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All right, 1 Peter chapter 3
again this morning. 1 Peter chapter 3. We are returning to the passage,
the message that we actually began two weeks ago. And we gave
the first part of the message. We had kind of a busy morning,
if you recall, two weeks ago. A number of things that we were
trying to take care of in a finite period of time. but we're happy
that we can return back to this passage here this morning. Verse
13 is where we're going to start, and perhaps this might jog your
memory just a little bit. The title for this message is,
Fighting Fire with Kindness. Now, I'm hoping that that title
as odd as it may sound, will encapsulate the spirit of what
this passage is saying to you and me as believers today in
the 21st century, even more so, I think, that it encapsulated
the message to those 1st century believers. Of course, to perhaps
say it a little more bluntly, this is a passage that is talking
about our witness to a hostile world. So that's really what
we're dealing with. What is the nature of our witness
into a world that is hostile to our message? So, let's begin
reading here in verse 13. We'll read through verse 17.
And so Peter writes, And who is he that will harm you? if
ye be followers of that which is good. But, and if ye suffer
for righteousness' sake, happy are ye. And be not afraid of
their terror, neither be troubled. But sanctify the Lord God in
your hearts, and be ready always to give an answer to every man
that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness
and fear." Having a good conscience. that whereas they speak evil
of you as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse
your good conversation in Christ. For it is better, if the will
of God be so, that you suffer for well-doing than for evil-doing."
Let's ask the Lord's blessing on our time in His Word this
morning. Our Father, once again, we are so grateful for the opportunity
we have to gather together as brothers and sisters in Christ.
Lord, I love these folks. I love the opportunities that
we have to come together to fellowship, together to sing songs of praise
and lift up our voices to honor you, and times that we have to
commune together your holy word. And I pray this morning that
as we spend these moments continuing to think about Peter's message
to those first century believers who were suffering, who were
being persecuted, Lord, who lived lives that in many ways we would
not even begin to recognize. when we compare them with the
lives that we live. And yet the message to them is
still a message to us. And Father, we need to recognize
what that message was then, what it is today, and the application
of that message to our lives. Father, we desire to be witnesses
to the world around us. Even in the face of hostility,
we trust that by Your grace, we would be the witnesses that
we ought to be. That our lives and our words,
our spirit even, would testify of Your goodness and Your mercy
and Your grace through the Lord Jesus Christ. And so Father,
in these moments that we have together this morning, help us
not to be distracted, help us not to have thoughts that wander
away to something else, but help us to be able for these moments
to concentrate upon this passage. May the Holy Spirit give us understanding. And Father, may the Holy Spirit
impress upon each of us individually areas that we might need to address.
and I pray that by your grace we would make application that
Father, we individually as families, as a church, would provide a
witness for Christ to the world of our day. And Lord, we'll seek
to give you the glory for all that you do in our midst and
through us. We ask this in Jesus' name. As we come to this section again,
remember that the bigger section began back in chapter 2, verse
11. The theme is how to live as aliens
or pilgrims in the wicked world in which we live, in a fallen
world, in a world that has been affected by the curse of sin.
So we're talking here about our witness in a hostile territory. The larger section goes from
chapter 2, verse 11 into chapter 4. So we're not at the end yet,
but we're nearing the end of this portion of Peter's challenge
to the Christians of his day. But perhaps we could put it this
way. What Peter is challenging the
believers of that day, and of course by application us today
as well, is that we are to be distinct. Christians are to be
distinct. When we think about our witness
to the hostile world around us, we are to be different. In the immediate context leading
up to this, what we've just previously been looking at was the idea
of relationships. Relationships in general affected
by our walk, by our talk, that we are to cultivate relationships,
adopting godly characteristics, and seeking actively to live
in peace with others, And building upon that, two weeks ago we asked
this broadening question because the first portion of this was
relationships mainly among ourselves, among God's people and their
own families. But the broadening question is,
how do we then relate to the world around us? So we all acknowledge,
yes, this is how we should live together as families and as the
family of God. But what is our relationship
as Christians? to the world at large. How do
we approach that? What should be the guiding light,
if you will, for our relationship more broadly spoken of? Or, perhaps
I could say it this way, or ask it this way. Does our walk and
our talk play into our relationships to the world? Again, just trying
to get our minds thinking, I'll ask it this way. Should we have
a purpose that gives direction to our relationships in the world? Let me ask that again and I want
you to think about that because this is really now getting down
to where we want to be. Should we have a purpose that
gives direction to our relationships to the world? And I think that
even without going any further, we would all say, well, yes,
obviously we should. All right, good. We agree on that. I don't see
anybody frowning, so I'm assuming we all would recognize that that
is true. There should be a purpose that
gives direction. The real question now is, well,
what is that purpose that gives direction to the relationships
that we have in the world at large? Well, let me see if I
can, again, just sort of challenge our thinking a little bit. As
modern believers, and we touched upon this two weeks ago, as modern
believers in our Western orientation, You and I have difficulty understanding
the real context, the real impact of this passage. Because we live
comfortably. We do. We have comfortable lives. There are people in the world
who look at our lives and they think we are rich. And they want
our lives. And we take them for granted. We do live in a blessed country. and we do live blessed lives.
