This is Jesus teaching in the
Sermon on the Mount. He says this, and he's still
saying this, by the way. It stands written, hallelujah. It wasn't just something he said
in time and yeah, yeah, whatever. No, no, no, he's saying it right
now at this hour. Judge not that you be not judged. But with the judgment you pronounce,
you will be judged. And with the measure you use,
it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that
is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is
in your own eye? Well, how can you say to your
brother, let me take the speck out of your eye, when there is
the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the
log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to
take the speck out of your brother's eye. Do not give dogs what is
holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample
them underfoot and turn to attack you. The Word of God. It comes as no surprise that
Christians have a favorite verse in the Bible. I think most would
say, John 3.16 is my favorite verse of the Bible, you know,
and God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son
that whoever should believe in him will have eternal life. And if you're a little more erudite,
maybe Romans 8.1, for there is now no condemnation in Christ
Jesus, period. Or maybe Jeremiah 29 11, for
I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. Plans to prosper
you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope in the
future. But guess what, folks? Not only
do believers have their favorite verses, but unbelievers do too. People who have never read the
Bible, and it's no shock to anyone in this room, I'm sure, that
the favorite verse of unbelievers is, Judge not, lest ye be judged. Ironically, this verse, which
they love most, is the least understood. Never has a passage
of scripture been so utterly abused and misunderstood and
misapplied as this one about non-Christians and maybe even
a few believers as well. You see, because we can't speak
about the sins of our age, we're judging We can't call that wrong
and that right because we're judging. You can't say that what
I'm doing isn't right in the eyes of God because you're judging
me. And no one judges me, right?
Remember the t-shirts for sale? No one judges me but God. Or
something like, God will only judge me. I'm like, yeah, he
will. You can guarantee it. But you know, some people think
that whatever they do, they're immune from judgment. and it
really has its basis from their thinking in this verse. But we
have a problem immediately from the context. Jesus says this at the end of the passage, don't
give what is holy to dogs, and don't throw your pearls before
pigs. So if you have to determine who's
a dog and who's a pig, don't you have to use some method of
critical evaluation? So the word judge cannot mean
critical evaluation. Otherwise, the Bible has a contradiction
in the force of six verses, all out of the mouth of Jesus. So
what is the answer? The answer is this, that words
have a semantic, um, If you take any word and look
it up in the Bible, you will see that it means various things
within a area. So judge means evaluate. Your wife or your husband comes
home and said, I just blew out two tires on the car because
I didn't judge the curb correctly. You wouldn't think that she was
out or he was out judging the curb, you're a bad curb, right? It was evaluation, right? He
didn't evaluate correctly where the curb was. But it also means,
and we know this right, that the Lord is coming back to judge
the living and the dead. And he is going to condemn the
unbeliever. Judge them, punish them. So on
one side of the semantic scale, judge means condemn, and the
other side, it means evaluate. See what I'm saying? Because,
and it has to, because of the rest of the New Testament, indeed. In Romans, I'm sorry, in John
7, 24, Jesus says this, do not judge according to appearance,
but judge with righteous judgment. So there he's telling us to judge. Does he mean that we condemn
people? No, he doesn't. He means that
we evaluate and we do so based upon the standard, which is the
word of God. We evaluate our own conduct,
and indeed, we evaluate the conduct of others on the Word of God. But here's the kicker. We don't
condemn. Why? Would you like to be condemned? It says, look, by the measure
you use, it'll be used unto you. You want to condemn people? You're
going to be condemned. Nobody is beyond redemption. Right? Until that final day. Or their final day. But until
that final day happens, either personally or globally, no soul
is beyond redemption. And how do we condemn people
today? It's easy. We do it a lot. We
put a label on people. We stick it right on them. We
tattoo them with a label. Here's a few. I can't say all
of them because the words aren't so kosher. He's a narcissist. I just condemned him as a narcissist,
right? I have people come into my office
and say, yeah, I'm getting divorced, and he or she is a narcissist. They're in love with themselves.
