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Open your Bibles, if you would,
to Proverbs 29. Proverbs 29, Solomon's final
words within this book of Proverbs. The next two chapters are written
by King Lemuel and by Augur, son of Jacob. So we'll look at
them over the next four Sundays. So Lord willing, we'll be done
with Proverbs on the second Sunday of November. And we'll go on
to Exodus in the evening. Proverbs 29, starting at verse
17. Notice, if you would, how many
themes from the beginning of the book and from the beginning
of the collection of the Proverbs of Solomon are repeated here. Solomon started chapter 10, a
wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish son is the grief
of his mother. And this final section starts
very similarly, verse 17, correct your son and he will give you
rest. Yes, he will give delight to
your soul. Where there is no revelation,
the people cast off restraint, but happy is he who keeps the
law. A servant will not be corrected
by mere words, for though he understands, he will not respond. Do you see a man hasty in his
words? There's more hope for a fool than for him. He who pampers
his servant from childhood will have him as a son in the end.
An angry man stirs up strife, and a furious man abounds in
transgression. A man's pride will bring him
low, but the humble in spirit will retain honor. Whoever is
partner with a thief hates his own life. He swears to tell the
truth, but reveals nothing. Fear of man brings a snare, but
whoever trusts in the Lord shall be safe. Many seek the ruler's
favor, but justice for man comes from the Lord. An unjust man
is an abomination to the righteous. and he who is upright in the
way is an abomination to the wicked." Thus far, the Proverbs
of Solomon. Let's pray. Heavenly Father,
give us the wisdom to hear the wisdom of your Word. Help us
once again as we look at the thought process of the Lord Jesus
Christ and see how he thinks, to hear the principles by which
he interpreted his world, help us to internalize his wisdom
and to act it out in our daily lives. Lord, help us not to be
hasty in our words, Help us instead to know wisdom's discipline and
the happiness and comfort that it brings. Prepare us to be abominations
to the wicked because your righteousness is so good and so sufficient
for us. We pray these things, Father,
in Jesus' name, amen. So section five of Proverbs ends
here. Chapter 30 is the sixth section
or the sixth heading in this book. And then chapter 31 is
the seventh and final of the seven pillars of wisdom that
are referenced in chapter nine. Wisdom has built her house. She's
hewn out seven pillars. So the book of Proverbs has seven
subsections. This is the end of the sixth
one that started in chapter 25. These also are the Proverbs of
Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah, king of Judah, copied. Hezekiah's
men put together this section, the fifth section, and they chose
to end it by highlighting the wisdom of discipline, the wisdom
of faith, and then finally the wisdom of righteousness. The wisdom of discipline, the
wisdom of faith, and the wisdom of righteousness. All three of
these things make the father glad. That's where the section
starts. Verse 17, correct your son and
he will give you rest. He will give delight to your
soul. Why do we want the discipline
of wisdom? If you say, I discipline my children
because I want to be obeyed. I discipline my children because
I want peace in my home. I discipline my children because
I know I should, because God told me to. Those are great reasons,
but they're not great enough. The ultimate reason to discipline
is joy. The wise father disciplines out of
joy and for joy. The disciplined son gives delight. And that's, of course, what the
Father says, speaking from heaven, this is my son, my beloved one. The son of his love, Ephesians
calls him. The father delights in his son,
in part, because the son is disciplined. That's what the ultimate reason
for discipline. Something less than that is not
discipline. If it's not about joy, I want
to share the joy of God the Father, and so I discipline myself and
my children in order to make my Father glad. Being undisciplined,
in other words, is the surest road to misery. Fail to correct
your son and he won't give you rest, he'll give you sleeplessness. He will give misery to your soul. So discipline, as verse 25 warns,
is not about the fear of man. The point of discipline is not
to get your kids to fear you, or to fear human culture, or
to fear the state. The point of discipline is to
get them to fear God. Now it's possible that, well,
yeah, it's certain that fearing you, Fearing civic authority
is part of fearing God. But if you don't fear God, if
you just stop with human fear, then that's not discipline. That's not adequate. That's a
snare. You have to move beyond that
to teaching discipline as the fear of God. Telling your kids
to worship you is no better than putting any other idol in their
hearts. In fact, it's worse because then
they're idolaters and they're stuck with somebody who has a
God complex. Don't do that. Teach your children
this kind of discipline, the correction that helps them do
what's right because it's right, rather than what helps them do
what you want because you want it. The promise of discipline
is first, joy. Second, happiness. Verse 18,
where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint.