But the downside of that is because we take these things for granted
and because we live in a free society like we do, we will not
always truly understand what it would be like to live in a
place where our faith is under threat of direct persecution. Now we may bemoan the direction
we're going, but the truth is we aren't fearful today of the
Gestapo crashing in the back of the church and carrying us
all off to jail. We are Christians, and we can
live our Christianity openly in the world about us. Whether
that changes in the future is in the hand of God. But you and
I today really don't have those concerns like many in the world
do. We're not facing the possibility
of imminent torture. We do not fear the confiscation
of our property or our families being torn away from us because
of our commitment to the gospel. That's not true everywhere in
the world. The Middle East. This morning we prayed for the
days in India. And again, we are disconnected
from much of what goes on in the world, but if you do any
reading about what Christians in India suffer, there are places
in India where churches are burned down, where pastors and their
families are killed. because Hindus or Muslims take
exception to the gospel of Christ. That happens. It happens all
the time. And I mentioned that since the
year 2000 in Nigeria, in Africa, 62,000 Christians have been martyred
for their faith in Christ. Simply because they're Christians,
they have been killed. Now that's unfathomable to you
and me. We're not concerned when we go
to church on Sunday morning that someone might try to catch the
church on fire and trap us inside. But that's happened in places
like Nigeria. And I say all that to say that
that is the kind of suffering that is the backdrop to Peter's
message. Those are the people, people
who are facing those kinds of threats are the ones that Peter
is talking to. So you and I read it, and oh,
that's nice, and it doesn't have the same impact. In fact, I want
to read something to you that maybe, I hope, will kind of set
this in our minds. This was something written by
a man by the name of Athenagoras, and he wrote He wrote something
called, A Plea for the Christians. He wrote this in AD 177. So this is about roughly 140
years after the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. This
is the second century that he is writing to. And here are his
words. He says, Among us you will find
uneducated persons, craftsmen, and old women. who, if they are
unable in words to prove the benefit of our doctrine, yet
by their deeds exhibit the benefit arising from their persuasion
of its truth. They do not rehearse speeches,
but exhibit good works. When struck, they do not strike
again. When robbed, they do not go to
law. They give to those that ask of
them. and love their neighbors as themselves."
That is a Christian writing about Christians about 140 years roughly
after the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. Did you hear
some echoes of what Peter is writing here in this passage?
I hope so. This is a stark contrast to how
we view our place in the world and how we react to our present
world. So our question today focuses
upon the application of this to us. Maybe we don't have the
same concerns they did in the second century. Maybe we don't
have the same concerns that they did in the first century. But
when it comes to our service for Christ, do we have reason
to fear? This is where we were last week.
We may not live with the same fear that these early believers
did, that you and I still deal with fear in our Christian walk. Isn't this true? What am I talking
about? It is the fear of witnessing
to the lost. Now if we lived in one of those
countries where our overtly testifying of our faith in Christ might
bring some kind of real persecution upon us physically, then we perhaps
could at least understand it that Peter says even in that
circumstance, Provide a testimony for Christ. You and I do not
live under that same threat. But if I were to ask for a show
of hands and I'm not, how many of us would admit to the reality
of a fear that comes upon us when we're in a situation where
we realize, I need to talk to this person about Christ. Do you have a fear when that
happens? You know, the churning stomach, the sweaty palms, your
voice gets just a little bit tighter because you're feeling
the stress. Do you fear? Do you have a fear
when it comes to witnessing and telling someone in the world,
perhaps a coworker, perhaps a family member, perhaps a neighbor, but
talking to them about your faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Peter's
message here concerns our witness to a hostile world. We really
don't live in a hostile world, but we still carry a certain
fear. Peter wants us to realize that our best witness will combine
our behavior and our words motivated by a genuine respect for our
Savior, a genuine fear of Christ. That's really the message this
morning. Our witness combines behavior
and words lived out with a genuine respect motivated by understanding
who He is and His expectation for us. This is true whether
we live in a world where we literally fear physical persecution or
we have the simple fear of providing a witness for Christ. Now, very
quickly here. Note how Peter describes the
believer's place in the world. We see, first of all, the hostility
of the world toward believers. And I'll just point out some
words very quickly. Verse 13, harm you. 14, suffer. Do not
fear their intimidation. Do not be troubled. Verse 16,