And everything they do is about them and their love for themselves.
Now, everybody's got a touch of narcissist in them. Right? But it doesn't mean they're not
redeemable. How can we condemn them? You
know, you're dead to me because you're a narcissist. You're invisible.
I can't see you. Right? You've heard people say
that. You're dead to me. You know, and so that's one of
the labels that people use. Or here's another one. She's toxic. What does that mean,
toxic? I don't know what it means. But,
you know, people will call others toxic. He's toxic, she's toxic. And that's the label that means
no way. Don't go near that person. Have
nothing to do with that person because they're toxic. You know,
now they may have, areas in which they would fit a description
of that, whatever that description is. But it doesn't mean we can
condemn people by applying a label to them. And we shouldn't. We need to love people to life. Amen? And there are people in
your lives right now that have hurt you. And it hurts. And it hurts right in your heart.
And they've done things like narcissism or toxicity or other
things, you know, whatever the label may be. And you just want
them to be invisible. You want them to be dead to you.
You want them to go away. But we cannot condemn them. And
that's what Jesus is saying. Do not condemn them. Right? You see, because we're in the
same business as Jesus. We're in the same business as
Jesus. A church is in business. We're in business together. You
came here today, you're in business. And your business starts when
you walked in, but it carries on the entire week. You see,
it's not me that's doing everything in the church. You didn't come
just to hear me speak and say, all right, that was great, see
you next week. No, you got work to do Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,
Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. And what is that? To bring the
gospel of God to people in your world. To shine, to be salt,
to be light wherever you go. Right? Whether it's in a restaurant,
whether it's at a factory, whether it's in the school room, whether
it's in your home with your husband who's not yet saved or your wife
who's not yet saved. You see, you emanate the gospel
of God wherever you go. Amen? And you know, you're going
to meet people that are really different than you. And they're
gonna know there's something different about you if you shine
the love of Jesus Christ. Sometimes you don't even need
to say a thing. Just the way you treat them. I went to a restaurant a few
weeks ago and, um, I asked the lady, the waitress, I love torturing
waitresses, and I asked the waitress, I said, what do you think I do?
And she named some stuff. I said, well, I'm a lawyer and
a pastor. She said, I can see the pastor part, because you're
really kind. And it's like, thank you for
saying that, that some kindness shines through. That's no glory
to me, but glory to God. Amen? So we are to be discerning,
but we are not to be condemning. Your heart must be one of hope. Hope for those folks that they
be not condemned. Because no one is beyond redemption. And God's going to use you to
speak into their lives, perhaps. But you must, must, must have
a heart full of humility that is not a heart full of hype. We live in the day of hype, right?
We go on Facebook. We put up posts. I don't know
if you do this, Instagram, whatever, and for people to think we're
wonderful. You know, and it's hype. It's
all hype, right? You know, and the deal is, the deeper you get into Christianity,
the greater your sins will appear to you. you will realize that
you are a worse sinner than you thought. Amen to that? You'll know that just about every
action in your life, even if it was a good thing, was motivated
in part by self-glory or something of that nature, but it was motivated
by sin. And it's pervasive. You hate your sin, but it's always
there and you'll have to work on it for the rest of your life,
right? You have to fight it. You fight
the good fight of faith. You're fighting your own sin.
If you think you don't have any sin, you're not there. You're not there. God's gotta
do some work on you on the inside, amen? So what Jesus is saying
in a very kind of ironic and comedic fashion is that you're
looking at somebody's sins and you say, yeah, you know, he's
got this. And it's like a speck in their eye. And you have a
beam, not even a two by four. The word is more like a beam
in your eye. And you want to do eye surgery.