Happy is he who keeps the law. Now, in its King James Version,
where there is no vision, the people perish. This is a staple
of the motivational speaker circuit. But Solomon is not saying that
if a leader fails to cast a vision, his organization will fall apart. That may or may not be true.
What is Solomon saying? He's saying that where there
is no revelation from God, where there's no recognition, either
of general or special revelation, that society is doomed. a society that is incapable of
looking at how God built the world and correctly interpreting
that, right, we could say a society that no longer recognizes the
image of God as male and female, that society is doomed. Or similarly,
a society that casts off special revelation, that no longer listens
to the word of God or regards the written word of God as correct,
truthful, Moral, but instead says we are more moral than that
ancient book We are more correct than those dumb sheepherders
from 3,000 years ago That society is doomed to perish and to be
miserable the people will cast off restraint and they'll do
all the things we see people around us doing and The one who
keeps the law, the one who listens to God's revelation in nature
and scripture, that one is happy. That's the promise of discipline.
That it brings not only joy and comfort, verse 17, but also that
it brings happiness. How do you get that happiness
that comes from keeping the law? Well, you get it through discipline. Listen to the law in a disciplined
fashion, not just in a haphazard fashion, but in a disciplined
fashion, and you will be happy. Have that happiness that comes
not only from listening, but, verse 19, from obeying. A slave will not be corrected
by mere words, though he understands, he will not respond. What is
this? Well, this is the third verse
on the promise of discipline. Discipline is not achieved by
just saying, hey, don't do that. Particularly when you're dealing
with somebody with a bad attitude, I think is the message of the
text. A slave will not be corrected by mere words. This is not telling
us if you have a slave, you always have to beat him. It's rather
talking about the slave mentality, we could say, that mindset that
is also known as a bad attitude. I won't do anything unless you
make me. Anybody with that attitude won't
be corrected by being told, hey, don't do that. He'll understand
perfectly well what you want him to do and he won't care. And so harsher discipline is
in fact called for when somebody has that kind of rotten attitude. The promise of discipline is
that if you discipline rightly, the person will be corrected,
will understand, will respond. So discipline your son, teach
your son the law, teach yourself the law, the revelation from
God, and discipline your servant, the person who works for you,
and of course, in the end, discipline yourself. We've all experienced, I'm struggling
with this sin. I'll read the Bible more. That
will correct me, right? Mere words help me do better. We go read the Bible more and
then we find that we don't do any better. Well, that too is
what this verse is talking about. Mere words may not do the trick. A higher degree of discipline
is called for. But when you discipline in an
adequate way, in a way that produces a response, in a way that changes
attitudes and behaviors, then you have that happiness of the
one who keeps the law. Then you understand and respond,
whether we're talking self-discipline or disciplining of others. That's
the promise of discipline. That's the positive side of the
discipline of wisdom that's ultimately about teaching yourself and the
people under your care to fear God. And Solomon has majored
on that through all 19 chapters of the Proverbs of Solomon, all
20 chapters of that, I should say, the core of this book. Now, he turns to the negative
side. What happens when you don't discipline? The peril of the undisciplined,
kind of the counterpart to the promise of discipline. And he
profiles a number of people here. The first is this one, the man
hasty in his words of verse 20. There's more hope for a fool
than for him. Well, coming after 28 chapters, of denouncing the fool, if we
hear that somebody's worse off than a fool, we know that that
person is in pretty bad shape. If you just open your mouth and
vent whatever pops into your head, you're worse than a fool. There's not much hope to be had
for that person. What is shooting your mouth off
at random a sign of? It's a sign of lack of discipline. It's a sign that you don't keep
the law and are not happy. It's a sign that you were not
reproved and given wisdom and that you don't bring delight
to your mom and dad. So the undisciplined are shown
by their mouth. They're shown by their failure
to discipline those under their charge. Verse 21, he who pampers
his servant from childhood, and different translations say different
things in the second line, because the Hebrew says, whoever pampers
his servant from childhood, or the one who pampers his slave,
will in the end find him to be a man on. Unfortunately, that