slandered, reviled. 17, suffer. Then, how in the
face of the world's hostility, the best witness combines behavior
and thought. So we have good behavior. Verse
13, zealous. for good, 14, righteousness,
16, good conscience, good behavior, 17, doing good, and then thoughtful
words. Verse 15 speaks of our being
ready to give an answer, the reason of the hope that lies
within us. The idea here is the idea of...this
is the Greek word apologia, We have the idea of giving a
defense of the faith. So, Peter here is wrapping up
his observations, and he is pointing out that how do we succeed in
providing a God-honoring witness in our walk? And it is by giving
due reverence to Christ. So, what we talked about last
time, our witness is to an often hostile world. I'll just simply
point out a couple of things very quickly. Remember, as we
maintain a good conscience when we're slandered. This is the
first part of the passage. Who is he that will harm you
if you be followers of that which is good? The idea is someday
our enemies will be put to shame. Either in this life, because
our good behavior exposes their lies, or at the judgment God
calls them into account. This is what we talked about
a couple of weeks ago. That our enemies either hear or in eternity
will be called to give an account of their activity, of their actions,
of the way they treat us. Those who do good may suffer
here, but their vindication will be in eternity. So, at the end
of the day, we may suffer in this life for Christ, but this
life is temporary, isn't it? I have to say, and this is probably
natural, but the older I get, the more I realize how temporary
life is. But that's not a bad thing because
this world ultimately is not our home. Heaven is our home. and we are passing through this
life, and what is the purpose for our lives here? I mean, truthfully,
at the very moment we became children of God, could He not
have just simply called us home into His presence? Why has He
left us here? Does He have a purpose for us?
This goes back to that statement that I gave a few moments ago.
Should we have a purpose that gives direction to the relationships
we have with people in the world? And the answer is yes. And it
boils down to this. What is the expectation of God
for you and me as His children? And it's simply this, that we
provide a witness to the lost men and women in this world to
the reality of who He is and what He has done. We provide
a witness to the world that God so loved the world that He gave
His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish,
but have everlasting life. They should see the reality of
that, the truth of that, demonstrated in our lives to them. God has
left us here to bear witness of His mercy toward those who
are at war with Him. Now, how do we do that? This
brings us to our first main point for today. We need to understand.
This is the second main point. The first one is we are to be
a witness in a hostile world. How do we do that? We need to
understand that our witness combines our behavior and our words. I've
already said that, but we want to spend a few minutes now thinking
about it. So, our witness is to a hostile world. That's the
place where God has called us to be witnesses. But our witness... combines what we do and what
we say. Someone else put it this way.
Our lives provide the foundation for our lips. I thought that
was pretty good. Lives, lips, you know. At least
it spoke to me. But our lives give the foundation
for what we're going to say. Will they listen to us? How can
we gain a hearing before them? Now, some people you may have
an opportunity to witness to and you've just met them for
the first time in your life. And that's wonderful when you have
those kind of divine appointments, right? But there are other people
that you and I have had the opportunity to get to know over some period
of time, and it is our lives that will oftentimes win us the
opportunity to then verbally share with them why we have hope. That's what verse 15 is saying.
They see our lives and they wonder how is it possible for you to
live under those circumstances with a spirit of joy that you
display. How is it possible? And that's
our opportunity, isn't it? To share how it's possible. Because
it's not humanly possible. It is a peace that passes all
understanding. Isn't that what Paul says in
Philippians 4? We have a peace that is not normal. It isn't something that the normal
person in this world has experienced on their own. It is a peace that
can only come to us through our relationship with God, but they
see it and they wonder how they can have that same peace. What is your secret? And then
we can share with them verbally behavior has gained us the open
door. So let's think about this a little
further. Our witness is tied directly to our behavior. This theme runs through the epistle
five times in this paragraph. Verse 13 speaks of good, 14 righteousness,
16 talks about a good conscience and good behavior, 17 doing good. In fact, we see the Apostle Paul
using this same language back in the book of Titus chapter
2 Paul speaks in verse 7, "...in all things showing thyself a
pattern of good works." Talking to believers and saying, hey,
this is what should be true of you. Your life should be a pattern
of good works. Verse 10. not purloining, but
showing all good fidelity, that they may adorn the doctrine of
God our Savior in all things." That our lives, our behavior
adorns the gospel. It makes it look attractive. People want to know, where did
you get that? That's kind of the idea, right?