You want to help people. That's good, right? Because you're
not going to be a condemner. You want to do eye surgery. But
you can't do eye surgery when you can't see, because you have
a beam in your eye. Can you imagine? Did you ever
have eye surgery? Anybody? Yeah, it's fun, isn't
it? I had it done. I had to have
a vitrectomy. Sounds bad. I can still have
babies. No, that's... I've attracted
me as they suck stuff out of your eye. They suck the goop
out of your eye. And they have to put these two
like knitting needles in your eye and you're awake and you
can see. And I'm like, holy Lord. And
they give you this drug, which I don't know what it is, but
it's the best drug in the world because they could be cutting
off your leg and you wouldn't care. You're just like, everything
is beautiful. in its own way. Right? They're starring off your leg,
they got their knitting needles in your eyes, and you really
don't care. But they're really careful and it's amplified so
they can see exactly what's going on. And when they sucked all
the vitreous out of my eye, I noticed that at the end that I still
had some vitreous. And I said, Doc, I still got
some vitreous in there. And he said, well, let me tell
you why. I said, go ahead, bro. And he said, because we don't
want to get too close to the retina with that vacuum cleaner.
Because if we suck that up, we'll suck your retina up, and you
won't be able to see. My point is, eye surgery is delicate
business. Your eye is insanely complicated. It's got millions of working
parts. You could prove the existence of God by your eye alone. Right? You've got to be insane. Or as
we say, blind, if you can't determine by logical consequence the existence
of God from the creation of an eye. It didn't come from an amoeba. It couldn't. Hallelujah. All right, just want to make
sure you're still here with me. So anyway, it's delicate, and
we don't want to engage in fault-finding. We don't want to be that guy
that's always finding fault with other people. We don't want to
be that Christian, right, that's fault-finding. We want to be
the Christian that says, oh, I am a sinner through and through. God forgive me for pointing fingers
at people and things. Right? I don't want to be a finger
pointer. I don't want to be that guy. My sins loom large, you
know, and if I can deal with something, if I've dealt with
something, I can help somebody else who's dealing with something.
But I'm doing it not to condemn them. I'm doing it because I
love them and I want to help them. And I know that if they
overcome, they will bring greater glory to God. and the whole thing
just gets better and better. Amen? That's what it's all about. Yup. And you parents, it's the
same way. Now, the Christian therefore
must engage in healthy self-examination with the help of the Holy Spirit. You can't examine yourself unaided. You need him to shine the light
on your heart. Amen? Because we're frequently
self-deceived. It's easy. And we all have blind
spots. We have blind spots. People can
see our blind spots, but we can't. That's why they're blind spots.
And we need people to help us with our blind spots. You've
got blind spots. Remember the CompuServe? You've
got mail. You've got blind spots. And if we were a church where
everybody was accountable to somebody, the growth would be
exponential. But you know what? We won't do
it. You know why? Because we're scared. I want you to think that
I'm the most wonderful person in the world. That when I walk
on the water, my feet don't touch. Believe me, everybody puts their
pants on, if they're wearing pants, one leg at a time, right? We're all sinners, folks, and
nothing would surprise this guy, I'll tell you that, right? Nothing, ain't nothing. So that's the second point. The
third point is this, and this is really a crazy verse. It's
a parable in one sentence. This is how brilliant Jesus's
teaching is. He's brilliant. He's not only
is he comedic even, right? And using irony, but he's shifting
things and moving things. He is because he's God. And he
says this, do not give dogs what is holy and do not throw your
pearls before pigs. lest they trample them underfoot
and turn to attack you. These are domestic animals. We're
talking about a dog in a domestic sense. If you have a dog, right,
and you set the table and your family's eating dinner, the dog
shows up, right? Dog's like right there at the
table saying, all right, when am I getting it? And usually,
you know, what happens is the dog has to patiently wait till
the end, and then he eats the cleanup batter, right? You give
him all of it. Yeah, he loves it. Give me the
steak fat. Yeah, yeah, give me that fat. Give me that fat. He'll
eat anything, right? The dog will. And so the dog
is hungry, and he wants to eat. And the pigs are the same way,
even worse. Pigs gotta eat, that's all they
want. The pig is like, what's in it for me, bro? What do I