Hebrew word appears only here in the entire Bible. Nobody knows
what the word manon means. And so some translations guess
that it's positive, like the new King James, he'll have him
as a son in the end. Others guess that it's negative,
he'll be arrogant later on, says the Holman Christian Standard
Bible. But the fact is we don't know what the servant pampered
from childhood will turn into. What we do know, based on the
context, is that the one who fails to discipline is hardly
going to find a good outcome from that failure. Take your
slave, pamper him, don't give the discipline of wisdom, and
the outcome will not be good any more than if you yourself
live an undisciplined life. Another kind of someone who is
undisciplined is the angry. We're all familiar with the indiscipline
that anger brings. We've even said it, right? She
wouldn't say that if she weren't angry. Ooh, if I weren't angry,
I would not have done, said, written, sent, whatever. Anger is the opposite of discipline. An angry man stirs up strife,
a furious man abounds in sin. If you walk around angry all
the time, you're walking around in sin all the time. Yes, there is a possibility of
righteous anger, but I can promise you that somebody who lives in
anger all the time is not living in righteous anger. And that's
why Solomon just says, without qualification, a furious man
abounds in transgression. The disciplined person is not
angry. He's joyful. He doesn't make
decisions out of anger. He doesn't walk around in anger. He doesn't give himself over
to sin because of his anger. He gives himself over to righteousness,
joy, and peace in the heart. So if anger has been your fuel,
the thing you lived on, what do you do? You seek the discipline
of wisdom. Learn to let go of that anger,
to forgive, to stop living in bitterness. Proverbs talks about
this to some extent, and the rest of the Bible talks about
it at length. Yet another type of undisciplined
person, verse 23, is the arrogant, a man's pride will bring him
low. Arrogancy that wants to lift
itself up, raise its nose in the air, is what will eventually
humble you and bring you down. The well-disciplined don't walk
in that pride that says, I don't need to apologize, I don't need
to think before I speak, I don't need to admit when I'm wrong
because I'm never wrong. I don't need to consider the
other person's idea because the other person's idea is stupid. That's how the arrogant think.
The law of God, the word of God, the actions and attitude of God
are against the proud. It's the humble in spirit who
retain honor. It's those who subject themselves
to the discipline of wisdom and who walk in the fear of God that
will ultimately be honored. The ones who walk in pride, who
insist on bountying themselves above the rest, think they're better, they will
lose any honor that they once had. And then the final person
who's undisciplined, the accomplice. Verse 24, whoever is partnered
with a thief hates his own life. He hears the adjuration to testify
and reveals nothing. In those days, and it's even
mentioned in the Bible, They had what we also have today,
a legal instrument that we call a sub pena. You could be forced
to testify, sub pena means in Latin under penalty or under
pain. You don't come into court and
testify, then you will be held in contempt of court. And in
those days, you would not only be in contempt, you would also
be a perjurer. if you were subpoenaed and didn't
speak. That was considered to be lying
under oath. And the Bible goes into detail
about the punishment that will be given for that. If you're
that partner with the thief, if you're an accomplice, it's
awful hard for you to testify against the one who did the crime
because, well, you profited from the crime as well. And it's a
little awkward to say, Well, we, we stole this and that. You hate your own life if you go in halvesies with a
thief, because you will be convicted not only of contempt, but also
of perjury. And God threatens terrible things
to the person who knows what happened and who refuses to testify
accurately. So five kinds of undisciplined
people who lack the joy, who lack the obedience, who lack
the happiness that comes from discipline. The hasty speaker,
the servant pamper, the outrage, the arrogant, the accomplice,
all of them have misery of one kind or another. Solomon then
profiles two substitutes for discipline, two things people
turn to when they say, you know, I don't want to fear God, but
I don't want the miserable life of the angry, the arrogant, and
the accomplice. I want to live a decent life
by worldly standards. What can I do? Well, the first
of these is the fear of man. That's a popular one, then and
now. I will do whatever the crowd
wants. I will be the chameleon. Whatever
other people think I ought to do, that's what I'll do. My life
is made up of testing the wind. Oh, I see which way the wind
is blowing. That's the way I'm going. And so we mock this, right? When Barack Obama was elected