You see somebody wearing some piece of clothing, a jacket or
shoes or whatever appeals to you, and you say, wow, I like
that. Where'd you get that? You're
interested in it. That's kind of the idea. We adorn
the gospel. They see that we are clothed
in something that they wish they had. That's what Peter is talking
about. They ask us a reason. And what
is it that draws their attention? It is this idea in all things
showing itself a pattern of good works. In fact, it goes on and
he says in verse 14, who gave himself for us, speaking of Christ
and His sacrifice, who gave himself for us that He might redeem us
from all iniquity and purify unto Himself a peculiar people
zealous of good works. So it is His desire that we have
a desire, zealous. It's important to us that our
lives are exhibiting what He is doing in our hearts. So this
idea, and in fact he goes on in chapter 3 of Titus, the first
two verses, "...put them in mind to be subject to principalities
and powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work."
And then he goes on, "...speak evil of no man, be no brawlers,
but gentle, showing all meekness unto all men." So, be ready for
every good work involves How we treat other people. Don't
speak evil of them. Don't fight them. Be gentle to
them. Show meekness and humility to
them. It's not us trying to show that we're superior to anybody.
It is a recognition in all humility that we are sinners saved by
grace. And we can, through our behavior, gain an opportunity
demonstrating what God is doing in our hearts we have an opportunity
to share with them a reason of the hope that lies within us.
So we are to be zealous for good works. God's people should have
a zeal to do good things. It is especially important that
we deal rightly with those outside the faith so that the name of
Christ will not be dishonored. It is sad that we have to acknowledge
that there are Christians and there are Christian organizations
They practice shady business practices. They cheat. They're dishonest. I know of
Christian companies that will willingly twist the law for their
own purposes, for their own business practices, for their own benefit.
That's a bad witness. Because the world sees us doing
that, and they say immediately, oh, I thought you were a Christian.
All these Christians. It's sad. Peter says in verse
16 that we are to keep a good conscience. Now, let me give
you a warning about our conscience. Our conscience is not an infallible
guide. It can be warped. Now, let me
give you an example of what I'm talking about. If we have a new believer, someone
who was not raised in a Christian home, someone who was not raised
with Christian biblical mores, if you will, they come to Christ,
they trust in Christ as their Savior, but they have not yet
learned Their conscience has not yet been exposed and shaped
by the Word of God, and so they may come from a society where
lying and cheating is normal. And what would you expect that
new believer to do? They're going to not know that their conscience
isn't striking them at that point. Years ago, I remember being in
a pastor's fellowship and there was a missionary. I'll not say
what country he was from, being a missionary too. But he was
sharing with us that one of the things that was difficult for
him when he first went to that country is he's operating, you
know, from a Christian standpoint about honesty and integrity and
uprightness and little things. Now maybe this isn't quite so
different today. This was about 40 years ago.
So, you know, who knows? Maybe America caught up. But
he was sharing that things like getting his car worked on and
going and putting it in the garage and the guy said, oh yeah, I'll
have this ready for you in a couple of hours. And it was really a
couple of days. and that he learned over time
that whatever he was told by people in that society, that
culture, they had no qualms about not really giving you an honest
answer. It was just their society. They'll
learn this was the way and minister to them in the face of that.
Well, that may be the world, and if somebody is saved in that
circumstance, then they won't know any better. But what happens
when they are exposed to the Word of God? What would the Word of God begin
to do to that new believer's heart? Over time, as that person
is put in a position of hearing the Word of God, of reading the
Word of God, exposed to what the Scripture says, the Word
of God will begin to change their conscience. Their conscience
becomes informed by the Word of God. And now they begin to
determine their conscience is helping to give guidance about
what is right and wrong. And it's not because their conscience
is informed by a sinful, lost, fallen world, but their conscience
is informed by the Word of God. And they will draw different
conclusions as a believer about what is right and what is wrong.
That is what should be true of all of us as the Word of God
impacts our lives, as we read it in our daily private devotional
time, as we have opportunity to be in church services and
in Sunday school and dig classes in our case and in other Bible
study opportunities. When these things happen, the
Spirit of God is molding the way we think as believers. And
we begin to come to conclusions about what we should be doing
and should not be doing. But it isn't just simply saying
because my conscience said so. It's because I have a conscience
that has been affected by the Word of God. That's why it's
so important for us to be in the Scripture and not simply
say, well, my conscience is fine with that. Well, you know, that
may be good and that may be bad. Because what informs your conscience?
Where did your conscience get the idea of what was right and
what was wrong? It's unfortunate we live in a
world where, and I don't want to go down this route, so I'm
trying not to. We live in a world that basically
says your truth and my truth do not have to be compatible.
