enough. You need to pray. You pray when that temptation
is coming on, you pray. When you have the desire to take
a sip or to go there, you pray. God, help me fight this. Help
me fight this. That is why we are to pray without
what? Ceasing. That's what that means. I pray without ceasing. I'm submitting
myself in my prayer life, in my physical life. I wanna respond
in anger. God, help me out here. And sometimes
it's gotta be a very quick prayer for some of us. You pray, you
pray some more and then you continue to pray. That is how you can
fight sin. That is how you can prevent these
vulnerable areas from coming into your life. You pray and
you pray some more. And if you need other people
to pray with you, you gather other individuals and you pray
with them and have them pray for you. There's nothing that
I love more than hearing from people in this church saying,
pastor, I pray for you. Thank you. I need and want and desire
and covet all of your prayers all of the time. You need to
be praying for your pastors. You need to be praying for each
other. But you need to be praying for your own soul, confessing
your sins, and living a life that is above reproach. Because
if any of you are thinking, glad I'm not in that position, because
that would happen to me. You still need to be following these
standards. You still need to be living this type of a life.
Let's pray. Father, help us in our life,
in our daily walk, Father, may we be a praying people. God,
I also pray for our church. God, as you have been protecting
our church, we ask for your continual protection around me, around
any temptations that may come my way, Father, that you may
help me fight those. Stand resolute for all of the
other men, women, and children in here that you will help them
fight those temptations as well. God, may we be a church that
when you return, we will be presented without wrinkle or spot, that
we will be known as a church that is a holy church, a God-fearing
church, and a church that submits to your word. Father, these are
tough sections, but also these are written for our benefit.
Father, we thank you for this time. I thank you for everyone
in this room. We love you, Father, and ask
all these things in your name, amen.
The Leaders of the Church: Confronting Elders
Series 1 Timothy: Deepening our Roots
(Subtitle: How to Fire Your Pastor).
Pastors and elders should be protected by the congregation. As gossip runs rampant, congregants should be expected to protect the overseers of their church. Yet, what happens when a pastor falls into sin?
In today's message, Dr. Ethan Jago unpacks how to protect a healthy pastor and how the church should walk through the process of discipling a leaders or pastors in the church who have disqualified themselves.
| Sermon ID | 1117242127317150 |
| Duration | 58:34 |
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| Category | Sunday Service |
| Language | English |
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