president, he was against homosexual marriage. When he left office,
he was in favor of it. How did that happen? Well, times
changed. The will of the American people
changed, the mainstream changed, and I changed right along with
it. But in one sense, We shouldn't mock it. That's how the vast
majority of human beings live their lives. I look around, I
see what other people think, and I decide that I think it
too. Man-fearers, people-pleasers,
call it whatever you will, they live as slaves of public opinion. And it's easy, of course, when
somebody is tempted to strive for an approval of the different
sector of the public than you are, it's easy to look at that
and be like, that's stupid. You really care what the so-and-sos
think? And the memorable phrase, we buy stuff we don't, what is
it? We buy stuff we can't afford
to impress people we don't even like. We buy stuff we don't need
with money we don't have to impress people we don't even like. That's part of human nature as
fallen people. But if you live for the approval
of your pastor, your spouse, your mother-in-law, your kids,
your boss, you're not living for the approval of Christ. You are this person who walks
in the fear of man and who will fall in the trap. Fear of man
brings a snare that's not an adequate substitute for the fear
of God. To find out what the spirit of the
age is saying and say, I'll do that, will win you some popularity,
some ability to fit in with the crowd, but it won't give you
the benefits of real discipline. It doesn't bring the joy, it
doesn't bring the happiness, it doesn't bring the ability
to obey God, it instead brings a snare. It's the one who trusts
in the Lord, that's the one who's safe. Well, the second substitute
for discipline, almost as popular as walking in the fear of man,
is what today we call rent-seeking. I go to the civil authority,
and I attempt to get them to give me something. Many seek
the ruler's favor. In this day and age, we have
in Washington swarms, what is it, 6,000 or so, I think I've
read, registered lobbyists who are there for the stated purpose
of seeking the ruler's favor. They are paid by a particular
interest group a particular professional association, such as the American
Medical Association, or even by a single private company.
Google has more lobbyists in Washington D.C. than any other
corporation. These lobbyists, their goal is
to seek the ruler's favor on behalf of their clientele or
their constituency. And some of the things they represent
are very small. American Medical Association
or the American Optometrist Association or something like that with only
a few tens of thousands of members and Yet have large clout in Washington
Now we can get off the hook, right? No, I'm not a lobbyist
never wanted to be a lobbyist never will be a lobbyist. So
this isn't me but Seeking the rulers favor can take many forms
any Attempt to extract privileges from the state any attempt to
tilt the playing field in your favor or your group's favor That's
what this is talking about in Solomon's day with the barbarian
chieftains It looked like going to court and trying to advance
there Maybe get the king to give you some land or to give you
a pension out of the public treasury today, it can look like advocating
for policies that benefit what you perceive as your group, many
seek the ruler's favor, and it can even look like a pretty good
substitute for discipline. Well, we don't need more discipline.
What this organization needs is not more fear of God, it's
more funding. We need the fire hose of federal
money to deal with problem X, Y, or Z. And a lot of people
who don't actively seek the ruler's favor do believe that others
should be seeking it. Do believe that the fire hose
of federal spending would fix this problem or that problem
or the other problem. Solomon says this is a substitute
for discipline. This is not the real deal. This is not the discipline of
wisdom to devote your life to extracting concessions from the
state. He's not right. Discipline is
learning to do the right thing because it's right. Coaxing favors
from the state is attempting to do the expedient thing because
it looks like it might work. So many seek the ruler's favor
So the first line of verse 25 and verse 26 is negative. The second half of the verse
presents the positive alternative, and I call this the wisdom of
faith. The fear of man brings a snare.
What's the opposite of the fear of man? Whoever trusts in the
Lord is safe, or is set on high, doesn't fall into the snare,
but instead rises and is exalted, is safe from that snare. So the wisdom of faith is what
protects you. You aren't protected by going
along with whatever the world is doing. In June, we were driving through
Michigan, coming back, and we stopped at the beach in a little
town there on the shores of Lake Michigan, and you had to drive
through the downtown area to get down to the beach. And we
noticed that most of the signs, most of the stores had Black
Lives Matter signs in the windows. We thought, wow, that's interesting.