That what's true for you doesn't have to necessarily be true for
me. That we can have competing truths. Now, there's a logical
problem with that, right? Because if I have a truth and
you have a truth and they are not compatible with each other,
then something's not true. But the world doesn't look at
it from the standpoint of logic. They say, oh, no, no, no, no,
no. We can have competing truths. But the reality is we can't have
competing truths. There is truth and there is falsehood. And you and I, if our conscience
is filled with the Word of God, should be able to make the right
choices with a scripturally informed conscience. The alternative to
that is believers who will make decisions solely based on their
conscience. Well, my conscience says this
is okay. But what does God's Word say? Well, I have peace. Wonderful. But is your peace
based upon following a principle of Scripture that has informed
your conscience in the choice that you have made? So it always
comes back to the Word of God. We cannot divorce ourselves from
what God's Word says. It always is what should give
guidance to the choices that we make. So, don't cover your
sin. Confess it as a child of God. How wonderful is it that we can
confess our sin? And He is faithful and just to
forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Isn't that great
that God is so merciful and gracious to people like you and me? We
don't deserve it. But that's why it's grace. Because
it's not a question of what I deserve. It's a question only of the fact
that God has chosen to do good to me because of the work of
Christ. Not because I deserve it. Not
because I have earned it. Here's what I'm driving at. It
is a tragedy any time a preacher gets caught doing something that
he shouldn't be doing. And I wish I could tell you that
it's rare, that it almost never happens, but you read the same
news sources I do. And unfortunately, And it happens in what we would
call bi-believing churches with born-again believers that we
find people who have high profiles who do stupid things. And what
does that do to their witness for Christ? What does that do
for the witness of the church for Christ? So we should be careful. I'm
just challenging each of us. Be sure in your workplace you
are to be a witness for Christ while you're there. Among your
family and among your neighbors, they should know you're a Christian.
Your labor should be a labor of love. Your activities, you
should be doing good things. and they should know you're a
Christian, and we'll talk in a moment about the opportunities
then for the verbal part of this. But if you are going to not be
a consistent Christian, then it might be better not to even
have a testimony that you are. Now that sounds harsh, doesn't
it? But how many people do you know and I know whose one excuse
for not going to church is because the church is full of hypocrites?
Now I know we could give them some answer, but the reality
is, for that person in that moment, they know someone who made a
profession of faith in Christ, who then did things that were
not Christian. And however we may cut it, here
is a soul that has been affected because our behavior, the behavior
of some Christian, did not live up to the standards that gave
them an opportunity to be a positive witness for Christ. So that's
the challenge that I think we have to take seriously. That the Lord expects for us
to recognize that the lost people around us are watching us. They're
watching our behavior. They're watching what we do.
And we have to be willing to say, and we're going to get to
the third part of this in just a moment, What is our motivation
for all of this? But just trying to borrow a little
bit of my thunder, we know that we have the testimony of Christ
at stake. And if we're going to sanctify
Him, if we're going to set Him apart, then we have to recognize
the role of our behavior. in the eyes of the lost. Remember,
this is in the context of our witness to a hostile world. They
are already hostile to Christianity. Our behavior can either combat
in a positive way their hostility or it can feed it. So how we
behave is important here. I'm not talking about being sinless,
by the way, because that's not possible. I'm talking about living
a life. The bent of our life is to honor
our Savior. That should be the bent. That
should be the direction we're headed even though we all have
good days and bad days. That should be the overall direction. Now having said that, so that
is how our witness involves our behavior. The second part of
this, our witness involves our words. And this is verse 15,
and this is the part of the passage we're all probably more familiar
with. But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts and be ready always
to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the
hope that is in you with meekness and fear. The fact that they
are asking implies they have seen, they have noticed our good
behavior. Otherwise, why would they be compelled to ask us anything?
So our good behavior gives us the open door. It is what provides
us the opportunity. They see how we bear up in the
face of difficulty, in the face of even being mistreated, We
bear up with hope and joy. And sooner or later, they're
going to ask, why do you live the way you do? They see that
we don't respond the way the world responds when bad things
happen to us. Do bad things happen to good
people? Do bad things happen to God's people? Yes, because
we live in a sin-cursed world. And so we're subject. We get
the flu. We get sick. We have physical
issues, financial issues. We live in a fallen world and
we are subject to that fallenness as long as we're in this world.
How do we react to it? That's the question. That's what
Peter is talking about. How do we react? And especially
when we're being put upon because of our testimony as God's people. Because I'm a Christian, the
world is mistreating me. How do I respond to that? Peter
says, when they ask you a reason for this hope, what makes you
different, how you can bear up as you do, be ready to tell them. That's what verse 15 is saying.
This is the verbal side. My behavior is going to give
me an opportunity. How I respond to difficulties
in life. But when that opportunity comes
and someone says, what is different about you? I need to be ready
to give an answer. And this is where, again, we
see the idea of giving a defense when he talks about asking you
a reason of the hope that is within you. Be ready always to
give an answer. The idea is the apologetic. It is a prepared legal defense. I mean, use a fancy idea. The idea here is that when they
ask us a reason of this hope, that we give out a well-reasoned
presentation of the gospel. Now, this is where we get fearful. I don't know what to say. You
ever felt that way? You know, somebody hears an unsaved
person and the door sometimes is wide open. And our first response
is, I don't know what to say. Can I make it as simple as possible? Because really it is a simple
message. There's a gospel tract, God's simple plan of salvation.