get? What am I getting today? You
follow me? Now, the pearl, think about this. The pearl, it reminds us of Matthew
13, and it should. The pearl is the pearl of great
price. The pearl is the gospel of God. What Jesus is saying is don't
give the gospel to pigs and dogs. Wow, really Jesus? Yeah, because
they'll trample it underfoot and attack you. Here's what we're
missing from the Christian world. Are you ready? I'm gonna say
it, I'm gonna say it. We are ignorant to the pace of
grace in somebody's life. You can't treat every person
you meet the same. Because God is working at different
speeds and in different ways with people. And you can't just
hit people over the head with the gospel and you think they're
gonna go, I'm a Christian now. There's the pace of God in somebody's
life and it takes patience. You have to love them to life
and it takes patience. It takes sensitivity, right? You can't just drop it on their
head and think they're gonna be happy with it. They may turn
and attack you. Think about it. You're asking
people to give themselves away to somebody else, even if it
is God. Would I do that on the basis
of a paragraph in a tract? We really are naive. We think,
okay, I'm gonna give this guy a tract, or I'm gonna say two
paragraphs to him, and he's gonna surrender to God right then and
there. If he does, it's because he's heard the gospel 26 times
previous, right? You can't expect people just
to drop to their knees and say, oh, thank you. It takes time. We've had people here, I've had
people in my life where their spouses were unsaved, but it
was a miraculous thing. The spouses started to come to
church more than one occasion. We have some spouses that are
coming to church now that are not there yet, but they're coming
to church. And I look at it and I get so
excited about it because they just come to church. And gradually
they learn about the Lord Jesus Christ. And there's a pace of
grace in their lives. And God brings them. It can be
with kids too. Don't think you're just gonna
have birth your kids and they're gonna say, mom, four years old,
mom, what time's the altar call? I'd like to give my heart to
Jesus. It may take a long time, right?
It may take a long time. It could be a slow burn. And
so when we are insensitive to that, we really are doing something
that's not loving, you know? And we need to, because they
can't eat it. They can't digest it. They can't
eat the pearl, right? It'll choke them. Because why? All they want is what's in it
for them. you give the gospel to a pig
or a dog, they're gonna be calculating saying, well, what's in it for
me? What do I get out of this? Let's say a realtor comes into
church, right? Are there any realtors here?
I apologize in advance for this illustration. But if you're a
realtor and you come into the church and you say, yeah, I'll
go to that church. Yeah, yeah, the gospel. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And they're like, oh, let's see here. It's not for me. Maybe
some, wait, sorry. Oh, yeah, maybe some commissions
here. You don't think, I'm gonna go to a big church where there's
like a thousand people. Can you imagine all the commissions
there? When they find out, you know, that kind of thing or whatever. You see, people are looking for
what's in it for them. And in the pearl of great price,
what did the guy do? He found the pearl. He didn't
say, what's in it for me? He said, I'm gonna sell everything
to get the pearl. I'll surrender everything for
the gospel. Because God is good, and God
is important, and God is transcendent, right? It doesn't matter if you
live or die, right? Think about it. Everybody's grasping
onto their lives. Oh, goodness, we need all the
best healthcare. The best thing that could happen
to you is you go home and drop dead in Jesus. Right? We don't want to say that. It's probably not cool to say
that if you're a pastor. Just drop dead in Jesus. It's the best thing that could
happen for you. Really. As long as you're in Jesus. If
you're not in Jesus, keep alive until you're ready to accept
the gospel. It's funny because when we Well, nevermind. We can't work
off a template with people. We must learn them. We must understand
them to the extent we're able. Amen? So it's that sensitivity
and that winsomeness that we will display that will catch
people, that will catch the gospel a fair hearing. Amen? Why? Because you love them. You're not condemning them. You
want to see them redeemed. And you love them. And you'd
say, oh, the horror for this person to go to hell on that
last day. Horror. A terrible horror. Oh, man. So we are not to be on the one
side abrasive, right? Do you know those people that
are abrasive? They go out in the world and
they drop the gospel on people and they're abrasive. It's just
like, everybody hates them. And then on the other side, it's
cowardly, right? On the one side, people are cowards.