All these business owners really care about black people. And
then, of course, come to find out that what those signs mean
is, please don't burn down my business. It's an attempt to
be safe by putting up a little flag of truce. Now, it's not
always wrong to surrender, to give your wallet to the thug
so he doesn't beat you up, but the fear of man brings a snare.
If that's what you're living for, if you say, I have to have
the approval of this or that or any human entity, You're not safe. It's the one
who trusts in the Lord who's delivered from the snare. Faith
keeps you safe in a way that rent-seeking and the fear of
man can't and won't. Living to please the people who
seem to have some power, living to extract concessions out of
those people who seem to be in charge, It's not worth it. It's the one
who trusts in God who's safe. And when you walk in faith, if
you live by faith, your hope is reoriented away from what
you can get from the state. Many seek the ruler's favor,
but justice for man comes from the Lord. What are those lines
saying? They seek the ruler's favor.
They want his face to look kindly on them. But the state can't
fix your problems. They can't. It can't. It's justice
comes from the Lord. That's the source that will put
things right. So if you think, well, we talked
about this the other week. We love because he first loved
us. We have the ability to love because
God loved us first and awakens love in our hearts. And in the
same way, we have the ability to treat others rightly, to do
what's just because God has given us justice first. It's fine to
pursue your claim through the courts. It's fine to appeal an
unjust conviction. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you pin all your hopes
on that, you will be disappointed. Justice for man comes from the
Lord. Being treated justly by God is
what gives you the ability to endure patiently the injustice
of fallen human beings. And to say, you know what? I
don't have to be vindicated to name it. I tell Alexa this all
the time. We don't have to justify ourselves
to him, to her, to them, to that group, to these people. You don't
have to. You can let your ex go. Don't
have to justify yourself to your ex. Because justice for man doesn't
come from man's ability to present a wonderful case that will convince
everybody that he's right. Justice for man comes from the
Lord. So that's the wisdom of faith.
The wisdom of discipline is that it brings joy, verse 17. The wisdom of faith is that it
brings safety and sets things right. God is fixing the world.
We understand that by faith. And when we trust in the Lord,
that exalts us out of the pit that the fear of man plunges
us into, and that gives us the confidence that I don't need
a lobbyist. because justice for man comes
from the Lord. Well, finally, Solomon or Hezekiah's
men, cherry-picking from Solomon, winded up with their statement
about the wisdom of righteousness. An unjust man is an abomination
to the righteous. Righteousness makes you intolerant
of evil. If your heart actually wants
to serve God, you have to look at evil and say, no, that's abominable. I won't be
party to that. I won't subsidize that. I won't
support that. I won't put up with that. Now, this doesn't
mean you have to leave the world. It doesn't mean you go around
shooting unjust men. You don't become the sniper who
tries to find evil people and shoot them. If you did that,
you would have to kill everybody, including yourself. What is Solomon
telling us? Ultimately, that you have to
deal with the evil in your own heart. Injustice in general is
an abomination. to the righteous. So yes, the
unjust man at one level, but you have to be righteous before
this verse is true. The more righteous you are, the
more you hate evil, your own evil. If you tolerate your own
wickedness, if you give yourself a pass for your evil, if your
evil is not abominable to you, then you're of no value to the
culture wars. Your value to stopping societal
sin when you allow yourself to sin is zilch. You have negative
value. When morally fouled up people
are the only ones standing against sin, no one is standing against
sin. So the hypocrite is such a common
type, oh, I'm totally against that. Oh, we find out that you're
doing it on the side. An unjust man is an abomination
to the righteous. That's true. But far more often
we have one unjust man pretending that another unjust man is an
abomination to him. That's not what Solomon is talking
about. He's not talking about the posturing of the hypocrite
like we saw with the high priest denouncing Jesus. Oh, he blasphemed. Rip. Let me tear my clothes and
show everybody how shocked I am that somebody wouldn't treat
God as holy in here. No, that's become the second
one. He who is upright in the way
is an abomination to the wicked. We read this verse and we're
so eager to say, that's me. I'm disliked because I'm upright
in the way. And it's true, if you're upright in the way, you
will be disliked. You will be abominable to a certain
group. Solomon is warning us, first
of all, you have to be righteous. You have to have internalized
that discipline of wisdom. You have to be the person who
obeys God, because he's God, who does the right thing, because
you fear God. When that's true, When you genuinely
hate evil in your heart, then you'll know the joy of denouncing
evil and really meaning it. Then you'll be able to say, that
injustice is abominable to me. I hate that. And it will be true.