We want to make it more complicated, but it really isn't all that
complicated. Let me give it to you in a nutshell. Everybody
has a problem. It's called sin. Is that true? Every person is born with a sinful
nature. Our sin alienates us from a holy
God. The wages of sin is death. Christ bore our sin through His
death and His resurrection. He took our sin upon Himself. Sinners need to accept God's
gift of eternal life and His offer of forgiveness through
faith. You say, but shouldn't I say
more than that? Why would you want to go any further than that?
This is a person that needs Christ. Learn some key verses. You don't
have to have 50 verses. You don't even have to memorize
them. In fact, it might be good not to memorize them if you've
got a pocket New Testament or a New Testament in your purse
or today with your smartphones, right? All you need is to be
able to say, you read this, and they can read it themselves.
Because it really isn't up to, it's not my fancy words, it's
not your fancy words that will make a difference. Faith comes
by hearing, hearing by the Word of God. It is God's Word, it
is the Spirit of God using His Word to strike it home to a heart.
that the Lord can bring conviction and we can see someone come to
Christ. Now what is our fear when this happens? Our fear is
that they will ask some thorny question that we don't have the
answer to. Is that your fear? Don't raise your hand. Well,
you know, I don't know what they're going to ask, and I wouldn't
know how to answer, and there's so many things they could be
asking, and you feel intimidated because, you know, especially
today, they've probably watched something on YouTube where there's
some atheist who is throwing stones at our faith, right? And
they feel all empowered that, you know, one of these Christians
talked to me, I'm going to throw this out at them. Again, let's
make it simple. You know how to respond when
they throw these kind of questions at you? Simply say something
like this, I don't know, but I'll try to find out. But in
the meantime, let's talk about. And you get back to the point.
Because here's the reality. People will often raise objections
and questions to divert you from their sin. They don't want to
talk about sin. Their resistance really isn't
intellectual. It's moral. They don't want to
deal with their sin. Now, they'll throw out those
intellectual arguments, and here's the point. We need to avoid arguing. When I'm talking about our behavior
and our our words, our talk, that our witness consists of
these two, it isn't our behavior giving us an opportunity to have
a debate. Debates really don't do anything. I have found down
through the years there are a lot of people that love to debate.
And unfortunately, I have found that I have a propensity sometimes
to love to debate. And it's so easy to, you know,
it's kind of a contest. Oh, he made a good point. Let's
see how I can counteract that and throw something back at him.
But am I really trying to get this person to a place where
they can put their faith in Christ, or am I trying to win a verbal
contest? It's not about winning a verbal
contest. It's not about a debate. It's not about me walking away
saying, I came out on top of that discussion. It is simply
about sharing the gospel. And it may be in that moment
you may walk away thinking that person has no desire whatsoever
to hear this. Let me share a little personal
word of testimony here. One day when I get to heaven,
I'm looking forward to meeting some guys that I have no idea
who they are. I have no idea what their names
are, so I'm going to have to ask God to give me some direction.
But when I was a teenager, and I've shared my testimony getting
saved when I was just shy of 15 years old, 14. When I was
about 12, maybe 13, a friend, a buddy and I went to an old
stone quarry that had been filled with water and it was a place
where you could go swim. This is just north of Columbus,
Ohio, Delaware, Ohio. And they had these spinners. I don't know what you'd call
them. But out in the middle of the water, they were chained
to the bottom so that they could move a little bit. But they pretty
much stayed in place. But you could spin them in a circle.
And you know what guys love to do, right? You get on there,
and you try to spin each other off. Yeah, spin it faster and
faster. And there's nothing to hold on
to. And eventually, you go sliding off. My buddy and I got on one
of those. And about four or five boys our
age swam out to us. One of them hopped up there with
us. The others began to spin it, but not so fast that they
were going to spin us off. They had a plan. They began to
spin, and we're kind of trapped on there at the moment, and the
boy that climbed up there with us began to witness to us. He began to share the gospel. And I wasn't happy with that.
I didn't like that. I was there to have fun. It's
hot. It's summertime. So my buddy
and I, we let them know that we really did not want to hear
any of that gobbledygook. I don't know what word we used.
And we swam to shore and we laughed. I laughed with my buddy about
those stupid Christians out there and what they tried to do. Now
here's the truth. When those guys left, they probably
left thinking, well, we tried to witness, but those guys had
no desire whatsoever to hear us. And to my buddy's face, I
had no desire to hear what they had to say to me. But here's
the reality. What they said to me was a seed
planted. I remembered that conversation. I remembered their earnestness. I didn't get saved that summer.