They won't talk about the Lord Jesus. You don't want to be a
coward. God doesn't have good things
to say about people who are cowardly and will not witness the gospel
to others. If you're ashamed of me and my
words, I will be ashamed of you. You don't confess me before men.
So we don't want to be cowardly, but we don't want to be abrasive.
We want to be in the middle, and that is what? Loving. Speak,
what? The truth in love. If that's all you need to know
walking out of here, you got it. Speak the truth in love.
Speak the truth in love. Not to condemn people, right? With sensitivity. And that's the gig. And God will use you. And so that spiritual sensitivity
is so important in this day, isn't it? Grace isn't just for us. Grace
is for other people too. And God is saving other people
too. People that you don't even like,
right? Jonah said, I ain't going to
Nineveh. I hate those people. The Gentiles. And he ran the
other way. He got on the ship and he said,
I'm going to the opposite. I ain't going there. And God said, oh
no, bro, you're going there. Let me just give you a little
education. So the Lord gave him some education and he went to
Nineveh. Right? And so for us, It's so
easy in these days, with the busyness of all of us, to be
indifferent to people. We don't want to be indifferent
to anybody. And you know, sometimes, like,
you ever go and get a coffee somewhere? I'm not, like, the
only place I go to get a coffee usually is home, but once in
a while I go to Dunkin' Donuts maybe. I don't go to Starbucks
because I think even the decaf makes you crazy. But if you go to Dunkin' Donuts,
sometimes the person's looking right through you. You're invisible
to them, right? Sometimes you ever go to a business
and do business with people in this day and age, and it's like,
they don't even see you. But, okay, that's them. But for
us, you know what? Every person in front of us is
a human being. And you know what? Every meeting with someone, and
it may be brief, Just be, have a heart of love and care. Even if it's just some random
kindness you show, you know? If you walk around like that
all day long, you'll just watch and see what God will do with
that, right? It's not about, you know, sending
money overseas. That's good, it is good. But
we have a mission right here. And Massachusetts. Massachusetts? You live in Massachusetts? That's
the most godless state in the union. Yeah, of course it is.
So think about this. You're special. Let me tell you
why. You live in Massachusetts. And they're not too friendly
to the gospel here. You know. People don't say, oh,
bless your heart, you know, God bless you, and I'm going to church
this afternoon, and after that to the church, right? It's like,
not here. People are like, what? I do love
Massachusetts, though, because it's a cool place. It's terribly
godless. The ground is very hard. But
people are smart. And they're kind of mean. But if you get beneath the surface,
you might find a friend and a friend to the end. And so that's it. Be mindful of the pace of grace
in people's lives. Be not condemning. They're redeemable. Make sure your heart is well
self-examined so that your eyes are clear and you can see. And
love those people to life. Speak the truth in love to them. Amen? Are you with me? Any objections? If there is,
please stand. No. Madam, let's pray, shall
we? Our Lord and our God, we do indeed
love your word and the profundity of your word on a page. As we
think about it a little bit more deeply, it's just amazing that,
Lord, you are the greatest teacher. You taught us, Lord. You teach
us, Lord, by creation. You teach us by the Holy Scriptures. And Lord, we could never plumb
the depths of your word in this life. But Lord, let us continue
to dig and mine for the truths, Lord, that change lives. Change our lives, Lord, for the
better. Just work in us, Lord, and fill
us with your blessed Holy Spirit. Cleanse us and fill us, Lord,
that we would just walk with you and enjoy walking with you. The great adventure that it is
to be yours in this day and age. For who knows, we were born for
such a time as this. This we pray in Christ's name
and all God's people said,