And we'll know it's true because you hate the evil in your own
heart first. and foremost, and when you do
that, then evil will be intolerant of you. Genuine righteousness
makes you be called names like counter-revolutionary, or homophobe,
or, right, you name it. Your intransigence and unwillingness
to let evil happen can earn you a badge of honor, the badge of
being denounced by the world as insufficiently moral. When
people with the moral sensibilities of a dictator or the aesthetic
sensibilities of a chimpanzee call you immoral, that's a compliment. When you're an abomination to
the wicked, just like Jesus was, that's a blessing. Of course,
the question arises, are we ready for that? Are you ready to be
an abomination to the wicked? I'm not. None of us will be without
spending time with Jesus. When we've learned perfectly
to hate the sin and love the sinner, to wage war on evil and
save people from the jaws of hell, to love like our master
and denounce evil like he did, then we'll be ready to be treated
as abominations. Our status as abominations is
being traced in the wet cement of culture. Even now, within
a few months or a few years, it will be written in stone. He who is upright in the way
is an abomination to the wicked. This is Solomon's last word to
us in the book of Proverbs. The wise son is ready to be mocked,
ready to be an outcast, ready to be a pariah because of his
views and his attitude and his actions. When you know the wisdom
of discipline and the wisdom of faith, then you'll know the
wisdom of pariahhood. When that happens, understand
that the one who trusts in the Lord will be safe, that justice
for man comes from the Lord, not from the ruler's favor. It's wonderful to have Christian
leaders. The church can survive and has survived without them. If you live for the fear of man,
you won't discipline. You won't be willing to be an
abomination according to the world, and you'll perish. but
the one who trusts God and accepts His discipline, he will be set
on high. Maybe not here on earth, but
where it counts in heaven, where your treasure should be anyway.
That's where we'll find the comfort of discipline in the arms of
the wise Son. He corrects us. He gives us rest. Let's pray. Father, help us to
be ready to be an abomination to the wicked. Help us to genuinely
be righteous, to walk in the fear of God all day long, to
tremble always. Help us to know the blessing
of discipline and to pass on the blessing of discipline to
those under our charge. We thank you that you corrected
your son and that he brings delight to your soul. Thank you that
you correct us as your children. to teach us to share your holiness
so that we can bring delight to your soul. Father, help us
not to fear human beings, to stop trusting in man whose arm
is flesh. Help us instead to trust you
and to be set on high. Deliver us from rent-seeking.
We pray against the army of lobbyists. We do ask, Father, that you would
drive them out of Washington. We pray much more against our
own rent-seeking attitudes and our desire to think, if only
government policy X could be put in place, then I would be
okay. Then I would be much better off.
Help us not to seek the state's favor, not to live for what the
state can do for us, but to seek your favor, to live for what
you have done for us in Christ. Help us to be ready to be abominations,
just as your son was ready. And help us to know that after
suffering is glory. We pray this in Jesus' name.
Amen.
Disciplined, Faithful, Righteous Wisdom
Series Living Wisdom
Today we come to the close of section 5 of Proverbs. Remember, this section is proverbs by Solomon copied by Hezekiah's men sometime about two hundred years after they were written. Like the other sections of Proverbs, this one emphasizes discipline, which takes up the lion's share of our text today. But it also highlights revelation (the law and the prophets, called here "vision" and "torah"), faith, and righteousness. What we'll see is that discipline, faith, and righteousness are all key components of the wisdom that makes the Father glad.
| Sermon ID | 1013202116121256 |
| Duration | 42:20 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Proverbs 29:17-27 |
| Language | English |
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