But it wasn't that many summers for a 14-year-old. How many summers
do you have, right? It wasn't that long, all things
being equal, when I came to know Christ. And the day I came to
know Christ, I thought about those guys and what they tried
to do and how disappointed they probably were. And I thought,
Lord, someday I want to meet those guys. And I want them to
know what they thought was a failure really wasn't a failure at all.
And that's what I'm trying to say for you and me today. We
have an opportunity to answer a reason of the hope that lies
within us. And it may be that we think this person has no sensitivity
whatsoever to the truth. And we go away saying, well,
that was a waste of time. It's never a waste of time. It's
never a waste of time. Because sometimes you and I plant
a seed. Sometimes we water a seed. God
gives the increase. We don't know. But there might
be some folks walking around today who know Christ as their
Savior, and God used our testimony, our witness in one of those moments
that we thought was a failure to help move that person along
toward the moment they came to Christ. We can't know that in
many cases until we get to heaven. So I'm hoping in heaven there
will be some folks walk up to me and say, oh, I heard you talking
to those guys. Well, I wanted to talk to you. And you may not
remember, but there was a day when... So it's not about arguing,
it's not about trying to win points, it's not about winning
the game. It's simply about my sharing
what God has done in my life. Now, I want you to notice. He
says that we do this with meekness and fear. Meekness and fear. Gentleness and reverence. Gentleness is not weakness. It's
not a lack of boldness. It's strength under control.
Again, I'm not here trying to show this person I'm smarter
than they are. Reverence refers to fearing God more than men.
How can we speak confidently before this person who is contrary
to us? Because I fear God's opinion
more than man's opinion. He called us to witness to a
hostile world. Now, that brings me to my third
point. So, our witnesses to a hostile
world, it involves our behavior and our words, Number three,
the motivation of our witness is Christ. It is our reverence
of Him. To sanctify the Lord in your
heart. To sanctify means to make holy,
to set apart, It's the same word used in the Lord's Prayer. Our
Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Hallowed is the
same word. To hallow God's name means to
set it apart as holy to reverence God above all others. This is
actually a reference back to Isaiah chapter 8. In that context,
faithless King Ahaz of Judah has allied himself with the Assyrians. Remember how wicked they are?
to basically help protect him from the northern tribes who've
been in rebellion and Syria. So you have us, Syria, and Syria. Don't get confused. So they did
that. Isaiah, the prophet, and a faithful
remnant stood up and said, this is wrong. We can't go to the
godless to protect us. We need to go to the God of heaven,
to the God of our fathers. He will be the one to protect
us. So they were charged with conspiracy by those who wanted
to ally themselves with Assyria. And the Lord is encouraging Isaiah
and those with him not to fear the Assyrians and not to fear
those in Judah who were charging them with conspiracy, but rather
Isaiah and those with him in that context in the book of Isaiah
were to fear the Lord of hosts and regard Him as holy. They
were to sanctify Him. The idea is that they were to
have a reverence toward God, that pleasing God was more important
than pleasing men. And so this was not about saying
what the people in Judah wanted to hear. This was about saying
what God wanted to be said. And how does that apply then
to the passage we're looking at? Simply this. People may not
want to hear. And we may be tempted to only
say what will tickle their ears. But we need to be willing to
simply speak the truth. God is the one who uses it. We
speak the truth because it's not about making them feel good. It's about our reverence for
our Savior. and that motivation of wanting
to please Him, that means that we're willing to say what is
necessary to this unsaved person. Do people enjoy being told they're
sinners? No, we live in a world where everybody's a victim and
if you come across and you say, oh, you know, it's not your fault.
Oh, let's talk more. But when you go to them and you
say, you know, this is your fault because you are a sinner. They're not going to be happy
with that. But it's not a question of me making them happy, it's
a question of sharing the gospel and pleasing God by speaking
the truth. Now, I say that, that brings
me to my conclusion. I want to read something for
you, and I want you to think, listen carefully when I read
this. This is from, it's not the entire thing, but this is
from something called a letter to Diognetus. You guys remember
that? You studied that, I'm sure, somewhere
in some class, right? A letter to Diognetus. Diognetus
was a pagan. He had some questions about Christianity. And this is a book that was written.
It's not scripture, but it was a book that was written about
1800 years ago by Christians to answer some of his questions.
And here's the answer to who are Christians. Who are Christians?
Now listen carefully, and I'm reading this because remember
what we've been looking at here in 1 Peter 3. Now, here we are,
approximately 160-170 years after the resurrection of Christ. So,
the church is less than 200 years old. So, 2nd century, very end
of the 2nd century, roughly, is when this was written. And
this was the testimony as it was recorded then. Christians
are not distinguished from other men by country, language, or
by the customs which they observe. They do not inhabit cities of
their own, use a particular way of speaking, nor lead a life
marked out by any curiosity. The course of conduct they follow
has not been devised by the speculation and deliberation of inquisitive
men. They do not, like some, proclaim themselves the advocates
of merely human doctrines. Instead, they inhabit both Greek
and barbarian cities, however things have fallen to each of
them. And it is while following the customs of the natives in
clothing, food, and the rest of ordinary life that they display
to us their wonderful and admittedly striking way of life. Do you
hear that? They live in their own countries,
but they do so as those who are just passing through. As citizens,
they participate in everything with others, yet they endure
everything as if they were foreigners. Every foreign land is like their
homeland to them. They're willing to take the gospel.
And every land of their birth is like a land of strangers because
their real home is in heaven. They marry like everyone else
and they have children, but they do not destroy their offspring. In that culture, you didn't lack
your kid, you just took him out to the forest. Different world. They share a common table, but
not a common bed. Exist in the flesh, but they
do not live by the flesh. They pass their days on earth,
but they are citizens of heaven. They obey the prescribed laws
all the while surpassing the laws by their lives. They love all men and are persecuted
by all. They are unknown and condemned.
They are put to death. They are poor and yet make many
rich. They lack everything, yet they overflow in everything. They are dishonored, and yet
in their very dishonor, they are glorified. They are spoken
ill of, and yet are justified. They are reviled, but blessed.
They are insulted, and repay the insult with honor. They do
good, yet are punished as evildoers. when they rejoice as if raised
from the dead. They were sold by the Jews as
barbarians. They're persecuted by the Greeks.
Yet those who hate them are unable to give any reason for their
hatred." End quote. Did you hear the echoes? What
Peter is talking about? Here we have some Thank you. So here we are about 150 years
or so after Peter writes. And you can hear the echo of
what Peter said. Here is a people living in a time when to be a
Christian was illegal. they constantly were under the
fear of persecution. They turned their world upside
down. Not through strength of arm, even through persecution,
because they had a testimony. Just what Peter is saying. Their
behavior, the way they conducted themselves, even in the face
of being mistreated, gave them an opportunity. And people would
ask, What is it about you people? Because they weren't all Greeks,
all Romans. They weren't all Egyptians or
all Syrians. They were from every people group
in the Roman Empire. Men, women. The first reading
I gave you, rich, poor, old ladies. You read that and say, well,
that's not very flattering. That's the whole point. They were not
the most flattering people from a human perspective, but they
had an impact. And if that's true for them in
the world in which they lived, could you and I have an impact
for Christ today? Should we not have a witness to the hostile
world around us? Absolutely. And so, I trust that
by the grace of God, we'll examine our own lives and we'll ask ourselves,
am I zealous for good works? How do I respond when mistreated?
Are you able to give a gentle defense of the gospel? Then God
can use us mightily. And that's my prayer, that the
Lord would use us mightily. We don't know how much time we
have. The Lord could come today. Even so, come Lord Jesus. He
may not come for another thousand years. Now I know our sense of
it is, it's got to be close. And I hope so. But we really
don't know. But until that day comes, as
long as we are in this world and we have life and breath,
we have a purpose. That is to be a witness. We never
can set aside that purpose. God helped me to be a witness.
My desire to be a witness for Him should be to my relationships
with my neighbors, with my co-workers, with my family members, With
anyone I meet, my desire to fulfill the purpose He's given to me
should direct how I reach out to them and build a relationship.
May God help us to do just that. Let's bow our heads. Father,
I thank you for the opportunity that we have to study through
the book of 1 Peter, to think about these truths, and Lord,
to seek by your grace to understand them, and then to make application
to our lives. Lord, I'm thankful that we don't
live under the same circumstances that those first and second century
Christians lived. I'm thankful that we have the
freedoms that we have, that we enjoy. I'm thankful that we can
come to church and we don't have to be fearful of someone bursting
in the back door of the church and carrying us off to jail and
confiscating our property. Thank you, Father, for giving
us these freedoms. But Lord, help us not to take
them for granted and somehow think that because we have such
freedom that it is less important for us to consider our witness.
Lord, in some ways, to whom much is given, much shall be required.
You've given us so many more opportunities because we live
in a country with such freedom. and yet we squander it so often.
God, help us not to squander it. Help us to have hearts that
are sensitive. Help us to see the lost around
us, and God, help us to make a difference. Help us to so live
our lives by our behavior and by our words that they will ask
us a reason of the hope within us. May it resound to your glory. We pray in Christ's name. Amen.
Fighting Fire with Kindness - Pt 2
Series 1 Peter - 2024-2025
Witness combines behavior and wordss lived out with a genuine respect motivated by understanding who the Lord is and His expectations for us.
| Sermon ID | 1023241223371529 |
| Duration | 1:02:11 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 Peter 3:13-17 |
| Language | English |
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